need your opinions boys!

[leannevtsx]

What do you lot think is the right way to treat your gf's???? I feel like I give and give but I never recieve. How can I make him want too spend more time with me? I'm all for him going out etc. but I just wish he had a bit more compassion.....HELP!

[Moke]

Your first post on a Saxo forum is about a relationship? :/

Give it to him more.

[Pixie]

I wouldn't say that was just one for the boys.

[-Jason-]

Tbh if your having to ask us and he isnt showing you enough attention you should probably talk to him about how you feel etc.

Relationships should be 50/50 so the feeling of you giving should be mutual.

You could probably do better

[leannevtsx]

Your first post on a Saxo forum is about a relationship? :/

Give it to him more.



Yes because I have a car but I'm in the process of getting her done so I will be posting pics etc. up soon. Believe me he get's it nearly every day.

[Moke]

Yes because I have a car but I'm in the process of getting her done so I will be posting pics etc. up soon. Believe me he get's it nearly every day.

Fair enough :y:

Just speak to him, that would be the best thing to do.

[leannevtsx]

I have tryed to speak to him but he just doesnt realy care.......I know he lovez me deep down but I just cannt get him to show it!!

[-Jason-]

Believe me he get's it nearly every day.

Become single and come see me problem solved ;)

[Moke]

Become single and come see me problem solved ;)

Lmao, love that! :D

[leannevtsx]

Become single and come see me problem solved ;)

LOL!!!! I just dont know if hes worth my time or not bcause I like beeing with him but I feel like he doesnt feel the same way back! Plus I live down South so its quite far from you i bet!!!!!

[Colin]

Id fuck him off as he clearly doesnt appreciate you.

[Peter_D]

Take him on Jeremy Kyle and explain to him what you want from him

[Gordi]

start doing the same thing to him!

[Pixie]

Sack Him!!

[Giraffe]

Take him on Jeremy Kyle and explain to him what you want from him

This.

Or take him to the USA, and try either Steve Wilko's or Jerry if he's still around.

[Peter_D]

If you take him on Jerry Springer i'd advise you not to have a fight with your boyfriend, cos Big Steve wont be happy

STEVE STEVE STEVE

http://www.abc.net.au/news/features/img/Entertainmentblog/2007/january/20070118springer.jpg

[-Jason-]

LOL!!!! I just dont know if hes worth my time or not bcause I like beeing with him but I feel like he doesnt feel the same way back! Plus I live down South so its quite far from you i bet!!!!!

Im in london twice a month ;)

And no probably not worth your time use your time more constructively and concentrate on yourself not him

[tom_1106]

stop giving it to him then haha see how he starts acting then

[AdskiVTR]

try talking to him if that don't work give up and then see some of the lads or girls on here lol

[MikeYost]

tell him to fuck off and get someone that appreciates you

[jw1325]

What do you lot think is the right way to treat your gf's???? I feel like I give and give but I never recieve. How can I make him want too spend more time with me? I'm all for him going out etc. but I just wish he had a bit more compassion.....HELP!


join the club chicken! mines is exactly the same.

i give and give, buy him anything he wants, pay for meals etc when we out,

but over the easter weekend only time i seen him was for 2 nights when he was with his mates.

when i asked for 1 night just the two of us, he lost the plot, when hed been with his mates friday day, night, sat day, night, sunday day, night, monday day.

i asked for just one night of the weekend and he said no. i asked why do your mates get you on your own and not me? reply was 'coz they are my mates and you anre my girlfriend. mates come first.

yes, i agree to that, but i dont agree with not giving me 1 night of one on one time in 5 days.


yup. hit me with it, why the fuck am i with him? fuck knows. coz hes hot?

[tom130691]

post naughty pics of you on here to get your own back

[Reechard]

post naughty pics of you on here to get your own back

This man speaks sense :clapping:

Seriously, tell him if he doesnt like it then move on.

