Relationship problem (Advice please)

[jlf]

Hi this most prob wont intrest any of you, but my girlfriend/ex accpeted a friendship request of the bloke she cheated on me with and i told her its over but i don't know if i done the right thing, What do you people think i should do???

[renagademaster4]

if ur ex cheated on u ur better of without her , might be alot a doubt in ur mind the now but give it time n ull see it makes sense :y:

[Toms112]

Run for the hills =]

Was probably only an innocent facebook add. But never be too careful. How long had ya been with her and most of all would you call her trustworthy. Plus if shes done it once why wont she do it again?

[Steve]

fuck all imo....

so what, if she cheated then dump her. She is only going to do it again.

[VtsTom]

Yup, fuck her off. If theres no trust, theres no point.

[markdavid]

your young and like her a lot,you could give her another one chance only,its worth a last try,if she agrees she was very wrong,its up to you...

[jlf]

Thing is shes preg with my child :( and i been with her for a year

[VtsTom]

So? You can still be a decent farther without being a shitty relasionship with the mum.

[jlf]

Yeh true, But she said that she wont let me see the baby or anything :(

[Toms112]

Thing is shes preg with my child :( and i been with her for a year

In that case most definatly run for the hills or a carefully placed kick does the job well.

But seriously if it is yours youll have to have a serious chat with her as in my eyes kids come first.

[jlf]

Yeh but i can't stand this bloke and i told her loads of times i don't like the cu*t, Plus she said she's only doing it to keep the peace with his sister in my eyes shes picked him over me :(

[webby]

kick her in the tits!

[bald24]

See what her reaction is when you ask her to remove him as a friend. If she happily removes him you may be able to trust her, but if she refuses or kicks up a fuss then you know its over.

[jlf]

All ready did and she's said no, and for me to grow cause im been stupid

[Rach125]

are the sure the kids yours?

[jlf]

Ummm pretty sure it is

[Vinny_VSX]

I feel an eppisode of Jeremy Kyle coming on

[jlf]

Lol, yeh quite possibly

[Claireeyy]

rekon you need to make sure the kid is yours before you make a decision. you are better of without her if she cheated on you tbh. she cannot stop you from seeing the kid but if she does there is things you can do, it depends how much you want to fight for your kind. who would the court favour? bt it sounds like you need a hug :hug: have you told your parents about the kid?

[Tontsy]

pics of girlfriend.

[adam661]

I feel an eppisode of Jeremy Kyle coming on

haha bit harsh but LOL :clapping:

[littleracer]

FFS if u suspect her of cheating an cant trust her leave her.
you cant be in a relationship[ with someone just because u got kids with them,youl hurt them if you do.

think what will be better for the kid first.....if she cheats how you know the kids yours?

[Rob-6]

i would be finding out if the baby was mine if i was you and if its not i would do one!

[jlf]

Yeh my parent's know, but im proper gutted cause i do love her to bits. but she knew this would upset me :(

[jlf]

Yeh i will have a d.n.a once its born

[littleracer]

Yeh my parent's know, but im proper gutted cause i do love her to bits. but she knew this would upset me :(

leave her,move on be a good dad.

she cant jut stop you from letting her see the kid.
if she tries tak her to court

[jlf]

Easier said then done, and i sure will take her to court.

[Steve]

can find out if the childs yours before its born...

Stick a shit load of morning after pills in her next drink of tea/coffee and gtf out of there imo.

[littleracer]

can find out if the childs yours before its born...

Stick a shit load of morning after pills in her next drink of tea/coffee and gtf out of there imo.

whats morning after pill gonna do if shes already preggers?

[saxo-parts]

b/f booted his wife of 14 years out, know it hurt not having his 2 girls living with him, so far cost him approx 10k in solicitors fees trying to get custody of them. as for your circumstances???? shes cheated once, get shut of her, try and keep it civil because that'll make things much easier if/when you want to see the baby. not wanting to give yhou any doubts but ffs make sure its yours and she don't end up fleecing you into paying for someone elses nipper. you may love her etc, but its got to be a 2 way thing and it don't sound like she can have much respect for you if she has played away then added this gook to her facebook!!! salt...rubbed into...open wound????

[Garton]

fuck her off pal, once a cheat always a cheat, wether she has your child or not, she's not worth the effort

[3cott]

Go bang here sis or mum

[Liam_LFC_VTR]

Stick a shit load of morning after pills in her next drink of tea/coffee and gtf out of there imo.

