Opposite sex friendship's...

[beckha]

Some people think it's impossible.... (well without underlying reasons)

That you can't be friends without wanting to do the dirty with them...

I think that's a load of bullshit to be fair...

Discuss...

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[nicole_]

me and ben were really good friends before we ended up together, but we ended up together, so that doesnt really support your statement
but i have a few best mates who i used to stay at theres like every night and never ever would look at them in a way other than a best mate. literally with them 24/7 but tbf, theyve all had feeling for me at one point

[Pixie]

Most of my mates are guys!
And i aint done nothing with any of them. :y:

Most girls are too bitchy so can't be bothered with them :A:

[beckha]

Most of my mates are guys!
And i aint done nothing with any of them. :y:

Most girls are too bitchy so can't be bothered with them :A:

That's what I'm like. Lads are alot easier to get on with I find.

I would say I have like 3 girls that I would class as mates. I do have alot of female aquaintances but wouldnt class them as my mates.

:y:

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[nicole_]

That's what I'm like. Lads are alot easier to get on with I find.

I would say I have like 3 girls that I would class as mates. I do have alot of female aquaintances but wouldnt class them as my mates.

:y:

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i have none. one girl mate maybe who i talk to every other week as she works in mothercare and used to be my best friend at school
but thats it lol
dont get on with girls at all

[deans2k8]

think its silly, im a lad and i have more girl-friends than i do lad friends, i get on with them better, my best friend is a girl and we have been best friends for about 5 years now used to go into town most weekends with her and people would always ask me questions like 'seriously how long have you been trying to get with her' or ' your just wanting sex aren't you' etc kinda got annoying but was really funny some of the things some people would say one of them was a woman who was about 36 at the time..was sat in the beer garden me, my best friend, best friends cousin+boyfriend and this creepy woman who's name was vicky ...sticky vicky she said he name was lol..

well sat there vicky questioned me thinking i was after my best mate linz then linz and her cousin charlie went to the toilet...that just left me karl and sticky vicky.. questioning us more..then when the 2 girls came back vicky finally agree'd that i was not after sex from her..and asked if i would like a quickie in the ally way between argos and sports direct..how romantic!....she stalked us back into the pub and had to wait for her to go to the loo and us 4 did a runner

[Fulch]

I got plently of girl mates and one girl I'm seeing is bi so she is really cool with it and understands lol

[SAM-S44MDS-]

I got plently of girl mates and one girl I'm seeing is bi so she is really cool with it and understands lol

Take advantage of that while you can .:y:

And just one? :fcuk: how many are there? lol

[deans2k8]

I got plently of girl mates and one girl I'm seeing is bi so she is really cool with it and understands lol

bi's and lesbians are all good :) ive had relationships with 1 Bi and 2 lesbians :y: well..there not lesbians anymore

[D--R--E--W]

Got a few lass pals but never think other than mates

[beckha]

So just because you spend alot of time with someone doesn't mean your shagging them... :y:

Cant understand why some people cant get it in their heads...

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[deans2k8]

So just because you spend alot of time with someone doesn't mean your shagging them... :y:

Cant understand why some people cant get it in their heads...

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longshot here...a boy likes you , you like him ..but he thinks your a slag because you hang around with lads?

or

your boyfriend thinks your cheating because you have alot of boy mates?

[D--R--E--W]

So just because you spend alot of time with someone doesn't mean your shagging them... :y:

Cant understand why some people cant get it in their heads...

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Jealously/lack of trust is all it is.

[W103_A5H]

Well my old best mate of 10 years was female, people always thought we was shagging and it didnt help when i took her to my works christmas dinner last year considering i work in a factory full of men. Having a female best friend without people assuming things, asking if you have gave her one yet or when are you going to all come with it. It is impossible, to have a female friend without people thinking you are doing the dirty. What im trying to say, yes its possible but expect people to think you are at it :y:

[thelooneytuner]

Always had lass mates, I have one that is a good friend, although she is quite fit she is more like a sister to me and I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship at the end of the day! and the other halfs not bothered either as she's become mates with her too

[beckha]

longshot here...a boy likes you , you like him ..but he thinks your a slag because you hang around with lads?

or

your boyfriend thinks your cheating because you have alot of boy mates?

Neither!

:y:

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[beckha]

Jealously/lack of trust is all it is.

Hmmmm.