[-Jason-]

Tbh it really annoys me when women stay in relationships where they are not appriciated and then are not happy.

If your having doubts cut your losses and move on you will always do better

[Giraffe]

If you take him on Jerry Springer i'd advise you not to have a fight with your boyfriend, cos Big Steve wont be happy

STEVE STEVE STEVE

http://www.abc.net.au/news/features/img/Entertainmentblog/2007/january/20070118springer.jpg

Nah man, Steve has his own show now! Seriously, I've seen episodes where he takes away their chair and makes them stand if he doesn't feel they are worthy of sitting on his stage, he goes fucking mental. Threw a chair at the stage before, stuck in the wall! Legend.

join the club chicken! mines is exactly the same.

i give and give, buy him anything he wants, pay for meals etc when we out,

but over the easter weekend only time i seen him was for 2 nights when he was with his mates.

when i asked for 1 night just the two of us, he lost the plot, when hed been with his mates friday day, night, sat day, night, sunday day, night, monday day.

i asked for just one night of the weekend and he said no. i asked why do your mates get you on your own and not me? reply was 'coz they are my mates and you anre my girlfriend. mates come first.

yes, i agree to that, but i dont agree with not giving me 1 night of one on one time in 5 days.


yup. hit me with it, why the fuck am i with him? fuck knows. coz hes hot?

Nah, cos you are a mug and probably too shallow to know better.

[AdskiVTR]

LMAO dave nice reply,and girls are stubborn and never listen they will ask for advice and not take it.I know alot of girls who get treated like shit by their bf's i give them advice and they still stay with them and go through more shit split up and get back together again

[Morgan_VTR]

Tbh it really annoys me when women stay in relationships where they are not appriciated and then are not happy.

If your having doubts cut your losses and move on you will always do better

+1 Definitely need a word with him. I mean if you can't solve it by talking then he isnt for you.

[Daredevil]

he dont derserve u if hes not showing or telling u how he feels

[nicole_]

if you give it to him everyday and he still dont show you any 'lovez', hes probably just using you for sex,

[bide_furio]

one word....... SWOLLOW!!!!

[adamm]

^^^^^ lolz
just dont give him sex see how he acts then. chances are itl fuck things up but atleast u know hes not using you...

[Nixy]

put it this way you cant make someone spend time with you if they dont want to, end of the day your giving and giving and hes not bothered, tell him to get on his bike bet he wont like it then cause you wont be at his beck and call, loves a game, you may love him to pieces but bottom line is hes playing you, getting his end away when he wants and not bothering with you..sorry but if i was your position he'd be long gone...and yeah you can do all the tit tat back but why bother when you can get a better guy??

[Jarhead]

You need to show him what he would be missing without you. My girlfriend left me once for a few days because I was a prick. I ended up begging for her back and I see her 5/6 days a week now, and I havent been out with my mates for quite a while, and everything is going well.

If he is just taking you for a ride then leave him and dont look back. If you need to discuss with a forum what to do to make him appreciate you more, maybe its time for a new boyfriend.

[vtrsarah]

Roflmao trust you too say that jason!

[Giraffe]

So I was looking for some nice Steve Wilko's clips, but I reckon you should just Youtube it, he's a psycho, honest. He would put the fear of God into me. He would sure sort this topic out, he'd just throw his computer chair at the screen, problem solved. Maybe you should throw a chair at your bf?

Seriously, she doesn't want to be helped, because she knows what she needs to do, she won't do it though. Seriously, it's obvious. Attention seeking imo.

[vtrsarah]

Dave hallalejah i was gonna say that but i always get moaned at lol

[Gabbastard]

He's got it bang on to be honest.

In my experience, treat any lass nicely and theyll walk all over you and think you are a soft cunt. Treat them a bit shite, standoffish, or (even better) talk down to them... well, theyll love you for it. Proof? Here he is, admittedly not treating you as well as youd like. But youre on an internet forum asking how to keep him happy. Ive treated lasses like shit in the past - purely for scientific research obv- and they couldnt have wanted me more if they tried. Im an odd-looking fucker as well.

