Tupps/Yates/Cal/Kelly....

[leeroybrown]

I've had a little think today after a work colleague asked me a question, “Has much changed for you in the last year”

Obvious answer is yes.

One thing that did stick in my mind, were you lot

A year ago we were all laughing and carrying on....Oh how much that has changed to the point it is now which is, just pure hatred towards each other
I do understand that some of my actions and comments towards either of you would have been deeply hurtful, especially towards Matt and Tupps or just pure stupid (Cal).

Its now at the point I cant even make a thread without an arguement taking place between one of us, which is rather Pathetic

Heat of the moment I suppose, I tend to engage the keys on the board and think rationally, instead of gauging the brain before I reply.

As you have seen I get wound up very easily and react in the wrong way, am I more so to blame than anyone else, but most of the time some of the things said towards me are to provoke a reaction, so we are each to blame.
I am not begging for forgiveness, just telling it how it is...life it too short to hold a grudge..

Take this as you wish....at least I am trying to make amends.

[Ashleyp]

never understood how you guys fell out? sorry if its not my place to comment

:hug:

[Danr]

OMG you sound like such a woman. I mean come on mate, don't let the door hit you on the vagina when you go to work tomorrow.

iJoke, heartfelt man. I agree that this should all be sorted and we can all be friends again. I liked it when you guys were like the Brady Bunch.

[leeroybrown]

Its not like that Dan just about time the record was set straight and sorted

[Danr]

I know mate, was having a play. We shall see if this ends up in one big bickering thread. May be worth some personal pm's as well mate.

[Robb]

You not got these guys MSNs?

[_sexy_saxo_]

well done Leeroy, at least your man enough to try and make amends!!!

Kiss and make up boys... lifes to short ;)

[Ryan]

and this thread WILL remain abuse free or as per pms, infractions for those involved.

[-Jason-]

Glad someone has done the decent thing

Well done lee

[Mitchell]

I mean come on mate, don't let the door hit you on the vagina when you go to work tomorrow.


i lul'd

[Kelly]

Right, well I'm not here to argue. Just to set things straight.

You know that I was going through a hard time last year and when I told you that some things you had said about others was out of order you reacted in such a way that makes me not want to speak to you again. You made me out to be a slut and mocked my relationship with Jay saying he was just another 'e-boyfriend' (which I might add I've never had). Did you not for one minute think that coming out of a long relationship wasn't as easy it looked. I had to be a complete and utter bitch just to make myself happy again and put myself first for once. All you did was make me feel worse about what I'd done when it would've happened anyway

I'll acknowledge your apology but that's all it is, an acknowledgement. I can be civilised when you're about but that's as far as it goes

[Darlo-paul]

Can't say I noticed but good luck with straightening things out between you and them. Its horrible to see people fighting on the forum. I guess I make myself a target so I deserve it. Tbh if they annoy you go with the old "I know you are but what am I" never fails tbh :P

[Tupps]

I'll acknowledge your apology but that's all it is, an acknowledgement. I can be civilised when you're about but that's as far as it goes

Ditto.....

As for people saying "Well done Lee for being the better man and saying sorry"

NONE of you know what has been said to Matt and myself!!!

And i don't actually see an apology ? All i see if Lee saying "life's to short to hold a grudge"

[leeroybrown]

As for people saying "Well done Lee for being the better man and saying sorry"

I didn't ask for it...and the thread isnt intended to be anything like that!

[Kelly]

Ditto.....

As for people saying "Well done Lee for being the better man and saying sorry"

NONE of you know what has been said to Matt and myself!!!

And i don't actually see an apology ? All i see if Lee saying "life's to short to hold a grudge"

I know some of it

God I have to know everything don't I????

[Tupps]

I didn't ask for it...and the thread isnt intended to be anything like that!

So what is this thread implying?

There's no apology?

p-s Kelly i wasn't having a dig, was just agree'ing with the line i quoted

[Darlo-paul]

I think its more of a mutual thing... Just wants things to stop and nothing else to be said. Probably not my place to say but yeah. Freedom of speech and all that crap

[leeroybrown]

I think you have the brain power to work it out that it is one.....

[Kelly]

So what is this thread implying?

There's no apology?

p-s Kelly i wasn't having a dig, was just agree'ing with the line i quoted

i know :)

[_sexy_saxo_]

its daft really, because your all holding a grudge for Leeroy sayin some random rubbish, that was said over the past year ?? i pressume .... dont know the story.
Everyone can be bitchy .... you have all said hurtful, spiteful things to each other.... and its daft! Take it on the chin man, you bunch of women! lol
Do you ever think that you's all just clashed too much ? takes two too tango, and all that jazz.... :P

[Japman]

personally i dont think this thread should of been created

[Mitchell]

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[Ashleyp]

not trying to stick my nose in..

but i think its best if everyone who has no connection with the thread doesnt post in it

as we dont know what happend etc etc

[Danr]

personally i dont think this thread should of been created

Personally, i've missed Mitchell input into threads!

