23 and 16?

[Doyle]

is it wrong for a 23 yer old to be going out with a 16 year old?

whats your opinions?

[Tupps]

Pics ?

[sharpie]

i'd say wrong - what could you possible have to talk about?

[Doyle]

of the girl in question?

[AdamW]

Aslong as if she is not related....

[Robb]

As Tupps says, age is irrelevant without pics....

[lukemc5853]

i have a mate who is 18 and is seeing a 27 year old been with him for nearly 6 months now

[Jules]

No way its FAB!!!!!!

I was 16 when I met Scott he was 22! We're still together - Married with a daughter - so trust me its good plus you have loads to be talking about Sharpie, when your actually talking lol!!!

[Tupps]

Suppose age goes out the window once they become legal

[Doyle]

and did i mention she has an identical twin.

i met her on saturday and wondered peoples opinions before i persuded her.

[martinmac]

depends on whether the male or female in question is the older 1? my ex was 7 years older than me... i am 20 n she was 27... was a waste of time in the end because she jus became broody n wanted 2 settle down n tht n i didnt! It was all good at the start then got 2 serious n borin! Now am wi some1 ma own age n its 100 times better... Just my opinion tho :y:

[Tupps]

I'd tap that!

[matt_vtr_15]

No way its FAB!!!!!!

I was 16 when I met Scott he was 22! We're still together - Married with a daughter - so trust me its good plus you have loads to be talking about Sharpie, when your actually talking lol!!!

that says it all mate dont do it ya dont want kids!!

[AdamW]

She has an iPhone....Id date her.....she has style....

[Peejous]

Seems a little odd tbh, im 23 this year and I couldn't imagine having a 16 year old GF. Yes it's alright to look at the school girls etc. but would just be weird taking her to the youth club and the school disco tbh. See if she's 12 years old its much better, they dont go the youth club yet so can have more nights in together, and dont have to worry about her s*cking off lads behind the sports hall at school.

[Tupps]

I've just turned 22, been riding about on a 26 year old on and off - also a 17 year old

Depends what mood i'm in tbh

[matt_vtr_15]

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y161/LuckyDoyle/Sasha.jpg

and did i mention she has an identical twin.

i met her on saturday and wondered peoples opinions before i persuded her.

tap that tbh

[Robb]

She has an iPhone.

Marry her.

[Tupps]

She has an iPhone.

Marry her.

16 with an iphone

Daddy has money

Get a ring in her finger tbh

[Doyle]

i think it'd be weird picking her up at skool. lol ive done the whole skoolie thing when i was 20 and we got on really well. for sum reason i get on better with the younger generation. weird.

[Clouds_mate]

She has an iphone. i would.

edit - too slow.

[Peejous]

Im confused... is her skirt high, or are her breasticles low?

[Jules]

that says it all mate dont do it ya dont want kids!!

No your wrong lol
We've been together 8 years!!!

I dont think it would work the same tho if a guy was to see an older female cos they have different agendas (sp) ie marriage, kids, houses or at least some of them do. But it wasn't like that for us.

[AdamW]

Just wait till she gets to that stage when she wants to go out every weekend and girls holiday......

Id hit it.....but wouldnt plan on making a relationship out of it......

[Clouds_mate]

Im confused... is her skirt high, or are her breasticles low?

Breasticles.

Shes only a little girl, wont it be nipples and sports bras?

Personally i couldnt do it.

[Amiee]

Is a bit wrong IMO.

[sharpie]

you couldn't even go the pub for a drink... it'd be a lot better if she was 18 and you were 25 but, from 16 year old girls are so immature. plus if it goes serious both her and your parents will be like "eww"

[matt_vtr_15]

No your wrong lol
We've been together 8 years!!!

I dont think it would work the same tho if a guy was to see an older female cos they have different agendas (sp) ie marriage, kids, houses or at least some of them do. But it wasn't like that for us.

i was only joking :y:

[Jules]

Just wait till she gets to that stage when she wants to go out every weekend and girls holiday......

