View Full Version : Does age really matter???
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:20
Heard this on radio 1 earlier...
Just wondered what people thought about big age gaps with couples? And if they would date someone much older than themselves, or infact younger?
Personally i think its ok to have a relationship with an older person with about 10 years difference as long as the youngest is around 20, to keep everything legal. But dont like 25 year old women being with grandads, seems wrong to me...
And maybe some serious answers along the way :p
smiith
8th November 2007, 22:22
older man ftw, when im 50 i home im thrashing some young tart on a nightly basis
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:24
serious answers - nil
stupid answers - 1 :P
but yea, would be good, aslong as ya heart can take it! although would be best way to go..
SaxoJamie
8th November 2007, 22:24
Age difference in a relationship doesn't bother me tbh, not unless it's like a 30 or 40 year age difference
Wayne
8th November 2007, 22:25
i think it's ok if there is 5 or 10 years difference.
Mitchell
8th November 2007, 22:26
milfs on bread ftw
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:27
my friends 22 and shes dating a 34 year old, i think if your happy then go for it :)
although 16 year olds, dating 70 year olds makes me wanna be sick :n:
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:27
yea, but would u all be the older or younger person? aged how u are now..
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:28
id be with an older guy, younger men are immature lol, and 26 is my limit :) lol, anything above that age, i dont think id be comfortable with
smiith
8th November 2007, 22:29
serious answers - nil
stupid answers - 1 :P
but yea, would be good, aslong as ya heart can take it! although would be best way to go..
have a young boy at the side of the bed with a couple of jump leads to his ears :)
get him onto boost ;) night of your life
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:30
id be with an older guy, younger men are immature lol, and 26 is my limit :) lol, anything above that age, i dont think id be comfortable with
how old are u now?
Barry123
8th November 2007, 22:30
the age gap between my mother and my father is 22 years
if i apply the same difference to me, my wife will be being born around now :cool:
Danhunt
8th November 2007, 22:30
Hmm i wouldnt mind being 70 odd with a 20yo,
tbh i dont think anyone else would complain either ;)
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:30
have a young boy at the side of the bed with a couple of jump leads to his ears :)
get him onto boost ;) night of your life
on a roll my friend! rep'd! :y:
Mitchell
8th November 2007, 22:31
id be with an older guy, younger men are immature lol, and 26 is my limit :) lol, anything above that age, i dont think id be comfortable with
how you doin ;)
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:32
how old are u now?
Ive just turned 20
how you doin ;)
lol, fine thanks :P
m_cooke999
8th November 2007, 22:33
imo 5 is the max age gap i would want, but i wouldnt frown on 7 or 8.. any more is stupid
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:33
Ive just turned 20
damn! 1 year out! lol. think thats a good difference, 6 years
Lozza_vtr
8th November 2007, 22:33
I am seeing a girl that is 18. I am 29, the gap don't really bother me or her. :y:
Lee_P
8th November 2007, 22:34
i think it doesnt matter as long as the two people love each other and its legal who are we to say anything
Mitchell
8th November 2007, 22:34
lol, fine thanks :P
i'll take the hint.....
Amiee
8th November 2007, 22:36
My mate likes the older guy lol, shes 18 going on 19 an likes her guys 30/32/33 but whatever floats your boat, tbh Its something I wouldnt do 25/26 probs my max haha
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:37
damn! 1 year out! lol. think thats a good difference, 6 years
lol, one year out for what? lol.
i'll take the hint.....
awww bless, how are you mitchell? :P
Barry123
8th November 2007, 22:38
The oldest age i'd go for when dating is 12 max.
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:39
lol, one year out for what? lol.
awww bless, how are you mitchell? :P
you said you wouldnt go younger, and ur 20
im 19 :P nevermind!!!
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:40
you said you wouldnt go younger, and ur 20
im 19 :P nevermind!!!
lol, ahhhh right i get you :P 19 is alright, if they are near twenty, if they have just turned 19, then no lol
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:40
lol, ahhhh right i get you :P 19 is alright, if they are near twenty, if they have just turned 19, then no lol
dammit!!! :p
teebag
8th November 2007, 22:42
unlucky mate. i tend to think about a 5year gap is fine, starts to scare me if its over 10, and over 15 i tend to start feeling sick. but as i'm 19 i guess its due to if i was with someone 15years younger they would be 4 and the youngest i'd go atm is 16. mind you i'm happy with my gf, baby on the way 2nd may bring it on!!! woo!!!
Skorpion
8th November 2007, 22:43
Really dont see the problem with a few years difference! I'm 22 and my mrs is 18! Never really thought about the age gap to be honest!
When it gets to 60/70+ men getting with girls in the 20's, you gotta ask what the girls see in the blokes . . . . money!