Lasses are wired wrong, its a fact.

[Giraffe]

Dave hallalejah i was gonna say that but i always get moaned at lol

Everyone must be thinking it surely. Seems like everyone knows a girl who moans about lads all the time, yet constantly takes shit. They must either love it and love whining and love the attention seeking, or are seriously muggish or lack self esteem and confidence to the point they could probably use therapy.

I don't buy this "love" bullshit to be honest.

[geordie_alex]

pipe him off more and concentrate on your car more!

[Barber90]

Lasses are wired wrong, its a fact.

^-This

[bide_furio]

tbh hes with u for sex! lets face it!

as someone said, dont put out see how he acts! bet he gets shitty as fuck!

[-Jason-]

Basically you will only do what you want despite what we tell you.

All I will say is do what makes you feel happy, life is to short to stay doing something that isnt making you feel wanted.

Everyone is special in their own way and deserves to be made to feel that every day

[vtrsarah]

Awwwwwww jason :'( lol

[-Jason-]

I have my moments

[Peter_D]

join the club chicken! mines is exactly the same.

i give and give, buy him anything he wants, pay for meals etc when we out,

but over the easter weekend only time i seen him was for 2 nights when he was with his mates.

when i asked for 1 night just the two of us, he lost the plot, when hed been with his mates friday day, night, sat day, night, sunday day, night, monday day.

i asked for just one night of the weekend and he said no. i asked why do your mates get you on your own and not me? reply was 'coz they are my mates and you anre my girlfriend. mates come first.

yes, i agree to that, but i dont agree with not giving me 1 night of one on one time in 5 days.


yup. hit me with it, why the fuck am i with him? fuck knows. coz hes hot?

He's either having an affair with a more attractive woman, or he's having an affair with one of his "mates" :homme:

And Leanne maybe your boyfriend just doesn't find you attractive enough anymore? Perhaps try a makeover. And if he still doesn't get keen, maybe it's time to ditch him for someone who has lower standards.

Hope this helps :)

[lilboxman]

He's either having an affair with a more attractive woman, or he's having an affair with one of his "mates" :homme:

And Leanne maybe your boyfriend just doesn't find you attractive enough anymore? Perhaps try a makeover. And if he still doesn't get keen, maybe it's time to ditch him for someone who has lower standards.

Hope this helps :)

Kick her when she's down why dont ya... :P

[tom130691]

Kick her when she's down why dont ya... :P

pics to prove him wrong :y: lol

[-Jason-]

The amount of immature people in this thread and on this site is unreal

[Giraffe]

The amount of immature people in this thread and on this site is unreal

Like the person who starts a topic about their relationship as their first post? lol
Cmon, nobody can be expected to take this shit seriously man.

If you were joking, I apologise!

[-Jason-]

No being honestly serious.

New person starts a thread and comments are just pointless about 6 asking for pics of said people.

No need tbh

[Peter_D]

Pics or STFU

[tom130691]

No being honestly serious.

New person starts a thread and comments are just pointless about 6 asking for pics of said people.

No need tbh

:homme:

[Mochachino]

All about having a gf you can be proud of and jus shout about. I just want someone to be loyal and faithfull to, and just like going out my way and spening money on her tbh. There jus isnt anything u can do to show how much u appreciate them, they never appreciate how much u appreciate them tbh.

[-Jason-]

:homme:

Wow most pointless reply ever

All about having a gf you can be proud of and jus shout about. I just want someone to be loyal and faithfull to, and just like going out my way and spening money on her tbh. There jus isnt anything u can do to show how much u appreciate them, they never appreciate how much u appreciate them tbh.

Im the same I would rather they are happy than I am :)

But logic is wasted on most of the people on here where are the mature old sk00l

[Flatarch]

Playing 'the mature peacekeeper' is also very boring.