Id hit it.....but wouldnt plan on making a relationship out of it......

Hmmm yeh I can agree slightly.

I still go out a lot with the girlies but Scott dosen't bother. He just picks me up when im drunk lol. Sometimes he comes out with us but he's been there done that!!!

But some guys wouldn't be best pleased with their g/f going out without them:n:

[Jules]

i was only joking :y:

I know lol

[VtsTom]

My brothers mate just turned 25 this month, his missus turned 17 last month. They get on really well. She's a right laugh. Age dont really matter if you "click"

[97vtr]

16 with an iphone

Daddy has money

Get a ring in her finger tbh

or a finger in her ring?

[Robb]

Just wait till she gets to that stage when she wants to go out every weekend and girls holiday......

Id hit it.....but wouldnt plan on making a relationship out of it......

Spot on to be honest.

Soon as shes 18 or can go out and starts driving she will go on one crazy mad powertrip. Just you wait....

[immense]

Tad young to be honest...........................

[sharpie]

See if she's 12 years old its much better, they dont go the youth club yet so can have more nights in together, and dont have to worry about her s*cking off lads behind the sports hall at school.

only just noticed this!!!!! haha

[xxxvickxxx]

bit young really, you cant go pubs or clubs with her etc, dont really see the point

[Jules]

Is a bit wrong IMO.

So if a 27 year old guy with a good job, flashy sports car, own house etc etc asked you out - you would say no?????

I can bet if you were single you wouldn't!!!! lol

[AdamW]

Even if she was 22 I still wouldnt go to pubs and clubs with her.......couples going out on mad ones always end up in me getting thrown out of club for arguing with her....

Best way is to meet after for sexy time......

[Clouds_mate]

Age means nothing.

But when the person isnt legally able to still do things in life it puts a strain on the relationship.

Also the fact she is still young and a teenager means the changes of maturity is slimmer then say a 21+ year old. Later in life age means nothing but while one side of the relationship is still on power trips and getting a 'buzz' for gettin served beer and cigs i would stay well away

[Peejous]

You'd still tap her and then go though correct?

[betty02]

Probs would tap it, she's an ok looker but as mentioned could you be assed wtih all the shit, shes young and immature a relationship to you might not be a relationship to her, and eman the same

But then on the other hand she could be mature and not be the slaggish type etc, and want love, but i don't know her, more pics ftw like ;)

[Clouds_mate]

Even if she was 22 I still wouldnt go to pubs and clubs with her.......couples going out on mad ones always end up in me getting thrown out of club for arguing with her....

Best way is to meet after for sexy time......

Standard.

Only time ive ever met my gf on a night out is when we are either in a different City or meeting up for sex.

[AdamW]

You'd still tap her and then go though correct?

Of course.......wouldnt even ask to see her ID

[Robb]

Also, would you honestly wait for her after school?

Its all about driving around the corner and getting them to walk a mile out their way to meet you, we've all been there.

[97vtr]

bassically your balls will be bigger than her head cos she is that young is what everyone is trying to say, but imo i wudnt pass on her

[immense]

At least it isn't incest I suppose..............

[Doyle]

the thing is i've been with a few 21 year olds recently and i didnt click with them and i keep remembering that the younger they are the better i click with them, maybe cos im a bit immature and always wanting to have a laff, but i dont know.

tbh if we did go topubs and clubs I would be the one getting ID'd cos i always get ID'd, i look about 17.

[Jules]

Also, would you honestly wait for her after school?

Its all about driving around the corner and getting them to walk a mile out their way to meet you, we've all been there.

Got to say I was out of school at 16 so we never had that problem lol

I was going to say you might get a few odd looks waiting for her outside school, but prb not now-a-days! Half the girls in school get picked up by their older b/f lol

[Clouds_mate]

the thing is i've been with a few 21 year olds recently and i didnt click with them and i keep remembering that the younger they are the better i click with them, maybe cos im a bit immature.

No its because your a peadophile ;)

[VtsTom]

Just try it and see. You dont know till you make the effort.