[mattchewone]

Didnt even realise anything had happened.

I dont know what has happened between you lot, all i can say is good luck trying to sort it all out.

[Cal]

Yeah well done Lee for saying life is too short etc... Top bloke LOL. Clueless, is the word. Try saying SORRY, try admitting to the whole forum publically exactly how much of an insensitive prick you've been.

I don't see what you want out of this thread? I don't argue with you anymore. And haven't done for a good while.

If Matt and Ian are ok with it, you should explain to everyone here exactly what you've said, same goes for my situation... I'm not bothered about more people knowing about it, can judge me all they like. I'm doing all I can to rectify it.

[Kelly]

its daft really, because your all holding a grudge for Leeroy sayin some random rubbish, that was said over the past year ?? i pressume .... dont know the story.
Everyone can be bitchy .... you have all said hurtful, spiteful things to each other.... and its daft! Take it on the chin man, you bunch of women! lol
Do you ever think that you's all just clashed too much ? takes two too tango, and all that jazz.... :P

When it's so personal it sends you in a rage then is there any wonder?

Please people if you don't have a clue what's gone on in full then don't comment

[Tupps]

Take it on the chin man, you bunch of women!

Clearly no idea what's been said....

[Robb]

Usually if 2 members direct more than 2 posts at each other usually they are told to PM or MSN...what different now?

[leeroybrown]

Works both ways Callum.....YOU lot can give abuse one way but cant take it when its thrown back

[Japman]

not trying to stick my nose in..

but i think its best if everyone who has no connection with the thread doesnt post in it

as we dont know what happend etc etc


if that was aimed at me then you can take it straight back pal cos i know most of it

if not then aplogizees

[Darlo-paul]

I think you have the brain power to work it out that it is one.....

I don't know if you realise your doing it, but your sorting of making cocky comments. Maybe im reading this wrong, but that was surely a sarcastic dig :homme: Ok, I won't get involved :P

[Kelly]

Yeah well done Lee for saying life is too short etc... Top bloke LOL. Clueless, is the word. Try saying SORRY, try admitting to the whole forum publically exactly how much of an insensitive prick you've been.

I don't see what you want out of this thread? I don't argue with you anymore. And haven't done for a good while.

If Matt and Ian are ok with it, you should explain to everyone here exactly what you've said, same goes for my situation... I'm not bothered about more people knowing about it, can judge me all they like. I'm doing all I can to rectify it.

Same here, I'm quite happy with Leeroy explaining what happened between the two of us to fall out. Not that it's as bad but you know, it will stop noobs that have no idea commenting

[Cal]

Works both ways Callum.....YOU lot can give abuse one way but cant take it when its thrown backYeah and its really on the same level isn't it... the petty abuse you recieved is justified and does not compare to what you have said. And as said... thats stopped, from me at least.

[Darlo-paul]

Takes two to tango comes to mind?

[Kelly]

Works both ways Callum.....YOU lot can give abuse one way but cant take it when its thrown back

Excuse me but I told you some home truths... my situation had naff all to do with you. Stop making digs because I'm not here to argue

[Danr]

Takes two to tango comes to mind?

mate, you haven't got a clue what's going on. Hush your noise.

[Ryan]

Please people if you don't have a clue what's gone on in full then don't comment

it might be best if i move it to a section you all use away from general chat to avoid the 'lets all kiss and have sexytime' when they dont know the history.

[Tupps]

Works both ways Callum.....YOU lot can give abuse one way but cant take it when its thrown back

Ok what's the purpose in this thread?

How's about you explain to the whole forum exactly what you've said to me and matt?

It's all good and well holding your hands up and saying "my bad" but what does it change, what's been said has been said.... and it was harsh

[leeroybrown]

And for the comments made towards Sarah she is full aware of the sitution....

[Japman]

i remember last year and how sax-p was so good then

me robb jacko tupps souless(karl) CAL used to take the complete piss out of everyone and anythinh it was such a laugh

i couldnt wait to get on ere

i hardly bother anymore as there are so many different groups and so much shit going on

its a put off :(

[shooorn94]

Edit: alot has been said since I started this:

Just out of interest how often do the lot of you see each other, Leeroy and the others? If it's only at the larger car meets etc. why are you making a big deal about something that has happened in the past, I see something large has happened but I'm sure it can easily be resolved, an apology isn't a hard thing to make (whoever caused the problem)

If however you go out into town with the same mates/live in the same area etc. and see each other every weekend then maybe I understand, I take it you all met over the internet (many moons back) and something that has been said has either been blown way out of proportion due to the fact it was a issue communicated via a forum or something that happened in person?
Whatever I'm not really interested.

