depressing day...

[w_jd_w]

today is a very depressing day for me.had a serious relationship that ended a few months ago that fuckd me up quite alot as you can imagine.today would have been our anniversary!

anyone got any ideas of things to cheer me up? smileys/smiley19.gif

[pug_boe]

im having a bad day too hun dont worry - as my prev thread i got money problems and its 2 years today my gramp died who i was extremly close to.
just talk to us on here thatl cheer you up smileys/smiley17.gif

[Dan]

Get some mates round for a lads night in? Strip club? poker night?

[leejps]

i have been thro the same latley so i no how u feelbut things r lookin up for me smileys/smiley13.gif

[w_jd_w]

i tried 2 arrange something with some mates but no one seems to be free! smileys/smiley13.gifeven thought you try to move on you never seem to find anyone that matches up to that special person youve lost,maybe its because im trying to find what i had with my ex straight away which obviously isnt possible...im not sure.

still do my best to move on and things are looking good with someone new at the moment but still cant help feeling like shit about it alot of time smileys/smiley19.gif

[Zany_Jim]

Go break something smileys/smiley4.gif

Go to the garage pick up a hammer look for something large and breakable smileys/happy.gif


Always cheers me up

[w_jd_w]

lol i used to do that but it doesnt help with these sort of problems i dont think..at the moment im just killing everyone!





on GTA san andreas that is smileys/smiley2.gif

[leejps]

just give it time mate

[pug_boe]

my boyfriend put the punchbag up yesterday and i think im going to have a good whack at it tomorow lol

[jonnosaxo87]

Dans suggestions are the best i reckon, go to a casino if there's any near you. nowt better than blowing a wad of notes and having a good do with your matessmileys/smiley4.gif

[SNewham]

Go break something smileys/smiley4.gif

Go to the garage pick up a hammer look for something large and breakable smileys/happy.gif


Always cheers me up

but not the Saxo ;)

[w_jd_w]

sadly quick fix things like casinos and stuff arent going to help really.i mean we broke up 6 months ago!i know that its going to take a long time to get over smileys/smiley13.gif

problem with the suggestions are is that theres not really anywhere to go gamble round here and none of my mates seem to be free tonight!im sure i can persuade someone..maybe my ex lol

[jonnosaxo87]

get on william hill onlinesmileys/smiley4.gif i love it!

[w_jd_w]

lol i think someone has a gambling problem smileys/smiley2.gif

[Tony_Jay86]

It took me over a year to get over my ex, i loved her to bits, but ive moved on, i have more feelings for my first love then i did for her, just go out & get another lass or go clubbing at the weekend & make sure you take a lass home, it takes it all off your mind, i went out with a lass for 8 days a month or 2 ago & now iam just not interested in a relationship with anyone, have a good weekend on the drink & hope it all works out for you, takes time but you'll get over her eventually even though she still might have a soft spot in your heart, chin up fella

[w_jd_w]

cheers mate. things are looking good on the realtionship front at the moment so theres hope!i guess i never will be over her totally because somethings you cant get over fully but eventually i shall be able 2 pass the 26th of a month not feel totally like shit

[Yates]

mate i used to feel the same, never thought id get over this lass n it got to me, but now ive been goin out with a new lass for 9 months now n its great, i see my ex about n talk to her theres no feelings, jus friendship, i jus think nothin was ever as good with her as i am with my new bird

[Tony_Jay86]

I'd never be able to be mates with my ex, it just wouldnt happen, i dont hate her or anything, its just i would rather get on with life without her in it, i'd like to keep intouch with the first love of my life but i dont like any of her mates & i let her know that & ever since i havent heard anything from her, i dont have any contact what so ever with any of my ex's & i honestly think its best kept that way, i fall in love with lasses to easily

[Sax1lora]

stop looking for love and when you least expect it, it finds you.

i was with my boyfried for 3 years and split up last christmas, a month later i was driving through our local retail park one night and thats how i met my (now) fiance.

[Clouds_mate]

is he the daddy of the baby?

[Sax1lora]

dont start Leckie. im NOT pregnant!!

[AdamW]

is he the daddy of the baby?

LMBO! © sax-p

Another quality quote smileys/smiley4.gif

How old are you w_jd_w?

Im the same as you tony...I can never be friends with my Ex's just doesnt work!!!

