Holding grudges………

[leeroybrown]

Is it wrong me to old one against a person or should I work on the old "on that life is to short to hold a grudge"

Do you hold grudges?

[Connor_scotland]

yep i hold grudges

Payback is quality :-)

[AdamW]

Holding a grudge is too much effort.......

I just ignore people I hate

[Barry123]

I hate plenty of people for no reason whatsoever.

[Clouds_mate]

I dont hold grudges but i do remember everything and one day it will work in my favour.

[Tupps]

Grudges are abit shit, probs cause yourself more pain than it's worth

Don't just forget about it though...

[craig180]

Grudges are gay. We should all get on with each other.

You never know when you might actually need said person

F***ing lol at the above avatars :p

[Jazz]

Don't hold grudges myself, doesn't mean you have to love that person, but just so one doesn't manifest hatred in one's inner soul lol :chinese:

[Amiee]

Lol I like to hold grudes for some reason, its fun :y:

[JC-Furio]

No point holding grudges, get on with it, but don't forget about whatever they've done...

Although saying that I didn't speak to someone for 6 months because he ate my kitkat. Cunt.

[Keefo]

hold grudges!!

depends what the grudge is about tho.... haha

[potatopete]

No point holding grudges, get on with it, but don't forget about whatever they've done...

Although saying that I didn't speak to someone for 6 months because he ate my kitkat. Cunt.


That's a bit over the top. no? Good one!!

[Tupps]

Although....

A lad once tried to injure me in football, still plays with us now and everytime i get the opportunity i seriously crunch the f*cker

Great mates with him - but on the pitch he's an absolute chopper

[Cal]

he's an absolute chopperYou've seen his penis?

[Danr]

I don't really hold Grudges. No one really offends me enough. There are some people i don't get along with but it's not really a grudge. I just think they are cunts. :)

[Jamie]

I hold grudges, if someone pisses me off enough.

i never forget/forgive

And im always seeking retribution if the chance pops up

[fossie]

Nah i dont hold grudges either, nee point to be fair...... holding grudges just pisses yourself off

[vtrjay]

i dont like too as you never know when you might need them! i think its best too be kool with everyone and then atleast your not nown as a twat or what ever! be sound with everyone and they will be same too you usually!!

[Tupps]

You've seen his penis?

One of your poor'er efforts

[Barry123]

One of your poor'er efforts

i won't lie... i laughed.

[Clouds_mate]

Guy that spat in my face last week. Im not annoyed. But wait until i see him go for a piss in the pub. I will follow him in and set the cunt alight.

[Barry123]

In all honesty, I don't really hold grudges in massive, emo-style 'I hate the world' type grudge.

I'm bitter about my ex-girlfriend, and that pisses me off as I don't want to hold grudges but fucking can't control myself when it comes to her. arhhh

Guy that spat in my face last week. Im not annoyed. But wait until i see him go for a piss in the pub. I will follow him in and set the cunt alight.

what the shit? fo real?

[Cal]

Guy that spat in my face last week. Im not annoyed. But wait until i see him go for a piss in the pub. I will follow him in and set the cunt alight.See you Sunday petal

[potatopete]

wait until i see him go for a piss in the pub. I will follow him in and set the cunt alight.


Flammable urine?

[Karl]

@ Adsayer.
'I boinked her.'

[Mark51]

Is it wrong me to old one against a person or should I work on the old "on that life is to short to hold a grudge"

Do you hold grudges?

yeah i hold grudges, i still think your a mong. ijoke

[Barry123]

@ Adsayer.
'I boinked her.'

I'll nut her if I see her.

[Karl]

Whys she wind you up so much ads?

[Clouds_mate]

She gave him aidz lols.

[Tupps]

Sax-p meet in wakey to watch the footy imo

[Barry123]

Whys she wind you up so much ads?

because she's an arse

She gave him aidz lols.

and she gave me aidz.

[Karl]

O rly?
Serious business then...lol.

[Barry123]

not just any aidz... no, she gave me terminal face-aidz

[Adamski]

generally i dont as im prob one of the most placid people you will ever meet. but there is that level where if you annoy me past a point then your as good as fucked and i will hate you with a complete passion and your pretty much unlikely to ever recover from it lol!

[Yates]

I don't told grudges, like others say, don't forget what they did, or said...

