If you could......

[auds]

go back in time and change just one thing in your life what would it be and why?

And do you have any regrets in life?

I myself would have told my stepdad where to stick his opinions and gone and done the music course I wanted to when I was 17 lol......he said I was a dreamer lmao......and!! lol.....things could have been so much different by now.....but then I also think I wouldn't have seen and done what I have and be where I am today.....so in a way I'm happy it has turned out like this and I am who I am today.....things happen for a reason don't they :)

The only regret or thing I wish I had had when I was younger, to be able to do the stuff I wanted, was more self belief and confidence.....I think you realise as you get older you shouldn't care so much about what other people think and be embarrassed to do stuff you want to.....life is too short to hinder yourself because of lack of confidence.....you have to grab opportunities when you can :D

What's your thoughts?

I'm being a bit deep tonight now lol...one of those moods haha

[blackie_2k5]

i have a few things id cal regrets but not for the public forum lol, way i see it, the past is the past for a reason, you learn from your mistakes and better your futue from these life lessons, life is what you make it, if you sit for too long dwelling on the past you may find you miss your future,

bit of a seedy reply but thats the way i think of it, you have to live it as it comes, you dont get 2 chances :)

[Dom]

We need to get a bit of Barry White out for you tonight don't we :P

I would love to say I have no regrets, but I have many. I would have loved to have gone to Uni 2 years ago when alot of my friends went, I stayed to better my grades to get into a better Uni, eventually got kicked out of 6th Form 2 weeks before the end due to a anger/attitude problem.

I should of pursued what I wanted from Day1 instead of getting distracted on the way. I have lost out alot because of confidence problems, never got to show what I could really do, only glimpses.

Wow getting emotion here! haha

[Moke]

If I could go back in time and change one thing.... I'd like to spend more quality time with my Mum.

I spent time with her obviously, but also took her for granted, was a little shit sometimes and I guess I'm saying this as I miss her and only got to spend 12 years in her company.

[auds]

i have a few things id cal regrets but not for the public forum lol, way i see it, the past is the past for a reason, you learn from your mistakes and better your futue from these life lessons, life is what you make it, if you sit for too long dwelling on the past you may find you miss your future,

bit of a seedy reply but thats the way i think of it, you have to live it as it comes, you dont get 2 chances :)

Totally agree :y: I don't regret anything, only wish I had had more balls to do stuff when I was younger, but nothing major haha, not like I can't do things I really want to now :D it is all a big learning curve....

[Dom]

This thread is made worse with Simply Red on TV, Holding Back the Years, Getting to me!

[auds]

We need to get a bit of Barry White out for you tonight don't we :P

I would love to say I have no regrets, but I have many. I would have loved to have gone to Uni 2 years ago when alot of my friends went, I stayed to better my grades to get into a better Uni, eventually got kicked out of 6th Form 2 weeks before the end due to a anger/attitude problem.

I should of pursued what I wanted from Day1 instead of getting distracted on the way. I have lost out alot because of confidence problems, never got to show what I could really do, only glimpses.

Wow getting emotion here! haha


LOL we do....haha....I know exactly what you're saying about the confidence issues.....it is wank.....got to overcome them though, tbh I think virtually everyone has exactly the same issues....I think we aren't really all that different (not me and you, I mean us and everyone)


If I could go back in time and change one thing.... I'd like to spend more quality time with my Mum.

I spent time with her obviously, but also took her for granted, was a little shit sometimes and I guess I'm saying this as I miss her and only got to spend 12 years in her company.

:hug: :hug: :hug: brought tears to my eyes :( I'm sorry Mikey :( :hug:

Everyone takes their parents for granted and parents expect it so don't you feel bad about that :hug: that's what kids do hun :D and as for being a lil shit well that's boys all over hahaha :P ;)

:hug:

[VTR01KBR]

Ive got a few but everything happens for a reason. If i did go back and change them my life would be completly differant. One i will admit on a forum is when i was 16 i landed a job as a Junior Architect which was a big deal considering a was a bit of a bad boy lol but i ended up getting sacked after a 1 and a half years, if i had stuck in at that job then i would be on about 30k right now with so many prospects to go forward not bad for a 20 year old lol.

[auds]

This thread is made worse with Simply Red on TV, Holding Back the Years, Getting to me!

I know I think that's what made me think of it, I have put Traffic Cops on now lmao :P

[Moke]

:hug: :hug: :hug: brought tears to my eyes :( I'm sorry Mikey :( :hug:

Everyone takes their parents for granted and parents expect it so don't you feel bad about that :hug: that's what kids do hun :D and as for being a lil shit well that's boys all over hahaha :P ;)

:hug:

Aww, nooo don't worry about it. It can't be helped.

