Ex Boyfs n Ex Girlfs

[Vix]

dont no weather any one has been in same situation but my ex became me ex in November 2006...quite a while ago..he cheated on me with 5 people one for a year of our 4 yr relationship...as soon as he finished me he was with one of them, hes still wit her but texts and rings me...sometimes its small talk sometimes its a cd name disc number and track number...as if it means something to him... now all this touches a nerve as i still GOD KNOWS WHY love him and i always will...:panic:

he used to work for my stepdad thats how i met him and my parents were constantly tryin to split us up (now i no why) as soon as he left they didnt get on at all which made things hard for me and my mum.. too much pressure?

my main point of this thread is to get a guys perspective on this and girls...can never have to much advice lol ... ive told him to shove off a number of times, he doesnt textfor a few months then hell either ring or email me out of the blue but he knows i still love him and on my 19th bday last august he told me he still "loved" me... i doubt he knows the meaning of the word....im just wondering weather he has realised that the "grass aint greener on the other side" or just wants to be friends??? if he wants to be friends he got a funny way of showing it as he still asks me if i love him....:panic:

xxx

[kenny]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

[jamie_k]

hes realised what hes lost. but if you take him back he will go back to his old ways i guarantee

[VTS-Boi]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

exactly wot i would say!
if he cheated on you then he obviously doesnt care about you(sorry for being harsh)and the fact that he still says "I love you" is a joke in my eyes as he cudnt,due to wot he did.

change ur number and problem solved :p

[syvtr]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

Totally agree with you there mate..

Syy

[VTR_Nick]

As said once a cheater always a cheater. tell him to F**K off

[kenny]

i got fucked around by a girl and found out all about it and well she still says she misses me yet shes with the guy she cheated on me with.

i mean wtf is the deal.

ditch him altogether and move on. i know it sounds easy and i realise its not but thats the best option.

[bullit]

he know hes had you in his pocket so he will never truly care. delete number etc and move on. easier said than done

[Vix]

exactly wot i would say!
if he cheated on you then he obviously doesnt care about you(sorry for being harsh)and the fact that he still says "I love you" is a joke in my eyes as he cudnt,due to wot he did.

change ur number and problem solved :p

no its ok thanks for your advice...

[mitchell_saxo]

once a cheater always a cheater.

[Dez]

Makes a change to see a women moaning about a bloke its usually the other way round on here.

Tbh i would tell him where to go! he cheated on you all those times, hes now with someone else and im sure hes doing the same to them, maybe thats why hes making small talk with you? hoping you would be one of his bits on the side too??

i recommend you stay well away and just find someone else who you will be able to trust :y:

guarentee you that hes only after one thing sorry if that sounds harsh and all

[jaybiss]

how the fuck do you talk to him? if it was me, everytime he got in touch id want to break his legs

[Vix]

how the fuck do you talk to him? if it was me, everytime he got in touch id want to break his legs

i did and still would but..im not angry anymore im not one for grudges...he twists things and he seems sooo believable...strange i no....

[Amiee]

I think that loving him is alright because you cant turn your feelings off.. however i dont see what your getting at..

Do you want him back or you want him to leave you alone for good?

You know thinking about him is what he wants... keeping in touch is fine but sounds like he does it to mess with your head knowing he can

[kenny]

delete number and block email to help ease the problem

[Vix]

I think that loving him is alright because you cant turn your feelings off.. however i dont see what your getting at..

Do you want him back or you want him to leave you alone for good?

You know thinking about him is what he wants... keeping in touch is fine but sounds like he does it to mess with your head knowing he can


i honestly dont no. :panic: ..its crazy...i think your right...i want him to leave me alone...put still a tiny part Thinks i want him back...

[Steve]

dont no weather any one has been in same situation but my ex became me ex in November 2006...quite a while ago..he cheated on me with 5 people one for a year of our 4 yr relationship...as soon as he finished me he was with one of them, hes still wit her but texts and rings me...sometimes its small talk sometimes its a cd name disc number and track number...as if it means something to him... now all this touches a nerve as i still GOD KNOWS WHY love him and i always will...:panic:

he used to work for my stepdad thats how i met him and my parents were constantly tryin to split us up (now i no why) as soon as he left they didnt get on at all which made things hard for me and my mum.. too much pressure?

my main point of this thread is to get a guys perspective on this and girls...can never have to much advice lol ... ive told him to shove off a number of times, he doesnt textfor a few months then hell either ring or email me out of the blue but he knows i still love him and on my 19th bday last august he told me he still "loved" me... i doubt he knows the meaning of the word....im just wondering weather he has realised that the "grass aint greener on the other side" or just wants to be friends??? if he wants to be friends he got a funny way of showing it as he still asks me if i love him....:panic:

xxx

seriously tell him to fuck off, never be able to trust him :afro:

[Dez]

i honestly dont no. :panic: ..its crazy...i think your right...i want him to leave me alone...put still a tiny part Thinks i want him back...

if you do that you are a mug, you want him back so he can hurt you again? is he still with this girl ? and if so i bet she doesnt know what hes saying too you?

have you not realized that hes still the same??