My old best mate nearly killed my two good friends after a bit of road rage I haven't spoke to him since really I've tried to get in contact to state that I'm willing to accept an apology even though what he did was stupid and pathetic for a 21 year old bloke.

But if its just that you end up arguing in a thread all the time then I wouldn't bother tbh it is just the internet. I see the lot of you arguing all the time in different threads and really it is getting annoying, sort it out over pm's or get a mutual decision between you all. :y:

[DawsonWicked]

Sumbody explian whats been said and who is to blame please.

[Kelly]

it might be best if i move it to a section you all use away from general chat to avoid the 'lets all kiss and have sexytime' when they dont know the history.

Can't move to premium though buddy because Yates doesn't have it anymore iirc

[Darlo-paul]

mate, you haven't got a clue what's going on. Hush your noise.

haha I love these littles comments :P Ok i'll just read on :y:

[Ashleyp]

Takes two to tango comes to mind?

no offence, but you obv dont have a clue what happend, and nor do i, thats why its best not to try and get invloved

as said by japman, should have done this in private

[Ryan]

Can't move to premium though buddy because Yates doesn't have it anymore iirc

was thinking a regional section tbh, one away from so much of the 'general' traffic.

and those who just want to post so they can find gossip out or be nice for the sake of it.

I do believe after pms i sent to all recently perhaps a group discussion on moving forward might be needed. However I had felt alot of the 'crap' had died down and most were just ignoring each other.

[Darlo-paul]

no offence, but you obv dont have a clue what happend, and nor do i, thats why its best not to try and get invloved

as said by japman, should have done this in private

Aye its stupid I know just waiting for rem to get back from his bath. :panic:

[Luke]

Thread isn't needed in my opinion.

I know the shit that has gone on between Matt and Leeroy, not sure what happened with Cal but I can guess.

[_sexy_saxo_]

ahh well Leeroy, if they cant just take it on the chin, and at least half accept your "sorta" apology, at least you tried! lmfao

[Kelly]

ahh well Leeroy, if they cant just take it on the chin, and at least half accept your "sorta" apology, at least you tried! lmfao

honestly, just give in mate... you know nothing about it!

[Tupps]

ahh well Leeroy, if they cant just take it on the chin, and at least half accept your "sorta" apology, at least you tried! lmfao

Once again....

You don't know what's been said!!

I'm pretty sure 99% of people wouldn't take it on the chin

[kc51]

sorry i know nothing but its obvious to me and prob some others that leeroy is trying to make an apology to ya'll and brush it off your shoulder kinda thing, i know its prob alot more serius than i imagine but it sounds to me like yous are all just holding grudges for someone being a cunt??

everyone has there time and place to be a cunt IMO and maybe that day-week-month-whatever was leeroys time so just let it lie and try sort it civily

my 2p, and im nosey aswell:)

[Japman]

from what ive heard i wouldnt be happy

broke a guys arms and legs when i was 12 for a simily reason

young offenders home was offered to me aswell

[_sexy_saxo_]

i know alot more than you's think ..... and i agree that some things have been hurtful, more to Tupps and Yates .......
Leeroys got a gob on him, like me, cant keep gob shut, lol

but i think the others included in the thread should just take it on the chin ......

[Japman]

left hooker ftw

[Kelly]

i know alot more than you's think ..... and i agree that some things have been hurtful, more to Tupps and Yates .......
Leeroys got a gob on him, like me, cant keep gob shut, lol

but i think the others included in the thread should just take it on the chin ......

Yeah well it's not your business is it?

[goldenfurio]

Ano what he did to cal and tbh it was low if hes done as bad to others he is a dick tbh.

[_sexy_saxo_]

Yeah well it's not your business is it?

maybe not but all im sayin is he only called you a slapper ..... and worse... lol
nowt to be ashamed of pet, theres thousands in the world.

[Japman]

Ano what he did to cal and tbh it was low if hes done as bad to others he is a dick tbh.

he aint a dick mate

[Tupps]

i know alot more than you's think ..... and i agree that some things have been hurtful, more to Tupps and Yates .......
Leeroys got a gob on him, like me, cant keep gob shut, lol

but i think the others included in the thread should just take it on the chin ......

OTHERS should do what? This has nothing to do with yourself?

Gav, After what was said to me i'd normally snap instantly and do the same thing

Takes the bigger man to walk away imo

For all those people who are humping leeroy and don't know anything about it..... if your dad died when you we're young and i laughed and made jokes about it saying "say night night to daddy for me" would you be happy?