I just hold on to the fact that I will see her again :)

[auds]

Ive got a few but everything happens for a reason. If i did go back and change them my life would be completly differant. One i will admit on a forum is when i was 16 i landed a job as a Junior Architect which was a big deal considering a was a bit of a bad boy lol but i ended up getting sacked after a 1 and a half years, if i had stuck in at that job then i would be on about 30k right now with so many prospects to go forward not bad for a 20 year old lol.

:( that would have been cool....but money isn't everything is it.....I believe it's love that makes the world go round not money as people say lol

But yes everything does happen for a reason and it obviously wasn't meant to be.....something better is obviously in store :D

[saxokid100]

go back in time and change just one thing in your life what would it be and why?

And do you have any regrets in life?

I myself would have told my stepdad where to stick his opinions and gone and done the music course I wanted to when I was 17 lol......he said I was a dreamer lmao......and!! lol.....things could have been so much different by now.....but then I also think I wouldn't have seen and done what I have and be where I am today.....so in a way I'm happy it has turned out like this and I am who I am today.....things happen for a reason don't they :)

The only regret or thing I wish I had had when I was younger, to be able to do the stuff I wanted, was more self belief and confidence.....I think you realise as you get older you shouldn't care so much about what other people think and be embarrassed to do stuff you want to.....life is too short to hinder yourself because of lack of confidence.....you have to grab opportunities when you can :D

What's your thoughts?

I'm being a bit deep tonight now lol...one of those moods hahaNice to speak your mind Auds!!! i have no regrets at all.........:y::p

[auds]

Aww, nooo don't worry about it. It can't be helped.

I just hold on to the fact that I will see her again :)

:hug: awwww you never cease to amaze me Mikey :)

x

[Moke]

:hug: awwww you never cease to amaze me Mikey :)

x

I'm a positive person. I've had to be :A:

[saxo-parts]

i'd say getting married to my ex was my biggest regret but even then some good came out of it in my 2 daughters, perhaps as regrets go being a total waster when my kids were small and missing out on enjoying them grow up, thats my biggest regret that has no up-side

[VTR01KBR]

:( that would have been cool....but money isn't everything is it.....I believe it's love that makes the world go round not money as people say lol

But yes everything does happen for a reason and it obviously wasn't meant to be.....something better is obviously in store :D

i really hope so :( put it this way i wouldnt be on here on a Saturday night if i had that cash:p

[auds]

Nice to speak your mind Auds!!! i have no regrets at all.........:y::p

Yes that is also something I never used to do.....lol.....like I said as you get older you start to have like realisation (well I did anyway haha, maybe I'm just weird hehehe) :P

I'm a positive person. I've had to be :A:

I know the best way to be too :D

LOL that Life of Brian song just came into my head lol.....always look on the bright side of life...do do do do do do do lol :panic:

I've lost it LOL :P

[jonathon5]

I had one big chance in life to do what I have always wanted & blew it ...........

not complaining though . No point in looking back.

Its not where you were, its where your at that matters.

[J222JRA]

My only regret was wasting 4 years of my life with my Ex.

[auds]

i'd say getting married to my ex was my biggest regret but even then some good came out of it in my 2 daughters, perhaps as regrets go being a total waster when my kids were small and missing out on enjoying them grow up, thats my biggest regret that has no up-side

But at least you can be there for them now and make it up to them so to speak :D :y:

i really hope so :( put it this way i wouldnt be on here on a Saturday night if i had that cash:p

LOL too true :P

[Moke]

I know the best way to be too :D

LOL that Life of Brian song just came into my head lol.....always look on the bright side of life...do do do do do do do lol :panic:

I've lost it LOL :P

Haha, has Auds been on the wine? ;)

[Rogue_Shadow]

go back in time and Put shares into Microsoft, Sony and Nintendo before they were even made.

Then fast forward back to present day.

That or help Guy Fakes Blow up parliament ... and succeed! :D lol

[saxokid100]

Yes that is also something I never used to do.....lol.....like I said as you get older you start to have like realisation (well I did anyway haha, maybe I'm just weird hehehe) :P



I know the best way to be too :D

LOL that Life of Brian song just came into my head lol.....always look on the bright side of life...do do do do do do do lol :panic:

I've lost it LOL :P

You just see things different as you get older.........Auds.....and you think more about things you wish you said and done.....:p

[auds]

I had one big chance in life to do what I have always wanted & blew it ...........

not complaining though . No point in looking back.

Its not where you were, its where your at that matters.