Question is, who believes what goes around comes around? They do something say something to piss you off, do you hope that it happens to them, do you hope that they would find themselves in that exact situation as you? I wonder if they would like it if I said and did the things they did.

When you have situations where 'grudges' come up, I always think, I wonder if it was the other way around, would I of done the same? Say your mate went with an ex, you could then get pissed off, but if it was other way around, would you of done it?
Thats my view on all things when a situation occurs. Or maybe they say something totally out of order, I think would I of done that? Suppose its down to what they say really...

[Mattt-VTR]

We all hold grudges, just remember ''revenge is a dish best served cold'' ;)...

[JimoVTR]

I hold grudges.

Just the way I am.... got a grudge towards a couple of family members.... wont speak to them till they say sorry.

[James]

I hold one grudge, most things I let slide and as Yates says what goes around comes around.. but if someone does something to hurt ya, then delibratlly winds you up about it & rubs it in your face the 'what goes around' goes out the window in my opinion.

[Yates]

I hold one grudge, most things I let slide and as Yates says what goes around comes around.. but if someone does something to hurt ya, then delibratlly winds you up about it & rubs it in your face the 'what goes around' goes out the window in my opinion.

I know what your saying, but depends where it is, Internet then I really dont care, its a mask for insecure people imo, just try to make them feel better about themselves. Say it to my face and its a whole new ball game.

[leeroybrown]

But isnt life to short to piss about with grudges......should we take them to grave?

[Jazz]

But isnt life to short to piss about with grudges......should we take them to grave?

If they're grudges for a very good reason then so be it, but I think you'd feel a weight off your shoulders if you cleared the air sometime. Can't be nice living your life hating.

Having said that, sometimes hating is inevitable. If someone disrespected me or my family, until they said sorry I'd keep living knowing they're a dirty-cunt. Don't know if that counts as a grudge or not.

Whatever the case it can't feel good inside, surely.

[Cal]

Nail on the head Jazz tbh

[Yates]

Having said that, sometimes hating is inevitable. If someone disrespected me or my family, until they said sorry I'd keep living knowing they're dirty-cunt. Don't know if that counts as a grudge or not.

Whatever the case it can't feel good inside, surely.

Thats a very good point, I cant help but think that if they are insultaing or disrespecting your family, then they are jealous of what you have.

Im sure it doesnt feel good inside, I wouldnt know the feeling

But like i said, i dont hold grudges, but i always remember whats said

[Tupps]

Jazz and Yates have it down to a tee

[djrem]

i held a grudge once in year 8.
Was pointless because it turns out it was the wrong kid.

If someone pisses me off, id rather ridicule them on the spot, shake hands behind the scenes and carry on.

[Clouds_mate]

pahaha. I actually held a grudge with someone in year 9. Totally forgot about it. Its actually embarrasing thinking about it lol.

[shooorn94]

Leeroy take a look at this thread:

Grudges and stubbornness. (http://www.saxperience.com/forum/showthread.php?p=2346966#post2346966)


Still haven't spoke to the bloke in the thread as tbh I can't be bothered with someone if they can't be man enough to apologise for their actions. He said he wouldn't apologise due to him being too stubborn (he told my mate this) so I'm technically holding a grudge against him i guess? :p

[Tupps]

pahaha. I actually held a grudge with someone in year 9. Totally forgot about it. Its actually embarrasing thinking about it lol.

Tell us more tbh

[Clouds_mate]

Involved a girl, a mate, beer and me not been there.

[Tupps]

Involved a girl, a mate, beer and me not been there.

I once had a grudge for a good few year... then i savaged him when i seen him in a club and realised after that i had the wrong end of the stick

We're pretty good mates now

[djrem]

Leeroy take a look at this thread:

Grudges and stubbornness. (http://www.saxperience.com/forum/showthread.php?p=2346966#post2346966)


Still haven't spoke to the bloke in the thread as tbh I can't be bothered with someone if they can't be man enough to apologise for their actions. He said he wouldn't apologise due to him being too stubborn (he told my mate this) so I'm technically holding a grudge against him i guess? :p

Mr X is a catagory one mong.

[Mikey]

i think its a girl thing to hold grudges. as in women hate each other foreva. like my mrs hates a girl for lending her lip stick and she didnt give it her back till the morning after the night out...lol who gives a fcuk.

im to lazy to hold grudges lol

[kcsaxo]

absolutely but it depends on what was done to me, theres some people i will never forgive.