And jealousy isn't very attractive is it.

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[deans2k8]

Neither!

:y:

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ouch! shot down lol :( ..was worth a go as ive had girls with this problem before lol... one of my ex's said it was IMPOSSIBLE for me to be friends with a girl without wanting to do rude things to her..then again she tried stopping me seeing ALL my friends so..i think she had issues.....

[RustySkull]

We can all be friends! :D

[beckha]

ouch! shot down lol :( ..was worth a go as ive had girls with this problem before lol... one of my ex's said it was IMPOSSIBLE for me to be friends with a girl without wanting to do rude things to her..then again she tried stopping me seeing ALL my friends so..i think she had issues.....

Sounds like it... Lol.

Maybe she was worried you were gonna turn :homme: if you saw your lad mates too much?

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[shannon-ob]

I have 2 very close friends who are both girls...

I generally think girls are easier to talk to about relationship problems :y:

[deans2k8]

Sounds like it... Lol.

Maybe she was worried you were gonna turn :homme: if you saw your lad mates too much?

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to be honest...she probably thought that...bitch was crazy!

[beckha]

to be honest...she probably thought that...bitch was crazy!

We all are, just different degree's of craziness.... :y:

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[deans2k8]

We all are, just different degree's of craziness.... :y:

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your not wrong..certain degree of craziness is needed..if there was none...it'd be pretty boring tbh :afro:

[Caino]

yeh i think you can have a really good friendship with the opposite sex. get advice etc from a different angle. sometimes it can fuck with your head though

[SAM-S44MDS-]

yeh i think you can have a really good friendship with the opposite sex. get advice etc from a different angle. sometimes it can fuck with your head though

Females just fuck with your head in general :panic:

[beckha]

yeh i think you can have a really good friendship with the opposite sex. get advice etc from a different angle. sometimes it can fuck with your head though

If you both know where you stand though there should be no headfucking. ;)

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[W103_A5H]

Females just fuck with your head in general :panic:

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[0rang3peel]

I have loads of girl mates, most are actually really fit & cracking laughs. but you just can't go there!

[Caino]

If you both know where you stand though there should be no headfucking. ;)

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yeh ano i have a few good mates that a lasses. but sometimes what starts as just mates can turn into :wall:

[wadoryu]

i have loads of friends that are both sex's. im too ugly to hit on anyone lol.

[Caino]

i have loads of friends that are both sex's. im too ugly to hit on anyone lol.

god thats bad to hear. have confidence, there will be someone out there !

[vtrdunc]

My best mate is female and to say im not attracted to her would be lying. We first met 10 years ago and dated, then decided we'd be better off friends. Only recently (in the last year) everytime we get drunk we end up doing naughty things, whether it be kissing, a litttle playing or fucking. It's wrong!!!
So yeah I suppose there is some attraction on both parts and I personally would risk the friendship to give it another go but need to find another girl to take my mind off it lol

I have another good friend who is a girl who is good looking and has a great personality but I don't have any feelings for her apart from being mates and think the feeling is mutual.

So it all depends on who. I reckon about 8 out of 10 different sex friendships are there because atleast one is attracted sexually to the other...

ps. I feel like I've been waiting for this subject to be bought up on here and was gonna bring it up myself a couple of weeks ago but never did.

[Caino]

My best mate is female and to say im not attracted to her would be lying. We first met 10 years ago and dated, then decided we'd be better off friends. Only recently (in the last year) everytime we get drunk we end up doing naughty things, whether it be kissing, a litttle playing or fucking. It's wrong!!!
So yeah I suppose there is some attraction on both parts and I personally would risk the friendship to give it another go but need to find another girl to take my mind off it lol

I have another good friend who is a girl who is good looking and has a great personality but I don't have any feelings for her apart from being mates and think the feeling is mutual.

So it all depends on who. I reckon about 8 out of 10 different sex friendships are there because atleast one is attracted sexually to the other...

ps. I feel like I've been waiting for this subject to be bought up on here and was gonna bring it up myself a couple of weeks ago but never did.

definitely know what you mean here !!!

[wadoryu]

god thats bad to hear. have confidence, there will be someone out there !

i'v got confidence. im just happy being single at the moment tbh

[J222JRA]

god thats bad to hear. have confidence, there will be someone out there !