Fair play to the blokes if it is genuine love!
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:44
unlucky mate. i tend to think about a 5year gap is fine, starts to scare me if its over 10, and over 15 i tend to start feeling sick. but as i'm 19 i guess its due to if i was with someone 15years younger they would be 4 and the youngest i'd go atm is 16. mind you i'm happy with my gf, baby on the way 2nd may bring it on!!! woo!!!
aww congrat mate! yea i'm 19 but been chatting to this 29 year old... bit random really. Nothing physical though..
smiith
8th November 2007, 22:44
I am seeing a girl that is 18. I am 29, the gap don't really bother me or her. :y:
:clapping:
younger women all the way, iv only ever had 3 older women, they tire out too easy, and dont take to the bonnet with such a good attitude :n:
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:44
I think its alright for men to date younger girls, but i think its weird when its the other way about, maybe thats just me lol, if i was to fall in love with a 19 year old, then fair enough, id go for it lol
Amiee
8th November 2007, 22:46
unlucky mate. i tend to think about a 5year gap is fine, starts to scare me if its over 10, and over 15 i tend to start feeling sick. but as i'm 19 i guess its due to if i was with someone 15years younger they would be 4 and the youngest i'd go atm is 16. mind you i'm happy with my gf, baby on the way 2nd may bring it on!!! woo!!!
The child will have a great bday if he/she is on time lol!!! My bday too :P
Payney
8th November 2007, 22:47
Tbh, i prefer them younger than me or the same age, feels odd if they are older than me - no idea why.
At my age (18) i would only go with a 17\18 year old atm.
LILBANHAM
8th November 2007, 22:47
it dnt realli matter as ppl ave sed to be honest if u luv ur partner thts enuf
acemastr
8th November 2007, 22:48
i'm 20 next month and shagged a 45 year old, thats all i wanted out of that anyway lol
smiith
8th November 2007, 22:49
Tbh, i prefer them younger than me or the same age, feels odd if they are older than me - no idea why.
At my age (18) i would only go with a 17\18 year old atm.
i bet your into all the bearly legals realy ;)
na im 19 in a few weeks and id only really go for anything 17-19
xsmile_be_happyx
8th November 2007, 22:50
See i got asked out a work, but a 34 year old and a 36 year old, i turned them down lol, i think thats a bit old for me anyways, but if other people are happy with that, then fair does :y:
OLLYVTS
8th November 2007, 22:50
I also dont see a problem with age gaps tbh as long as both people are happy then thats all what matters i suppose but anythink over 20 years is abit to far imo.
Lee_P
8th November 2007, 22:53
i know its been mentioned but everytime i go down a thread i have to stop and look at that avatar
Saxo-Will
8th November 2007, 22:55
same lol... we're not pervs really...
Payney
8th November 2007, 22:55
i bet your into all the bearly legals realy ;)
na im 19 in a few weeks and id only really go for anything 17-19
15-16 ftw.
Nah lol, 16 is an odd age tbh... It's like, they are still school girls and to say 'oh whats your gf do' 'shes still in school' lol.
:|
Ste
8th November 2007, 23:00
older man ftw, when im 50 i home im thrashing some young tart on a nightly basis
Well said.
Id like to have a few on the go. A couple in the pool, some in my bed and couple chillin on my PS27 or Xbox1480
I could never bed anyone younger than 17.
Lee_P
8th November 2007, 23:02
ste is wannabe hugh heffner
OLLYVTS
8th November 2007, 23:03
lol at the avatar comments.
I would never go out with a 16 or 17 year old tbh.You couldnt even go to a pub or club with them.Drunk sex ftw
Tim_W
8th November 2007, 23:17
i know its been mentioned but everytime i go down a thread i have to stop and look at that avatar
Glad i am not the only one having problems with Olly's avatar !!! :d
Tim :y:
Gazzza
8th November 2007, 23:20
mums 47 dads 40...
i dont see anything wrong
if ur happy and in love thats all that matters
VTR_Nick
8th November 2007, 23:21
Heard this on radio 1 earlier...
Just wondered what people thought about big age gaps with couples? And if they would date someone much older than themselves, or infact younger?
Personally i think its ok to have a relationship with an older person with about 10 years difference as long as the youngest is around 20, to keep everything legal. But dont like 25 year old women being with grandads, seems wrong to me...
And maybe some serious answers along the way :p
Compleatly agrgee with your opinion there mate, although when i'm old i may not think it's a big deal 20 somethings dating granddads lol
Lee_P
8th November 2007, 23:22
Glad i am not the only one having problems with Olly's avatar !!! :d
Tim :y:
im starting a petition to make his avatar and some of the others on here to replace speed cameras
Jules
8th November 2007, 23:27
Theres 6 years between me and Scottyvtr! We dont mind the age gap was got to admit was a bit difficult when we got together.I was just leaving school so my dad wasnt too happy! lol
jablitt
9th November 2007, 00:08
my mate is 27 and he has just broken up with his missis who was 17. she was really immature and broke his heart. recon age is just a number as long as it all works out and you are suited to each other.
