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artnmotion
30th June 2005, 23:16
smileys/smiley13.gif Split up with the GF after 4 and half years, just over 3 weeks ago and still smileys/smiley13.gif

What can i do to make me happyer????

Any ideas???

Scott
30th June 2005, 23:20
chin up dom, get your mates together and go out on the piss big time

artnmotion
30th June 2005, 23:22
done that but they end up going places i don't want to because me and the ex went there alot.

boz
30th June 2005, 23:28
Nightmare mate smileys/smiley13.gif .
take ur nice looking car out to a country lane and raz it around for a bit smileys/smiley2.gif normally works for a few mins then not sure what to do after that smileys/smiley5.gif smileys/smiley4.gif
keep ur chin up tho smileys/smiley2.gif

Scott
30th June 2005, 23:31
weekend break to amsterdamsmileys/smiley4.gif

boz
30th June 2005, 23:40
lol smileys/smiley2.gif

artnmotion
30th June 2005, 23:42
Done that again last night Boz was fun then got broad because the car keeps on over heating and i can't drive for long any more smileys/smiley13.gif

I think i need to get it to the garage again.

My weekend break has started tonight getting pissed again.

boz
30th June 2005, 23:49
sorry to hear that mate.
getting pissed sounds good to me pal. put some good tunes on and relax n think of nowt!! LOL smileys/smiley2.gif

Yates
30th June 2005, 23:57
get a new bird! i spilt with one bird i was serious with bout 2 n half years ago, thought bout her loads, didnt have another gf in all that time, just shagged bout lol, no one wud compare, then found a lass i thought was unreal, jus smiled at her then later on she came over to me, being seein her for 4 months now n its goin better than ever!

if all else fails get some porn and wank

boz
30th June 2005, 23:59
LOL, straight to the point!! smileys/smiley17.gif

stuartQPR1
1st July 2005, 00:17
kust keep your head up mate and stay busy. Go out and have fun with your mates and try to move on the best way you can. After all you knever know when you might find somebody else who you will feel the same about

sax_bomb
1st July 2005, 00:25
New car smileys/smiley2.gif

Matt

bubbles
1st July 2005, 01:18
me n my bf split up and i felt like shit went out got pissed all time then 3months later we got bk together n things r great now - not going on holiday together now but everything is great! just take day at a time get pissed have a shag with few girls n urll get bk together no doubt! x
sorry to hear that thou i know how u feeling if u wanna chat send us a mgs i dont mind honest x

luisax
1st July 2005, 01:29
yeah mate it feels so s**t when u split. as every1 said, jus keep ur chin up and over time it will get better - it will take time for it to get easier because of all the memories etc, one day u'll meet sum1 that will make u just as happy. i split with my gf a while ago but we sorted it all out and got back together - and its gr8 with her now. if its right then u wil get back with her. hope it all sorts out soon

frilla
1st July 2005, 03:01
whenever i get depressed i go out with the lads, takes your mind of things! try not 2 think bout them and time heals!

artnmotion
1st July 2005, 03:13
thanks for all your comments going out tomorrow on the piss now smileys/smiley4.gif

Just come back from the Pub and one on the fruit machine a few time and now i am £23 up after a few drinks smileys/smiley4.gif Spot on time.

jaybiss
1st July 2005, 03:19
good lad

just keep ur mind off her

buy ur self something nice (for the car smileys/smiley17.gif )

hope u get back to your old self soon

boz
1st July 2005, 03:25
sounds like a cunning plan! smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley4.gif smileys/drink.gif

Dan
1st July 2005, 04:50
yeah i was going to say get something new for the car to treat yourself.

best thing is to have mates around you.

Deanlppl
1st July 2005, 11:19
Go up yates tonight artnmotion, or hogshead, their always a great laugh, went out last night and im totally knackered, btw chicago's is crap on a friday.

rsands
1st July 2005, 13:28
don't look at the past mate! what is meant to be will happen in its own time! if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be!

your just in that initial period were you and everyone else would feel depressed. as said...go out with the lads to a nite club...pull a few women and hey presto..she'll be out of your mind in no time! smileys/smiley20.gif

nixy9
1st July 2005, 13:32
i got a perfect idea, get your bum to Max Power Live this weekend, the amount of nice cars and even nicer women will leave you thinkingerm why was i sad again?? smileys/smiley5.gif

you no it makes sence smileys/smiley4.gif

Yates
1st July 2005, 13:37
its only 3 weeks so ur bound to stil b hurting, just get on with it all, dont sit around doin nowt cos it wil get to u, if u get out n get on with things ul feel better with out noticing

iwannasaxo
1st July 2005, 17:00
used to be a player smileys/smiley9.gif but then i met this one gal and she meant sooooooo much to me. she lived quite far away and was quite hard o seeing he, had to take the train as i havent got a car yet. then we decided to split up after 11 months 2geva and it really hurt me! smileys/smiley13.gif im still in contact with her and go out with her and our mates and we so close now. Not 2geva but close. And they do say absence makes the heart grow fonder. give your gf time she might see sense! smileys/smiley4.gif

al_VTR
1st July 2005, 21:53
unfortunately it does hurt for a while mate. like others have said, try to keep yourself occupied so you don't think about her too much. make sure your matesare around & you go out on the town loads.

Girlscanrace2
1st July 2005, 22:01
it feels horrible when you split me and scotty_04 split up about a month ago smileys/smiley19.gif and it is still very hard i tryed to take my mind of it by going out with my mates usualy cheers you up but takes abit of time before your on the mend again try doing things to keep you occupied

saxobaby
1st July 2005, 22:04
Second that Nat, time is the best healer unfortunatly smileys/smiley2.gif

artnmotion
1st July 2005, 23:25
Again thanks for your support people.

Going out tonight on the piss and tomorrow.

Going to get hammered loads of smileys/drink.gif smileys/drink.gif

Girlscanrace2
1st July 2005, 23:43
enjoy your self dont be down be happy! smileys/smiley9.gif

boz
2nd July 2005, 03:19
saxobaby and girlscanrace2 hit the nail on the head mate.
Its hard when you have spent a big chunk of your life with someone, then all of a sudden they are not there by your side! and you forget what you used to do before they came along!
There is a great drink to help you forget, move on and make you feel happy and it goes by the name of JD & COKE! smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley2.gif
Go out and be merry my friend smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley17.gif smileys/smiley4.gif

boz
2nd July 2005, 03:21
And remember, " may the force be with you!" smileys/smiley2.gif

sorry, i couldnt resist smileys/smiley9.gif

artnmotion
2nd July 2005, 22:50
JD & COKE thats all i drink really LOL