Sex question...

[RAFkev]

Have you ever been bumpin uglies with your mrs and not been able to... well... "arrive"!?

I've been with her nearly 2 years and never had this before!

Now she's really insecure and thinks I don't fancy her! I do though, she's gorgeous and has an amazing body. I can't explain it!

Arrrggghhh!

[Dom]

Viagra..

[RAFkev]

I had no problem keepin it up! Or satisfying her for that matter! I just couldn't satisfy myself! Lol

[Dom]

Sorry for this but read the white writing (Due to this is a family forum)
Suck Before Fuck

Thats my rules when it comes to it..

Or go see a Doctor :)

[RAFkev]

Ah, I'm on my phone, so can't se white!

Not gonna go docs as it's only happened once!

Just wondered of it's a common thing!

[djflipsaxo]

the more you worry about it the worse it will get.
can you not enjoy sex without climaxing every time???????
just forget it happened, dont feel pressured into finishing off.
your ms must be V insecure to think after 2 years u dont fancy her lol.

just relax and go with what happens.

Ps this aint a joke is it?

[Gary-VTR]

Only happens when I'm really trollied. :homme:

[carter]

lol

if you can "arrive" when when your by urself then theres nothing medicaly wrong with you.

just relax if that dont work fake it?


Deidre

[stiffler69]

Have you ever been bumpin uglies with your mrs and not been able to... well... "arrive"!?

I've been with her nearly 2 years and never had this before!

Now she's really insecure and thinks I don't fancy her! I do though, she's gorgeous and has an amazing body. I can't explain it!

Arrrggghhh!

gay???? i never fail to perform

[Mr_X]

as others have said relax, if you make a problem out of it, it will become a problem.

[J222JRA]

Stress is another big factor that could cause the problem....................Apparently....not that i would know lol

[MikeYost]

blowjob is the answer

[Matty_Mills]

I have had this problem before... couple of times whilst drunk, and once or twice sober.

Problem is...
you think to yourself "I'm gunna come..."
but because your thinking it... it doesn't happen.

Just like when you KNOW you need to sneeze, you can't.

[kcsaxo]

think outside the box (scuse the pun!) has there been anything outside of work stressing you out? most likely things like that which can cause a problem.

[RAFkev]

We are moving house next week. Not really stressing over it but maybe subconciously?

I'm not worried about it. As said it's only happened the once.

My GF is very insecure. She's always worried i'm gonna go off with someone else no matter how much I reassure her!

[Mr_X]

My GF is very insecure. She's always worried i'm gonna go off with someone else no matter how much I reassure her!

ouch :n:

they never change.

[littleracer]

I think it can be a number of things.
could be becuase of tiredness/stress etc,putting to much pressure on yourself to 'deliver' etc etc etc.

The other thing is,do you still find her attractive,is the romance there or is it become bit of a chore.

[RAFkev]

I guess maybe as we hadn't done it for a few days and today I'm back to work and won't see her for 6 days we kinda felt we had to.
Maybe this is why.

When we are in a soppy mood it's great and when we are horny as he'll it's great too.

[Proffitt]

Has happened to me but only when i was drunk :P

Don't worry about it mate.

[RAFkev]

He'll = hell. (frickin predictive txt!)

[iluminusbutterfly]

nope, must be something seriously wrong with you dude :S




on a serious note as everyone has said relax, stress can have a big effect on things like this

[marcusd]

wouldn't worry should have just pulled out porno style and wanked over her face

[nicolala]

Not being funny but is she doing her fair share of the work?

[SaxBuild]

Just to put this plain and simple.

Yes it is a common issue with men.

There are many reasons why this happens and falls into the same categorisation as premature as well, don't get stressed about it or it may happen again. Just reasure your partner that it is nothing to worry about and to be honest if it happens again, enjoy it cause you can last for hours at times.

[MikeYost]

Not being funny but is she doing her fair share of the work?

haha thats wat i was thinking too.

[nicolala]

haha thats wat i was thinking too.

just plain boring when you're on your own in this game.. lol

[RAFkev]

Not being funny but is she doing her fair share of the work?

Yeah she is pretty good to be fair!

Just to put this plain and simple.

Yes it is a common issue with men.

There are many reasons why this happens and falls into the same categorisation as premature as well, don't get stressed about it or it may happen again. Just reasure your partner that it is nothing to worry about and to be honest if it happens again, enjoy it cause you can last for hours at times.

It was good to start with but after a bit we were both knackered and gave up! lol

[nicolala]

Yeah she is pretty good to be fair!



It was good to start with but after a bit we were both knackered and gave up! lol

How long have you been together? Sex is more passionate when you don't see each other 24/7.

[Matts-VTR]

We are moving house next week. Not really stressing over it but maybe subconciously?

I'm not worried about it. As said it's only happened the once.

My GF is very insecure. She's always worried i'm gonna go off with someone else no matter how much I reassure her!

Have that same problem! but not yet failed to perform lol

[Matts-VTR]

wouldn't worry should have just pulled out porno style and wanked over her face

I lol'd :clapping:

[Little-Butch]

Maybe you've turned Gay or have been all along but have just kidded yoursef Into thinking your not?
Butch

[TheDanBurgess]

Stress is another big factor that could cause the problem....................Apparently....not that i would know lol

That's what you said last night bbz ;)

[liam-o]

happend last time i was with the missus... mind it was like the 8th time in 3 days (this was morning of the 3rd day) but i put it down to being so nackered that i just couldnt keep going, she'd "arrived", so my work had been done, i just went for a shower

have a party with madame thumb and her 4 friends, make sure your working fine :P

[johnlambert]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bAekG9VwQc


hope this helps

[liam-o]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bAekG9VwQc


hope this helps

haha, brilliant, comic genius :D

its 1:40 im so tired, but this made me LOL

[Cal]

Have sex with Viper... you'll then see your problems are insignificant.

[Mochachino]

Have sex with Viper... you'll then see your problems are insignificant.

http://i50.tinypic.com/bjfucm.gif

[johnlambert]

haha, brilliant, comic genius :D

its 1:40 im so tired, but this made me LOL

i had to man!!

but seriously dont worry about it!!!

its because your thinking about it too much.
why not try something diff?
like a diff position etc.

upload some pics for the guys here...
lmao sorry again:y:

[Bound]

Sounds like a snapped Banjo mate.

[Azrael]

Shoulda just faked it mate!
Caused youself more grief than know. Your missus will now go out & find someone that can end on a high & doesn't make her insecure...


You's will split up...
You'll spend more time on here...
And eventually end up man loving Viper :homme: (if he stops shitting himself that is!)

[Krys_23]

Try some anal, Fair chance it will be tighter and you'll soon blow your spuds.

[Bound]

http://i50.tinypic.com/bjfucm.gif

Ha ha ha ha, that's very good.

[shayne_vtr]

i got this wen i cheated on my ex i fessed up and we split up after a few 'dates' i met my ex for a one nighter and problem was still ther, but never had a problem with anyone else,people say guilt distracted me, i say im glad we split wen she got boring hahaha