Girlfriends bday - Need a girls advice?

[Proffitt]

Right im think of ideas for my girlfriends bday, i have plenty of time to save and plan.

She loves Jack Will clothes (i think thats it lol).
Basically my idea was to take her to Chester and saying today is on me, go wild. Limit would be about £300.

Plan is to take her to a nice place for dinner and take her out to a retaurant for a meal in the evening aswell. This wouldnt be included in the £300.

BUT my question is:

Would you (a girl) like the idea of your man taking you shopping for clothers or what ever she wants all paid for or would you think that he hasnt thought of anything and this is a last minute idea??

Cheers

Tom

[hellonpluto]

i did that for my g/f bday. its a good day out

[Proffitt]

i did that for my g/f bday. its a good day out

Did she like it?

How much did you spend?

money really isnt an issue for me but i dont want to go stupid lol

[Dom]

You will get annoyed/bored at the sight of your Mrs shopping.. But sounds like a great plan for her :y:

[Giraffe]

If I were you mate I'd take the focus less of money and move it more to making it a more memorable occasion, something like a cosy weekend away. Depends on your gf though, but I don't think ALL girls just want money chucked at em. I think she'd appreciate something directly from you more than she would if you just gave her £300, might as well just stick £300 in a card, it's not too much different...

[stevie_m]

How long you been going with her ? She might be looking for some sparkle.

Did this on the day before I got married gave her 200 notes and told her it had to be spent today and it had to be for her... She was flustered !

Regarding the birthday though I just give her the bank card and tell her to get something nice..

[bushy90]

I mentioned this to my gf for her bday, she liked the idea, but also wanted something from me to open on the day, maybe get her something small and then take her shopping?

[Proffitt]

You will get annoyed/bored at the sight of your Mrs shopping.. But sounds like a great plan for her :y:

I wont mate, i love making my girl happy.
i think if she loves it, i will to :)

Its her 18th so it has to something special but just woundaring what the girls on here would think.

She lives in a very wealthy family but she has always grown up to work for what ever she wanted. Jack wills is very expensive so hopefully it will be a good idea! lol

[Proffitt]

If I were you mate I'd take the focus less of money and move it more to making it a more memorable occasion, something like a cosy weekend away. Depends on your gf though, but I don't think ALL girls just want money chucked at em. I think she'd appreciate something directly from you more than she would if you just gave her £300, might as well just stick £300 in a card, it's not too much different...

Thats the thing i dont want to make her feel im chucking money in her face lol.

How long you been going with her ? She might be looking for some sparkle.

Did this on the day before I got married gave her 200 notes and told her it had to be spent today and it had to be for her... She was flustered !

Regarding the birthday though I just give her the bank card and tell her to get something nice..

Aint been together long (2months) but it going really well and can see us together for a while :D

I mentioned this to my gf for her bday, she liked the idea, but also wanted something from me to open on the day, maybe get her something small and then take her shopping?

Ill mention it to her closer to the date and see what she says but i was planning on just taking her there on the day.
O of course i will get her something to open on the day, whats a bday without opening a pressie :p

[Sunshine]

If I were you mate I'd take the focus less of money and move it more to making it a more memorable occasion, something like a cosy weekend away. Depends on your gf though, but I don't think ALL girls just want money chucked at em. I think she'd appreciate something directly from you more than she would if you just gave her £300, might as well just stick £300 in a card, it's not too much different...

TOTALLY agreed! I'm a girl and I would much prefer a proper day out together, you can go shopping any time.

On my last birthday he took me around London and he bought me a dress that I randomly spotted in a shop window whilst we were out. We went out for dinner and just had a really lovely long day together, it was very well thought out.

[Pieface]

Get a box, cut a small hole in the bottom, insert penis through the box and let her open it, she will see it and then have fun.


It's a win win situation.

[Proffitt]

TOTALLY agreed! I'm a girl and I would much prefer a proper day out together, you can go shopping any time.

On my last birthday he took me around London and he bought me a dress that I randomly spotted in a shop window whilst we were out. We went out for dinner and just had a really lovely long day together, it was very well thought out.

Thanks for that :)
I had it in mind and i shall now defo look into it :D

Get a box, cut a small hole in the bottom, insert penis through the box and let her open it, she will see it and then have fun.


It's a win win situation.

lmao
I shall be doing that aswell :oops:

[martinmac]

Guy i know did this for his girlfiend...

She woke up in the morning to find a note with 100 quid, saying "go out and buy yourself a nice dress"...

He also left her a message "be at * name of hairdressers * at 3 o clock

And left her a note at the hairdressers saying " meet me at * location * at 8.30pm....

And it was the location he was taking her for dinner.

So in other words, he paid for her to buy a dress, get her hair done and then meet him at a restaurant for dinner.

Was a pretty cool idea lol.

[wadoryu]

Get a box, cut a small hole in the bottom, insert penis through the box and let her open it, she will see it and then have fun.


It's a win win situation.

sounds good

[Giraffe]

Tom, if you have only been together 2 months, don't give her the world yet mate, honest. Also, don't set a precedent where you need to keep chucking money at her to keep it going, don't burn out too early. The best things in life are free mate, but if you chuck a fair bit at her with honest good intentions, and you break up in 2 months time, you will regret it (did it with my ex, together 1 year and 2 months and I still regret giving her so much, it wasn't appreciated anyway I don't feel).

Nice day out with an overnight stay if you reckon she'd be comfortable, should do the trick.

