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gozzy-vtr
19th May 2008, 15:37
we met 5 weeks ago n i remeber at the begining, i couldnt belive my luck! shes very good looking n very sweet. but i used to look forward to seein her, she never used to leave my mind. now i dont think about her much, dont really look forward to seeing her n i dont feel like this is right. do u think its just cos we have got to no eachother now n its just got boring, or is somethin wrong.

been in lots of 4 week realtionships n im not bothered cos i dont love her but im not sure whether to hold on or not. im sure somethin aint right

97vtr
19th May 2008, 15:38
if ur bored just hammer her once more then bin her n go on the hunt once agen

VtsTom
19th May 2008, 15:38
If she takes it up the arse shes a keeper

MK2SLAG
19th May 2008, 15:39
well something isnt obviously rite lol

erm..... cant say ive ever experienced anything like this before,hmmm,have a chat with her?not much we can do on here tbh

saxo_asa
19th May 2008, 15:41
If youre that bored in 5 weeks then fcuk it and chuck it

Peejous
19th May 2008, 15:43
Clearly nothing there mate if your already bored...

Tupps
19th May 2008, 15:43
Thread is gash without pics

Doyle
19th May 2008, 15:43
its simple, u have just gotten used to her, happened to me, took 6 months of seeing each other everyday but it did happen.

you either a) break it off now. b) hold on and try different things, i.e. mix it up a little go to places u never went to etc, and if you feel nothing its flushing time. or c) keep her as a friend with benifits!

Oli_K
19th May 2008, 15:44
i thought the same, now i miss her to death and she has moved on. Difficult situation.

ShaneVtr
19th May 2008, 15:49
Me and gf see eachother like every other day, keeps abit of tension and excitement when we see eachother because i miss her and she misses me (i hope :P) and i get time for my mates :y: win.

Id say bin ftw

gozzy-vtr
19th May 2008, 15:50
if ur bored just hammer her once more then bin her n go on the hunt once agen

we aint shagged. she wont let me....

If she takes it up the arse shes a keeper

above...

pike0
19th May 2008, 15:52
we aint shagged. she wont let me....



above...

Maybe thats whats wrong then!?

Will def improve the situation matey

baker556
19th May 2008, 15:52
if you see her alot everyday etc then just leave it 2 days apart or three days then go see her again and your feel the same happend to me ! but this does work just give it a shot also try going out different places etc and plus once youve been with her a while you will probably make sexy time and then like her even more !

Amiee
19th May 2008, 15:52
Maybe due to the fact you said you have alot of 4 week relationships, whats the point? lol

5 weeks is nothing. Either you have a very small attention span an get bored easily or your looking for something that aint there?

Either way if you liked in the 1st place, whats there not to like about her now?

Ruddy
19th May 2008, 15:53
pics of bird

Marcos
19th May 2008, 15:53
^^ thats probs why your getting bored of her lol

VtsTom
19th May 2008, 15:53
Fuck the fridged bitch off.

Actualy i was with my missus for 2 months before we did sleep together.

If your happy when your with her, stop thinking about the future and just go with the moment.

But when you do get use your gentleman vegitable, slip it in the wrong-en. If she freaks out, hand her her coat, if she loves it, buy a ring.

ShaneVtr
19th May 2008, 15:55
If she aint putting out after 5 weeks...

http://thxforthe.info/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/jailbait3.jpg

must be jailbait

gozzy-vtr
19th May 2008, 15:59
its not all about that at all, as i say she is a great girl just want your advise on what to do to try and keep her cos dont wanna loose her

Marcos
19th May 2008, 16:07
^^ thats probs why your getting bored of her lol

gozzy-vtr
19th May 2008, 16:08
^^ thats probs why your getting bored of her lol

as uve siad, but as ive said i dont think thats the issue

VtsTom
19th May 2008, 16:36
Just dont worry about what your feeling. If your having a laugh in each others company, continue. When it becomes a bore, look elsewere

kylie
19th May 2008, 17:07
try and spice things up a bit. things probably will do yer head in a bit if you've seen her pretty much everyday for the past 5 weeks. and the fact that you're not sleeping together probably wont be helping. but you can have fun without having to sleep together.

maybe go out somewhere fun just the 2 of ya like a theme park or summits (dont know how old ya are) but then ya can sort of bond like mates aswell.

or go out for fancy meal then go on to the pub after both get hammered. this way you're just thinkin about havin a laugh rather than being bored and dwelling on things.

or both have a night in, get her to dress up for ya or summits but let her no that you wont be sleeping together, its just for the fun and to spice things up a bit.

also, maybe leave it a few days/week before you see each other again. if you dont think about her much in this space then yur not really too fussed about wether you see her again or not. whereas if you do, and you start to wish she was there with ya, then maybe its just something that will take a bit of time, but is worth holding on to.