Nah mate he really is ugly tbf. ;)

[Caino]

i'v got confidence. im just happy being single at the moment tbh

fair play, but you shouldnt say your to ugly to get with anyone :|

[wadoryu]

Nah mate he really is ugly tbf. ;)

james i hate you lol

fair play, but you shouldnt say your to ugly to get with anyone :|

im just messing lol

[saxypink]

Ever since i was at school i have had male friends, i cant be dealing with all the bitching that goes on between girls... i love boyish things and can find i can talk to males about things because they seem to understand.. or they come to me with there problems... having male mates is tops....

[beckha]

Ever since i was at school i have had male friends, i cant be dealing with all the bitching that goes on between girls... i love boyish things and can find i can talk to males about things because they seem to understand.. or they come to me with there problems... having male mates is tops....

Exactly... all the "normal" girls at work think I'm a bit wierd because I am so into cars... :wacko:

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[vtrdunc]

Ever since i was at school i have had male friends, i cant be dealing with all the bitching that goes on between girls... i love boyish things and can find i can talk to males about things because they seem to understand.. or they come to me with there problems... having male mates is tops....

Another problem I have is, I have NEVER found a girl that I like who is into cars. Where are you all hiding????

[Viper]

Where are you all hiding????

You're asking that on a car forum with girls on...

[saxypink]

Another problem I have is, I have NEVER found a girl that I like who is into cars. Where are you all hiding????

well there are a few of us out there, just got to look in the right places...:y:

[vtrdunc]

You're asking that on a car forum with girls on...

Yes this is a forum mate. I don't tend to meet girls online and doubt I would meet anyone off here anyway as you all live too far away and there's no shows coming up.

[vtrdunc]

well there are a few of us out there, just got to look in the right places...:y:

I don't go to Uckfield much. I suppose it's just luck. I woudn't necessariy like a girl into cars anyway. I once met a girl into gaming, thought it was ideal, she turned out to be a twat and shit in the sack so it didn't go as I first thought lol

[Pixie]

My other half loves the fact I <3 cars :D
Another reason why most of my mates are guys is because No girls i know (other than on this forum) are into cars :err:

[Mr_X]

Surely you are all adults :S

you can have friends which do not have a cock, its not primary school.


I have plenty of female friends, i wouldn't want to poke them though, i look at them like my guy friends.

[matt_vtr_15a]

One of my best mates is a girl, absolute stunner of a girl! Everyone always thinks we have had a thing as we spend so much time together. Stayed at her house a few times and her at mine and nothings gone off. Nearly did once when we were both drunk and stopping at my house but I am so glad we didn't..

She is my best mates ex girlfriend so I see it as a no go zone anyway!!

[chinkostu]

used to have quite a few, but they've all moved away with uni and im still here :-/

[JamesR]

I have loads of friends who are girls, some very good ones aswell :)

[chinkostu]

Another problem I have is, I have NEVER found a girl that I like who is into cars. Where are you all hiding????

my fiancé loves cars ;)

[Fulch]

Take advantage of that while you can .:y:

And just one? :fcuk: how many are there? lol

Was 3 at the same time but this has something special about her so putting all my time into her lol and dont worry, have a ex who was bi so I know all about it.

bi's and lesbians are all good :) ive had relationships with 1 Bi and 2 lesbians :y: well..there not lesbians anymore

They are great cos it means you can look at other girls and there aint no major issues.

We sat watchin TV last night and when ever a girl was on TV we would both comment on if we would or would and whether they are good lookin lol

[Giraffe]

Everyone seems to be missing the point here like.

Just because you are mates with them and will keep it that way, doesn't mean you don't think they're attractive and have a level of attraction to them? Obviously you CAN be mates, but I reckon you are more likely to be friends with someone who you have a degree of attraction to. I honestly don't think I have any female friends that I don't fancy a little bit and would definitely say I wouldn't nail them, I mean like FRIEND FRIENDS, not acquaintances through work or owt. Some I wouldn't take it further with, some I know wouldn't take it further with me.

I think it works differently for lads than lasses though. It's the key word WANT that I think most people are missing :\

[Bound]

Used to have quite a few girl mates, have none now, got my girlfriend, no other girls, majority are boring as fuck.