[Sax1lora]

never be friends with you ex. totally bad idea.

stop pickin on me. Adam you know fine im not pregnant.

[Clouds_mate]

I tell them i will be mates with them. I then start fading them out till i forget who they are. smileys/happy.gif

[AdamW]

I tell them i will be mates with them. I then start fading them out till i forget who they are. smileys/happy.gif

Yep....agree with you totally there...Then you get the why do you never txt me back..Ummmmm I have no credit..."But I thought you were on contract"...Well you thought wrong.... smileys/smiley2.gif

[Clouds_mate]

Iv lost my fone erm i gave it to my mum erm i dont hardly use that sim card no more.

They have all been tested and work fine smileys/happy.gif

[Sax1lora]

why cant you just tell them to fook off like i do??

easy hint.

[Clouds_mate]

becuase you will never get druken sex out of them again.

[Sax1lora]

mm.... suppose so.

or just tell them the truth

'i dont want to be friends with you, but anytime you are drunk and want sex just give me a call'

[Clouds_mate]

yeh because thats a great line to lay down. Wouldnt get you a slap at all

[AdamW]

mm.... suppose so.

or just tell them the truth

'i dont want to be friends with you, but anytime you are drunk and want sex just give me a call'



Yes...but they also take that the wrong way aswell...

Its not wise to tell the girl, you want her to be your Fuckbuddy smileys/smiley4.gif

[Sax1lora]

well i wouldnt like it but you never know until you try, or you could just go for their best friend like someone i know smileys/smiley2.gif

[AdamW]

smileys/innocent.gif

[Sax1lora]

smileys/bandit.gif

[w_jd_w]

sometimes you cant just cut off from them cold turkey like that sax1lora. some people can but most cant it takes time and as leckie has said you never get drunken sex again! smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley17.gif

[AdamW]

If you were attached at the hip for a long time then yeh it is hard.....But your still young matey...Live a little.... smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

suppose but my relationship ended very badly and there was a lot of trouble involved so the only thing i could do was cut myself off completely.i ended up moving house on Christmas day because of it all. are you still friends??

[Clouds_mate]

why - did he take the piss outa the size of your head?

[w_jd_w]

thats how it was suposed to be.we were going to be friends but we just drifted further apart.im not really sure if i want to be mates with her or not to be honest.

AdamWales i intend to smileys/smiley17.gif

[AdamW]

why - did he take the piss outa the size of your head?

smileys/smiley10.gif smileys/smiley10.gif stars for you today my friend

[Sax1lora]

why - did he take the piss outa the size of your head?

smileys/smiley10.gif smileys/smiley10.gif stars for you today my friend



he lifted his hands to me actually so shut your mouths.

[w_jd_w]

poor lora!everyone ganging up on you lol

[AdamW]

he lifted his hands to me actually so shut your mouths.

Hoped you chopped off his balls with a rusty Stanley Knife

[w_jd_w]

and dangled them in his face!fuckin women beaters! smileys/smiley7.gif

[Sax1lora]

its my personal business if you dont mind.

im just saying sometimes its easier to cut yourself off, if you were meant to be friends then you would still be friends if ya know what i mean. it could be more hurtful being friends.

[JamieB]

i have been single for just under 23 months now and i am at the stage where iam not after a relationship simply because i have been single for so long. at times, i wish i was in a relationship as they have there bonuses! smileys/smiley2.gif
when i go out, i dont go out to pull coz i find that if you do and you dont, you feel upset. i just go out to have fun and a quality night out with my mates.

one or two of my mates have split up with their girlfriends recently and if we have gone out and they are sitting down, i go over (with a few shots!! smileys/smiley17.gif) have a word with them and get them to come and join in. normally by the end of the night they have a smile on their face. might have had something to do with the fact he was going back to some girls house that night though!! lol

i tried to be friends with my ex, started off well but i still had a lot of feelings for her as we split up mutually (sp) coz we hardly saw each other due to this, that and the other. i still talk to her when i see her these days but she goes out with one of my old mates now(i think!!)

[AdamW]

its my personal business if you dont mind.


Not trying to be funny...But you brought it up smileys/smiley5.gif

Exs cant be friends just doesn't work

[w_jd_w]

i guess you start off with the intentions of being mates but its just to weird and makes you go backwards instead of forwards.you find yourself not getting over them but the other way around!i dont think im going to bother texting her like we would do now and again.proberly best if we stay apart

[Sax1lora]

yeah JD thats the best thing to do, the more you see her, the more you will think about her and stuff so best keep clear for a little bit. just keep your friends close, they will help you.

[Clouds_mate]

its my personal business if you dont mind.


Not trying to be funny...But you brought it up smileys/smiley5.gif

Exs cant be friends just doesn't work

I agree why bring it up? if its such a touchie subject or you dont want to talk about it. So why post it on a public forum

[Sax1lora]

emm..... because you asked why i moved house, i had no intention of telling you the rest of the story, was just explainin i stayed clear of him because it ended badly. sorry. (subjects closed)

[w_jd_w]

surely you can understand why she wouldnt want to talk about it?i think she was just trying to explain why she left like that but doesnt want to go into detail about it for obvious reasons

[w_jd_w]

sorry i was writing my post when you said subject closed!lol

[Sax1lora]

exactly, thanks JD.

anyway, you'll find someone else JD, someone better, maybe sooner than later, you never know.

just hope you dont go back to her, thats the worst thing poss!

[AdamW]

Things happen for a reason matey....Tell yourself your better than that.....Or be like me and drink Sambuca on a wednesday night and enjoy life.....Might get hit by a bus tommorow smileys/smiley17.gif

[w_jd_w]

its ok lora i think its pretty obvious why you wouldnt want to talk about it!

i doubt that would happen really. i guess it will just take time to get over her.i mean things look good for me at the moment with other people so i guess i should look to the future rather than thinking about the past.

i supose to some degree i want ever be totally over her but somethings cant change fully can they?

[Sax1lora]

ppl say its better to have loved and lost than never to haved loved at all.

just remember there is more than one person for everbody in the world, apparently the supermarket is a great place to meet ppl ive heard lol.

you never know, the girl for you could be right around the corner if you know what i mean!

[w_jd_w]

lol yeah i know what you mean.sometimes the people that are right for you turn out to be people you have known for years and never realised lol my mate had that before.he knew this girl at work for 3 years..just said hey now and again then met out of work and got together..aww what a story for the kids smileys/smiley2.gif

[AdamW]

you never know, the girl for you could be right around the corner if you know what i mean!

Do you mean waiting on the corner..... smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley4.gif

[Sax1lora]

awww thats so sweet!

as i said before, i met my husband to be in a bloody CAR PARK lol.

pubs or clubs arent a good place, usually full of sluts only after one thing. but suppose you males would love that lol.smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

you never know, the girl for you could be right around the corner if you know what i mean!

Do you mean waiting on the corner..... smileys/smiley2.gif smileys/smiley4.gif

no you dirty minded boy...

i meant could be somewher like at work or your next door neighbour or something lol smileys/smiley5.gif

[w_jd_w]

dont think were all the same!some us arent just after sex you know!some us like having proper realtionships!

i think pubs and clubs like you say are a bad place to meet people because their usually full of people just there to pull and IMO i think 1 night stands are pathetic.for people who are scared of a realtionship sorry to people who do that im judging you but thats just my own personal opinion

[AdamW]

pubs or clubs arent a good place, usually full of sluts only after one thing. but suppose you males would love that lol.smileys/smiley2.gif


Your Damn right there......

I met my Ex at a fireworks display I think......

Was with her for 4 weeks before we rocked the casbah!!

Were together for 1 year or so and then she decided she didnt want a relationship....so I was pissed but what can you do..then she was with someone else a week after....mmmmm do I smell something fishy..Plus it was her supervisor from work who was 27...I just laughed in her face smileys/smiley4.gif

[Clouds_mate]

the fishy smell is most likly of to come from her gash

[w_jd_w]

the fishy smell is most likly of to come from her gash

lol adam dont you go out with people that clean? smileys/smiley2.gif

[AdamW]

I usually have to roll over twice to get off the birds I pull...... smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

the fishy smell is most likly of to come from her gash

thats mining Leckie!!

its good to see some guys who dont mind relationships and arent scared to talk about there feelings and stuff, most of them have hearts of stone.

personally, i hate one night stands, never had one and never will. just not my kind of thing. rather have someone to cuddle up to at night smileys/smiley27.gif im a big sook

[Clouds_mate]

I usually have to roll over twice to get off the birds I pull...... smileys/smiley2.gif

Shit!! have you higherd your standards?

