People out to put you down.

[CloVis]

Hey all,
Went out last night in my hometown. Bumped into a bloke from school, we used to have a 'thing' and basically he first whispered to my mate 'is that Chloe' (no1 ever recognises me for some reason) and then in front of all my mates said 'what happened to you, you’ve lost so much weight your anorexic, you look disgusting, i would have shagged you, but wouldn’t now, eww' and with that walked off.

Made me feel sick, my mates looked so embarrassed, and i don’t get it, there all saying the same but I haven’t lost that much weight and I cant help it cos i eat the same. Its not like im skinny skinny. Its made me so self conscious that everyone’s saying this, when i don’t think i am skinny really!. My heads fucked.

[munkaymad]

i get comments on my weight all the time like you dont eat etc when the real mates know i constantly do eat i just dont physically put on any weight.you learn to ignore it as long as your happy its their problem not yours :)

[Saxy1]

Hey all,
Went out last night in my hometown. Bumped into a bloke from school, we used to have a 'thing' and basically he first whispered to my mate 'is that Chloe' (no1 ever recognises me for some reason) and then in front of all my mates said 'what happened to you, you’ve lost so much weight your anorexic, you look disgusting, i would have shagged you, but wouldn’t now, eww' and with that walked off.

Made me feel sick, my mates looked so embarrassed, and i don’t get it, there all saying the same but I haven’t lost that much weight and I cant help it cos i eat the same. Its not like im skinny skinny. Its made me so self conscious that everyone’s saying this, when i don’t think i am skinny really!. My heads fucked.


try and forget about it clo i know its easier said than done. cheer up :y:

[David]

It's like watching Hollyoaks again!
But serious, jsut ignore it... It's all you can do.. Like saxy said though, easier said than done...

[doely_gti]

clo, you have a good 60% of men on here wanting you lmao i wouldnt worry what some cock in a club/pub thinks

[stoney_182]

he sounds like a prick to say that to you, just ignore him

[CloVis]

thanks all, and im not even sure myself if i do eat properly its just i hate feeling full and stuff. But I weigh 7 stone, and i used to weigh 8 and half but im only short...Dont know.
My mates dont even think I eat.
Oh and yeah that lad also said ' your anorexic, Ive watched hollyoaks!!'

Yeh but doely, its the internet no1 has actually met me.

And yeah i thought prick, but afterwards he could see i was upset and said sorry. He said he wanted me for years and i turned him down. But I suppose the fact he got throw out the club kind of says something about him.

[al_VTR]

try and brush it off, the more you think about it the more it'll mess with your head.

at the end of the day if you're happy with how you look, and you eat enough & healthily then thats all that matters

[Jagztorious]

it's obvious.........he was obviously jealous that he didn't get you back in the days, and now he can't have you coz your outa his league, to make himself feel better he has to 'diss' you! .....

[Jacko]

consult your gp to see if you is or isnt a healthy wieght...

[CloVis]

hmm yeah thank you, glad your not all being mean. Its the one thing that really gets to me, and thats 'looks'.

[munkaymad]

thanks all, and im not even sure myself if i do eat properly its just i hate feeling full and stuff. But I weigh 7 stone, and i used to weigh 8 and half but im only short...Dont know.
My mates dont even think I eat.
Oh and yeah that lad also said ' your anorexic, Ive watched hollyoaks!!'

Yeh but doely, its the internet no1 has actually met me.

And yeah i thought prick, but afterwards he could see i was upset and said sorry. He said he wanted me for years and i turned him down. But I suppose the fact he got throw out the club kind of says something about him.

do you throw your food up does it go through you so you have a decent shit each day....7 stone is not bad well i hope not i weigh 7 and half as long as you know your eating and are happy with yourself its all that matters i know its hard geting abuse about it and as others have said easier said than done just dont let others bring you down we all love you on here!

[CloVis]

lol thanks munkaymad, not sure about the first bit though lol.