[Ben]

Stick your fingers up his ass.

[-Jason-]

Playing 'the mature peacekeeper' is also very boring.

Im sorry was that aimed at me?

Peacekeeper? Im mearly voicing my opinion which clearly shows some of the people in this thread are not mature enough to go and see a 12 at the cinema.

[VTR-Chris]

Tits or gtfo

[Mochachino]

But logic is wasted on most of the people on here where are the mature old sk00l

I cant stand the any holes a goal sort of poeple! I just prefer the 'being there' for them sorta thing, being like the best friend they can ever want ssort thing.

Im a soppy cunt at times lol

[-Jason-]

Pics or STFU

Take him on Jeremy Kyle and explain to him what you want from him

post naughty pics of you on here to get your own back

one word....... SWOLLOW!!!!

pipe him off more and concentrate on your car more!

pics to prove him wrong :y: lol

Tits or gtfo

My point proven

[Bound]

What do you lot think is the right way to treat your gf's???? I feel like I give and give but I never recieve. How can I make him want too spend more time with me? I'm all for him going out etc. but I just wish he had a bit more compassion.....HELP!

Do you mean compassion or passion?

[jono83]

Its not love until its up the bum......

[tom130691]

My point proven

at least it is still on topic unlike this post witch is aimed at our posts and not the main post, inwich ours were aimed at there for being on topic and valid

[-Jason-]

How is asking her for pictures on topic?

And its their first post what impression if it going to give of the site if a bunch of pre-pubesent lads see a girl sign up and just ask her for pictures.

I have already answered the question a few times in this thread so dont patronise me about going off topic.

[Giraffe]

How is asking her for pictures on topic?

And its their first post what impression if it going to give of the site if a bunch of pre-pubesent lads see a girl sign up and just ask her for pictures.

I have already answered the question a few times in this thread so dont patronise me about going off topic.

Would you complain if it worked? Ha.

Nah seriously mate, nobody actually expects pics, I think it's become one of those ways of just killing a thread. Like I said, it's hard to take these things seriously... This is saxperience after all, not Dear Deidre.

[nicole_]

jason..surely no girl joins and thinks these guys are actually perverts and leaves?
ive always taken everything as a laugh and with a pinch of salt, its funny, not creepy lol
it also looks bad having your first post as my bf treats me bad, shall i leave him lol, basically inviting the pervs..duh :D

[Cammy]

stop giving it to him then haha see how he starts acting then

yeah, please dont do that.

We all get really stressed and angry, if my bird does that to me i go in a mood like a baby tbh.

I get it in the end :fcuk:

but seriously, talking about your feelings to your bf/gf isnt hard, its someone that is ment to be closest to you, not just your gf/bf but your best friend too - someone that you can trust because maby one day he/she could be for life, i have no problems telling my gf how i feel, the difference is she finds it hard to explain how she feels but she will explain it to an extent lol, its cute >.< just explain how you feel, and say you think you give more than he has, and that if things dont improve, you might not be there much longer.

[Manu]

Pictures of you will help to understand your bf passion. Or lack of.

Also: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=relationshiop+forums

puh lease

[tom130691]

How is asking her for pictures on topic?

And its their first post what impression if it going to give of the site if a bunch of pre-pubesent lads see a girl sign up and just ask her for pictures.

I have already answered the question a few times in this thread so dont patronise me about going off topic.

i think pics of you are need to prove your even male tbh

[adamm]

Pictures of you will help to understand your bf passion. Or lack of.