What will that do lol :S

On topic, best to move on, she obviously cant be trusted soooo.................

[jinjan]

fuck her off pal, once a cheat always a cheat, wether she has your child or not, she's not worth the effort

What he said... If there is no trust there is no relationship imo.

[littleracer]

What will that do lol :S

On topic, best to move on, she obviously cant be trusted soooo.................

obv someone missed sexy class lol

[saxo-parts]

a small explosive charge usually cures all ills....

[AJ_SAXO]

Mate i would fuck her off by shagging some fit arse gal and make sure she catches you at it, then fuck off and find someone else!! Mate it will all be good for you in the end..it doesnt feel like it will at 1st but it sure does;)

[markdavid]

has anyone else got a Dyson animal purple Vac,mine does a great job...

[Saamuell]

I hope the kid aint yours bud! Children = child support = no money as the girlfriend will try and get every penny out of you

[lakey_xs]

Go bang here sis or mum

could not have said it any better myself:P

well would have said her and not here ;)

[Steve]

whats morning after pill gonna do if shes already preggers?

give her shit loads of them, od cause harm to baby. = no more baby.....



so i watched on emmerdale or some shit.

[Steve]

obv someone missed sexy class lol

i didnt need to go to school to learn how to have sex ;)

[littleracer]

give her shit loads of them, od cause harm to baby. = no more baby.....



so i watched on emmerdale or some shit.

you being serious?

[Steve]

you being serious?

no... lmao

however i am now going to google it, as that was my plan if i ever get in OP's situation.

[littleracer]

i didnt need to go to school to learn how to have sex ;)

and when you 'had' sex did you use the brown hole or the belly button?

[Steve]

and when you 'had' sex did you use the brown hole or the belly button?

pink..... as it was with a girl. :oops:

[littleracer]

no... lmao

however i am now going to google it, as that was my plan if i ever get in OP's situation.

good learning although if ya having sex and you dont know what morning after pill is or what it does then maybe you should learn......
other helpfull searches


condoms

[littleracer]

pink..... as it was with a girl. :oops:

the belly button then haha

[Steve]

the belly button then haha

are belly buttons pink?

serious question.

[littleracer]

are belly buttons pink?

serious question.

lol


pink then the average pussy haha

[Steve]

lolz right am away out....

Peace out y0!

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_k_O4PHZGmy8/R8vjCDXsNsI/AAAAAAAAAqc/VUaJxqj62OA/s320/good+bye+1.jpg

Good luck with the relationship jlf :y:

[JoshG]

Quality thread.
How long has she been pregnant for?
If it's 3 weeks get fucking rid of it.

Once a cheat always a cheat.

If shes like a month away from having it I think you need to make some serious decisions or in the long run she will take the piss out of you.

[ZoeMariex]

not being funny mate but, once a cheat always a cheat!!!! dont do the stupidest thing ever!! unless obviously its L.O.V.E x

[jlf]

Thanks for all ur idea's and shes 3 months, Anyway ive tried sorting it out and all she says is that im trying to control her :@

[bald24]

Pushing them down the stairs sometimes does the job :)

[Mr_X]

you got a coat hanger right?

[Ryan]

sprog be gone
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2390/1578710906_0e5a52c5e7.jpg?v=0

[jlf]

She's making my life hell :( i want to be there for my baby and shes saying tht she wont let me have nothing to do wit it :(

[ShaneyG7]

Once a cheat always a cheat.. never go back.. might hurt but not as much as it would taking her back and then getting cheated on again,, making a fool out of you.. smash his face in and dont speak to her again.

[ShaneyG7]

Sorry.. didnt read about the baby.. changes everything. but keep it cool for the babys sake,, if shes any sort of human she will know the baby needs its dad

[luthor1]

Get some legal advice, she *CANNOT* prevent the bio-father from having access.

Simple as - FACT. My parents split up (like 29 years ago) and my dad saw me and my mother didn't want him to, and it's like "tough shit bitch" and I saw my Dad.

So get that problem OUT your mind mate.

Oh - and fuck the cheating bitch off.

Andy

[jlf]

Thanks all, Im so gutted :(, All i wanted was everything to be perfect and the child to have a stable home

[Mr_X]

Thanks all, Im so gutted :(, All i wanted was everything to be perfect and the child to have a stable home

life aint always a bed of roses, just have to make the best out of it.