[Recovery]

i will never forget some things, and i suppose it depends on the situation as to wether or not i will hold a grudge

[Pat_Vts]

not really bothered but i will treat those like shite if i dont like them lol

[Tanya-VTR]

Depends who it is and what they've done to piss me off, cant beat abit a revenge from time to time :boxing:

But a majority of the time no, im a very laid back person

[Lauraaaa]

i dont hold grudges i hate people for like a week and then forget about it lol like who didnt i like again :oops: x

[mikey362vtr]

I hold grudges, For about a day and only at work against my supervisors coz they really dont have a clue lol.

Other than that only as jokes like my best mate she left my wipers up after work so the next day i wrapped her car up in hazard tape lol was good fun :P.

[Mk1VTR]

i dont grudges but im a firm believer that if ya have a problem with someone say to them and if it ends up a fight leave it at that. when the fights over just forget about!

[Leedo]

dont get worked up over grudges just remember what that person done and leave it bee untill they are feeling rely down and need help then you show your haterd by making life worse for them and saying u done it to me cu*t have it back.

[pollard313]

I dont hold grudges really. My mate on the other hand does. We made him a facebook page and edited it in a slight way he may not have liked. Didnt tell him because he slates FB all the time. Added all his friends. Made a few wall posts and then added his brother lolMy mate found and emailed FB telling them to take it off and now he hasnt spoke to any of us in 3 weeks.

What a gayer

[leeroybrown]

I still hold the grudges even after this thread.....

[Tupps]

I still hold the grudges even after this thread.....

awwww

you have plenty of frendz tho so u'll be kk

[Amiee]

I still hold the grudges even after this thread.....

How did you think this thread was going to improve the grudges you hold in any way?

[leeroybrown]

Agreed... minus you so its alll good!

[Tupps]

Agreed... minus you so its alll good!

Oh nooooo

PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAS E be my friend

I need you for when i get a clio

You can tweek it at the F1 club to get it better than Cal's

[leeroybrown]

Ask Camp David

[Amiee]

Waiting for me reply still lol

[Tupps]

Ask Camp David

Does he know more than you?

[leeroybrown]

How did you think this thread was going to improve the grudges you hold in any way?

Did i say it would???...NOPE!

[leeroybrown]

Does he know more than you?

A child in Primary school knows more then you Ian

[Amiee]

I still hold the grudges even after this thread.....

Did i say it would???...NOPE!

1st post suggests other wise... lol :drink:

[Tupps]

A child in Primary school knows more then you Ian

Speaking of mentality of children...

How are you today?

[jaybiss]

Speaking of mentality of children...

How are you today?

is that Andy from Little Britain in your avatar? ;)

play nicely boys...

[Tupps]

Yes it's Andy.... *snigger*

"I want that one"

[leeroybrown]

Fine

Waiting for you to be sacked for gross misconducted within the workplace....

[Tupps]

Fine

Waiting for you to be sacked for gross misconducted within the workplace....

Won't happen

FACT

Also - Why are you waiting for that lol

[leeroybrown]

If you worked for me you would either be sacked or giving a warning

Any out burst like that whether provoked or not, should not be tolerated within the workplace

[Clouds_mate]

paha. Couldnt write a book on this shit.

[Tupps]

If you worked for me you would either be sacked or giving a warning

Any out burst like that whether provoked or not, should not be tolerated within the workplace

Thanks for that Lee

I'll bear it in mind if i ever have you as a boss

[leeroybrown]

Your Welcome...

[Tupps]

Would you like me to send you my avatar so you can join in the fun ?

[Karl]

lol @ the tags for this thread.

[Tupps]

If you worked for me you would either be sacked or giving a warning

Any out burst like that whether provoked or not, should not be tolerated within the workplace

Anybody who worked under me would not be allowed to sit on a car forum all day either

I'm such a hard case

[leeroybrown]

No thanks Ian

Dont want to be a sheep like everyone else

Would hate to rip of your avatar

[Tupps]

*baaaaaaaaah*

[Cal]

Oh nooooo

PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAS E be my friend

I need you for when i get a clio

You can tweek it at the F1 club to get it better than Cal'sYou'll be needing one of these to make it better than mine Tuppy

http://i122.photobucket.com/albums/o280/leeroybrown_46/DSC00719.jpg

[Shellz]

I don't hold grudges easily. But some people don't deserve another chance! :(