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saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 22:12
my 21 year old daughter has been seeing a guy of 30 for the past month, she was loosing interest in him to be fair, now shes had a text from him asking if she just wants to be friends, should she let him down gently or ignore? this frigging house gets more like something off jeremy kyle by the bloody day!

brogan5050
25th February 2010, 22:13
let him down gently

Mr_P
25th February 2010, 22:14
Reply with, "yerh, that's fine. Night :)"

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 22:15
Reply with, "yerh, that's fine. Night :)"
thats what her mum said as well lol

Mr_P
25th February 2010, 22:17
thats what her mum said as well lol

It's sort of how I ended it with my ex.

She was a cunt though. :p

Marc-360
25th February 2010, 22:18
Reply with, "yerh, that's fine. Night :)"

lol x2

J222JRA
25th February 2010, 22:18
Let down gently imo

Saxomatic
25th February 2010, 22:18
To be fair, I'd just let her do what she feels is best. I mean, she's 21, people have to learn by making mistakes, or making decisions on their own :y: Although I'm only 19 so what do I know haha.

Mr_P
25th February 2010, 22:19
On a serious note though... (screenshot: This doesn't happen often)


Ignoring is the worst thing she can do. She has to tell him straight how she feels. Whether they remain friends or not is a different story.


Seriousness over...

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 22:21
To be fair, I'd just let her do what she feels is best. I mean, she's 21, people have to learn by making mistakes, or making decisions on their own :y: Although I'm only 19 so what do I know haha.
we've stood by and let her decide for herself with her ex, watched her shack up with a divvy who got her pregnant and turned out to be a nut-nut,now she's actually asked us what to do, well i'm not the best fella to ask for relationship advice lol

stevie_m
25th February 2010, 22:23
Ignore him, he's 30 so he should know how the game is played

Bound
25th February 2010, 22:32
No one has asked for pics of said daughter?

Strange.

Mr_P
25th February 2010, 22:34
No one has asked for pics of said daughter?

Strange.

I resisted. :homme:

wadoryu
25th February 2010, 22:35
No one has asked for pics of said daughter?

Strange.

thats cause it is of his daughter not a girlfriend/shagthing

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 22:35
lol i'm not pimping her out to saxo drivers, you all keep crashing!

Mieran
25th February 2010, 22:37
You must be really old.

Sorry :P

Mr_P
25th February 2010, 22:38
you all keep crashing!

I'll stop. I promise :hug:

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 22:38
You must be really old.

Sorry :P
yeah 40 last sunday lol, bloody bunch of young whippersnappers on here pmsl

CHIP
25th February 2010, 22:41
Let him down gently. He may be 30 but he still has feelings.

Even if she want's to be friends, can't see any harm in that. So long as he knows it isn't going to be anything more.

djmartin
25th February 2010, 22:41
he sent her a txt saying just be friends??????

its already been decided.

all she needs to put is.

Yes I agree I think its best we stay friends at least x x.


that way they can still chat have another relationship with other people and if the candel relights at some stage they can easily get back together and not feel strange about it!

or at worse she can explain to him NOT VIA stupid f**king txt but face to face like a grown up that she does not have the same feelings for him anymore.


she is 21 the guy is 30 if both of them cant make up there minds in a sensible mature manner & come to some agreement then they both need counciling, sorry if that might have offended you in anyway shape or form but sometimes there is something called indapendance (spl?) cant count on everyone to wipe your ass all the time at some stage that baby stuff has to stop!!!!!!!!

djmartin
25th February 2010, 22:41
lol i'm not pimping her out to saxo drivers, you all keep crashing!

what about a x5,e36 & skyline driver who is 26? lols

Dom
25th February 2010, 22:53
To be honest I think the most mature way of ending this is for her to text back with something like this;

"I think the same, something was just missing from our relationship, its best we ended like this and be just friends :) Thanks for the good times we had, its best for the both of us :) x x x"

Copied out of my sent messages folder on my phone :afro:

djmartin
25th February 2010, 22:56
LOLS! ^^^^^^^^^^


I think its bloody sad when people break up relationships via txts its ignorant,imature.

have some guts and do it face to face you might find you get a far better result from it!

Dom
25th February 2010, 22:59
Didn't feel like a slap tbh

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 23:00
what about a x5,e36 & skyline driver who is 26? lols
send pic she may take you up on the offer ????

djmartin
25th February 2010, 23:00
if she is about o slap you just sayyyyyyyyyy WOWOWOWOWOW wait a sec........yoru about to slap the wrong cheek.

then bend over and let her slap yah ass lols.

she would soon forget about slapping your face as you have drawn the attention to the other cheek LMFAO!


trust me on this one please I been there it bloody works hahaha.

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 23:03
well if nothing else its making her laugh . just remember he sent the text not her

djmartin
25th February 2010, 23:03
send pic she may take you up on the offer ????

oi dont make your daughter sound so dam easy will yah lol. :clapping:

pm me her facebook page and il add her no harm in chatting I suppose :).


ok is it me or has sax-p just turned into blind date ROFL!
http://news.bbc.co.uk/nol/shared/spl/hi/pop_ups/05/entertainment_itv_at_50/img/1.jpg

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 23:09
what about a x5,e36 & skyline driver who is 26? lols
anyhow, it's not just saxo's that crash, my R33 crumpled well,just more expensive for me to put right lol

djmartin
25th February 2010, 23:27
oh I know how it feels ot put a R33 correct my wallet is getting punished at the moment lol

Cal
25th February 2010, 23:29
What I mean by friends is, do you mind if I still stick it in you every now and again?

Bound
25th February 2010, 23:30
what about a x5,e36 & skyline driver who is 26? lols

Let's hope she's impressed by what car you drive. /fingers crossed!!

saxo-parts
25th February 2010, 23:45
pmsl she don't give a toss about cars tbh as long as it drives

djmartin
25th February 2010, 23:51
Let's hope she's impressed by what car you drive. /fingers crossed!!

cheeky git lols.

djmartin
25th February 2010, 23:52
pmsl she don't give a toss about cars tbh as long as it drives

oh poo skyline is out of the running then ROFL! dont think im getting that back until May by the looks of things FPMSL!

Gabbastard
26th February 2010, 00:01
Jesus christ this is turning into a date my daughter thread lol

saxo-parts
26th February 2010, 00:12
wouldn't wish her on any body lol

djmartin
26th February 2010, 00:18
lols good reply lol

auds
26th February 2010, 09:21
I agree with what DJMartin said, he sent her the text asking to be friends, so she just needs to say yes agree, end of.....

He is an immature 30 if you ask me, can he not speak to her face.....move on lol

vtrsarah
26th February 2010, 09:39
lol i'm not pimping her out to saxo drivers, you all keep crashing!

lol that did make me chuckle :fcuk: