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rootyboy
27th July 2009, 13:05
Been talking this girl for about a week now, went to her 21st party friday night had a good time etc, now sat we were texting each other on and off i sent her a text didnt get one back for ages, text her again bout 2 hours later got nufing back so left it at that, i then text what i thought was my mates 2 messages but sent them to her accidentaly, got a message back saying you need to chill out you just sent me 4 messages and i havent replied to one of them! text her back saying sorry last 2 we meant for someone else, now the thing is we where meant to be going out tonight for a meal etc, but havent heard of since that last text, sent her one today saying sorry about saturday are will still on for tonight and havent heard of her so im guessing i have blown it

VtsTom
27th July 2009, 13:08
Give her a call when you know shes free, i.e not at work. Just tell her you cocked up but would still like to go out and have a good time. Balls in her court really. If she says no, no biggy, move onto the next one.

RichM
27th July 2009, 13:10
Go to MJRallying for this kind of advice.

djflipsaxo
27th July 2009, 13:11
if she is not replying i say get the hint!
there is nothing worse than a needy bloke!

personally if i am not replying to a bloke i expect him to get the hint!

but on th eother hand if you have plans she should have the courtousy to tell you if shes not going!

rootyboy
27th July 2009, 13:15
well just have to see if she contacts me, wont bother ringing her as reckon will only make it worse, ah well you win some ya lose some

Freakin_Sweeet
27th July 2009, 13:17
Go to MJRallying for this kind of advice.

Haha :clapping:

Sure he could offer a few words of wisdom!

djflipsaxo
27th July 2009, 13:18
others may not agree, but its like a situation i was in recently.
i have a fella and a son. a bloke at work got too friendly over text and i told him to leave me alone, he didnt get the idea so i stopped texting. after he text me 20 times in like 4 hours i was so annoyed i just text him back and said stop texting.
i know its more extreme than what you text her but even after my phone going 3 times i was pised off, got home and told fella, he was not impressed with the guy lol

rootyboy
27th July 2009, 13:20
20 times fucking hell, i only text her 4 times and 2 of them wernt evem for her lol, well its just me being imaptient i think, shud have just the phone alone lol

Toad
27th July 2009, 13:22
Don't do anything.

Move on...

Claireeyy
27th July 2009, 13:24
does seem a bit rude not to text you back but she obvouilsy isnt keen before she ignoring you.

Move on...

djflipsaxo
27th July 2009, 13:25
20 times fucking hell, i only text her 4 times and 2 of them wernt evem for her lol, well its just me being imaptient i think, shud have just the phone alone lol

tbh it does not take too much effort to text someone back.or less if she has a genuine reason to not reply, forget her

SaxBuild
27th July 2009, 13:25
Been talking this girl for about a week now, went to her 21st party friday night had a good time etc, now sat we were texting each other on and off i sent her a text didnt get one back for ages, text her again bout 2 hours later got nufing back so left it at that, i then text what i thought was my mates 2 messages but sent them to her accidentaly, got a message back saying you need to chill out you just sent me 4 messages and i havent replied to one of them! text her back saying sorry last 2 we meant for someone else, now the thing is we where meant to be going out tonight for a meal etc, but havent heard of since that last text, sent her one today saying sorry about saturday are will still on for tonight and havent heard of her so im guessing i have blown itTake the hint.............

Matty_Mills
27th July 2009, 13:27
cunt-punt

Matt67
27th July 2009, 13:30
Move on..

Psycho18
27th July 2009, 13:34
move on man because you didn't slam her that night the slut obviously doesn't want to know. Better girls out there

djflipsaxo
27th July 2009, 13:35
move on man because you didn't slam her that night the slut obviously doesn't want to know. Better girls out there

:S ok then

Carlvtr88
27th July 2009, 13:41
lol if shes that touchy is she really worth it lol... if a girl did that to me id assume im better off without it.. if a girl can stress u over a text whats she gona be like in real life lol

Claireeyy
27th July 2009, 13:41
move on man because you didn't slam her that night the slut obviously doesn't want to know. Better girls out there

hmm im not sure how that makes her a slut tbh,

djflipsaxo
27th July 2009, 15:19
hmm im not sure how that makes her a slut tbh,

i think he ment shed be a slut if she shagged him that night.

imo anyone sho shags a bloke the first time they meets a slag!!!

LVC_VTR
27th July 2009, 16:28
if she is not replying i say get the hint!
there is nothing worse than a needy bloke!

personally if i am not replying to a bloke i expect him to get the hint!

but on th eother hand if you have plans she should have the courtousy to tell you if shes not going!

agree with this totally and tbh being the guy in the picture you shouldnt be bothered about her not textin you back

if she texts you again then wait till the next day to text her back and say you were busy

play her hot and cold mate get in her head and you will get in her pants :D

goodall3518
27th July 2009, 16:48
Keep ringing and texting till she replies.

If she doesnt, just find out where she lives then ask her what the fuck are u doing?

Then take her on a date, seeing as youve known her for a week you should ask her for a relationship and probably should start talking about marriage too. that should sort your problems, worked for me anyway.

Thats how i slept with like 100 women u know, constant harrassment and rushing.


Yours,

MJRallying.

KamRacing
27th July 2009, 16:51
ditch the texting and talk to women...its more fun...
one call - she will either answer or not. Leave a message if she doesnt answer asking her to give you a call if she wants to go out tonight.
then call your mates and then go to the pub...

kev

Mr_X
27th July 2009, 16:54
i would move on

littleracer
27th July 2009, 16:59
give her a ring,if she don't answer leave a voicemail.
just say havent heard from you,was wandering what ya doing tonight.

if you dont here back,time to move on man.

as someone else said,if ya get stressed over a txt,what ya gonna be like when they actually walk out on ya.