women problems... update

[jay]

hi,

basically im in love with my dads mates daughter , been good mates with her for a few years, felt like this about her for a few years aswel.

she knows how i feel, i know she feels the same about me ,

altough im only young i know she's the "special" one and wanna spend my life with her.

but im in the army so im rarely home, but i dont wanna lose her to some other prat

what do i do???
sorry if it sounds muddled , ive been up the pub,

advice please :)


jay:)

[Mochachino]

not much you can do really, i thought i met the girl i wanted to spend my life with, but it went a bit pearshaped (the relationship not my penis)

I know how you feel though

If she loves u the same way you love her as you say, she wont cheat on you, or she isnt the 'special one'!

[kenny]

speak to her and tell her again how you feel and try and get together as a couple and see how it goes. if it goes well then congratulations if not then agree being friends is the best option.

[Emma_ZS]

speak to her and tell her again how you feel and try and get together as a couple and see how it goes. if it goes well then congratulations if not then agree being friends is the best option.

i would have to agree

[Gazzza]

go for it :D at least give it a shot :) no harm in trying :D

[kenny]

holy shit its gazzzza, you been hiding or something?

yeah try as a couple and see how it goes dude thats the best option :y:

[jay]

speak to her and tell her again how you feel and try and get together as a couple and see how it goes. if it goes well then congratulations if not then agree being friends is the best option.

that proberley is the best option, but in a way i dont wanna except it .


tis all quite depressing really


jay

[Mitchell]

go for it :D at least give it a shot :) no harm in trying :D

there is alot of harm in trying, if he gets the heartbraking treatment.

i could never trust a lass but thats just me, everybodys different.

[Gazzza]

holy shit its gazzzza, you been hiding or something?

yeah try as a couple and see how it goes dude thats the best option :y:

yeas i have been happy since lisa went to bed :D:D:D:D basicly im seeing her soon WOOOOOOOOO and i love her and i THINK she likes me to... i want a gf (her) and she wants a bf and she cant get one she says... and she thinks im really sweet and kind etc etc its all in the texts :D

im falling im gona grab the chance with 2 hands and hold on as i want it ^^

basicly
IM HAPPY :D

[kenny]

i deffo think you should try it jay and then you will know for sure what you feel. in a way i agree with you about not wanting to ruin it and not take the chance but you only live once. do what your heart tells you to do

[kenny]

good for you gazzzza.

sorry for the hijack.

back on topic lol

good luck with your decision jay :y:

[Gazzza]

there is alot of harm in trying, if he gets the heartbraking treatment.

i could never trust a lass but thats just me, everybodys different.

well im talking from my cuzen who went into army with a GF he was rarely home and when he was he spent alot of time with her and maybe 1 day with me when i went round to get guitar lessons and play the ps2 (conflict desert strom 1 and 2)
and it ended as they didnt get alot of time togetther... a week at most for about 3 months
:( it CAN work but might not :(


good luck :D

[Mochachino]

yeas i have been happy since lisa went to bed :D:D:D:D basicly im seeing her soon WOOOOOOOOO and i love her and i THINK she likes me to... i want a gf (her) and she wants a bf and she cant get one she says... and she thinks im really sweet and kind etc etc its all in the texts :D

im falling im gona grab the chance with 2 hands and hold on as i want it ^^

basicly
IM HAPPY :D

go for it :D at least give it a shot no harm in trying :D wise words from yourself lol :y:

[Gazzza]

whats that silly saying some guy said to me in the club.. sumit about takeing a opertunity... when you can...
sounds french...
something like
grab it while you have the chance (omg this is going to annoy me)

basicly at least give it ago..
maybe even try a little trial peroud.. e.g
try going out as a cupple but dont get to serious... and if it wont work then it wont be so bad...

[Jacko]

who the fuck is lisa? you love her but yet she is in bed and your not? wooopsies.

to ze thread starter, it wont work ive seen this happen afew times...got a few mates in the army/marines...all lost the women they swore they would spend there lives with...women get lonely...

