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[Chris91]

Another relationship thread...

So, I go to the gym yesterday and find out i've supposedly 'cheated' on my girlfriend. With my brothers girlfriend, :panic: wtf?

So I was shocked, and I started to laugh because of how pathetic it is. But the thing is, my girl... erm, ex-girlfriend doesn't trust me more than the person who told her. And she won't tell me who told her.

I've had people telling me she's making it up to get rid of me, but I know she wouldn't do that, but why won't she tell me who told her so I can snap her/his neck?

So in conclusion, I've been accused of cheating, everyone on her side hates me, her family. When I did NOTHING!

Help!!

[Liam]

Bad times. If you've been blamed already, I think it's time you got on your brothers bird.

[C4_Lew]

Bad times. If you've been blamed already, I think it's time you got on your brothers bird.

This :y:

[SneakyVTR]

Bad times. If you've been blamed already, I think it's time you got on your brothers bird.

/thread

EDIT: God dam Lewis haha

[Hazmanscoop]

Bad times. If you've been blamed already, I think it's time you got on your brothers bird.

And lose his brother aswell?

Sound advice that like mate :wall:

[Saxomatic]

Another relationship thread...

So, I go to the gym yesterday and find out i've supposedly 'cheated' on my girlfriend. With my brothers girlfriend, :panic: wtf?

So I was shocked, and I started to laugh because of how pathetic it is. But the thing is, my girl... erm, ex-girlfriend doesn't trust me more than the person who told her. And she won't tell me who told her.

I've had people telling me she's making it up to get rid of me, but I know she wouldn't do that, but why won't she tell me who told her so I can snap her/his neck?

So in conclusion, I've been accused of cheating, everyone on her side hates me, her family. When I did NOTHING!

Help!!


I got accused of cheating by an ex once. SHE was actually cheating on me with her 'ex'. She'd then split up with me and spread the rumour all around college that I'd cheated on her, to try make me look 'the bad guy' haha.

Turned out she was having a thing with her 'ex' boyfriend... why didn't they just stay together?

Everyone else at college found out the truth too, so she quit college shortly after and we havent seen her since (a year ago now).

Truely Bizarre. :homme:

:)

[craig180]

If she is accusing you of cheating as an excuse to get rid then I'd say you're better off without her.

If she honestly thinks you have then you need to sit down with her and talk to her so you can somehow convince her it's all lies.

[Chris91]

I don't think she'd cheat on me because she went bezzerk at me. But i just can't understand, if she loved me she'd obviously look into it more with the person who told her.

[Hazmanscoop]

If she is accusing you of cheating as an excuse to get rid then I'd say you're better off without her.

If she honestly thinks you have then you need to sit down with her and talk to her so you can somehow convince her it's all lies.


Well done with the sensible, grown up answer :clapping:

[Saxomatic]

If she is accusing you of cheating as an excuse to get rid then I'd say you're better off without her.

If she honestly thinks you have then you need to sit down with her and talk to her so you can somehow convince her it's all lies.

+1

Best thing you can do :)

[luke1988]

damn that's a bitch...i'm learning not to get too emotionally involved with women as it's too much ball-ache!

[Manu]

Help!!

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[Chloeex]

Sounds like shes using it as an easy way out.. sorry. But i agree with saxo 180, you need to talk it out together, find out why her heads been filled with that silly idea of you cheating, maybe that way you can sort it out, and well tell her the truth, whether she believes you or not will decide it.

[mattygoulding]

just talk to her mate she mite just need reassusin that ur not cheating

[Carlvtr88]

give her a slap.. Jokes.. No on a serious note if its an excuse to get rid of you then thats cold.... If she really thinks your a cheater then you need to set the record straight ASAP.

[Liam]

And lose his brother aswell?

Sound advice that like mate :wall:

It's a joke, calm down! :hug:
Some people are so touchy. Did your brother sleep with your bird or summat?

