Girl Help!

[Ryyy]

This girl I really like has gotta Boyfriend...
...She's told me she likes me,she has feelings for me,If she was single she would snatch me up blah blah BUT she also seems close to her b/f and they'v been going out for a while...I wouldn't and couldn't get with her while she's taken,Not because Im scared of him (Which im not) but I wouldn't want it done to me...Any one been in the same position?!Have a go,Not bother or see what happens ?!

Advice?

[Prickle]

keep her as a friend imo :y:

as you said you wouldnt like it done to you :)

[Ste-88]

Depends how hot.

Pics?

[Matt]

keep her as a friend imo :y:

as you said you wouldnt like it done to you :)

Although be just friends for too long and when wont fancy yo anymore..

[Matt]

Depends how hot.

Pics?

PMSL..

[boz]

keep as a mate.

see how it goes, be there for a shoulder to cry on, they love that shite ;)

[kenny]

stay as friend till shes single. best way imo

ask her if she wants a relationship with you if you really want to know but dont say too much as it may cause difficulties in the situation.

[Prickle]

you can be her backfall ;) if she ends up finishing her bf





well thats what id do anyway :y:

[Ryyy]

Depends how hot.

Pics?

Shit hot tbh

[Crunkers]

Although be just friends for too long and when wont fancy yo anymore..

True that!

Mate I'm in the same situation as you, girl I really like has just starting seeing someone, however we're going out next week 'as friends'. I'm just gonna be genuine and be myself, if she dumps this bloke for then frickin' awesome! All the better for me. I would hang in there, you never mate, but don't try and get her to leave her bf, seems like it will happen it time is she has told you she likes you tbh, cos a bird who is solid with her bf wouldn't say that

[Ryyy]

stay as friend till shes single. best way imo

ask her if she wants a relationship with you if you really want to know but dont say too much as it may cause difficulties in the situation.

you can be her backfall ;) if she ends up finishing her bf





well thats what id do anyway :y:

See maybe Im just hearing what I want to hear but I think I would have a chance wit 'er IF she was single..Her and her partner are apparently always arguing...Arrr

[louis_23]

becarfull she aint just a cock tease bud n telling you that she likes you for the attention in return. if she genuinally likes you as you do her then when she finishes with her current bf game on for you bud, good luck :y:

[Ste-88]

Shit hot tbh

You're never going to be friends then.

SUPERMAN DAT HOOOOOOOOE *Listens to soulja boi*

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=superman+dat+hoe

[Prickle]

girls can be a tease imo :p om nom nom




make sure she aint taking you for a shite ride :n:

[Ryyy]

True that!

Mate I'm in the same situation as you, girl I really like has just starting seeing someone, however we're going out next week 'as friends'. I'm just gonna be genuine and be myself, if she dumps this bloke for then frickin' awesome! All the better for me. I would hang in there, you never mate, but don't try and get her to leave her bf, seems like it will happen it time is she has told you she likes you tbh, cos a bird who is solid with her bf wouldn't say that

Good advice mate aswell! He's cheated on her in the past!
They split up couple of days ago,I though Get in and then before you know it..Theyv'e sorted stuff out:bored: She's said stuff like "Cum round n c me" and I think Jesus..If only!
I'll stay mates with her and see what happens 'Cos I seriously like her

[Crunkers]

girls can be a tease imo :p om nom nom




make sure she aint taking you for a shite ride :n:

Or make sure its the right type of shit ride ;)

[Crunkers]

Good advice mate aswell! He's cheated on her in the past!
They split up couple of days ago,I though Get in and then before you know it..Theyv'e sorted stuff out:bored: She's said stuff like "Cum round n c me" and I think Jesus..If only!
I'll stay mates with her and see what happens 'Cos I seriously like her

Good lad, best way, if they've split once then it'll happen again i reckon. Did she text you saying that??

[Chr15]

Your 2nd best atm. If she splits up and hooks up with you straight away, wouldnt that make her a slag?