[PRICEY-VTS]

best thing to do mate is ask her see how she feels she might not want you as a bf because she wont want to lose you as a freind if the relationship dosent work out if you want her mate go for it the worst can only be know!!!!!!!!!!

and dont let your cock doing the thinking lol

[jay]

im trying to get her to come out for a meal so we can talk about it,

in a way i think shes scared of trying to make it work,

i'll be sad if i cant have her, but i'll cope..
but i just dont want any1 else to have her.

its all very new to me , never really felt like this about a bird


confused jay :)

[kenny]

sure you will be fine dude. best of luck to you, let us know how it goes with your decision :y:

[PRICEY-VTS]

a had my fair share mate aye it's hard few years back a was the same with my ex we lastest a gud 8-9 month but it diddent feel right so we just went bk to being mates it's fucking strange at first but thinks it's the best choice we've made to tell ya the truth we still phone each other everyday etc etc but for us it was best to be freinds end of the day mate it's your choice

hpw old are you like

[jay]

im 20 in 2 weeks, shes 18 , is it too young to be feeling like this ?


jay:)

[Mochachino]

[QUOTE=jay;1730690]im 20 in 2 weeks, shes 18 , is it too young to be feeling like this ?


jay:)[/QUOTE


no

[TU-Tuning]

Nah def not mate. You should tell her how you feel as said. Good luck with it. Massive respect for being a trooper too

[Gazzza]

good luck mate
nothing wrong with love... no matter what age :)


g'night

[PRICEY-VTS]

not at all mate my first proper gf was 17 a was 19 we went out for 2 1/2 years age does not matter bud we finshed cos she went to uni down south ! e mate has been in the raf for 1 year now and him and his lass ares till going strong so if ppl say it wont work dont listen to them cos you never know

[Mochachino]

good luck mate
nothing wrong with love... no matter what age :)

i love a girl but she has a bf :n:

[Gazzza]

i love a girl but she has a bf :n:

bummer...
have paitence ;)
all good things come to those who sit and twiddel thier thumbs (wait) lol

[TU-Tuning]

bummer...
have paitence ;)
all good things come to those who sit and twiddel thier thumbs (wait) lol

Depends, if she only sees him as a mate already then your kinda fucked tbh ftw imo !!!!11one

[PRICEY-VTS]

not taking the piss here lads but av noticed a fair few of these threads in the last couple of weeks a think we sound have a "troubled love corner" or something

[TU-Tuning]

not taking the piss here lads but av noticed a fair few of these threads in the last couple of weeks a think we sound have a "troubled love corner" or something

www.sexperience.com

[Mochachino]

www.sexperience.com

well thats sorted my problems out, just upgraded to premium on their so i can use the premium how to guide :y: :p

[jay]

not taking the piss here lads but av noticed a fair few of these threads in the last couple of weeks a think we sound have a "troubled love corner" or something

lol its easy to get sound advice on here , real mates would just take the piss out of me and i'd get nowhere lol


jay:)

[PRICEY-VTS]

www.sexperience.com

use that a lot like ben lol:clapping: :clapping:

[TU-Tuning]

wow there is actually a sexperience


lmao wtf look at what it says at the top when you click the link

[PRICEY-VTS]

lol its easy to get sound advice on here , real mates would just take the piss out of me and i'd get nowhere lol


jay:)

aye mate am not taking the piss or owt like that just saying that you aint the only in the postion hope it goes ok bud

goodnight

[Mitchell]

dont lie ben you were looking for redheads then sent us the link

[Mochachino]

porn is good for digestion? too wel imo

[TU-Tuning]

dont lie ben you were looking for redheads then sent us the link

Im not scottish, im from the west country. Im more into fat muddy birds riding tractors tbh

[jay]

aye mate am not taking the piss or owt like that just saying that you aint the only in the postion hope it goes ok bud

goodnight

yeah , thanks for your advice :)

repped


jay:)

[Mitchell]

Im not scottish, im from the west country. Im more into fat muddy birds riding tractors tbh

lol dungarees and wellys

[TU-Tuning]

http://www.lazygirldesigns.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/pinklafy1.jpg


