Work & Pleasure

[Jamesaxo]

Anyone ever mixed work with please for instance dating someone who you work with...?

if so does going to work feel wierd then??

[Luke]

Louise and I met at work, started to get to know each other on a night out then ended up kissing and it's just happened from there.

Work does feel weird as you are constantly together, but I'd recommend once you are happy together not working together as it will cause arguments especially if you end up living together too.

There is my 2ps worth.

[Vinny_VSX]

Oh god. I am never doing it again. I got really close with this girl from work who was older than me, but I decided that it just wasn't for me. Called it off in the nicest way ever as I have to work with her, no ignoring the texts for me. Now holy moly it is awkward when she is around. Not doing it again!!!!!

[Jamesaxo]

haha yeah the first thing that comes to mind when mixing work with pleasure is that their is going to be friction in work..however the girl im 'dating' is not on the same department as me in work which makes me think i wont bump into that often but you never know...the worse part would probs be breaking up with someone from work though...glad i havent had to do that yet.

btw thanks for the advice luke lol all taken on board :)

[T1NK3RB3LL]

i dont fink id want to tbh

ive always imagined it causing problems, thats how it always works on the tv anyway lol
i think its just to much time together, you gotta have separte lives at the end of the day. you'd have nothing to talk about either lol

"hey huni what you get up to today?"
"well i sat at work all day with you!"

[Vinny_VSX]

i dont fink id want to tbh

ive always imagined it causing problems, thats how it always works on the tv anyway lol
i think its just to much time together, you gotta have separte lives at the end of the day. you'd have nothing to talk about either lol

"hey huni what you get up to today?"
"well i sat at work all day with you!"

Hahaha. Quite true.

[RedB]

Worst mix ever (next to medication and too many jars) and as Luke says its really hard to keep a relationship going

Keep it casual ;)

[T1NK3RB3LL]

haha yeah the first thing that comes to mind when mixing work with pleasure is that their is going to be friction in work..however the girl im 'dating' is not on the same department as me in work which makes me think i wont bump into that often but you never know...the worse part would probs be breaking up with someone from work though...glad i havent had to do that yet.

btw thanks for the advice luke lol all taken on board :)

its good that the girl isnt in the same deparentment and that, but if you were to break up...and you did bump into her..

all hell breaks loose lol unless she broke up with you, then its fine because us lasses are like that lol

right bitches! lol

[Jamesaxo]

yeah i suppose u do need to have your seperate lives allthough saying that its not as if im living with her or anything plus when im back in uni i think we got different contract hours which aint to bad but like tinkerbell said it only takes for you to bump into each other once and all hell could break lose...i suppose it all depends how much u really wanna be with each other...like luke has proved if it means that much to you, you can both make it work..whether working together or not

[T1NK3RB3LL]

yeah thats a good point, if you really like each other, work shouldnt effect the you at all

[boz]

i met my lass when i used to work on a saturday in a clothes shop many many years ago lol
it was fun ;)

still together now, but we dont work together anymore lol

[RedB]

yeah thats a good point, if you really like each other, work shouldnt effect the you at all

Just places strains on everything sometimes which if stuff is bad already could make it worse

Well done Boz, changing rooms ftw

[Maxwell]

a fella (29) that works in a different section in my factory, ended up getting head from an apprentice female (20) from our work...on a drunken night out!

now half the factory knows, and what makes it worse is...his current g/fs dad is a manager there, and so is that fellas dad...and the 2 managers are best mates lol

though above all, the apprentice doesnt know, that everyone now knows lmao!!

[Ross-1987]

Far to ugly to be able to mix work with pleasure :y:

But it seems like something to avoid unless you manage to have a serious relationship eh?

[Baz]

supose it depends on the kind of work, if you both have part time jobs at the same place its not so bad as your not gonna be working together very often. If its full time and together 24/7 it would be irritating not being able to get away from the other half for a while.