[bullit]

this is my forte, so heres my advice.

get in there. rip her clam open :y:

[Ryyy]

Yeh...2AM in the morning she says "We've split up" I thought Oh Yessh then she was with him next day shopping And that P'd me off and then she texts me "Cum round n C Me,I wish i was with you blah blah" What the F*ck Im I supposed to do there?!
I hope she aint taking me for a mug

[Prickle]

Your 2nd best atm. If she splits up and hooks up with you straight away, wouldnt that make her a slag?

she would be a horny lass on heat, ohh yess! :D

[Crunkers]

Yeh...2AM in the morning she says "We've split up" I thought Oh Yessh then she was with him next day shopping And that P'd me off and then she texts me "Cum round n C Me,I wish i was with you blah blah" What the F*ck Im I supposed to do there?!
I hope she aint taking me for a mug

Mmmmmm....tough decision mate, maybe you should speak with her, see what you think after that.

On another note LOL at Bullit's comments

[Ryyy]

Your 2nd best atm. If she splits up and hooks up with you straight away, wouldnt that make her a slag?

Well like the saying goes "Theres only one way to find out!"
'Dont think she is...She doesn't seem like she wants to cheat on him so she must have some kind of loyalty Right?!

[Crunkers]

Well like the saying goes "Theres only one way to find out!"
'Dont think she is...She doesn't seem like she wants to cheat on him so she must have some kind of loyalty Right?!

Strange group are women, if any bloke knew how the womens mind worked they'd be multi-millionaire by now

[Ryyy]

Mmmmmm....tough decision mate, maybe you should speak with her, see what you think after that.

On another note LOL at Bullit's comments

Ive told 'er how I feel And she says things like "Aww you know how to make a girl smile" and "If only I were single" But next minute she's with the hubby..Maybe she's just confused,Maybe she's likes me but is loyal or maybe she is playing games...Women Women Women

[Prickle]

just get with her, mate with her, and if her bf finds out, he finds outs lol, at least youve had a bash at her
"rudy area" :y:

[Crunkers]

just get with her, mate with her, and if her bf finds out, he finds outs lol, at least youve had a bash at her
"rudy area" :y:

I hope its you this bird is seeing, and she does do exactly that.

Mate don't do that, like you've said you wouldn't want it done to you so don't do it yourself. Just keep in touch with her and stuff, maybe meet up as friends and do something for fun. There is no harm in that

[Ryyy]

just get with her, mate with her, and if her bf finds out, he finds outs lol, at least youve had a bash at her
"rudy area" :y:

But thats not the point mate lol
..Dont wanna just "mate" with her and then see if her other half finds out!
Me Want More lol

[Prickle]

I hope its you this bird is seeing, and she does do exactly that.

Mate don't do that, like you've said you wouldn't want it done to you so don't do it yourself. Just keep in touch with her and stuff, maybe meet up as friends and do something for fun. There is no harm in that

that was a "last plan idea" lol



id stick with my very 1st post, and the similar posts :y:

be friends and wait :)

[Ryyy]

Why is it always that what you want you can't have and what you dont comes to you!
Apparently Iv'e got to buy her a card for Crimbo lol!

[Crunkers]

Why is it always that what you want you can't have and what you dont comes to you!

Well mate, there is also the Guinness saying: "good things come to those who wait"

Believe me, I'm hoping this turns out to be true for me as well ;)

[smiith]

nail her mum

[Crunkers]

nail her mum

LMAO, nice and constructive as normal Smithy boy

[Ryyy]

*COUGH* Spam *COUGH*
LOL

[Prickle]

nail her mum

if she is a milf ;)


patience and eventually she will be yours



after her previous bf ragged her "rudy part" to bits

[smiith]

its actually the sensible option... all girls turn out like there mum, nail her mum, if shes good in bed, chances are her daughter will be, and less saggy, plus if you every got together, for that horrible week of the month where shes a no go in bed, sneak into her mums room...