[Vix]

a leopard never changes its spots i no that...brain is working.. i no what i should do but as always ya heart tells ya otherwise!

[bullit]

a leopard never changes its spots i no that...brain is working.. i no what i should do but as always ya heart tells ya otherwise!

its like you need to find out again but you do know that it will happen again

[Steve]

wish my ex was thinking about coming back to me like lol

[Vix]

awww bless you lo!

[jay-vtr]

i think hes messing with ur head sweet, and trying to have the best of both worlds, hes made his bed now tell him to lay in it. cheaters dont change... always remember: You Cant Make A Ho A HouseWife.
Personally if i were you i would change my number, you will always love him, thats just life, i love one of my ex's... But unfortunately that doesnt change the fact that shes a lying manipulative cheating little b!tch... such as life :)

[kylie]

hey, he's prob just pissed cus you're movin on wi ure life n wants you to crawl after him. id say move on wi ure life, forget about all what's happened, be civil if needs be, just to show him he cant bring ya down and enjoy life. laughter is the best medicine mate.

[Jamie]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

Nothing more can be said. Cheats deserve missery.

[Vix]

hey, he's prob just pissed cus you're movin on wi ure life n wants you to crawl after him. id say move on wi ure life, forget about all what's happened, be civil if needs be, just to show him he cant bring ya down and enjoy life. laughter is the best medicine mate.

cheers chick :y:

[bullit]

wish my ex was thinking about coming back to me like lol

okay, "im thinking about it"

[Vix]

i think hes messing with ur head sweet, and trying to have the best of both worlds, hes made his bed now tell him to lay in it. cheaters dont change... always remember: You Cant Make A Ho A HouseWife.
Personally if i were you i would change my number, you will always love him, thats just life, i love one of my ex's... But unfortunately that doesnt change the fact that shes a lying manipulative cheating little b!tch... such as life :)

You cant make a ho a house wife...thats a gudun! no it doesnt really does it...

[Barry123]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

As said once a cheater always a cheater. tell him to F**K off

once a cheater always a cheater.

Nothing more can be said. Cheats deserve missery.

jeeezus christ. I cheated on a lass and admittedly i fuck her up a bit :) but that doesnt mean I'll do it again.

'once a cheater always a cheater' is, in fact, complete toss.

[Vix]

jeeezus christ. I cheated on a lass and admittedly i fuck her up a bit :) but that doesnt mean I'll do it again.

'once a cheater always a cheater' is, in fact, complete toss.

at least ur admitting it....you just get bored or was there another reason?

[Barry123]

at least ur admitting it....you just get bored or was there another reason?

not bored no Vix, just wanted to f**k her over really a bit :) I didnt expect her to go quite as bananas as she did though :err:


whoopsy

[kenny]

jeeezus christ. I cheated on a lass and admittedly i fuck her up a bit :) but that doesnt mean I'll do it again.

'once a cheater always a cheater' is, in fact, complete toss.



ok maybe its not always true in every case but most of the times it is.

why did u cheat anyway sayer ?

[Steve]

okay, "im thinking about it"

just wish you would call me :n:

[Mr_suv]

trust me just hang up on him if he calls dont pick up or reply to his calls otherwise he has u where he wants u wrapped around his little finger!! which is sumwhere u dont wanna be, u shuld come say hello to me lol ;) hope that helps otherwise ur just gunna be killing ur mind and messin up ur emotions

[Vix]

not bored no Vix, just wanted to f**k her over really a bit :) I didnt expect her to go quite as bananas as she did though :err:


whoopsy

...n why did you wanna "f**k her over"? well yeah you cheated we pretend we dont care but really WE DO"!

[Barry123]

ok maybe its not always true in every case but most of the times it is.

why did u cheat anyway sayer ?

I think its been said on here a few times dude... basically i was with this girl before and she was a bit of a cheater herself, but i was cool and stuff and took her back and that. then anyway i think she turned a leaf and wanted to make a new start and be faithful and serious...




... so i cheated on her as revenge :)

ps Vix, hypocritical comment alert from me... but yes, your ex seems a bit of a wanker. maybe he might have seen sense and really does miss you. i suggest you f**k him over... or block his number. its for the best, you can find better :y:

[Vix]

trust me just hang up on him if he calls dont pick up or reply to his calls otherwise he has u where he wants u wrapped around his little finger!! which is sumwhere u dont wanna be, u shuld come say hello to me lol ;) hope that helps otherwise ur just gunna be killing ur mind and messin up ur emotions

...Hello ;) lol ive been there before then i told him to get lost and things were fine for months then he makes contact again and it sends me off on one...

[Mr_suv]

sayer difference being he has cheated with her 5 times so its more than likely to be forever with this di*k at least u did it once and realised how sh*t it was

[kenny]

I think its been said on here a few times dude... basically i was with this girl before and she was a bit of a cheater herself, but i was cool and stuff and took her back and that. then anyway i think she turned a leaf and wanted to make a new start and be faithful and serious...