[Sax1lora]

LMFBO! © sax-p!!

hey, the bigger the better apparently!

[AdamW]

I usually have to roll over twice to get off the birds I pull...... smileys/smiley2.gif

Shit!! have you higherd your standards?

Last bitch I rode.....she cut her leg and bloody gravy poured out all over my shag pile rug... smileys/smiley4.gif

[Sax1lora]

smileys/smiley11.gif smileys/smiley11.gif smileys/smiley11.gif smileys/smiley11.gif smileys/smiley11.gif

you make it sound like you were on a horse. i.e. "rode"

[AdamW]

It wasnt a horse that for sure....But im not to sure it was human.....Was like a lava lamp...When "IT" jiggled smileys/smiley4.gif

[w_jd_w]

lol adam we all know that your into animals smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

lol,

remember i told you about snuffx Adam? its got funny/gross things like that on it.

i prefer being in a relationship to be single. plus it means you cant catch any deseases!!

[w_jd_w]

thats true..unless they have them already and you and them dont know about it

[AdamW]

Nah I prefer being single....

[Clouds_mate]

or they are fucking about?

[Sax1lora]

smileys/smiley11.gif dont want to think about it actually. nah my mans in the army so i know hes clean,he has got to be!

anywhooooo..............

so everyones prefers to be single?

[AdamW]

I like to play the Sex lottery....

[Sax1lora]

smileys/smiley11.gif

and you dont want kids Adam? hope youve got a bag of good luck then!

[w_jd_w]

or hes got an empty bag smileys/smiley2.gif

[Clouds_mate]

ahhh army boy.


Takes it deep at a guess

[Sax1lora]

or hes got an empty bag smileys/smiley2.gif

lol i dont wanna know, getting a bit too private i think!!

[AdamW]

I want kids yeah....not till im about 30 though....im 19 FFS...... Need to have fun first before settling down....Im not a silly prat,I alwys wear a willy hat.

[w_jd_w]

dont be silly wrap your willy smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

FFS??????

he he willy hat. never heard that one before.

most guys are scared of realtionships. just because a girls wants to see you again it doesnt mean she wants to get married, have kids, and take all you money or that.

[w_jd_w]

im not scared of realtionships!i like them smileys/smiley14.gif

[Clouds_mate]

most guys are scared of realtionships. just because a girls wants to see you again it doesnt mean she wants to get married, have kids, and take all you money or that.

No body said that. wer on to a different subject now

[AdamW]

FFS = For fucks sake!!!

I aint scared....Just dont want a girlfriend

[w_jd_w]

seems more and more people dont want realtionships these days.i do like keeping my options open though smileys/smiley17.gif

[Sax1lora]

yeah keep them open while your young, dont want to be a lonely old woman with cats tho!!!!!

[Clouds_mate]

yeah keep them open while your young, dont want to be a lonely old woman with cats tho!!!!!

How can you say that your due to be married shortly

[w_jd_w]

leckie you really dont like lora do you lol

[AdamW]

No she s getting married in April and we are all invited smileys/smiley4.gif

[Clouds_mate]

yeh, but it doesnt make sence

[Sax1lora]

leckie you really dont like lora do you lol

Leckies had a problem with me since i came on here.

yeah, its good to keep your options open but im happy the way i am, if i wasnt then i wouldnt get married. i love my boyfriend and i want to be with him.

[w_jd_w]

No she s getting married in April and we are all invited smileys/smiley4.gif

yay!i love getting hammered at wedding receptions lol

[Clouds_mate]

yes i understand.

But for me i would have to love someone for over 5 years or so to know they are the one.

[AdamW]

i love my boyfriend and i want to be with him.

I want to be with your boyfriend aswell......This one time we were in an army barracks and we were cold and shit happened.....Ooooppppssss was not supposed to let that slip smileys/smiley4.gif

[w_jd_w]

leckie you really dont like lora do you lol

Leckies had a problem with me since i came on here.

yeah, its good to keep your options open but im happy the way i am, if i wasnt then i wouldnt get married. i love my boyfriend and i want to be with him.

i think its great youve found the right person for you smileys/smiley4.gif

[Clouds_mate]

am guna boom boom with the bridesmaids

[Sax1lora]

when you meet that special someone you just KNOW they are the one, it doesnt take five years.