Also: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=relationshiop+forums

puh lease

so if in your opinion she was ugly would you knock her down like that and make her feel like more shit grow up jeez. i think it pointless starting a thread like this maybe she thought she was on a different site :s god knows but if your just going to take the piss then dont post really. i think its abit unrealistic to be perfect always asin loving and caring. moods change you fall out have little bickers you cant always be so perfect thats life but the fact that you forgive each other and forget about it so quick is to prove that you love one another i see my gf everyday but seeing her everyday makes us argue perhaps abit more but i like to see her everyday and even when we do argue its usually solved withing an hour or two and we just forget about it. thats just my opinion dont be to mean but dont be to soft mix it up a little is the most realistic way tbh

[vtrsarah]

Lol @ this thread too the person who asked jason is defo a male lol

[-Jason-]

i think pics of you are need to prove your even male tbh

Say that to my face and we will see

[tom130691]

Say that to my face and we will see

e-hardness :homme:


edit: why would i ask that if i could see you male lol

[vtrsarah]

Now. now calm down its only the interwebs

[-Jason-]

e-hardness :homme:


edit: why would i ask that if i could see you male lol

No e-hardness

[Insert patronising voice here]

I drive a 2.0 you drive a 1.1 therefor on the interwebs my penis is bigger than yours.

So why dont you do us a favour and shut up

[Bickerton]

What a shit thread!
Why do we keep getting randoms joining up and making their first posts about relationships, surely we have enough long term members with this kinda drivvle to occupy us.

And guys, don't always assume the OP is cute and you do infact want to see their tits

[vtrsarah]

What the old wise one said ;)

[Bickerton]

What the old wise one said ;)

Shut the hell up and make my dinner woman before i pimp slap you!

[vtrsarah]

Lol oldie like too see you try

[jaybiss]

welcome to sax-p

the only internet site in the world where every female member is beautiful...

[Bickerton]

welcome to sax-p

the only internet site in the world where every female member is beautiful...

A girl that puts out freely will always be considered beautiful

[foxon]

this is so funny hahaha

[jaybiss]

A girl that puts out freely will always be considered beautiful

most on here then?

[Bickerton]

most on here then?

So it would appear

[vtrsarah]

Lol no ones called me beautiful :'( lol

[vtrsarah]

Wtf can you stop with the insulting women on here

[foxon]

Wtf can you stop with the insulting women on here

yeah you bunch of wrenches :oops:

[Bickerton]

Wtf can you stop with the insulting women on here

Only "insulting" a certain kinda of woman/girl on here which you are not one of and infact regularly give abuse to/about ;)

[vtrsarah]

Oh ok bick ill shut up and those girls i get told off for abusing lol

[jaybiss]

sarah, you love the attention ;)

[vtrsarah]

Yep jaybis i do :) lol

[tom130691]

No e-hardness

[Insert patronising voice here]

I drive a 2.0 you drive a 1.1 therefor on the interwebs my penis is bigger than yours.

So why dont you do us a favour and shut up


nope i no longer have a 1.1 :y: and that also mean your old :P



lol at latest posts

[-Jason-]

Older than most on here yes.

Which means wiser and more mature which has been elaborated enfatically in this thread.

And sarah I love you :P

[Carlvtr88]

My GF is my best mate without a shadow of doubt so that helps. We have time away when we feel like it and giev each other space. It just works. :)

[Gabbastard]

Would anyone admit to their lass not being their best mate?

[bullit]

Would anyone admit to their lass not being their best mate?

;).....

[Bound]

Would anyone admit to their lass not being their best mate?

..Sarcasm?

Your girlfriend isn't meant to be your best mate. It's a different kind of love. Innit.

[Toms112]

Would anyone admit to their lass not being their best mate?

I did once <- notice the once. Its only a mistake you make once. I find the rule of 'Think it, don't say it' is the best rule.

[-Jason-]

You have to be best friends with someone to have a stable relationship with them

[Robbie-Flat-Arch]

hmmm 5 pages of relationship advice on a car site lol i see the site name being changed soon lol. i think people do need to grow up a bit. shes upset and doesnt know what to do and people takin the piss doesnt help her at all just makes things worse GROW UP!! now with the first post. people cant really say what you should do only you can decide that. if you happy to talk to him then try that if hes not bothered about talking about it then i think the rest is up to you really but if he wasnt bothered it says it all