[blackie_2k5]

i used to have a really good mate that was a lass, but after a while i ent up doing her lol, were at it for a few weeks and realised we were better off of mates, so went back to that and carried on for a few years, then when i was with a new lass and haddnt seen her for a few months, i met up for a drink, we both got really plastered and she declared her ultimate love for me and that shed never been the same since the fling thing, i didnt know what to say, so told her i wasnt making any decision while i was pissed, then next day i totally forgot and she never bothered me again for a good year, then i seen her talking to my current lass and remembered what had happened, needless to say i felt and still assume she considers me a totall cunt now

and thats my cools story bro's :y:

[jw1325]

My 'best' mate is a lass - for the sake of having an ally in a very bitchy world. she is pretty awesome to be fair. but we are both the same, have never got on with girls but our patter is the matched perfectly and we are pretty much inseperable now. were both very snobby at times for various reasons lol

as for boy mates... the REST of my mates are boys! i have plenty girls within the car world that i talk to, but the boys are the best.

I fit in with the lads though, i dont give a fuck, i know what im talking about, my banter is absolute FILTH. to be honest i think i show up a lot of those car whores who class themselves as 'one of the lads' to make themselves look not so slaggy. their craic is shit, they come out trying to look like barbie every night and couldnt tell a coil pack from a coilover.

i stay at my lad mates houses regularly, sharing beds, who gives a fuck? they dont treat me any differently to how they would treat their lad mates

[beckha]

to be honest i think i show up a lot of those car whores who class themselves as 'one of the lads' to make themselves look not so slaggy. their craic is shit, they come out trying to look like barbie every night and couldnt tell a coil pack from a coilover.


LOL! :y:

Know the type you mean! Annoying as fuck. :n:

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[Bound]

i stay at my lad mates houses regularly, sharing beds, who gives a fuck? they dont treat me any differently to how they would treat their lad mates

It's never just that.

[Giraffe]

My 'best' mate is a lass - for the sake of having an ally in a very bitchy world. she is pretty awesome to be fair. but we are both the same, have never got on with girls but our patter is the matched perfectly and we are pretty much inseperable now. were both very snobby at times for various reasons lol

as for boy mates... the REST of my mates are boys! i have plenty girls within the car world that i talk to, but the boys are the best.

I fit in with the lads though, i dont give a fuck, i know what im talking about, my banter is absolute FILTH. to be honest i think i show up a lot of those car whores who class themselves as 'one of the lads' to make themselves look not so slaggy. their craic is shit, they come out trying to look like barbie every night and couldnt tell a coil pack from a coilover.

i stay at my lad mates houses regularly, sharing beds, who gives a fuck? they dont treat me any differently to how they would treat their lad mates

But I bet every single one of them would say either YES, or YES but I wouldn't really when asked - "Jenni, would ya?"

[Si-Gore]

I actually have more female friends then i do male friends and most of them i haven't done anything with.

[jw1325]

LOL! :y:

Know the type you mean! Annoying as fuck. :n:

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they boil my blood. i worked hard to not be tagged with the reputation of being a slag coz i was into cars, and for every single one of these little rats that penetrate our circles that reputation becomes harder to shake off.

It's never just that.

it is for me?

But I bet every single one of them would say either YES, or YES but I wouldn't really when asked - "Jenni, would ya?"

have you seen me with no makeup on? have you seen me covered from head to toe in shit from cleaning / tinkering with my car. you would indeed say NO.

i know that im not an unnatractive girl - but to the people who see me every day like that i am very plain and not really what you would look to try it on with.

[Mochachino]

I actually have more female friends then i do male friends and most of them i haven't done anything with.

Would you say no if they offered?

[Si-Gore]

Would you say no if they offered?

Probably, yes. Ones i've said no to either have bf's or i'm the wrong gender lol
I have my GF and a few FB's, that's all i need.

It's actually nice to have female friends i can rely on and talk to without sex being brought into it.

[beckha]

they boil my blood. i worked hard to not be tagged with the reputation of being a slag coz i was into cars, and for every single one of these little rats that penetrate our circles that reputation becomes harder to shake off.

Deffo because everyone tries to tar girls that are into cars with the same brush. :n:

And lets face it there are plenty of them about.

We have some that come on a friday night and they spend their time prancing around and saying dumbass things in their silly high pitched whiny voices. Arrrgh!!

But saying that I think I intimidate alot of lads because I know so much. I am a massive geek when it comes to cars.