[bullit]

now if you went in for the kiss do you think she would kiss you? if so you could feed the horse

[Crunkers]

its actually the sensible option... all girls turn out like there mum, nail her mum, if shes good in bed, chances are her daughter will be, and less saggy, plus if you every got together, for that horrible week of the month where shes a no go in bed, sneak into her mums room...

Yes of course it is ;)

[tom130691]

im in relationship but wanted else were im stuck lol

[Chr15]

nail her mum

Speaking from experience? :p

[Ryyy]

Going off topic Now lol

[Ryyy]

im in relationship but wanted else were im stuck lol

You mean another mot wants you but your'e taken?

[Prickle]

im in relationship but wanted else were im stuck lol

tell your lass, another girl wants me, can you two share me :D lol




id like two gf's tbh

[smiith]

Speaking from experience? :p

if only :( my birds mum has a huuuuge pair of top bollocks, and the birds are only ickle

[Ryyy]

tell your lass, another girl wants me, can you two share me :D lol




id like two gf's tbh

Haha Henry the 8th Style

[Crunkers]

Haha Henry the 8th Style

No he had about 10 on the go, good times

Seriously though mate, ask her if she wants to do something as friends tomorrow, maybe go xmas shopping blah blah blah and all the shit, and just see where it goes

[Prickle]

what do you thinks best ??

after gathering all of these opinions

[bullit]

if only :( my birds mum has a huuuuge pair of top bollocks, and the birds are only ickle

that was her dad smith

[Chr15]

Smiith's suggestion tbh

[Ryyy]

Ha some of the replies just make me laugh and take my mind off it lol"
Seriously Crunkers's advice is spot on...
Shes been Xmas Shopping..Thats where she was with him the morning after lol
But I might do yeh..She said on a text "We'll have to meet up sometime and get pissed"
Fuckin' Toooo Right

[Ryyy]

what do you thinks best ??

after gathering all of these opinions

Stay mates with her 'till they split
But it may be ages 'till they do...Argghh

[smiith]

that was her dad smith

just because you grope men doesnt mean we all do good sir

[Mitchell]

you better hurry before he stretches that vag till it's no good

[saxo_ron]

ooraazzaa.....in all honesty id back off mate. This sounds like its nothing but trouble, if she can treat her current partner this way do you want to get with her? If she finishes him for you are you then not a rebound? In my experience that never works out and one fo you will get hurt. It sounds like you really like her so it would be you.

Best bet is to take a step back from it, keep in touch and that but back off a bit. Let her know you have a life and cant wait for ever. If it ends and you two decide to have a bash at it I recommend you take it very slowly with her.

[alex19]

Yeh...2AM in the morning she says "We've split up" I thought Oh Yessh then she was with him next day shopping And that P'd me off and then she texts me "Cum round n C Me,I wish i was with you blah blah" What the F*ck Im I supposed to do there?!
I hope she aint taking me for a mug

If a girl said that to me I'd just say "Fuck off!" and never talk to her again.

No messing around.

[Ryyy]

ooraazzaa.....in all honesty id back off mate. This sounds like its nothing but trouble, if she can treat her current partner this way do you want to get with her? If she finishes him for you are you then not a rebound? In my experience that never works out and one fo you will get hurt. It sounds like you really like her so it would be you.

Best bet is to take a step back from it, keep in touch and that but back off a bit. Let her know you have a life and cant wait for ever. If it ends and you two decide to have a bash at it I recommend you take it very slowly with her.

Hmm...Made me think that Yeah
Do you think that if she did finish her partner and went for me I would deffo be a rebound>?

[Ryyy]

If a girl said that to me I'd just say "Fuck off!" and never talk to her again.

No messing around.

Whys that?

[saxo_ron]

Hmm...Made me think that Yeah
Do you think that if she did finish her partner and went for me I would deffo be a rebound>?