If things had been different today would be different....some things just aren't meant to be.....and yes agree it's the future that matters and you have to make the most of things and make things happen :)

My only regret was wasting 4 years of my life with my Ex.

I wouldn't look at it as a waste or regret, look at it as an experience and a lesson, that you've learnt from it and if you hadn't been with her maybe you wouldn't have been on the right path to meeting Melissa :D so it's all good :y:

[Dom]

Ever thought of becoming a shrink Auds? lol.. Quite good at this stuff :)

[jonathon5]

If things had been different today would be different....some things just aren't meant to be.....and yes agree it's the future that matters and you have to make the most of things and make things happen :)


Notice how I missed all the detail LOL

not getting called ASW again ;)

[saxokid100]

Ever thought of becoming a shrink Auds? lol.. Quite good at this stuff :)

She could be the sax-p shrink..........:p

[Moke]

notice how i missed all the detail lol

not getting called asw again ;)

ASW :A: lol.

[jonathon5]

ASW :A: lol.



LOL your not even on my friend list, its normally ever cunt on my friends list calls me that :y:

[Moke]

LOL your not even on my friend list, its normally ever cunt on my friends list calls me that :y:

Accept my friend request :oops:

[jonathon5]

Accept my friend request :oops:

Ok, fair game now .

[Moke]

Ok, fair game now .

:A:

ASW!

Haha ;)

[saxomad197]

if i could turn back time i would of met claire when i was 16. and not wasted my time on any of the others or slept with anybody else.

[Mr_X]

i wouldnt change a thing, granted i didnt always do the right thing but at the time i did what i thought was best. I like to think that all the bad things i did in the past have made me the person i am today.

you certainly learn from your mistakes.

[MiniGibbo]

I wouldnt change a thing for example i went to college for three years to be a mechanic then soon as i got my grades i ditched it and carried on being a builder as it made me a lot of friends and i did learn a lot.

The only thing i would go back and change would be about half a dozen girls i didnt smash in that i could/should of done..

[Viper]

Well right now, I would love to go back and actually pass my dissertation so I could have that 2:1 I worked so fucking hard for :wall:

[Dolly]

I wouldn't go back and change a thing, not even one!

I've done so many different things in my life so far, from such a young age, I've had soo many amazing opportunities, traveled a fair bit of the world and had some amazing friends with some incredible memories.
As I've got older (18 - still young) its amazing how much your life changes when you leave school and your 'friends' go off to college/uni.
I've begin to realize just how much I did with them/for them and stopped most of the things I did for myself that gave me all those amazing experiences.

I was quite upset in how I dropped most of my things I did for myself, for them and they have gone off and done what they want while I've not been able to go back and do what I wanted too as its too late.
I didn't exactly revolve my world around them I suppose I just spent alot of time with them and to be honest, let them walk all over me.
I'm totally gutted in that I let them do that but not blowing my own trumpet I'm a nice person and in some cases far too nice, if I never let them do that I would be a totally different person to who I am now and I know that as when I look back in my memories box (my mum made) I have so many achievements that I'm so proud of and it would put me in a different place and life to which I'm living now but if I did do that, I wouldn't of met most of the people I have in my life now and they are people who I appreciate so much to have.

I have a lovely boyfriend :) and family with a few good friends, some I've had from since I can remember and they are the bestest, I wouldn't change them for anything, they let me get on and do what I want no matter how silly or dream like it is. I'm so thankful for all them!

Yeah I suppose I have some things I should regret but now its been and done I can't change it and don't plan too, so I don't want to realise what I could of done and who I could be as it could still happen or not. Noone knows!
My life has changed so much over the past 2 years and yeah I'm loving it, I just can't wait to get my qualification for my career and live my life to how I want too and with the people I love!

Life is how you make it really :y:
I hope to not have ANY regrets in my life no matter how sad or life changing they are.
At the end of the day its made me who I am, for better or worse and I'm happy with that :)

Sorry for the essay, just this got to me! :p

[rushy_23]

I wouldnt want to go back and change anything as Ive enjoyed the ups and downs of life so far. Its not been easy but its been an interesting road.

Have many regrets, but thats what makes me me I guess..

Also I dont really believe that peolpe learn from their mistakes.. They say they do but often dont, inc me! :flamed:

[auds]

i would have gone to college to pissing learn how to fix laptops mine broke on me last night and im using the wii which is not easy grrrrrrr i need my laptop god damn it. Cant do sadface lol. Yeah have thought of being a shrink lol n no Mikey wasnt on wine unfortunately haha. Yes Jonathon i did notice you left out the details lol......