... so i cheated on her as revenge :)

ps Vix, hypocritical comment alert from me... but yes, your ex seems a bit of a wanker. maybe he might have seen sense and really does miss you. i suggest you f**k him over... or block his number. its for the best, you can find better :y:


ahh right, good on ya for the revenge tho lol :y:

[bullit]

jeeezus christ. I cheated on a lass and admittedly i fuck her up a bit :) but that doesnt mean I'll do it again.

'once a cheater always a cheater' is, in fact, complete toss.

sayer, what do you know about relationships. :P

at the end of day your all young and cheating just happens. not many relationships last from youth. and you need to sow the seed.

i used to be a bit naughty as i was blind drunk for most of my life

[Vix]

I think its been said on here a few times dude... basically i was with this girl before and she was a bit of a cheater herself, but i was cool and stuff and took her back and that. then anyway i think she turned a leaf and wanted to make a new start and be faithful and serious...




... so i cheated on her as revenge :)

ps Vix, hypocritical comment alert from me... but yes, your ex seems a bit of a wanker. maybe he might have seen sense and really does miss you. i suggest you f**k him over... or block his number. its for the best, you can find better :y:


just a tad bit hypocritical there...but i no what your saying...but i wouldnt put point on saying "you can do better" not with knob heads round here

[laura_g]

Get rid just bein single is way better then gettin f**ked over

[kenny]

Get rid just bein single is way better then gettin f**ked over



i agree, single life for me has been far better. ive saved a fortune lol

[Josh_24]

if some one did that to me then id forget about them
if hes gunna be like that hes just looking for attention cause hhll have a hunch that you still like him...boys are shits but you girls have to live with us

just get him out of your life for good

[Saxo-Will]

I understand what ya say adsayer, not everyone remains a cheater.

Like i cheated on my ex a few times (awaits bombardment) and i was all in all a complete dick to her. I never text her after though as i knew i would do the same thing to her again. I realised from my mistakes and its made me a better person now.

I wouldnt let him in your life, as no doubt you will get hurt again. Cheaters can change if they dont get away with it (myself). But letting a guy back in your life after he's done that will stick in his head that he can do it again.

I hope you can finally relieve yourself of this burden and get a good man in your life and tell this ex to sod the hell off :y:

[Gazzza]

tell him to fuck off imo. once a cheater always a cheater imo.

true...
me and my ex aint spoke since a month or 2 ago... but it was a 5 min chat on how things was... no 1 said "i miss you" etc even though i wanted to but im out of her life shes out of mine etc... and before then it was never talked for months then she would fone in tears...

and my mate/couzen is in the same as you...
he was going out with a 26 yr old.. and they split up because he said to her "wow shes fit" (some random girl) and she went tits up and dumped him and he was like YES and shes wanting him back but hes like ffs leave me alone...
its quite funny actualy... he told me shes ament to be growen up but acts like a 5 year old :P



tell him to f off and shag his new bird in the ass

[Adum]

you will never be happy with him knowing he can cheat. just remind yourself how he made you feel and that he cant love you, no matter how much he may say so.

you need to forget this loser and concentrate on your happiness! hang out with family and REAL friends, and hopefully you will get over him and find some one knew!

Jerry Springer FTW!

[Pat_Vts]

im talking 2 my ex on msn right now haha;)

[kenny]

im talking 2 my ex on msn right now haha;)

haha brilliant.

i still speak to my ex. god knows why after what she done to me :wall:

[Gazzza]

haha brilliant.

i still speak to my ex. god knows why after what she done to me :wall:

i dont and for good reason...
stupid slag...
hope she reads this...
and goes and crys in a little corner and cuts her wrists with a pencil sharpner blade....

[kenny]

i dont and for good reason...
stupid slag...
hope she reads this...
and goes and crys in a little corner and cuts her wrists with a pencil sharpner blade....




pmsl. she come on here ?

[Pat_Vts]

im putting into motion a plan of revenge;) im pure evil haha...

she arrnaged 2 meet me feb 14th you all know what day that is and never turned up, left me there like a dumb fucker tbh...

now her driving test is soon and she wants to see me somewhere i said meet me chelmsford and that i ''missed'' her...

im going to leave her standing in chelmsford like a dumb fuck

FAIR? lol...

[xxxvickxxx]

not everyone will cheat again, ive cheated in the past but would never dream of doing it again

think you should just forget about him really, find someone who is better for you and will treat you right

[Hanuman]

personally wouldnt go near anyone who did that if you were in such a serious relationship for 4 years and he cheated for 1 full year aswell as 3 other people, dont even give em the time of day move on, people like that cant be trusted and aint worth your time

[laura_g]

personally wouldnt go near anyone who did that if you were in such a serious relationship for 4 years and he cheated for 1 full year aswell as 3 other people, dont even give em the time of day move on, people like that cant be trusted and aint worth your time

its hard to though sometimes you fall for someone and you see past all that and hope that it dont happen again