What do i do?

[LVC_VTR]

Hi guys at the minute a lot of people seem to be having girlfriend trouble, well
im another and could do with some help.
last weekend i went down to london to visit my gf at uni.
we had a great time on friday nite and then went shopping all of saturday daytime. we then went out to a club on sat nite and had a good time aswell anyway i'll get to the point.
when we got back to her flat sat nite she decides to tell me that shes found a new man. :( some emo bastard that is probably the complete opposit to me.
thing is i was not expecting this and i thought our relationship would last through her being at uni as i loved her very much. i was really pissed off and just got pissed and went to sleep.
so far theres nothing i can do to help stop me thinking about it.
and im ashamed to say yes i have tried to drown my sorrows and go to strip clubs but none of this helps.
has anyone been through this or have any suggestions

[Gordzilla]

Sounds like she had trouble telling you or maybe she was giving it one last go with you before making up her mind ?

If you spent a shitload of money on her then you should be pissed off !!!

Do you still talk to her ? Is there any hope in trying your relationship again ?

[LVC_VTR]

i think she did have trouble telling me as i was so shocked to hear it
and i didnt spend that much but i havent spoken to her since sat nite in the morning i just got
my stuff and left as i didnt really want to speak to her

[Gordzilla]

If she doesn't contact you, she's a heartless bitch !

[LVC_VTR]

yeah you could say that but i saw a picture of this emo twat on her facebook and
he's proper fucking ugly so i dont know what she sees in him

[Bowey]

i think everyones had this happon all you can do is man up and have a laugh with the lads more thats all i did and all my mates have done

[mtpagey]

i'm in similar position...

went to lee evans gig on the thursday night, friday she said she needed some time on her own...

uni's have a lot to answer for :n:

[LVC_VTR]

cheers guys :y: its good to hear im not the only one
and i have to agree with you pagey unis do have a lot to answer for

[shooorn94]

cheers guys :y: its good to hear im not the only one
and i have to agree with you pagey unis do have a lot to answer for

Are you not at University yourself?

When I left for university 2 years ago I noticed that everyone who was in a relationship broke up before they left because they knew they wouldnt be able to hack a long distane thing, or tried it and came to an agreement that because of the distance issue that it'd be best to be apart.

I myself have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now 2 years at University ;) she went to leicester and I went to Birmingham, not too far:y:

There will be another lass bud don't worry too much about it, its annoying she found someone whilst she was still with you though and if she doesnt contact you shes a bit harsh.

[Ryan]

joys of uni.

Lost someone who thought was going to be my lifelong partner to uni..

shit happens life goes on, still here, still young just move on and bang some new hoe :D

[xbabii_gurlx]

if she dont contact you thats harsh just move on find someone better that always gets on girls nerves trust me im a girl if they know ur down about it it makes then feel better so just show her u dont care

[craigy_87]

went back to uni this year, left my gf recently. uni does somethin to ya lol

[Ryan]

went back to uni this year, left my gf recently. uni does somethin to ya lol

its the fact you can do as you please for 3 years then toodle off home and nobody there is for the wiser.

Girls can fuck anything in sight then go back to him 200miles away as '2 sexual partners' girls lol...

[craigy_87]

lol i still live at home mind you so not exactly like that with me but jesus there is a million good looking ladies at uni

EDIT: dont let the unicorn fool ya
<------- i like ladies

[Sophie123]

i lost my ex because of uni too....was gutting.

you get over it though.

[Ryan]

lol i still live at home mind you so not exactly like that with me but jesus there is a million good looking ladies at uni


mine its just full of fat birds or ASWs who want to dance to shitty rnb all night in OshityANA...

I pass on them lol..

I amdit though if i was at a big uni i prob wouldnt have got with my gf over the summer.

[Mr_suv]

that sucks so you went all the way there to be told that??? i dont blame you for just going in the morning mate .

apparently EMO's are very understanding or some sh*t like that my missus tell me personally i think its crap! youl find someone else probably ten times better

g out with mates and have a good laugh should help to keep your mind off of her

[craigy_87]

mine its just full of fat birds or ASWs who want to dance to shitty rnb all night in OshityANA...

I pass on them lol..