[claret-vtr]

I meet my girlfriend Emma at work. We became really good close friends and ened up kissing on a night out. Weve been together for nearly 5 years now and i love her more than ever (pass the bucket).

I keep telling her though all i wanted was a bit of fun and ive ended up withe a fucking mortgage lol.

[vidal]

Met Mrs. V at work, been together about 15 years, although we no longer work together. Just gets a little funny with the comments at first, but a professional attitude will overcome most things.

There are several organisations where relationships are frowned upon, the armed services being particularly strict.

V.

[Luke]

Louise and I are still together now and it's been nearly 2 years. We have a beautiful little daughter called Ruby

http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff217/louisechick/IMG_0526.jpg

Just take it easy mate, but like I say if it gets serious think about swapping jobs as you will thank yourself in the long run. That's why I am looking for another job now...

[Lee_P]

im thinking bout dating this lass from my work but she is on my team so i litteraly see her every day you guys have pput me off now

[Luke]

Louise was on my team when we started dating, but 3 months later I got moved onto a different section.

Nice...

[Chuffy]

Anyone ever mixed work with please for instance dating someone who you work with...?

if so does going to work feel wierd then??

This can be known as, "Shitting on your own doorstep"

Be carefull pal! Yello! :P

[Jacko]

Louise and I are still together now and it's been nearly 2 years. We have a beautiful little daughter called Ruby

http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff217/louisechick/IMG_0526.jpg

Just take it easy mate, but like I say if it gets serious think about swapping jobs as you will thank yourself in the long run. That's why I am looking for another job now...

cute kid...

[laura_g]

i was gona work wiv my fella but he'd cramp my style abit lol

[chrichvtr]

when i was working as a waiter when i was 16 couple years ago i saw about 3 or 4 of the other waitresses and then the boss's daughter for a bit at my current workplace is dominated by males and wouldnt try it with any of the girls anyways!!!

[chrichvtr]

i tell a lie a girl on work experience came to the work place for 2 weeks when i was 17 she was nearly 16 met her for a bit lol didnt go down well!!

[Raz]

when i was working as a waiter when i was 16 couple years ago i saw about 3 or 4 of the other waitresses and then the boss's daughter for a bit at my current workplace is dominated by males and wouldnt try it with any of the girls anyways!!!
dont lie....you sooooo do :P

[chrichvtr]

dont lie....you sooooo do :P

i dont lol

[Raz]

i tell a lie a girl on work experience came to the work place for 2 weeks when i was 17 she was nearly 16 met her for a bit lol didnt go down well!!
explain mate.......people are going to ask

[laura_g]

yeah right hugh heffner

[chrichvtr]

a girl came on work experience but i was only a year older than her so kinda met up

[Modified]

ok ive dated 2 girls from work, one the same level as me for about 2years, was ok i guess as diff parts of the office!

then about 4 months after that was with my boss's boss and that was a lil strange!!!! :D but kidna fun didnt last long as was too werid at work! and now with a girl who i dont work with and its better than the other 2 from work :)

its risky to say the least!

[Raz]

a girl came on work experience but i was only a year older than her so kinda met up
right.....whats bad about that?

[Wayne]

i have dated someone from college in the past but wouldn't in work unless i really fancied one of the women:P

[craig180]

I've masturbated at work. Does that count?

It was while I was working at the take away

(not really worked at a take away but you can't beat a quick shuffle at work)

kidding

[Maxwell]

ur a stinker lol

[chrichvtr]

right.....whats bad about that?

nothing really apart from the fact it was a clients daughter!!

[laura_g]

nothing really apart from the fact it was a clients daughter!!

tut tut ;)

[chrichvtr]

tut tut ;)

the clients name was larry loops think his daughter was called laura iirc

dirty little bitch she was!!!