[tinytim6666]

mines, not buying a bigger bike when i had the chance to 4 years ago :(
having more confidence in what i did, as now im finaly getting good at what i do and will give any bodywork/ paint task ago even mechanical work and wiring. and if i ahd worked harder i would of had alot more than what i have today which is not alot :(
but things are starting to look for me :)

[L20VTS]

I'm another one for wouldn't change anything, i am who am because i've what i've done the sh1t bits as well nothing i've not lived through so can't be that bad :)

It would maybe be nice to change binning my vts i'd only had three months but i learnt a lot from that as well.

So all is good :D

[Fulch]

Too many to say really, but on the other hand I'm happy as I am now.

[Princey_vts]

I'm another one for wouldn't change anything, i am who am because i've what i've done the sh1t bits as well nothing i've not lived through so can't be that bad :)

It would maybe be nice to change binning my vts i'd only had three months but i learnt a lot from that as well.

So all is good :D

good call :)

[D--R--E--W]

I regret not sticking to my welding/fabrication apprentiship. Also, I'm glad I have my daughter, but can't help think how good it would be if it was with my current girlfriend. I don't get to see my girl much, which has seen me cope with being depressed and ill. I now suffer from insomnia which is why I spam the shit out this forum every night til mid morning....

[MAXSTARR]

being a lazy bastard for the last 18 years

[Tommo87]

I wouldn't change a thing and honestly I've no regrets.

[MAXSTARR]

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it.

[D--R--E--W]

Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it.


I'm going to get that as a tattoo....

[MAXSTARR]

I'm going to get that as a tattoo....

n'awwwwww. really??? :oops:

[D--R--E--W]

n'awwwwww. really??? :oops:

No....

[MAXSTARR]

No....

ohhh..... snap..... :(.... i thought we had a connection..... oh well.....

don't blame you, it'd fuckin kill

[D--R--E--W]

If you seen what I have already, that would be easy as a tat lol

[MAXSTARR]

If you seen what I have already, that would be easy as a tat lol

a life size portrait of my dick?

[D--R--E--W]

Sadly no tattoo of your cock and tbh, I'm glad as yours is massive and would hurt, not as bad as it did during my session with you though....

[MAXSTARR]

Sadly no tattoo of your cock and tbh, I'm glad as yours is massive and would hurt, not as bad as it did during my session with you though....

oooooo you've got me wet once more, you dirty little piece you :homme:

[D--R--E--W]

oooooo you've got me wet once more, you dirty little piece you :homme:

Shame your sigs are full up as that could big you up and make me look like a filthy whore at the same time ;)

[Cammy]

Spamfest, I need more post counts as Drews Is too big ;o

[MAXSTARR]

Shame your sigs are full up as that could big you up and make me look like a filthy whore at the same time ;)

good plan stan

Spamfest, I need more post counts as Drews Is too big ;o

meh, bore fest. you think his post count is big, you haven't seen his... bum hole

[D--R--E--W]

meh, bore fest. you think his post count is big, you haven't seen his... bum hole

...cock?

Hope that was what you were leaning towards as I'm sick of being called fat, thought you might have said Belly...

[MAXSTARR]

...cock?

Hope that was what you were leaning towards as I'm sick of being called fat, thought you might have said Belly...

white writing :hug:

[D--R--E--W]

That another dig at being fat or just cause my arsehole is like a burst balloon?

[MAXSTARR]

That another dig at being fat or just cause my arsehole is like a burst balloon?

nope. you're beautiful in my eyes. :hug: t'was the vortex inbetween the cheeks

[D--R--E--W]

nope. you're beautiful in my eyes. :hug: t'was the vortex inbetween the cheeks

Fucking LOL!!! :clapping:


It's been described as a mini sized hurricane before

[MAXSTARR]

Fucking LOL!!! :clapping:


It's been described as a mini sized hurricane before

a minicane iirc

[auds]

LOL how come you guys always become cock lovers in the early hours of the morning :P

[MR_N]

I would go back a year and start the Sax-p blind date game with Auds ;)

[Caino]

i wouldn't change a thing. im only 19 and have no regrets, i dont believe in them! all they do is hold you back and get you down so fuck it and move on. you learn from it and it makes you the person you are today

[Proffitt]

I wouldn't change anything in the past, have a few regrets but nothing would be changed. As i am happy with where i am now...have a beautiful gf and couldnt be happier and have a decent job (even though i hate it).

If you kill a butterfly in the past....