Thought not!

P.s that's just ONE example of what has been said to me..... on more than one occasion, now should i just take it on the chin?

[mattchewone]

I know nothing as to what has happened but it seems to be pretty bad tbh. Would it not be best to keep this private as there seems to be a lot of spam from people who know nothing including myself.

Surely you guys should sort it out personally. Unless there is to be a public apology for what has been done.

[Kelly]

maybe not but all im sayin is he only called you a slapper ..... and worse... lol
nowt to be ashamed of pet, theres thousands in the world.

Then you obviously didn't get the whole story did you?

I love how you say he can't keep his gob shut but at the minute he's doing a fine job lol

[jaybiss]

maybe not but all im sayin is he only called you a slapper ..... and worse... lol
nowt to be ashamed of pet, theres thousands in the world.

You have proved how little you know...

You know leeroys side, there's two sides to every story. You're not involved so put your keyboard away

[-Jason-]

As people do not know the facts....yes this thread was a nice gesture but everyone who knows nothing about it is now thinking lee is the good guy including me so unless people are going to enlighten the rest of us I feel this thread should be stopped as all it will create is bias opinions of people.

[Ashleyp]

i think this thread should be left to the people involved! seems randomers trying to start an argument / tell people to calm down over something they know nothing about

dont want to get invloved myself, but as i say.. just leave it to the people invloved!

[Tupps]

Jason gti vts 106 nova skyline 180 read post 61

[Cal]

I don't see what this thread is going to achieve. I for one knowing full well what you are capable of will never even call you an 'e-buddy' let alone acknowledge in real life.

Aint gunna win you any more buddies for the xmas bash.

[_sexy_saxo_]

im not arguing with anyone, and yeah, maybe i do only know Leeroys side of things.
i agree that is pure shan Tupps ...... It is shallow!

But the likes of Kelly, none of you's are saying your side of things ........

Maybe its just a touching subject for you

[dobbo_1]

OTHERS should do what? This has nothing to do with yourself?

Gav, After what was said to me i'd normally snap instantly and do the same thing

Takes the bigger man to walk away imo

For all those people who are humping leeroy and don't know anything about it..... if your dad died when you we're young and i laughed and made jokes about it saying "say night night to daddy for me" would you be happy?

Thought not!

P.s that's just ONE example of what has been said to me..... on more than one occasion, now should i just take it on the chin?

thats out of order some people are just stupid in things they say, every one is never going to like everyone else but i dont see it being a problem aslong as topics keep on topics and the site isnt just arguments

[kc51]

As people do not know the facts....yes this thread was a nice gesture but everyone who knows nothing about it is now thinking lee is the good guy including me so unless people are going to enlighten the rest of us I feel this thread should be stopped as all it will create is bias opinions of people.



agree tbh

[-Jason-]

Jason gti vts 106 nova skyline 180 read post 61

Well sorry im watching tv to.

And tbh I have never met lee or spoke to him anyway but at the start of this thread he was showing signs of remorse.

But reading that he does seem out of line and I have met tupps and although he is quite angry hes a good guy so cant see why the comment is justified.

As for yates he seemed to have a few pops at me in the past but nothing I couldnt live with but havent met him either.

If the comment lee has made are the same as the ones he made to tupps then yes lee is in the wrong in a big way but showing remorse is a good sign for everyone

I know that doesnt make everything right but doesnt make it worse however everyone else banging on in this thread is just stiring things up

love you tupps "stop shouting at the xbox ian" astra

[jaybiss]

im not arguing with anyone, and yeah, maybe i do only know Leeroys side of things.
i agree that is pure shan Tupps ...... It is shallow!

But the likes of Kelly, none of you's are saying your side of things ........

Maybe its just a touching subject for you

why should people tell others the whole story, publish their personal lives on the net?

They dont have to. Remember all involved where close but lines where crossed and people provoked. Nothing will change apart from people involved won't ruin the site for the rest.

Case closed on this. It hasn't achieved its goal

[Kelly]

im not arguing with anyone, and yeah, maybe i do only know Leeroys side of things.
i agree that is pure shan Tupps ...... It is shallow!

But the likes of Kelly, none of you's are saying your side of things ........

Maybe its just a touching subject for you

You've already made your mind up about my side of things though saying I should just take it on the chin

You bounced in here with Leeroys side of things telling two of us to take it on the chin and you don't know the full story.

[jaybiss]

may I suggest the 5 involved take it to pm/ MSN if they wish to as we are not getting anywhere with everyone and their dog getting involved.

Theres more than one person in the wrong here.