[laura_g]

larry loops what a gay name

[Lee_P]

the clients name was larry loops think his daughter was called laura iirc

dirty little bitch she was!!!

hahaha fair play

[laura_g]

why was this laura dirty

[Raz]

nothing really apart from the fact it was a clients daughter!!

so f**k....fair play to ya :P

the clients name was larry loops think his daughter was called laura iirc

dirty little bitch she was!!!

im sure she is......

[craig180]

I've heard that T1NK3RB3LL is a bit of a goer;)

[boz]

i was 16 when i started working in the clothes shop with my lass, she was 17 (what a stud lol)

that was 10years ago, i think we worked together for just over a year, then she went to my college as well.

now we have ended up with a mortgage and engaged.

oh yeah, i forgot to mention the big fook off ball and chain i have around my ankle :)

its ok for me tho, i get to dissappear for weeks on end and get a mini break, so its not too intence.
we tend to have little barnies when im home for more than a few weeks lol

[Raz]

I've heard that T1NK3RB3LL is a bit of a goer;)
tell me about it ;) i know for sure :y:

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Im going out with a guy from my work, it was weird before we made it official, cause people kept saying, you too look close and are you too getting it on, infront of the managers, but now its absoultely fine, we dont work in the exact same bit all the time, but its nice when you have to go by their area, and there they are smiling away at you :)

[Jamesaxo]

yeah thas kinda how it is for me and this lass at the moment as we are on a different department all the time so it dont make it too bad lol thanks for all the comments...even the funny ones haha :P

thinking about it sex at work would be pretty good..especially since noone uses our disabled toilets ;) hehe

[Bailey1124]

thinking about it sex at work would be pretty good..especially since noone uses our disabled toilets ;) hehe

haha mental image

[Hannah]

I think it depends how they relate to you at work, I was seeing the Manager at my work when I just turned 18. He wasn't my section manager but was good mates with my Manager who seemed to know everything about us and had great fun filling all my colleagues in too! lol. When I was sent to work in his section, it felt awkward him telling me what to do. Plus people spread the most random rumours about you... :err:

I was then seeing this other guy, actually was before but nevermind. Anyways he decided to be really nice and cheat on me. Whole of work found out, felt like a pleb lol

[chrichvtr]

i know a girl who is 17 and works at mcdonalds and has just engaged the 35 year old manager!!

:panic:

that just seems weird to me

[Hannah]

i know a girl who is 17 and works at mcdonalds and has just engaged the 35 year old manager!!

:panic:

that just seems weird to me

She works in McDonalds...Says it all tbh lol.

This guy was 26 when I was seeing him, so a 8 year difference. Peado lol

[laura_g]

She works in McDonalds...Says it all tbh lol.

This guy was 26 when I was seeing him, so a 8 year difference. Peado lol

dont diss maccies my mate used to work there he used to get me free food

[chrichvtr]

dont diss maccies my mate used to work there he used to get me free food

haha so did my mate until it got him sacked he used to fuck my order up so i could complaing and get some more food for whoever i was with lol

[laura_g]

lol i was just like oi sort us out with some munch then he would coz he was the supervisor

[Raz]

lol i was just like oi sort us out with some munch then he would coz he was the supervisor
alright for some....dont think i could work in them conditions tbh

im too upper class :P

NOT

[laura_g]

i use to be a grease monkey at drayton manor theme park aw the good old days

[Raz]

i use to be a grease monkey at drayton manor theme park aw the good old days
eeeeewwwwww no thank you....havent been drayton manor in years!! coming on to double figures...

[laura_g]

lol it was bad but it was a great laugh lol, you dont wana go to the manor its shite

[Raz]

lol it was bad but it was a great laugh lol, you dont wana go to the manor its shite
it was fun when i went :P im planning on going to all theme parks next year :y:

[laura_g]

theme parks in the uk suck after you've been to florida lol

[saxo1510]

ive mixed work and pleasure on 2 ocassions, one before i actually knew he worked there, and 2 was a mate and a druken snog but thats it

and because my work place is massive i see neither of them, one is on nights, the other is on different shifts to me and sits downstairs!