[Hazmanscoop]

It's a joke, calm down! :hug:
Some people are so touchy. Did your brother sleep with your bird or summat?

haha fair do's

and no he wishes :p haha

[Liam]

haha fair do's

and no he wishes :p haha

Pics of your bird or otherwise we'll assume she looks like my dog. His name is Willis and he is currently asleep.

[Tom_Crx]

TBH mate, i dont think sax-p is the best place for this

Just talk to her, if she cant see that you are telling the truth then a relationship is nout without trust

better off without her

[Liam]

TBH mate, i dont think sax-p is the best place for this

No, it is. What else is there to talk about if people don't bring their problems to us?

[1991Tom]

heres a longshot that could be a possible answer to your situation (bare with me lol). Alot of this could be that she wanted to split up with you and just to break up with you she made you look like the bad guy. She acused you of cheating but with no proof (girls in my experience usually dig for info and proof on such matters). By accusing you of cheating makes it look like it wasnt her fault and that your the nasty evil boyfriend :/ when in the real world she was just looking for an excuse to break up with but didnt have an actual reason for splitting???

[NICK2506]

whats your brother and his gf said about it?

[Chris91]

My brothers girlfriend says its rubbish, and my brother thinks she's making it up.

But I could tell in her eyes she hasn't made it up because she was crying almost. If she'd made it up she'd be long gone by now!

[de51_Hodgey]

My brothers girlfriend says its rubbish, and my brother thinks she's making it up.

But I could tell in her eyes she hasn't made it up because she was crying almost. If she'd made it up she'd be long gone by now!

had alot of this at school tbh mate.

just silly little boys and girls who have got nothing better to do, best thing to do is just reasure her that you didnt sleep with your bro's missus.

[tinytim6666]

if had slept with your brothers girlfriend wouldnt you brother be kicking off??
wat if shes cheated on you?? and now is turning it round on you??
if was you fella i would just let this go and let her get on with telling lies.
you could always get the four of you togther and have a proper talk about this to show her that you havent cheated and if she doesnt believe you then well just let her get on with it and find someone else

[Mr_X]

i seriously wonder about women, if i didnt like sex so much i would have given up years ago.

[girlofthenight]

Its hard without trust, Iv had this before. The person who said that could be someone who wants to get close to your girlf so keep an eye out in the next week or so who she spends alot of time with and that could give you a clue! But other than that you have two choices; try and sit down with her and ur brother and hes gf and talk about it or just back off and see what happens - then you will know if shes actually bothered or if it was an excuse?

[04gallsopp]

well mate just talk to her bout it , if she dont co-operate, just say fuck it , it will be more ball ache for her than for you

[hard_corejoeboy]

Just admit it dude she won't see this thread i know your plan lol

[ashleyoneill]

This :y:

+1. IF you've been accused of it you might as well do it anyway. Seems to work for me.

[tonesssx]

+1. IF you've been accused of it you might as well do it anyway. Seems to work for me.

Ha ;) love this.

:y:

[deano-brfc]

i seriously wonder about women, if i didnt like sex so much i would have given up years ago.

hahaha, yes mate!

[Little-Butch]

i seriously wonder about women, if i didnt like sex so much i would have given up years ago.

An blokes arsehole feels just as good as a Womans minge, so I've heard anyway! :afro:

[Merrick]

but I know she wouldn't do that, but why won't she tell me who told her so I can snap her/his neck?



You just answered your own question, she probably doesn't want his/her neck snapped.

If you think shes being genuine just explain that you arn't cheating on her and that she needs to trust you. If she cant trust you, take a step back and re-assess the whole situation.

[bald24]

You just answered your own question, she probably doesn't want his/her neck snapped.

If you think shes being genuine just explain that you arn't cheating on her and that she needs to trust you. If she cant trust you, take a step back and re-assess the whole situation.

Yup - Trust is the foundation, if she doesn't want to believe you and trust you then you're gonna have to move on.

[jinx]

Id just let it slide mate, obviously not worth your time.

All will come clear in time, people just cant help but open there big mouths.