I amdit though if i was at a big uni i prob wouldnt have got with my gf over the summer.

waaaa not even a fat 1 to boost the confidence???

i think looking good was a condition for females to get into my uni, mind you there are a few that looking at them they must have snuck in on Clearing :fcuk:

[Ryan]

waaaa not even a fat 1 to boost the confidence???

i think looking good was a condition for females to get into my uni, mind you there are a few that looking at them they must have snuck in on Clearing :fcuk:

why fuck a fat bird to boost confidence when i can shag my gf.. I dont do fattys... shagging one would only make me suicidal, not confident.

[craigy_87]

..... just me then
pfft i say its just cos i got regular from the gf now nothing

[liamk15]

and im ashamed to say yes i have tried to drown my sorrows and go to strip clubs but none of this helps.
has anyone been through this or have any suggestions



why you ashamed to go to strip clubs there fuckin awsome.

may i suggest Amsterdam.

[Ryan]

..... just me then
pfft i say its just cos i got regular from the gf now nothing

plenty of easy girls out there if you are desperate, buy em a few drinks lol!

as said fattys are a no go area... i dont do charity work.

[Sophie123]

i dont see how sleeping with a fatty 'to boost your confidence' would actually boost it?

surely it would just make you feel like youve gone down in the world?? lol

[Ryan]

i dont see how sleeping with a fatty 'to boost your confidence' would actually boost it?

surely it would just make you feel like youve gone down in the world?? lol

exactly... LOL!!

itll give you more confidence to get with someone you like, who is hot, who has personailty etc... rather than banging 100 fat pigs whos bodies look like a beached whale in bed.

[liamk15]

fattys need loving too

just think you could really like her and in a few years time this could be yous











http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f55/daynalehman/fattys.jpg

[Sophie123]

tbh, id rather be getting none than have to lower my standards!

[Tony]

Plenty of relationships crumble when people go to uni, unfortunately people start new lives and have new people in their daily life and it becomes a case of 'out of site, out of mind' with their partners who are not at uni.

During my first year almost everyone split from who they were with before uni (including myself) and the only couple who didnt were bonking behind each others back.

Its shit but life moves on and you'll have a period of feeling shit, maybe really shit but you'll find someone else. Get yourself out and socialise and in places to meet new ladies. Even get yourself on something like Match.com if going out doesnt work.

[LVC_VTR]

cheers guys for all the advice and the laughs theres definatly some very funny people on
sax-p ive gotta agree with ryan tbh im not gonna just go shag a fat girl to boost my confidence
im just gonna forget it and go out with mates and have a good time :y:
thanks again sax-p youve made me feel a lot better

[alex19]

I hate how to world has gone into should a sex driven craze. :(

What ever happened to chastity and monogamy?

[VTR_paddy]

i feel for u buddy. i went to new york for a week in feb, i got back and found out my best mate was sleeping with her when i was gone. was heart broken. i did the wrong thing, and kaned the crap out of my saxo and got very drunk for a few days. i found doing something helped me take my mind of it. i used to do downhill mountain biking, so i got my old kona out, and stripped it down, to every bearing nut and bolt, re serviced it and re-built it. and the whole time i was doing it i stopped thinking of her. there probably no quick fix buddy but i really hope it all works out for ya.

[lsto]

Yeah bollocks to her mate, it happens to everyone sooner or later, happened to me last year, thats when i bought my vts. Spent my spare time gettin it bak on the road, which took my mind off it. Eventually you'll forget her and find something better. I did, you'll be ok, trust.

[Japman]

joys of uni.

Lost someone who thought was going to be my lifelong partner to uni..

shit happens life goes on, still here, still young just move on and bang some new hoe :D

x2 i lost my gf through uni i think

[Crunkers]

joys of uni.

Lost someone who thought was going to be my lifelong partner to uni..

shit happens life goes on, still here, still young just move on and bang some new hoe :D

thought you were old Ry :P

[alanrichie]

what do i do?

DRINK DANCE BABBLE :afro:

[vtcarl]

your young mate. loads of nice women out there. just get out and have a laugh, in time you will meet another woman. have a few :drink: and have a laugh.

[Ryan]

thought you were old Ry :P

confusing me with craig lol ;)

[saxomatt01]

move onwards and upwards,plenty more fish in the sea matey.