[Mark51]

imo yes. i have a younger sister and she was seeing someone that was 4 years older than her. he treated her like a dick so it didnt last long at all :ouch:

however, my girlfriends cousin is 20 and she is seeing a 33 year old and they have a really good relationship.

i think the older people get the less the age gap matters

[Jules]

imo yes. i have a younger sister and she was seeing someone that was 4 years older than her. he treated her like a dick so it didnt last long at all :ouch:

however, my girlfriends cousin is 20 and she is seeing a 33 year old and they have a really good relationship.

i think the older people get the less the age gap matters

I would agree with this statement! :y:
At first my Dad was raging and tried to stip me seeing Scott cos of the age gap but now it dosent bother him, Im 23 Scott is 30. It sounds worse the further back you take it (like when i was 7 Scott was 14) but you get over it with time!!

I would give it a go. Its all about you two, no-one else, if your both happy thats all the matters!!!

[Zach]

Age means nothing.

But when the person isnt legally able to still do things in life it puts a strain on the relationship.


I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 16, 17 next month.

Even though i'm still pretty new to the 18-so-no-restrictions lifestyle, i've got into the habbit of pubs and clubs etc. She never thinks she'll get in so never wants to come.

It does make it a bit harder sometimes, and hell, our age difference is minimal!

[Clouds_mate]

I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 16, 17 next month.

Even though i'm still pretty new to the 18-so-no-restrictions lifestyle, i've got into the habbit of pubs and clubs etc. She never thinks she'll get in so never wants to come.

It does make it a bit harder sometimes, and hell, our age difference is minimal!

Its not just that. But like someone else said. When they learn to drive, start going on holidays with friends it all changes. They get a glimce of freedom and stuff.

Luckly i killed my single days from 15-18 when i first started going clubing. Come 18-19 i had enough of the single life, lads holidays and getting messy most nights of the week.

My gf is the same, she also was going out at a young age, so we didnt come across any problems like i said above. But i have seen it kill alot of relationships with friends.

[Jamie]

Where i live id get looked at wierd and im just 21,

Imo depends on girl, looks, and her maturity levelssssss

Like if she acts like a little girl wants to have sleep overs with her pals and straighten there hairs its a nonooooo lol

[Amiee]

So if a 27 year old guy with a good job, flashy sports car, own house etc etc asked you out - you would say no?????

I can bet if you were single you wouldn't!!!! lol

I am single lol

I can say I proberly would but im 19 next week and I would like to think im more mature than a 16 yo.. who has just left school and probs pretty niave.

[Audrey_D]

Ok, i cant say anything as i went out with an 18 year old when i was 14....much to my parents worst nightmares (and no, nothing like that happened until i was old enough!)

I dont see anything wrong with there being an age difference. Some younger lassies can get to 'into' a relationship when they are that young...might be harder for you to go up the town etc if she cant :)

I know i hated when my ex went up the town and i couldnt go with him

[saxo_asa]

Maybe the fact you need to ask others opinion shows that it might bother you, not saying it does or that its wrong just think about it...people will talk its just what happens its whether youre bothered by it

[Jules]

I am single lol

I can say I proberly would but im 19 next week and I would like to think im more mature than a 16 yo.. who has just left school and probs pretty niave.

lol didnt know what age you were thats why i used a 27year old as an example! Thought you were older than 19 - happy birthday then when it comes!

It dosent matter what age you are but how mature you are, i was about the same maturity level as Scott when we met lol thats why it worked. But as some people are saying I dont think it would work if she was still going to sleep overs etc etc but mind you I dont know any 16 year olds that do that sort of stuff!

[Zach]

My gf is the same, she also was going out at a young age, so we didnt come across any problems like i said above. But i have seen it kill alot of relationships with friends.

Exactly, fortunately my girlfriend has been out and had her freedom before we started going out, much like i did.

I cant imagine how awful it would be if she suddenly got an urge for freedom and decided that she wanted to go away with her friends, or wanted to go to town clubbing etc.