And I hear what your saying I guess my lad mates see me as one of the lads when I'm covered in shite in my trackies and a hoody, we can't look pretty pretty all the time takes far too much effort and to be honest I cant be arsed! Haha. I'm sure some of them actually forget I am girl sometimes!

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[Mochachino]

Probably, yes. Ones i've said no to either have bf's or i'm the wrong gender lol
I have my GF and a few FB's, that's all i need.

It's actually nice to have female friends i can rely on and talk to without sex being brought into it.

Facebooks? + r u homo?

[Giraffe]

they boil my blood. i worked hard to not be tagged with the reputation of being a slag coz i was into cars, and for every single one of these little rats that penetrate our circles that reputation becomes harder to shake off.



it is for me?



have you seen me with no makeup on? have you seen me covered from head to toe in shit from cleaning / tinkering with my car. you would indeed say NO.

i know that im not an unnatractive girl - but to the people who see me every day like that i am very plain and not really what you would look to try it on with.

You do not possess male brain. If they've seen you once whilst looking alright, that's all that matters and is enough to know you CAN look good. Plus, you don't put make up on your boobies to give them shape, so that argument is void. They wouldn't say no...

[Si-Gore]

Facebooks? + r u homo?

FB = fuck buddies, and no i'm not homo lol
The girls i know have BF's or are lesbian, it's that simple.

[Mochachino]

FB = fuck buddies, and no i'm not homo lol
The girls i know have BF's or are lesbian, it's that simple.

But if they offered? All at the same time?

[Giraffe]

FB = fuck buddies, and no i'm not homo lol
The girls i know have BF's or are lesbian, it's that simple.

Fuck buddies when you have a gf? Why? Can't you just be mates with them?

[Mochachino]

fuck buddies when you have a gf? Why? Can't you just be mates with them?

+ 1

[Si-Gore]

But if they offered? All at the same time?

No lol my GF's more then enough ;)

Call me stupid but i'm not interested in sleeping with every girl i speak to unlike most men. I guess that's why they trust me.
My best friend is female and i've known her 8 years. I would never betray that, same goes for any other girl.



Fuck buddies when you have a gf? Why? Can't you just be mates with them?

I'am mates with them, they decided that not me and besides they are my GF's ex's who she see's alot.

It's just the way things are, they appear complicated but it's actually simple.

[Rotrex_Rallye]

FB = fuck buddies, and no i'm not homo lol
The girls i know have BF's or are lesbian, it's that simple.

you stud you ;)

[jw1325]

Deffo because everyone tries to tar girls that are into cars with the same brush. :n:

And lets face it there are plenty of them about.

We have some that come on a friday night and they spend their time prancing around and saying dumbass things in their silly high pitched whiny voices. Arrrgh!!

But saying that I think I intimidate alot of lads because I know so much. I am a massive geek when it comes to cars.

And I hear what your saying I guess my lad mates see me as one of the lads when I'm covered in shite in my trackies and a hoody, we can't look pretty pretty all the time takes far too much effort and to be honest I cant be arsed! Haha. I'm sure some of them actually forget I am girl sometimes!

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i live in my jeans / trackies / hoodies. its GID

You do not possess male brain. If they've seen you once whilst looking alright, that's all that matters and is enough to know you CAN look good. Plus, you don't put make up on your boobies to give them shape, so that argument is void. They wouldn't say no...

au contraire - i think i do posess a male brain unfortunatley. and my male mates do not have xray vision lol - dont know how they would see my boobies through my baggy hoody. they would say no. why would they want to sleep with someone they have to include in a group every day? i can honestly say, they wouldnt.

[Mochachino]

No lol my GF's more then enough ;)

Call me stupid but i'm not interested in sleeping with every girl i speak to unlike most men. I guess that's why they trust me.
My best friend is female and i've known her 8 years. I would never betray that, same goes for any other girl.

Im going to tell ur gf you got FB's now though.

[Si-Gore]

Im going to tell ur gf you got FB's now though.

Haha go ahead, she's there when it happens ;):homme:

[Giraffe]

i live in my jeans / trackies / hoodies. its GID



au contraire - i think i do posess a male brain unfortunatley. and my male mates do not have xray vision lol - dont know how they would see my boobies through my baggy hoody. they would say no. why would they want to sleep with someone they have to include in a group every day? i can honestly say, they wouldnt.