[Clouds_mate]

well i was with someone for just short of 3 years. I fort she was the one. But nope Died out over time

[w_jd_w]

some people take a long time to realise they have found the right person though.guess they want to be 100% certain.i know i would want to be certain because i wouldnt want a divorce a few years later

[AdamW]

when you meet that special someone you just KNOW they are the one, it doesnt take five years.

Ive known this person for 19 years and she is special...But I still cant get my mum to take my hand in marriage....Any Tips???

The down on one knee shit doesnt work...

[Sax1lora]

leckie you dont like me so your not invited.

hey, my mans not a bum boy! he doesnt live in the barracks, he lives with me so there ya go!!

[w_jd_w]

i hope im invited! smileys/smiley4.gif

[Clouds_mate]

when you meet that special someone you just KNOW they are the one, it doesnt take five years.

Ive known this person for 19 years and she is special...But I still cant get my mum to take my hand in marriage....Any Tips???

The down on one knee shit doesnt work...

two words...

Date Rape

[Sax1lora]

yeah JD ya can come, have to bring me Vodka though!!

as for date rape, its horrible.

[Clouds_mate]

leckie you dont like me so your not invited.




Adam gets to invite a guest right....

[Sax1lora]

yes buts hes bringing the staffy sorry

[w_jd_w]

lol ill bring a few crates of it lora lol not sharing it though smileys/smiley17.gif smileys/smiley2.gif

[AdamW]

Leckie will pick you up on the way up....

You got any of those date-rape Ciggies left??

[Clouds_mate]

erm...no


































Check your pm

[Sax1lora]

thats shocking Adam!

[AdamW]

Order form sent.... smileys/smiley4.gif

[Sax1lora]

right Conditions for my wedding are......

1. you must bring me Vodka.
2. boinking my bridesmaids must wait until after receiption.
3. my mum is out of the question (OK Adam?).
4. no dogs allowed (the human kind).
5. all males must wear pink.

[w_jd_w]

right Conditions for my wedding are......

1. you must bring me Vodka.
2. boinking my bridesmaids must wait until after receiption.
3. my mum is out of the question (OK Adam?).
4. no dogs allowed (the human kind).
5. all males must wear pink.

boinking?aint heard that since 40 year old virgin film lol

we have to wear pink?

[Sax1lora]

yes pink is necessary thank you. and must have collar up.smileys/smiley17.gif

[Clouds_mate]

. boinking my bridesmaids must wait until after receiption.


Didnt plan on doing it while you was saying " i do"

Oh shit wait, am not invited am i

[Clouds_mate]

yes pink is necessary thank you. and must have collar up.smileys/smiley17.gif


Chav

[AdamW]

right Conditions for my wedding are......

5. all males must wear pink.

I have just picked my outfit

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v629/AdamWales/mvc-377f.jpg

[Sax1lora]

well suppose i could let ya come

hav to be be nice to me tho!! smileys/smiley4.gif

[Sax1lora]

well Adams a chav too then coz he wears that!

[AdamW]

Whats wrong with my Pink Polo Shirt..... smileys/smiley4.gif

[Clouds_mate]

This is what i am coming in

http://www.o-reading.co.uk/lifestyle/fashion/lucy_summer/pink_top.jpg

Duno what i will wear for the party

[Sax1lora]

lol.

theres nothing wrong with pink polo shirts. i find it VERY sexy mmm.............

[Sax1lora]

sorry wasnt meaning Adam...

was meaning this guy....

/members/Sax1lora/A57E8_yummy_grant.jpg

[w_jd_w]

right Conditions for my wedding are......

5. all males must wear pink.

I have just picked my outfit

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v629/AdamWales/mvc-377f.jpg

i was looking at that for my outfit..that colour of pink is not my thing tho smileys/smiley2.gif

[Sax1lora]

lol right back to the topic before we get a row................

[w_jd_w]

lol right back to the topic before we get a row................



why would we have a row?

[w_jd_w]

you mean about the pink tops? smileys/smiley5.gif