[Jacko]

naked pics please so i can make my mind up...



jokes.


aslong as you eat healthy you should be ok...but if you wiegh seven stone and all you et is shit..then that aint good for you...

[CloVis]

lol... yeh i no, Ive been put on folic acid cos i have low b12. So maybe thats something to do with it?

Ive got new pics on my facebook, and i can honistly say i look rank in turkey.

[munkaymad]

naked pics please so i can make my mind up...



jokes.


aslong as you eat healthy you should be ok...but if you wiegh seven stone and all you et is shit..then that aint good for you...

at least shes eating!!!some people dont and those should be the ones geting help

[Wayne]

just ignore him chloe, should of throwed a drink or water over him.

[Quick]

Bitch slap him.

[CloVis]

just ignore him chloe, should of throwed a drink or water over him.

Damn why didnt i think of that. It was just wrong,One of those things that you think kno one would ever say. And if they did then there'd say it to your face.

[doely_gti]

my mrs is the same clo tbh, she eats and i mean pizza etc but recently she's dropped from a size 10 to a 6 and i keep saying to her she makes me sick being too skinny etc, but not to be nasty it because im worried, because she's a veggie i dont think she gets enough goodness from her food which might be your problem, your eating but maybe not good stuff. i know she's eating well but she thinks she is fat and needs to lose weight... where as he was being a prick i'm being nice lol next time you see him, run him over ftw. seeing as you need a new front bumper anyway ;)

[hellonpluto]

i blame it on celebritiy magazines. They're never happy too thin or too fat never just right.

I've got a belly who gives a shit? Its my belly and i paid for it!

My missus gets the stupid comments too as shes a size 8. They're all jealous!

[SaxoKez]

lol just ingor the prick :P shudda hit him :) i weigh like 8 n half stone, eat like mad but dont put on any weight, but il live, dont let any1 put ya down :y:

[CloVis]

Thank you very much all. appreciate it alot :)

[Danr]

He's gutted that he didn't get you, if he was trying for all that time and didn't get any he was probably just upset.

[b0t13]

whats your facebook?

[Predator_R32]

all im saying is i definately would :p ;) x

[xsmile_be_happyx]

I Know the feeling clo, have two bitches at my work that are doing it to me at the moment, and its working, just wish people would grow up and leave people alone!!

[James]

If your worried go to the doctors.. sax-p won't help you with this dude

[smiith]

7 stone isnt exactly that skinny, my ex was 7 stone when i was with her, and she was 5ft 5, but then she let it go upto 10, which looked pretty bad lol

but yeh, people say shit to piss you off just coz they know it will get to you

i get called a chav for drivin a "pimped saxo" and because i get my hair cut "short back n sides"

but tbh, i wear bench n stuff, coz all my life iv riden bmx, so obv not a chav when im wearin jeans lol

just ignore em, shuda said back to him "yeh well fuckin hell mate youve put abit on, i mean i wuda shagged you but you had a small cock, bet it looks smaller now with the weight youve gained :y:"

[Baz]

you shouldn't give a toss if your happy with the way you are

[xsmile_be_happyx]

but thats not true baz, if people constantly bring you down, then you feel crap about yourself :sad:

[smiith]

exactly, if your happy with your body, its got nothing to do with some lad, he should be more worried about his own life than whats goin on in yours

[marky0283]

Hey Clo,

I weight just 9 stone which isn't much really for a bloke and I get comments all the time about how slim I am. Especially at work (i am a police officer) I get wankers that I have to deal with saying things like "your too small for the job" or they have the cheek to laugh at me but I just put them down and make them look more stupid.

Honestly don't worry about the comment that prick made to you. It's probably jealousy. I haven't seen a pic of you but from the other comments people have made you sound like a bit of a stunner.

[Barry123]

clo,
im not hitting on you but you're not exactly a munter, so i wouldn't let random comments from some div in a pub get to you. I'd take it as a compliment to be honest - trillions of women strive for their entire lives to be slim. How much crappier would it feel if he turned around saw you and said

'fucking hell... everyone, if you value your pies, hide them quick.'