Outline!

I'm not saying they actually WOULD go through with it, but I bet they've ravaged you many a times in their minds eye, and that's what I'm getting at. I have many a female friends who I would, if not for the fact they are friends and it would be a bit awkward within the group.

[jw1325]

Outline!

I'm not saying they actually WOULD go through with it, but I bet they've ravaged you many a times in their minds eye, and that's what I'm getting at. I have many a female friends who I would, if not for the fact they are friends and it would be a bit awkward within the group.

doesnt mean they fancy me lol

[marcusd]

dunno if it works but can happen sometimes. tend to beleive if men have a female friends or aquaintances they are there to be able to bed and if nothing happens they become friends

[Tony]

The male of almost every species are designed to spread their seed. It's hard wired, pre-programmed before you're born. So by nature if they find a girl attractive then they want to 'do the dirty' with them. Most people just resist those urges/desires for whatever reason. E.g. you or them have a partner, it's a friend's ex or sister, fear of rejection etc.

Can you be friends, yes.

Is there a chance one of the 'friends' hasn't thought of 'doing the dirty' with the other, no. Whether they admit it or not is another thing.

[Bound]

The male of almost every species are designed to spread their seed. It's hard wired, pre-programmed before you're born. So by nature if they find a girl attractive then they want to 'do the dirty' with them. Most people just resist those urges/desires for whatever reason. E.g. you or them have a partner, it's a friend's ex or sister, fear of rejection etc.

Can you be friends, yes.

Is there a chance one of the 'friends' hasn't thought of 'doing the dirty' with the other, no. Whether they admit it or not is another thing.

Exactly, they can deny it, but it is a fact.

[VTR-Chris]

depends if ther fit

[Tom]

One of my best friends is a girl and I've known her my entire life, practically my sister so I can honestly say it never crosses my mind. Otherwise as above tbh.

[adamm]

Haha go ahead, she's there when it happens ;):homme:

im getting the idea you and the gf have gang bangs? am i right? lol

[vtrsarah]

Imo yes you can :) that is my insightful input

[MiniGibbo]

The only girls i talk to are atractive, mongs jsut get a :S face when they say somthing.

And if your not fucking a good looking girl or at least sticky fingers then in my book your the "gay mate"..

[K17NEY]

My best friend and person im closest too is a girl, Shes over mine at least 3 times a week having food,we do everything together, Luckily enough we're both single so its easy. I constantly get asked if we're shagging, But no it is actually possible to be friends with a girl without mateing with them.

[SAM-S44MDS-]

I have a few girl mates that I have never done anything with. 1 of them I have known 14 years and never done a thing with her :A: I couldn't now either, its wrong. She's more like a sister to me than a mate now though. Unfortuantly it doesn't always go down to well with GF's. I always explain to them before we get together, but it always begins to bother them :n:

[Giraffe]

Once again though, it's not whether you've actually done anything, because unless they want to as well then it's gonna be rape, it's down to whether it's ever crossed your mind.

[SAM-S44MDS-]

Once again though, it's not whether you've actually done anything, because unless they want to as well then it's gonna be rape, it's down to whether it's ever crossed your mind.

To be honest with 99% of them, yes it has CROSSED my mind, although most of the time I never have.
However, with Lauren I have never even though about it. Probs because when we met I had literally just turned 6 :homme: Just far to good mates and I could never look at her in that way

[K17NEY]

Once again though, it's not whether you've actually done anything, because unless they want to as well then it's gonna be rape, it's down to whether it's ever crossed your mind.

Yes, its crossed my mind. She's seriously hot so id be gay otherwise. Never would though!

[Giraffe]

Yes, its crossed my mind. She's seriously hot so id be gay otherwise. Never would though!

There we go, like I said earlier, there are those you WOULD, but really you wouldn't because it's just not practical... circumstance changes what actually happens, but in your mind you've probably fucked them silly.

As for you Sam, you telling me you've NEVER thought about her that way? Ever? Honestly? Never wondered?

[Lacey_106]

Yes this is a forum mate. I don't tend to meet girls online and doubt I would meet anyone off here anyway as you all live too far away and there's no shows coming up.

You live right by me :err:

However... I think it is possible to be just mates with the opposite sex, as long as you both know where the line is!

