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VtrFarlz86
21st February 2009, 08:27
just wanted to know what you people think, i ve been with my gf for 3 months, now, when it first started she wouldn't stop txtin, etc, but as its gone on shes been funny, nt txt as much and taking ages to txt, she says shes body concence, but we have slept naked in the same bed. but no sex. erm shes sed nothings goin on. what do i do?
SaxoAL
21st February 2009, 08:29
See other girls. You're young, make the most of it!
VtrFarlz86
21st February 2009, 08:37
yeah ur ryt m8, still got loads tym lol
saxo_scottish
21st February 2009, 09:04
sleep with her mate, works a treat
Prickle
21st February 2009, 09:06
Talk to her. :y:
dannyboycov1991
21st February 2009, 09:06
sleep with her mate, works a treat

sleep with all of them. i dont understand, if uve seen her naked before how can she be body concious about u seeing her, girls are strange man, just turn gay (not saying i am)
saxo_scottish
21st February 2009, 09:09
girls are always body conscience and it fucking sucks, "on no we cant do it gos my boobs are too small" <<<<<<<------ listen lady i need an empty shut up and take it!!!
OLLYVTS
21st February 2009, 11:46
Talk to her. :y:

Thats what most people would do.;)
Prickle
21st February 2009, 11:52
Thats what most people would do.;)

Do they though. ;)
Danhunt
21st February 2009, 11:59
Not being funny, but is she a virgin.

Might be a bit nervous about it?
AndyAlmond
21st February 2009, 12:08
if you want to be with her mate for a very long time, try having a proper convesation with her about your relationship between youand her, and tell her how you fell about the situation :) .
aly888
21st February 2009, 12:17
not being funny or anything, but if all you are interested in at the moment is trying to get your end away then no doubt she has picked up on it (coz you guys are not exactly subtle about it)! and if you are with her coz you really wanna be with her (sex or no sex) then dont be pushy and go at her pace. there is obviously a reason why she hasnt 'put out' yet, but asking her every other day isnt gonna make things any better and more likely to push her away!
If i were you, plan a really nice evening (with no sexual intentions) where she can feel really relaxed and comfortable around you. Maybe a little bit of drink like wine or something (dont get her drunk), and most importantly, DONT MENTION SEX! you will be making big steps in the right direction and she will feel like she can trust you and realise that you are with her for her, not for sex!!

alternatively, she may be going off you, but she is female so wont tell you (we are like that you see) and things may end up fizzling out...but i guess you dont want that?!
kclipston
21st February 2009, 12:23
Not being funny, but is she a virgin.

Might be a bit nervous about it?

This is a very good point!!! if this is the case then talk and make her feel comfortable, let her make the choices
vtr_cheshire
21st February 2009, 12:29
maybe shes either gone of you abit...

orrrr.... shes just got comfortable with the relationship and is just chilled now..