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matt_vtr_15
8th January 2009, 18:53
Well long story but will keep it short as possible....

My grandad has been poorly for a couple of year on and off but just before christmas really pulled through and as a result went on holiday with my grandma for a month to tenerife. My mum and dad also decided to go away to tenerife in a different resort etc and spent some time with mama and grandad....

My rents got back yesterday and my mum told me that my grandad was in hospital as he fell over. I was a little sad for my mama as i bet she felt lonely as he was in hospital etc and she couldn't see him much, he got admitted to intensive care as he was in a bit of a bad way and they found out he had a twisted bowel.....

So today for some reason i called my mum as something didn';t feel right....

she sounded really weired on the phone and i asked what was up whilst quesing up in tesco express grabbing some lunch....

She said that my grandad died in the night in intensive care, it really shocked me as he only had a twisted bowel

Im really gutted and just can't understand it, i'm still thinking i will see him when he they get back from holiday....

Just gutted for my mama as well as she is over there alone but we have managed to get her a flight back on saturday instead of the end of next week....

Just all the stuff like getting him back from tenerife to bury him and stuff....

Really gutted as he was probably the most inspirational guy in my life who never gave up and had plenty of war stories and funny stuff to say..

R.I.P GRANDAD BILL......

djflipsaxo
8th January 2009, 18:55
sorry to hear it mate

storms
8th January 2009, 18:56
sorry mate dont no what to say apart from sorry

VTEC-Saxo
8th January 2009, 18:56
Ahh mann thats bad im sorry mate know how it feels, 02 was like the shitest year off my life, My dad died, my grandad died we had to move house as my mum couldnt afford to keep it :( then my mums dad died Was epic :(, rip bill , feel for you mate

matt_vtr_15
8th January 2009, 18:58
Ahh mann thats bad im sorry mate know how it feels, 02 was like the shitest year off my life, My dad died, my grandad died we had to move house as my mum couldnt afford to keep it :( then my mums dad died Was epic :(, rip bill feel for you

that sounds dreadful mate....

I am ok kinda coping, but im beggining to really hate the christmas/new year time had 4 close members of my family die within the llast 5 years....

It's just one of those things which you don't think could happen....he literally just dropped dead so it seems.... and my mama is getting moved which will be harder on her own when she gets back...

pattersonvts
8th January 2009, 19:00
i and all the other sax-p people are very sorry for your loss

VTEC-Saxo
8th January 2009, 19:02
i was quite young but i still remember it and its kinda hard to grasp, i found my dad in my front room he had had a heart attack in the night, my grandad never recoverd from the loss off my dad and we found out he was ill in hospitall while we wer on holiday and he had died a few days after we got home and i didnt get a chance to see him :( we lost touch with my dads side of the family so that fucked that one up, anyway mate im sorry :/

matt_vtr_15
8th January 2009, 19:08
cheers all :)

jdizzy
8th January 2009, 19:14
sorry to hear that mate!

R.I.P

IH8CAMERAS
8th January 2009, 19:21
Terribly sorry to hear that mate.

R.I.P

Best wishes Kieran

Netsky1991
8th January 2009, 19:23
Sorry to hear it mate.

R.I.P

Amiee
8th January 2009, 19:28
Sorry to hear that mate!

saxoboy91
8th January 2009, 23:06
really sorry to hear that mate, hope your ok

wilksey
8th January 2009, 23:14
Sorry to here that pal.

Best wishes.

ryhornvtr
8th January 2009, 23:28
Sorry to hear. I know how you feel though and it will get better in time.

Cal
9th January 2009, 00:01
My condolonces Matthew. RIP

Jazz
9th January 2009, 00:05
Really sorry to hear this Matt. All the best mate, R.I.P your grandad.

Craddock
9th January 2009, 00:28
Sorry to hear mate. RIP your Grandad Bill.

LeeM
9th January 2009, 01:00
really sorry to hear this mate i feel for you, its coming up to my the anniversary of my nans death. if im completely honest i hadnt thought about it and now im quite upset lol! i dont mind because even though it upsets me i get comfort from her memory.
i hope you start to feel a bit better soon

minxymears
9th January 2009, 01:17
Sorry to hear about the whole situation! Soon something good will happen though... always does. Keep your chin up fella!

dobbo_1
9th January 2009, 01:26
Sorry to hear it mate.

R.I.P