However, you could get this at any age difference, people mature at different times. Hence why couple with say a 6 year age gap, like a poster in this thread, can survive and be so happy, if you click you click i guess, often regardless of situation or age.

[Doyle]

Maybe the fact you need to ask others opinion shows that it might bother you, not saying it does or that its wrong just think about it...people will talk its just what happens its whether youre bothered by it

in all honesty theres not a lot left in this world that bothers me. i simply wanted to see what all your opinions on the matter was then i would know what other folk would think when they seen me with a 16 year old lassie. as long as i know the general veiw of folk i t wont bother me, its the unknown that annoys me, people that dont say things to my face and cower away.

i think i will persue her and see what happens...if anything.

[Jagztorious]

you don't need to be going to clubs and pubs to have a good relationship!.. age doesn't mean shit (must be legal though for christ sake!! ) ..

[Chris]

Age ain't nothing but a number.

My mate is 29 and has just got with an 18 year old and she's a great girl. I take my hat off to my mate for pulling such a decent young bird tbh.

I was going out with a woman who was 5 years older than me and had 2 kids, one was 10 and the other was 12... Wish I was still with her at times... had a brilliant relationship and I got on really really well with the kids too.

Chris :)

[Doyle]

i must admit in this picture she does look a lto younger.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y161/LuckyDoyle/.jpg

[betty02]

in all honesty theres not a lot left in this world that bothers me. i simply wanted to see what all your opinions on the matter was then i would know what other folk would think when they seen me with a 16 year old lassie. as long as i know the general veiw of folk i t wont bother me, its the unknown that annoys me, people that dont say things to my face and cower away.

i think i will persue her and see what happens...if anything.

Does it really matter what other people think pal?

You like the girl, she likes u, you get on your togeather thats all that should matter, its about what u2 think and feal, fuck everyone else opinions.

White to me could be black to you its you opinion at the end of the day doesnt matter i will still call it white

[Jagztorious]

let me guess.. that pic went up on here bebo homepage!

WHY DO THEY DO THAT!!! TAKE A PIC OF THEMSELVES WITH THE PHONE CLEARLY VISIBLE!!

she's cute though

[Nick_T]

Doyle, how could you?? :(
:P

Just try with her for a while mate, if it works out then age wont make a blind bit of difference, my mrs is older than me :D

[Clouds_mate]

http://i187.photobucket.com/albums/x259/NymphoNinja/jailbait-1-1.jpg

[Amiee]

lol didnt know what age you were thats why i used a 27year old as an example! Thought you were older than 19 - happy birthday then when it comes!

It dosent matter what age you are but how mature you are, i was about the same maturity level as Scott when we met lol thats why it worked. But as some people are saying I dont think it would work if she was still going to sleep overs etc etc but mind you I dont know any 16 year olds that do that sort of stuff!

Lol thanks yeh.. still pretty young still meself!

I agree its about maturity but at the end of the day a 16 can be however mature they are still fairly restricted as to what they can do, and IMO that can hold things back.

My sister has just turned 17, her bf is 20 soon but she got with him just before her 16th bday. Caused a few probs with my dad when he found out. But they are still together and are thinking of moving in together in a year or so time. So it can work.. but there age gap isnt too large. She also looks alot older and doesnt affect them going out or anything like that.

[Modified]

not sure to be fair seems a little werid but hey thats all the rage these days

im 22 and elisa is 19 :) been together almost year and half now :)

[Saxovts22]

im 22 and my other half is 18 we been together for couple years got a daughter its all sweet bruv crack on

[Doyle]

let me guess.. that pic went up on here bebo homepage!

WHY DO THEY DO THAT!!! TAKE A PIC OF THEMSELVES WITH THE PHONE CLEARLY VISIBLE!!

she's cute though

nope her bebo homepage makes her look about 15!

in person i couldve swore she was 18/19.