Id be wary and abit worried that I was being used to get out of a relationship they werent happy in.
Obviously this is all opinion, you know the girl. How well do you know her?

[Ryyy]

Id be wary and abit worried that I was being used to get out of a relationship they werent happy in.
Obviously this is all opinion, you know the girl. How well do you know her?

Erm...Tbh not much..
But these past few weeks Iv'e had a laff with her, talked with her alot more and got to know her and so on! Some people around me have said "Be careful" and others "Go for it"..I'll see how things turn out..They been together for about 7-8 months so I dont know..:geek:

[alex19]

Whys that?

Because why should you be a toy to her?

My ex was right bitch, dumped me 3 times during our relationship saying she loved another lad more and I was just took it, and took her when she wanted me back afew days later when she'd changed her mind.

I was the fool for just taking it all. I'd spend all my money on her, all my time, everything. She'd always find TV more important than talking to me etc and would never give me the time of day. Basically just got messed around for the whole time and I just took it because I was too nice to realise that not everyone in the world is who you think they are.

[Ryyy]

ooraazzaa.....in all honesty id back off mate. This sounds like its nothing but trouble, if she can treat her current partner this way do you want to get with her? If she finishes him for you are you then not a rebound? In my experience that never works out and one fo you will get hurt. It sounds like you really like her so it would be you.

Best bet is to take a step back from it, keep in touch and that but back off a bit. Let her know you have a life and cant wait for ever. If it ends and you two decide to have a bash at it I recommend you take it very slowly with her.

Not being funny or out mate but what you mean? Im confused!?
Its him thats cheated on her lol

[Mitchell]

i think he means if she leaved him for you, then she will do the same to you when someone much better looking (like me) comes along and wants her.

[Ryyy]

Because why should you be a toy to her?

My ex was right bitch, dumped me 3 times during our relationship saying she loved another lad more and I was just took it, and took her when she wanted me back afew days later when she'd changed her mind.

I was the fool for just taking it all. I'd spend all my money on her, all my time, everything. She'd always find TV more important than talking to me etc and would never give me the time of day. Basically just got messed around for the whole time and I just took it because I was too nice to realise that not everyone in the world is who you think they are.

Yeah suppose...If I did get the chance to get with her I'd tread carefully...
It depends If I get the chance though?!

[saxo_ron]

i think he means if she leaved him for you, then she will do the same to you when someone much better looking (like me) comes along and wants her.

yeah thats what I meant thank you mitchell.

Ooza itsa funny one mate as you have feelings for her that arent gonna go away in any hurry. Its just a funny situation that means you need to be careful

[Ryyy]

i think he means if she leaved him for you, then she will do the same to you when someone much better looking (like me) comes along and wants her.

That's the thing..I dont know for sure she is going to leave him for me!
She might stay with him and work it out..Or they might split and she might come running to me or someone else maybe..I just dont know lol...

I text her the other day saying "Orr Just ignore me lol" and she said "Noo I dont want to ingore it,If my B/f was out the picture I would let you win over my heart"She seems like one of these girls that expects the lad to do all the running and chasing
Argghh

[Prickle]

be patient, if she gives into you, just give it to her tbh, whether its "rudy area" or the "bum" :D


or go for both ftw :y:


thats if she gives into you!

[saxo_ron]

ahhh mate your head is fucked aint it????

Suppose looking at it on the face its like this

She has a lad.

That should be enough for you to do nowt. She is behaving badly for someone in a relationship. Id be fucking furious if my lass was up to that shit

[Chr15]

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[alex19]

Not being funny or out mate but what you mean? Im confused!?
Its him thats cheated on her lol

I started talkin to a girl on facebook while playin poker back at the end of september I think it was?

Anyways, she was with this guy and fair enought. But we talked apsolutly loads for afew weeks all day everyday. She showed signs etc and said afew times that she'd get with me if she was single. Then she started to be alittle wierd so I just left it, we still talked but only half as much as before (still alot). But then when she split up with her boyfriend she was still like that with me and I didn't understand it.