Barry123
9th November 2007, 00:11
my mate is 27 and he has just broken up with his missis who was 17. she was really immature and broke his heart. recon age is just a number as long as it all works out and you are suited to each other.
in my opinion that is pushing the boundary to be honest.
27 dating a 17 year old :err:
Mr_suv
9th November 2007, 00:20
its cool but wierd i would love to be getting the bone dance on with a chick 30 years younger than me when im 50 if im single ftw!
stevenet15
9th November 2007, 00:24
In my experience i tend to go for birds of the simualr age to me +- few years for a relationship because when i go for a girl thats like 18 they tend to be very imature and when i go for girls older then me i just find them not as fun duno why
but if its jsut sex then who cares about age ;) i had a 37yo when i was 19
http://www.drunkenwhore.com/wp-content/granny_bong.jpg
OLLYVTS
9th November 2007, 00:30
Is that you in the pic when you were 19 steve and she looks older than 37 to me more like 97.
Saxo-Will
9th November 2007, 00:31
hope u didnt brake her hip steve :P
stevenet15
9th November 2007, 00:40
Is that you in the pic when you were 19 steve and she looks older than 37 to me more like 97.
haha na not me thats some pic i found on , young at heart :P anyway at least with grannys theres no teeth to catch on lol
OLLYVTS
9th November 2007, 00:47
Yea i belive you steve you sick puppy lol.
josh1989
9th November 2007, 01:42
don't think you should see anyone more than 3 years older until your about 20, just irritates me when 17 year old birds go for 25 year old lads becuase they think they are more mature than 17 year old lads
get this in your head girls:
wether a man is 17 or 70 he still has the mental age of 12!!, we are all 12 year olds at heart
JoeFurio
9th November 2007, 02:16
when im a rich old man with a vts, i want a fit 23 year old bird.
Raz
9th November 2007, 09:22
theres a 2.5 years difference between me and my missus....im 19 and my birthday is in July, she is 16 and her birthday is December. She left school in June this year, i dont see it as a problem.....and i wouldnt care if anyone did see it as one...im happy, so is she.....i hope
jablitt
9th November 2007, 10:06
theres a 2.5 years difference between me and my missus....im 19 and my birthday is in July, she is 16 and her birthday is December. She left school in June this year, i dont see it as a problem.....and i wouldnt care if anyone did see it as one...im happy, so is she.....i hope
thats the attitude mate, as long as your both happy (and no laws are being broken) its a relationship the same as two 21 year olds going out.
craig180
9th November 2007, 10:52
I'm 29 and my missus is 24, although when I was 25 I was busy bedding 17 and 18 year olds:y:
slut180 ftw
Nowt wrong with it in my opinion as long as you're both happy
Raz
9th November 2007, 10:58
What do people think of the chavs you see these days with g/f that are still in school? the chavs 18/19, the g/f 14/15
Anyone think thats wrong?
Barry123
9th November 2007, 10:59
What do people think of the chavs you see these days with g/f that are still in school? the chavs 18/19, the g/f 14/15
Anyone think thats wrong?
yeah...
Raz
9th November 2007, 11:01
yeah...
cos its not legal??
But if they happy...then alot of people say thats all that matters.
I dont agree with it either btw
Barry123
9th November 2007, 11:10
But if they happy...then alot of people say thats all that matters.
naaaa, its doesnt wash with me dude, there is a law in place. In my opinion if a lad of 22 is resorting to dating a kid at school, there is a problem.
i reckon anyway :)
Jules
9th November 2007, 11:12
Got to admit i wanted to start seeing Scott when i was 15 but he was 20 so we waited til i was 16 then started going out. We've together ever since, now married with a daughter!!!
I dont think age matters at all as long as your sensilble about it and dont get anyone into bother!
Jacko
9th November 2007, 11:15
i plan on smashing a 40 year old very soon...21 years difference...i care not one jot...
Raz
9th November 2007, 11:16
naaaa, its doesnt wash with me dude, there is a law in place. In my opinion if a lad of 22 is resorting to dating a kid at school, there is a problem.
i reckon anyway :)
I agree mate...just tryin to put an opinion across of what a chav might be like with his not legal missus
Got to admit i wanted to start seeing Scott when i was 15 but he was 20 so we waited til i was 16 then started going out. We've together ever since, now married with a daughter!!!
I dont think age matters at all as long as your sensilble about it and dont get anyone into bother!