Thats the good stuff. Bit too clean though

[boz]

go for it mate, tell her how you really feel.

you will only regret it if you dont, i have been in this position before, with my current missus lol, took ages to tell her how i felt, never said anything straight away, we ended up mates and going separate ways, only finding out a few years later that we both felt the same way about each other ages ago, but were to scared to say anything, it would have saved years of heart ache and dissapointment if we had just gone for it when we had the chance!!

go for it mate ;)

good luck

[Hanuman]

better to have loved and lost then not loved at all.. look at it this way,

you give it ago (if you really feel that strong)
things work out life goes on from there,
things dont work out, you have the experience and realise you were young and nieve there is alottttt more women out there, and have no reason to wish you never tried

DIDNT EVEN BOTHER
you will ALWAYS look back on her as a crush everytime you see her you will think did i do the right thing / been jelous of her bfs / husband, basically THAT alone is not worth the bother,

go for it son

[Hanuman]

p.s about being in the army ifyour meant to be your meant to be, your not the only person in the uk to try a relationship while in the "forces" / long distance im currenty in a 3year 120m relationship with a kid on the way, sounds like your just trying to justify being scared just grab the cahoonas and do it, "you can dooooooooooooooooooo it" (waterboy style)

[S70KES]

get in there and go for it... tkae the chance, if your fiendship is thats trong you boths hould pull through it ok....

[jay]

cheers fellas , some sound advice .

i'll leave it to new years eve i think , as we'll both be out in the pubs, 2359 hrs,, an all that , just see what happens and take from there i think,,


thanks for the help
anymore? keep it coming


jay:)

[PRICEY-VTS]

http://www.lazygirldesigns.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/pinklafy1.jpg


Thats the good stuff. Bit too clean though

ben it's your screen saver aint it dont like lol classical:panic: :panic:

[Hanuman]

looks better than some of the modded cars iv seen on the roads tbh

[Dez]

go for it mate, i know its not the same but i fancied this girl at school for four years and never plucked up the courage to say anythink.. now shes married! what a bummer.:n:

so give it a go whats the worst that can happen :y:

[doely_gti]

grab her when the clock strikes 12, kiss her, then go from there imo, if she's on a high your foot is through the door so to speak, i was in a similar situation but it was my best mates niece but i thought fk it in the end

lost me best mate as he didnt agree but been with the mrs nearly 2yrs now ftw!

[laura_g]

just tell her long distance relationships can work

[Gazzza]

just tell her long distance relationships can work

bros be4 hoes ;)

they can work just blody hard to maintain ...

[laura_g]

id prefer it tbf

[Gazzza]

id prefer it tbf

prefer what?

[laura_g]

long distance ones, it sucks when you split up with someone n you see em up town

[Gazzza]

long distance ones, it sucks when you split up with someone n you see em up town

my first one was long disdance...
it sucked but i hate her
closer ones are better ;) like a few miles away so u can have some space :D

[jay]

a little update ,

well had arranged to go for a meal lastnight, but for some reason it never happened so went to the pub as normal with mates , saw her drive past in some lads car ( she didnt see me ) , txted her asked what she was upto, said she couldnt meet as she was in hospital with her sick grandad .

when she was blatenly out with this lad!

later on in the night , bumped into her dad ( my dads best mate )
so i asked him about her grandad , to his reply

" fcuk all wrong with him , hes at home "


moral of the story, keep xmas present reciepts !


jay:)

[TU-Tuning]

Sorry to hear that mate. Must be gutted but there are plenty more out there, not that that helps right now

[Raz]

women in this world do make me have a think at times jay....sometimes they treat ya good, sometimes they dont.....

as you said...keep the reciepts :P

[jay]

Sorry to hear that mate. Must be gutted but there are plenty more out there, not that that helps right now

im honestly not that bovered about it ,

i had a better new years with her mate anyhow lol


jay:)

[doely_gti]

^^ thats the hammer, bang her mum next, post pics and send her the link ftw