In the end it broke down to only talking now and then, then stopped for afew weeks. Spoke to her the other day but it's still like she isn't bothered now.

Just something to think about. Looking back I was just abit of fun to her I guess.

[Prickle]

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lol :D


tbh id do as i say in posts if i was in his position :A:

[smiith]

said it once, il say it again... nail her mum

[Prickle]

said it once, il say it again... nail her mum

ftw aye ;)

[Ryyy]

ahhh mate your head is fucked aint it????

Suppose looking at it on the face its like this

She has a lad.

That should be enough for you to do nowt. She is behaving badly for someone in a relationship. Id be fucking furious if my lass was up to that shit

If you mean Im thinking of her alot by that..Then yeah my head is fucked!
It's not like she's shagging me though is it..But then yeah If I were her Boyfriend i'd be livid...

[saxo_ron]

Aye thinking of her a ot and confused. Not an easy situation like dude.

Aye not riding her or nowt....yet

Loadsa pussy out there mate just a shame you have 'clicked' with someone who you cant be with

[Ryyy]

I can its just when haha

[bullit]

he cheated so its alright

[Ryyy]

How you mean lol?

[Prickle]

if i was her bf, and found out, omfg id floor you lol :D

*her bf furious thinking*

[Ryyy]

if i was her bf, and found out, omfg id floor you lol :D

*her bf furious thinking*

Found out what?
Iv'e only been texting 'er and flirting abit..Ooops..
I Walked her half way home and he picked her up and he didn't even look over lol :wacko:

[Prickle]

Found out what?
Iv'e only been texting 'er and flirting abit..Ooops..
I Walked her half way home and he picked her up and he didn't even look over lol :wacko:

lol, it will become more, its obvious :y:



p.s that last post wasnt a dig or anything :)

[Ryyy]

lol, it will become more, its obvious :y:



p.s that last post wasnt a dig or anything :)

Lol...I know..I hope it does...But IF it does..Ill take it slowwlllyy!
Maybe she's insecure and just staying with him for company or something...
I dont want any trouble from him but if he takes it out on me then Ill pop the f*cka in the jaw...


Jokee

[alex19]

So eh.. how was her mum?:oops:

[smiith]

between my last post and now, i told my bird that her mum is a milf... bad times tbh. good side is, im gona go get make up sex, good luck with lady palm razza

[scottyvtr]

all woman are snakes wi tits tbf ...........lol!!!

[Ryyy]

between my last post and now, i told my bird that her mum is a milf... bad times tbh. good side is, im gona go get make up sex, good luck with lady palm razza

Lady Palm?

[Chr15]

Lady Palm?

:homme:

[Prickle]

between my last post and now, i told my bird that her mum is a milf... bad times tbh. good side is, im gona go get make up sex, good luck with lady palm razza

what did your lass say lol ??

how fucking dare you!:fcuk:

[alex19]

what did your lass say lol ??



"Well I guess you'll still think I'm sexy in 20 years then ;) But no shagging my mum you horny bitch :lovers:"

[Ste-88]

I bet he got his leg over both of them ... same time too!

[Ryyy]

Theyv'e split...
WOOT

[Chr15]

She just text me saying she wants to be with me now.

ijoke.

Be interesting to see what happens next.

[Rogz]

relationships are the worst like

itll only work if u know u can trust ur misses while shes at a house party with all her 'old' m8s and ur not there...

but knowning shes kinda tagged u b4 she even split with her bf can u really trust her at all?

[Ryyy]

What you mean Tagged mate?

[alexsmith]

snap same problem

[kcsaxo]

leave her be mate, dont be a home wrecker.

[Ryyy]

leave her be mate, dont be a home wrecker.


Am I?
:homme:

[smiith]

well... i nailed my gf's mum....

iJoke she had a right go, for about a minute lol, then said its not the 1st time shes been told.

Still think you should go for that little chestnut..