[jw1325]

when given the ultimatum between boxing and horse riding, i didnt choose quick enough, and then ironically had a accident with the horses that ended my boxing career.

looking back now, although i am successful with the horses, and id never be without them... boxing was where i absloutley excelled and i could have been a lot more than i am now, and still will my little six pack.

another thing i would change is letting my ex go coz of silly fights, even though we kinda want back hes now having a baby with someone else and that cant just be ignored....

[Jamie]

I haven't many regrets, but i'm hoping the ones I do behold, I have a shot at fixing now.

[Aly]

Probabyl most recent regret was the amount of money I spent on my first Saxo.
Spent stupid amount on it and it was all wasted really.

[Carlvtr88]

starting smoking, I tryed it when i was 12, wish'd i never, and tryed canabis when i was 15 wished id never, I dont smoke it now or fags. but i went through a stage between 16 and 19 where i smoked it a lot with friends.... Couldnt really see what i was doing, It kinda sucks your motivation away from you. Makes you not want to do nothing. Having said that i was workin, i wasn that bad or anything, i never moved onto other stuff .... But i stil wished i never did it.

[Pixie]

Wasting 6 years of my life with my Ex :n:

[jordysaxobby]

i would have not quit my job when i was 18 becasue i couldnt be arsed to go in with the new boss, wish i had just gone in and stuck at it and not spent my last pay check on random stuff i dint need when i had no job,

but i supose if i hadn't done that i wouldn't be where i am today so it worked out well so far :)

[D--R--E--W]

LOL how come you guys always become cock lovers in the early hours of the morning :P

Coz you're not around aids ;)

[piranhamatt]

If i could turn back time, i'd go to the day in october last year when i crashed, and not go out

[Lacey_106]

Ever giving my ex the time of day... (I hope we're still on topic... Should've probably read the whole thread. Never mind)

[jw1325]

Ever giving my ex the time of day... (I hope we're still on topic... Should've probably read the whole thread. Never mind)

i, tbh, am exactly the same.

it makes me wish i had never bought the pug, and thats how i met him.

woulda saved me 2 years of heartache!!!!

[Mochachino]

Right now I wouldnt go back to change nothing, life is prefect and im loving it, got everything i want and everything is going in the right direction.

If i could go back to relive a time it would definatly be secondry school!

[auds]

I would go back a year and start the Sax-p blind date game with Auds ;)

lol i havent been here a year haha :P

starting smoking, I tryed it when i was 12, wish'd i never, and tryed canabis when i was 15 wished id never, I dont smoke it now or fags. but i went through a stage between 16 and 19 where i smoked it a lot with friends.... Couldnt really see what i was doing, It kinda sucks your motivation away from you. Makes you not want to do nothing. Having said that i was workin, i wasn that bad or anything, i never moved onto other stuff .... But i stil wished i never did it.

I can totally relate to this and good on you for quitting it aint easy, we learn from our experiences and i guess we can advice n help others because of this......[Viper dont whinge about my txt talk using wii is hard getting laptop fixed 2moz though]

Coz you're not around aids ;)

dont try using me to mask your gayness

Ever giving my ex the time of day... (I hope we're still on topic... Should've probably read the whole thread. Never mind)

still on topic lace.....

i, tbh, am exactly the same.

it makes me wish i had never bought the pug, and thats how i met him.

woulda saved me 2 years of heartache!!!!

way i see relationships, is each one makes you wiser n stronger if you know what i mean......we are going to suffer heartache over n over......i feel.....i would rather have loved n losted than to have never loved......

[D--R--E--W]

Late night saxp is to blame for my gayness

[jw1325]

lol i havent been here a year haha :P



I can totally relate to this and good on you for quitting it aint easy, we learn from our experiences and i guess we can advice n help others because of this......[Viper dont whinge about my txt talk using wii is hard getting laptop fixed 2moz though]



dont try using me to mask your gayness



still on topic lace.....



way i see relationships, is each one makes you wiser n stronger if you know what i mean......we are going to suffer heartache over n over......i feel.....i would rather have loved n losted than to have never loved......

i would rather nt have lovd than to be ignored,strung along, and been so wrappd up in him stil runin to hm after he went on holiday with another girl and got her pregnant twice...

[Viper]

i would rather nt have lovd than to be ignored,strung along, and been so wrappd up in him stil runin to hm after he went on holiday with another girl and got her pregnant twice...

Ouch :n:

[MAXSTARR]

LOL how come you guys always become cock lovers in the early hours of the morning :P

its the only time we can without interuptions

[Viper]

Late night saxp is to blame for my gayness

Not your undying love of cock?

[MAXSTARR]

Not your undying love of cock?

my cock :homme:

[D--R--E--W]

As Max said, his cock