And if you do cross that line from friendship to relationship then you have to make it work or youve lost a real friend :fcuk:

[K17NEY]

You live right by me :err:

However... I think it is possible to be just mates with the opposite sex, as long as you both know where the line is!

And if you do cross that line from friendship to relationship then you have to make it work or youve lost a real friend :fcuk:

+1!! I crossed the line last year with a good mate of 5 years, was bumming her for 8 months, I now hate her! shame really.

[Cammy]

I'd love to bone all of my female friends, I fuck anything that walks.

[vtrdunc]

You live right by me :err:

However... I think it is possible to be just mates with the opposite sex, as long as you both know where the line is!

And if you do cross that line from friendship to relationship then you have to make it work or youve lost a real friend :fcuk:

Your in Princes Risborough aren't you? I thought it was just your parents that lived there and you lived elsewhere. Gimme a PM if you wanna meet up or go to a car meet or something. Would be good to put faces to names on here.

[Tony]

Your in Princes Risborough aren't you? I thought it was just your parents that lived there and you lived elsewhere. Gimme a PM if you wanna meet up or go to a car meet or something. Would be good to put faces to names on here.

Yeah because I'm sure that's what you want to do :D

[Viper]

Gimme a PM if you wanna meet up or go to a car meet or something. Would be good to put faces to names on here.

Ulterior motives? :detective:

[Lacey_106]

Your in Princes Risborough aren't you? I thought it was just your parents that lived there and you lived elsewhere. Gimme a PM if you wanna meet up or go to a car meet or something. Would be good to put faces to names on here.

*You're ;)

Erm, keep an eye on the central counties section. I tend to go to the Yorkshire meets, they're the best tbh ;)

I'm living in West London til July. :y:

[Toilet_Hugger]

Yes IMO 1 of the guys from work is quite good pals with me, we go shopping (hes not gay!) out for dinner etc etc. It works because i'm 100% not attracted to him :hug:

[jw1325]

Your in Princes Risborough aren't you? I thought it was just your parents that lived there and you lived elsewhere. Gimme a PM if you wanna meet up or go to a car meet or something. Would be good to put faces to names on here.

Lacey belongs to me dude.

hands and eyes of y0 or I'll be coming down on you....

[SAM-S44MDS-]

Lacey belongs to me dude.

hands and eyes of y0 or I'll be going down on you....

:panic: lol

[Lacey_106]

Lacey belongs to me dude.

hands and eyes of y0 or I'll be coming down on you....

:clapping::clapping::oops::clapping::clapping:

I miss Aly :fcuk:

Love you sexy! :heart:

[jw1325]

:clapping::clapping::oops::clapping::clapping:

I miss Aly :fcuk:

Love you sexy! :heart:

you miss Aly! waaat!?

anytime hotstuff :homme::heart: xx

[Lacey_106]

you miss Aly! waaat!?

anytime hotstuff :homme::heart: xx

LOL I'm only joking. Hai Aly :)

[vtrdunc]

You jokers!

It's got nothing to do with her being female. For a start I haven't got a clue what she looks like.

Am I gonna have to fight you for her Jen?

[SAXO8VYO]

ive got quite a few girl mates that i am really good mates with and ive never done the anything with them , and my girlfriend used to get funny about it if i said i ending up staying at my mate ambers house but now she knows i wouldnt do the dirty and im just mates with the girls i couldnt anyway i think of them more as sisters so just couldnt and wouldnt

[Dolly]

I grew up in primary with 2 of my closest friends being boys, they are still really good friends of mine and I now go college with one of them.
Then I went to an all girls school so yeah most of my friends were girls and 1 really close friend but since I've left school my best friend decided she didn't want to be friends anymore...
I now go college with just boys and 3 girls, the girls are really close so I'm not really involved in things so I'm with the boys.

Over the past year I've realised who in my life at the moment are my friends and its sad to say to be honest that there all boys, my 2 best friends are boys (one being my boyfriend)

But I really do miss my girl friends :(
I miss doing all the things I use to do with my girl friends.

But yeah back to the point, I don't see how people can say a girl who has loads of guy mates is a slag or a boy with loads of girl mates is a player as you can be friends with the other sex and not have feelings/attractions to them?!
You don't have to do the dirty aha.

[Liamm]

most of my mates are girls, could probably only name a couple of lads i class as mates.
dont get me wrong id smash the doors wide open given the chance, but im happy with being close mates :D