[The_Notorious_C_A_T]

situations like this is why god invented the hairy back hand

[garyrsts2]

you did right by chucking her lad.

[Tontsy]

i will give your child a lovely home :)


ijoke...but as said, she cant stop you.

get rid of her

this thread will still be going on in the morning with all the same comments.
cunt punt her.

[sammyd]

pics of her and some filthy undies she wore?

[XStephyX]

i dnt get y shes being a twat 2 u 4seen as shes the 1 thats cheated on u not u on her , the same thing happened 2my m8 but he didn't find out his g.f had cheated untill his baby was 6months old then she ran off with this other lad claiming she had planned it all along and the baby wasn't his he hasn't seen his baby girl 4 nearly a year now they had a Dna test and the baby actually was his not the other lads but all he gets now is shit & threats off this other lad, so in a way it's a good job u found out now thats shes cheated while shes pregnant cuz like my m8 she could really have took the piss out of u and told u later it's not urs and done the exact same thing, make sure u find out as soon as it's born if it's urs or not, wudn't want what happed 2 my m8 2 happen 2 anyone else cuz i know how cut up he is about it and it's not right!.x.

[littleracer]

I don't get why she's being a twat to you.Especially as shes the one that cheated on you,not you on her.
The same thing happened to my mate, but he didn't find out his g.f had cheated until his baby was 6 months old. Then she ran off with this other lad claiming she had planned it all along and the baby wasn't his. He hasn't seen his baby girl for nearly a year now.
They had a DNA test and the baby actually was his, not the other lads.All he gets now is shit & threats off this other lad.
In a way it's a good job you found out now that she's cheated while she's pregnant, because like my mate she could really have took the piss out of you, and told u later it's not yours and done the exact same thing.
Make sure you find out as soon as it's born if it's yours or not, wouldn't want what happed to my mate to happen to anyone else. I know how cut up he is about it and it's not right!.x.


there look's better

[bensvarups]

If she cheated fuck her off.

[jlf]

She's been such a bitch and heartless :@ She's fukd me over big time, my heads all messed up :(

[laura_g]

I feel sorry for you and that kid, you deserve much better, shes just a selfish bitch rubbin salt into the wound

[J222JRA]

seriously she needs one hell of a kick in the fanny.

thats just my opinion though

[jlf]

Yeh, Not long got in and had a e-mail off her saying she wants me back, What a head f**k :@

[littleracer]

Yeh, Not long got in and had a e-mail off her saying she wants me back, What a head f**k :@


oh dear,why i go a feeling your gonna get back with her?what ever you do don't unless you can fully forgive her and forget the past and never bring it up.
Even if then she treats you like shit you have no right in moaning.
why put your hand in fire,get burnt then do it again and expect a different result.

[Saxo-Wason]

Look on the bright side....you and your saxo still have each other:fcuk:

:boxing: give her one right the the ovaries

[Saxo-SX]

Donkey Punch.

Simple, yet effective.

[The_Notorious_C_A_T]

Since she wants you back, get her to do all your weird sexual fantasies and once you've done all, tell her to get to f***. Then give her the hairy back hand.

[jlf]

I dunno wht to do, Cause i do love her

[littleracer]

I dunno wht to do, Cause i do love her

so if ya love her,and your not taking the advice on here,wtf did you make the stupid thread in the first place.

[jlf]

It's not that i haven't, i just aint replyed and its playing wit my head

[Saxo-Wason]

Should of worn a jonny;) or done her up the bum:homme:

[littleracer]

Should of worn a jonny;) or done her up the bum:homme:

sounds like shes gonna do him up the bum now with no lube!

[Saxo-Wason]

sounds like shes gonna do him up the bum now with no lube!

With talcum powder;) Ouccchhhhhhh!

[littleracer]

With talcum powder;) Ouccchhhhhhh!

ouch......ringasauras anyone?

[Sheeps24]

Ummm pretty sure it is

Make sure your certaain

[XStephyX]

make sure u find out exactly when shes cheated and get the approximate date off the doctor, my m8 slept with a couple of lads well actually alot of lads in a short space of time she thought it was her new boy.f baby but turns out the dates show it wasn't so she got rid of it cuz she couldn't tell whos it was!. She told u it's deffo urs or wether she used something with this other lad or not?.x.