[Saxovts22]

http://i187.photobucket.com/albums/x259/NymphoNinja/jailbait-1-1.jpg


Nice one Leckie - pretty good

[Tupps]

I'd do time for that tbh

[boz]

age is nothing tbh

although you may get some stick from her parents and that, but you know her dad would do they same, if a younger bird came along for him. he would be hanging out the back end of her as well.


i have been with younger birds and older birds (id shag a warm sock lol), at the end of the day, its how you feel about each other that matters, sod everyone else.

[GrantW]

I was seeing a 16 year old for a couple of weeks back in January, it didnt work out as she was just too young, couldnt go to the pub etc. She was quite mature, but it just didnt feel right. Im 20 btw. Now im with a 25 year old who I get on great with, but she was worried about the age gap at first, I dont think it bothers her now at all.

[boz]

im 26 and my lass is 49.

we are starting to go to bingo together, its so much fun.

[boz]

i have the best of everything, she has a daughter a year younger than me, one 2 years younger and a 16yr old
i can take my pic ;)

[Doyle]

i have the best of everything, he has a daughter a year younger than me, one 2 years younger and a 16yr old
i can take my pic ;)


can you explain this simpler?

[Keefo]

awwwwwwwww pics have gone! keef no see!

[matt_vtr_15]

can you explain this simpler?

hes a lucky motherfucker basically

[boz]

lol
i can nail either of them, they aint fussy.

monday night can be bingo night and old pussy

tuesday night can be a drink with the one the same age as me

wednesday night can be with with the 22yr old

thursday night can be at the cinema with the schoolie and having a bottle of white lightening.

then saturday can be a mash up of them all.

[boz]

we will be on the jeremy kyle show soon.

my lass is getting jelous of her kids and me.

[jaybiss]

shes still at school, will you make her dinner so she can sit down and watch the simpsons before she does her homework?

its sick, i bet she just sees older bf, car and money tbh

couldnt do it myself

[boz]

you can mould her into what you want ;)

do all of her homework for her, get her top marks, mint well paid job and shit.

show her all the moves in the sack, you could be onto a winner there my friend ;)

and you have a better chance of her not being damaged / used goods ;)

your an embassador pathing the way for this young girls future

[Saxo-Will]

cba to look at all the posts but i would say... depends on what your both looking for.

If its an actually relationship then i would say go for it, but just remember they usually get jealous easier/quicker and the whole not going out 2gether to clubs n stuff.

But for a fun time (unless she is really willing) i would say no as the youngr they are, the more open there heart is. They'll end up saying they love you and your kinda stuck... then parents come after you with pitchforks and grenades because you done a runner lol

[Ferg]

Its not just that. But like someone else said. When they learn to drive, start going on holidays with friends it all changes. They get a glimce of freedom and stuff.

Luckly i killed my single days from 15-18 when i first started going clubing. Come 18-19 i had enough of the single life, lads holidays and getting messy most nights of the week.

My gf is the same, she also was going out at a young age, so we didnt come across any problems like i said above. But i have seen it kill alot of relationships with friends.

Absolutely spot on... been there, done that. I'd been through my stage of freedom, the ex clearly had not and that doomed the relationship tbh...

I personally think the age gap is too much...

[Robb]

http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f90/Slammd/Mot/1220year20olds.jpg

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[Tupps]

That last one Robb

I'd nail the shit out of all them

[Robb]

Same, one after the other.

One on left first though.

[Peejous]

http://www.evilmilk.com/pictures/More_Jailbait.jpg

[Tupps]

One on the right tbh

[Ferg]

All of the birds on the car would get back axel treatmeant tbh...

[Jules]

LOL this threads heading for the gutter!!

[Tupps]

Won't be long before it's locked imo

[Peejous]

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[Jules]

Won't be long before it's locked imo

Lol true - so you had better make the most of it guys lol

[Tupps]

*Saves pictures for later use*

[Keefo]

yeah!! get the pics back up of her!! KEEF NEEDS TO SEEEEEEEEEEE ARGH!

[boz]

id fill them all

[dsh85]

spamtastic! nice pics though