[Ste]

Jealousy oh jealousy, jealousy oh jealousy, jealousy oh jealousy jealousy oh jealousy jealousy oh........


Id hit it.

[Scattle]

Bit of a Wan*er, just try and ignore it.

[Japman]

try and forget about it

[Kelly]

You know what...

I don't care whether you're fat, thin or have your nose on upside down. It's how you feel about yourself that matters. If you don't have the confidence to think 'Well I'm happy; sod him for thinking I'm this and that' then you are going to feel a bit down.

I'll admit my thoughts on my weight and appearance do yo-yo a little. One day I can look in the mirror and think 'Wow I look good' and others I just think I'm fat. I'm sure everyone has their off days but you just have to do what you can to keep yourself happy. Remember its not worth doing if it makes you miserable.

So this guy that commented on you being slim obviously likes a larger lady. It's just personal preference. I agree though he shouldn't have been mean to you.

Just try something. When someone puts you down like that go home and make yourself look pretty. Do your makeup, pamper yourself a bit. I can guarantee you'll feel a whole lot better about yourself :)

[Lee_P]

ignore him clo its just cus your fitter now than you were before

[Raz]

As alot of people have said, forget it, if he is jelous that he never got you, he has to stoop so low to try and get you, then i have no respect for him.

Aslong as your happy with yourself, dont let such a low life try bring you down....the only person that can tell you of your wieght is YOU

[Tim_W]

I think this lad has seen how fit you are and realised that your way out of his league. I bet he was pretty pissed off when he saw you and i am guessing this anger built up and he kicked off ? getting him thrown out of the club ? This is funny because i would say that he didnt really mean what he said, he is a looser. You need to concentrate on this aspect of things, he is the one with a problem, he is sad and feels shitty about himself. The only reason he put you down is because he is angry with himself because your fit and he missed out on his only chance with you.
As for your weight i have seen your pictures on MySpace (havent we all ;) :d) and you appear to be a healthy weight for your size, thats my oppinion anyway. I am 5'6" and i weigh 9 & 1/2 stone. I have been called anorexic by a friend even though i eat more than most bigger lads could manage. The nurse seems to have a different take on things because everytime i go for a health check she tells me that my weight is perfectly fine for my height.

So fear not and dont let it get you down, the lad is a looser end of !!

Tim :y:

[Robb]

i put adam down about his weight all the time and he deals with it well.




i hope.

[Lee_P]

hang on i havent seen clos my space

am i the only one no fair

[Saint]

And yeah i thought prick, but afterwards he could see i was upset and said sorry. He said he wanted me for years and i turned him down. But I suppose the fact he got throw out the club kind of says something about him.

people dont take being knocked back very well, know mate of mine wanted to get into this girl. soon as she said not a chance on earth.... he suddenly couldnt stand her and thought she was some ugly freak and loads more obscenties :n: sounds just like what you had happen just tad lass discrete and to your face! some prats feel better when they put people down. had an ex just the same, put other people down all time. didnt like it back though lol

Even ended up at party with his back to her and seeing his arse cause i was chatting to her etc

So as other people said.... sounds like a prick to be fair just cause he cant have you hes gotta get it in his thick skull that your ugly and wouldnt want you anyway even if your not

[stiffler69]

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=oA_PW14b_C8

Hear listen to mr stallone on the very first part of this track taken from rocky 6

[VTR_Nick]

clo,
I'm gona have to agree with most of the guys on hear. i think he's just jelous, has seen your out of his leage and to make himself feel better has put you down.
Never met you and only seen a few pics but from what i've seen your pritty fit and i know there's alot of guys on here that chat you up, as dooley said a said you have a good 60% on the men on here wantign you so i wouldn't worrie bout it! ;) :y:

[SaxoJamie]

I think he's just jealous and felt insecure when he saw you looked good and doing better than he is and said that to make himself feel better. Just ignore him, he sounds like a total d***head:P Don't think about it Clo:y:

[ShaneVtr]

could be worse clo... you could be ginger like me

http://photos-a.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v143/109/60/538559503/n538559503_121012_8960.jpg


I got bullied at school really bad, almost wasnt here it was that bad.
tbh i dont give a shit what anyone thinks i look like anymore. If they have a problem they can say it, probably get a crack in the mouth now days i cant stand people like that. Some people need knocking down and bringing up properly with some feelings.

feel free to rip the shit out my hair or my general apperance.... :P

chin up clo! :hug:

[hellonpluto]

Shes in my facebook account now. You are STUNNING!

[Lee_P]

could be worse clo... you could be ginger like me

http://photos-a.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v143/109/60/538559503/n538559503_121012_8960.jpg


I got bullied at school really bad, almost wasnt here it was that bad.
tbh i dont give a shit what anyone thinks i look like anymore. If they have a problem they can say it, probably get a crack in the mouth now days i cant stand people like that. Some people need knocking down and bringing up properly with some feelings.

feel free to rip the shit out my hair or my general apperance.... :P

chin up clo! :hug:


fair play mate excatly the right attitude to have

[rockerlad]

Hey all,
Went out last night in my hometown. Bumped into a bloke from school, we used to have a 'thing' and basically he first whispered to my mate 'is that Chloe' (no1 ever recognises me for some reason) and then in front of all my mates said 'what happened to you, you’ve lost so much weight your anorexic, you look disgusting, i would have shagged you, but wouldn’t now, eww' and with that walked off.

Made me feel sick, my mates looked so embarrassed, and i don’t get it, there all saying the same but I haven’t lost that much weight and I cant help it cos i eat the same. Its not like im skinny skinny. Its made me so self conscious that everyone’s saying this, when i don’t think i am skinny really!. My heads fucked.


you should ahve told everyone in the club he had a small cock.......on a more serious note just ignor the prick.

[AdamW]

i put adam down about his weight all the time and he deals with it well.

i hope.

Hahahaha yeh cheers Robb.....not a day goes by without a weight insult from you haha...not that im bothered.

Post some pics Clo ;)

[Mystic]

Sounds like Jealousy to me.

Used to have a thing with you, meets you years later, thinks you look gorgeous, decides he has no chance/knows you have a bf, insults you to make himself feel better, wanders off.

My gf is a size 6 & eats as much as me!

[saxodan]

1. post some pics
2. adam cuts himself to sleep emooo (awaits my emo photos)
3. that ginger photo just made me shit the bed more than i did last night i love it lol no offence
4. who gives a fook clo what someone says, you know ur good looking, got half of sax-p having wet dreams and forum wars over you ;)

[Mrk1]

Every mouthy prick has something to say nowadays, its just about them being insecure.

I know thats its difficult to ignore a comment when your out in public, or with ya mates but believe me its all jealousy. Sounds to me like your an attractive girl (still awaiting links to back this up) lol :p, this bloke has missed out n wants to make you feel as bad as he does.

If your happy with yourself and look at it as their problem and not yours it makes life a little easier.

Don't stress and enjoy yourself

[kcsaxo]

theres too many sad people in the world, chances are hes more self-concious about hmiself than you are which is why he says things like that to make himself feel better. ignore those losers and get on with your own life. the sooner you start loving yourself for who you really are, the quicker and nicer the world feels. trust me ive been there, done that and printed the damn t-shirt to sell :)

[ashleyoneill]

i wouldnt listen to what he has said. from the pics iv seen of you...id shag you :D

but seriously....his girl is probably a fat bird and he is just jealous...ignore.