[Pixie]

Sounds like a good idea, i'm sure even if you do get bored and annoyed you keeping a smile on your face for the day would be the best present :)

[stupotvtr]

a card with massive I'm 18 badge!

[Cal]

£300 you soft twat Tommy... :homme:

You shouldn't have to buy your way into her knickers x

Spend it on the Golf and say, I did it for you.

[Proffitt]

Tom, if you have only been together 2 months, don't give her the world yet mate, honest. Also, don't set a precedent where you need to keep chucking money at her to keep it going, don't burn out too early. The best things in life are free mate, but if you chuck a fair bit at her with honest good intentions, and you break up in 2 months time, you will regret it (did it with my ex, together 1 year and 2 months and I still regret giving her so much, it wasn't appreciated anyway I don't feel).

Nice day out with an overnight stay if you reckon she'd be comfortable, should do the trick.

I havnt given her the world.
Im the type of guy that like to spoil my girl, not too much so she thinks im stupid. Juts in a nice way. lol. She not the type to let me pay for everything and its a very evenly financed relationship lmao.
Her ex bf's have been jerks and didnt treat her atall according to the mum so i though i would do something special and treat her :D
Her bday is in October so its a fair bit away but i like to be prepared and organised.
I will look into going somewhere nice and an overnight stay closer to the date.

[Proffitt]

Sounds like a good idea, i'm sure even if you do get bored and annoyed you keeping a smile on your face for the day would be the best present :)

Cheers :)

a card with massive I'm 18 badge!

A singing card with a badge ;)

£300 you soft twat Tommy... :homme:

You shouldn't have to buy your way into her knickers x

Spend it on the Golf and say, I did it for you.

Hahaha Cal, ill tell her you said that.

I didnt buy myself into her knickers :boxing:

£300 on the golf will get me a panel filter maybe :homme:

[jw1325]

i think thats a really good idea.

u thought of it yourself, it means you want to spend time with her doing something hse will enjoy. she will feel special.

wish my boyfriend was as thoughtful as you...........


good luck with it!

[Cal]

I hope you get anal Tom.

Good luck and warm regards,
Cal x

[Proffitt]

i think thats a really good idea.

u thought of it yourself, it means you want to spend time with her doing something hse will enjoy. she will feel special.

wish my boyfriend was as thoughtful as you...........


good luck with it!

Thanks :D

I hope you get anal Tom.

Good luck and warm regards,
Cal x

Ill tell her Cal said anal is good for you.

lol cheers Cal x

[AdskiVTR]

Tell her you got a present for her still in the wrapper :D

[-Jason-]

Give her anal

/thread

[Proffitt]

Give her anal

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haha

''Good morning and happy birthday babe...

...now bend over''

[Dave89]

Isn't Jack Wills clothes mega over priced? If so enjoy the dent in your wallet lol

[AdskiVTR]

Isn't Jack Wills clothes mega over priced? If so enjoy the dent in your wallet lol

not really same as paul smith fred perry from the looks of it,i just think the logo is gay lol

[Proffitt]

Isn't Jack Wills clothes mega over priced? If so enjoy the dent in your wallet lol

Well as a boy i would say yes, yes they are. lol
They just a very expensive clothing brand like any other, you're only paying for the name.

If the missus is happy then thats all that matters :y:

[stevie_m]

Got to ask .... If you've only been with her for two months why push the boat out ? You'll end up wasting your money.

That's my two cents

[Proffitt]

Got to ask .... If you've only been with her for two months why push the boat out ? You'll end up wasting your money.

That's my two cents

Her bday in october.
Im just thinking about what to do.
Im not saying im defo going to be with her for that long but its going really well and can see us together for a while. Hopefully anyway :)

[Dave89]

Well as a boy i would say yes, yes they are. lol
They just a very expensive clothing brand like any other, you're only paying for the name.

If the missus is happy then thats all that matters :y:

Lol I agree with you there man!

[stevie_m]

If you do it once she will expect it every birthday...

Why not make her a meal... Yes make it. Make her feel special for one day...

Showing someone how much you care (not going to use the L word) would prob mean more to her than clothes ... Could be a whole lot more cheaper aswell. If she would prefer the clothes to a day of pampering ... That's what I did for her first birthday together.

Ask any real woman in her would she prefer to feel loved and pampered on her birthday or clothes... The ones who choose clothes are prob under the age of 20 and very shallow

[JdashC90]

If you can cope being dragged around shop after shop for hours on end, whislt pretending your having fun...then it's a good idea!

[Proffitt]

If you do it once she will expect it every birthday...

Why not make her a meal... Yes make it. Make her feel special for one day...

Showing someone how much you care (not going to use the L word) would prob mean more to her than clothes ... Could be a whole lot more cheaper aswell. If she would prefer the clothes to a day of pampering ... That's what I did for her first birthday together.

Ask any real woman in her would she prefer to feel loved and pampered on her birthday or clothes... The ones who choose clothes are prob under the age of 20 and very shallow

I understand what you mean mate but really she not like that im not the type to buy her stuff all day every day. I like to spoil but im not stupid :)

Thats why i put it up on here to get some advice from some girls and see what they would like.

I would love not to have to ask her as she loves suprises.

i would have to disagree there mate about the shallow bit.
I think it will be a nice treat.
She never asks me for money or to buy her anything

[Prickle]

Ask her what she fancys.. easyier imo. ;)

[alanrichie]

one word: pandora

[Proffitt]

Ask her what she fancys.. easyier imo. ;)

She likes suprises so i would like to keep it that way :)

But tha would be one hell of alot easier lol

[Mr_X]

you need something that she wont be expecting, like nothing.