I kinda agree....just not to a major extent.....people always say 27 going with a 22 year old aint that bad....but a 18 year old going out with a 13 is wrong (which i think it is might i add) imo going out with a girl in theie last year at school, 15.16, the bloke shouldnt be older than 19...its what i think anyway
Jules
9th November 2007, 11:17
i plan on smashing a 40 year old very soon...21 years difference...i care not one jot...
and it'll prob be the best you've had;) going on the rule that the older the more expeirenced...might teach you a few things?
Have fun!!:oops:
Robb
9th November 2007, 11:18
age aint nothing but a number...
...if your a peadophile.
naa it depends on the cicumstances. at 20 i would probably go as low as 17, but maturity is a big thing to me and they are usually still playing with barbies at that age.
Jacko
9th November 2007, 11:19
robb your bird turned 13 last week...do not lie to me...
Robb
9th November 2007, 11:20
robb your bird turned 13 last week...do not lie to me...
dont get sour just because shes your ex.
Jules
9th November 2007, 11:21
I agree mate...just tryin to put an opinion across of what a chav might be like with his not legal missus
I kinda agree....just not to a major extent.....people always say 27 going with a 22 year old aint that bad....but a 18 year old going out with a 13 is wrong (which i think it is might i add) imo going out with a girl in theie last year at school, 15.16, the bloke shouldnt be older than 19...its what i think anyway
The thing with age differences is that if you take them back the sound disgusting!! like when i was 10 scott was 16 going on 17 but now its ok cos people dont look at us that way im 23 hes 29.
Jacko
9th November 2007, 11:23
dont get sour just because shes your ex.
i miss her sometimes....
Raz
9th November 2007, 11:26
The thing with age differences is that if you take them back the sound disgusting!! like when i was 10 scott was 16 going on 17 but now its ok cos people dont look at us that way im 23 hes 29.
yea....it is sick if he went with ya when you were still in Primary School!!
But ok....i look at couples like you and i dont think anything is wrong with it
Jules
9th November 2007, 11:33
yea....it is sick if he went with ya when you were still in Primary School!!
But ok....i look at couples like you and i dont think anything is wrong with it
well you'll be glad to know i hadn't even clapped eyes on him when i was in primary school! lol;)
Met him when i was 15 at the ice-rink he worked at! He took me for ice-hockey and i took a fancy for him then lol:hug:
There was 20 years between my Nanna and Papa but they said that back then nearly all women married older men.
craig180
9th November 2007, 11:54
What do people think of the chavs you see these days with g/f that are still in school? the chavs 18/19, the g/f 14/15
Anyone think thats wrong?
Illegal.
At that age the percentage difference is a lot greater than if they were for example 28/29 and 24/25
I wouldn't date someone that was half my age
alex19
9th November 2007, 12:23
I've got no problem with people dating anyone of any age/sexuality/nationality/ethnicity.
The only probly with going out with someone older/younger is when later life comes around. If your only 30 and your dating a 50 year old, good for you. But there's going to come a time when the older person isn't around, and you have to live your life without them. I know it's kinda an extreme case, and even if your the same age one of you can end up being alone for many years. But the chance of it happening are much larger when there's a large age difference.
I've got the same opinion on people from different nationality. I don't see why people from different countries cannot be, in a way, excepted into society. Different languages etc may be in there with the problems.
When religion comes into the situation, different religions believe in different things. With arranged marriages in some religions etc, that's more of a pain in the ass than age difference.
Kocham cię Emelia ;)
Chris
9th November 2007, 12:34
My girlf is exactly 1 week older than me... it doesn't matter. :y:
My previous girlf was 5 years older than me and had 2 kids. I was 24, she was 29 and her kids were 11 and 13....... it was fantastic whilst it lasted.... I was devestated when we split up.
Chris :)
craig180
9th November 2007, 12:37
I once dated a girl that had the same birthday as me. Same year as well.
Turned out she was a whore. I'm not bitter though!
Saxo-Will
9th November 2007, 12:41
Well i suppose if the chavs are just going out with them and nothing sexual is happened that that is kinda alright. There are a few guys round my way who just cant find women there own age cos they are immature so they go for the school girls.
But for i couldnt go lower then 16/17 and im coming on 19, because i have other intentions instead of just holding hands and hugging ;)
alex19
9th November 2007, 12:43
There are a few guys round my way who just cant find women there own age cos they are immature so they go for the school girls.
Yeah, Some lads from near mine are so desperate they wank on webcam to guys...:err:
Saxo-Will
9th November 2007, 12:45
Yeah, Some lads from near mine are so desperate they wank on webcam to guys...:err:
to other guys!!! now women and i wouldnt be so appauled... :ill:
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