[Lee_P]

right im on protest im the only one that hasnt seen one pic of the lovly clo

[rockerlad]

there was one on her profile take a look

[Gazzza]

just tell them they are missing out on a great shag :P make them jealous...
nothing wrong with being skinny :) jsut ignore them they prob have fat bitchass gfs... :)
be proud ur skinny its a gift we have and they dont ;)

[bullit]

1. post some pics
2. adam cuts himself to sleep emooo (awaits my emo photos)
3. that ginger photo just made me shit the bed more than i did last night i love it lol no offence
4. who gives a fook clo what someone says, you know ur good looking, got half of sax-p having wet dreams and forum wars over you ;)

but everyone on here is a spotted teenager with no mates who lives on the comp.

also being 7 stone clo id be be able to fling you round the bedroom, rock on

[ShaneVtr]

3. that ginger photo just made me shit the bed more than i did last night i love it lol no offence

LOL none taken ya bastid! :y:

[CloVis]

I just want to say, thank you all so much. Ive been through 4 pages and eachand everyone of you have been so kind and careing, I no that sounds soppy but truthfully you dont know what it means to me.

Yeah this boy was very rude,and Im not sure if i said but a lad later pulled himover and spoke to him. He came over and said sorry, he said i shouldnt give a shit. and he said he still fancys me etc. Its not about the fancying at all, he said he'd shag me. That in its self isnt a great turn on for me. I dont know what my issues are..But ive deffently got some and i guess this has made me see that. When he first came up to me he went 'phooahh your fit' then the next thing slags me off infront of everyone. I no for a fact if my bf was there he would have lamped him. And i kind of am sad that none of my mates even stood up for me.
Maybe i do have a problem, I dont know. Im 5'3'' and weigh just under 7stn. Days like today i havent eaten, but not cos i dont want too, its cos i dont like eatinginfront of ppl i dontknow, and im skint. Its pathetic i no.

But anyway sorry about the essay, thanks to all of you sooo much. :)
Keep in touch with me, im on face book. Just search for Chloe Brown, London. :)

[Scattle]

I just want to say, thank you all so much. Ive been through 4 pages and eachand everyone of you have been so kind and careing, I no that sounds soppy but truthfully you dont know what it means to me.

Yeah this boy was very rude,and Im not sure if i said but a lad later pulled himover and spoke to him. He came over and said sorry, he said i shouldnt give a shit. and he said he still fancys me etc. Its not about the fancying at all, he said he'd shag me. That in its self isnt a great turn on for me. I dont know what my issues are..But ive deffently got some and i guess this has made me see that. When he first came up to me he went 'phooahh your fit' then the next thing slags me off infront of everyone. I no for a fact if my bf was there he would have lamped him. And i kind of am sad that none of my mates even stood up for me.
Maybe i do have a problem, I dont know. Im 5'3'' and weigh just under 7stn. Days like today i havent eaten, but not cos i dont want too, its cos i dont like eatinginfront of ppl i dontknow, and im skint. Its pathetic i no.

But anyway sorry about the essay, thanks to all of you sooo much. :)
Keep in touch with me, im on face book. Just search for Chloe Brown, London. :)

Good to hear, wasn't it your first day at the new work as well?

[CloVis]

Yep it was! Missing saxp already... Got training for 4 weeks. :)

[Scattle]

Blimey, long time then lol.

[Ben_L]

personally I would try not to take any notice tbh...you look alright to me ;) :y:

He sounds like a right pleb to me

[Anushka101]

wow u realli have some issues :p i dont get it, some girls just wanna be skinny as hell, and some moans about being too skinny. realli dont get girls.

anyway, why would you care about what some random bloke that you dont even know said in the streets? i mean you got a bf and all, i would think if he finds you attractive, thats all that matters. anyway thats my opinion. i guess your boy friend has to knock out every builder you go pass by when he is with you? :p

and i am not being mean :)

[kenny]

just ignore it clo

[Lee_P]

clo you have kept many of us onere entertained and you have been the butt of many jokes but your alright one of the lads

[DarylVTR]

People always expect others to be perfect, if your not you are going to get greif....... ignor him ...he just sounds like a prick to me.

In todays world if your not 'Perfect' you are picked / commented on just goes to show how arrogant people are these days.