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DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 02:34
So, one of my good friends just rang me like, 20mins ago, She told me she had to tell me something, So I was like, yeah ok it's abit late but ok. And were chattin away about all sorts of crap, the usual stuff, then she just blurts out of the blue that she's cheating on her boyfriend. It wouldn't bother me exept the guy is one of my close mates aswell.

Iv'e known her longer, but he's like a really good mate, what do I do? Tell him? Keep quiet and let him find out? Trouble is, If I don't tell him, and he finds out I knew something, He's gonna hate me for not telling him surely?

Opinions?

Dano
23rd November 2010, 02:37
tell him..

i dont care how close you are with the bird.. shes a whore.. simple as.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 02:40
That's what I was thinking, Some of you might remember my thread when I was cheated on, I was more than upset that I found out off a mate than her. It hurt like hell, but should I try to make her tell him to save that?

Dano
23rd November 2010, 02:43
been in that position.. cheating dont "just happen"

its the scummiest thing some one can do..

apart from hooking up with ya mates ex.. thats just as scummy.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 02:45
I found out my girl was doing it for months, and with more than one other guy. But she reckons this is a one time thing, and I know the guy she's been with, so do I tell my mate who it is aswel? I've got it into my head that I need to make her tell him.

Bound
23rd November 2010, 02:48
Don't do anything, deny knowing if he asks, only question is why she's telling you, probably wants to fuck you to.

L720
23rd November 2010, 03:01
What a slut.

DannyVTS
23rd November 2010, 03:03
You may aswell get your end away too now eh?

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:06
Ha I'd like to, Already been there though :y: But he's a really good mate, AND, to my knowledge... She's never done it before, So dont really make her a slapper does it?:wall:

Jamees
23rd November 2010, 03:08
Ha I'd like to, Already been there though :y: But he's a really good mate, AND, to my knowledge... She's never done it before, So dont really make her a slapper does it?:wall:

u fuck her then it proves shes a slapper :y:

DannyVTS
23rd November 2010, 03:08
Ha I'd like to, Already been there though :y: But he's a really good mate, AND, to my knowledge... She's never done it before, So dont really make her a slapper does it?:wall:

She likes cock a bit too much, so yeah

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:10
Well.... She wasn't with anybody when I f***** her... I would NEVER do that, after what happend to me. + I wouldn't like to get the same treatment I gave the guy that was with my girl first

L720
23rd November 2010, 03:15
... She's never done it before, So dont really make her a slapper does it?:wall:

You are kidding, right?

Matt67
23rd November 2010, 03:16
Hmmm tough one, if he finds out you knew and didnt tell him hed think your a cunt

same time its really none of your business.

I'd convince her to come clean, or failing that punch her in her felopion tubes.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:23
Hmmm tough one, if he finds out you knew and didnt tell him hed think your a cunt

same time its really none of your business.

I'd convince her to come clean, or failing that punch her in her felopion tubes.

First... The red is LOL

Second..... The trouble I'm having L720 is that there both my mates, so I wanna look out for them both. But I know she's obviously in the wrong. I can't get my head around this without a :drink: and a think....

Why the F*** did she have to ring me, I'm always a middle man

L720
23rd November 2010, 03:27
Personally I'd say to her "Tell him or else I will."

That should make her fess up to him.

Saxo-SX
23rd November 2010, 03:33
Tell him.

Bro's before hoe's.

Matt67
23rd November 2010, 03:34
Personally I'd say to her "Tell him or else I will."

That should make her fess up to him.

Yeah +1 to that i suppose, or just murder them both and flee the country.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:35
It seems a little harsh, But fair I suppose, I've just told her to tell him, She says she's gonna tell him tomorrow, I doubt she will like, so I'll check tomorrow, then if she doesn't tell him I will, and I'll be more than dissapointed that she lied to me too.

Cheers guys, I let you know how we go on.

Much Love

Kiss x

......No kiss

L720
23rd November 2010, 03:36
Mwah mwah xoxo

VTR-GAZzA
23rd November 2010, 03:37
Personally I'd say to her "Tell him or else I will."

That should make her fess up to him.

That or you've willingly put yourself to tell him lol :)

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:43
That or you've willingly put yourself to tell him lol :)

Im desperate not to tell him because off how it will make him feel.. It's a real vicious circle. and very annoying

sr666
23rd November 2010, 03:49
the way I see it if you don't tell him then he may struggle to have any respect for you especially if he finds out that you knew?

Just my thought of the day :P

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 03:53
I know what your all saying, I'll just have to see how this pans out

MartinDines
23rd November 2010, 04:00
Thing is, if you dont tell him, she then wont.. and she'll keep cheating on him and it'll get worse and worse.

Sooner her finds out the better really. Have they been together long?

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 04:06
They've been together about 8 months, that I'm aware of, so you cant really even call in a young relationship. But it's only 8 months that they say is "official" they were sleeping togther for like.... 4 months before I think

MartinDines
23rd November 2010, 04:20
Ah. Well I dont know how old you guys are, but chances are you're young. Rest of your life ahead of ya and all that. You'll forget about past ex's and build new relationships.

4am saxp gets deep.

LSOfreak
23rd November 2010, 09:05
it might be a little early the next morning right now, but have you told her? im eager to hear the outcome and its only 9am lol

nicole_
23rd November 2010, 09:08
my mates always told my boyfriends i was cheating
pissed me off a lot at the time as i told them because i trusted them,
but can see it was the right thing to do now :)

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 09:33
Nicokehead you're such a trampy whorebag....


Mate tell your friend to man up and check his bitch and you should give her a swift kick to the baby maker or ovaries...

Petee
23rd November 2010, 09:35
Bro's before Hoes.

Juggyluggs
23rd November 2010, 09:51
Bro's before Hoes.

Amen to that dude

Dolly
23rd November 2010, 09:52
TELL HIM!!!

I know its possibly the worst feeling ever but think how horrible it is for him, hes just been cheated on and you, his close friend knows about it!
Yeah its worse coming from you than it is her, but if shes capable of cheating the once she'll do it again and she should be man enough to tell him shes done it!

Cheating is wrong on SO many levels... Whats the need for it? You don't want to be with the person simple, jog the heck on, don't ruin the poor lads trust issues for life!

Remember bro's before those hoes.

nicole_
23rd November 2010, 10:01
Nicokehead you're such a trampy whorebag....

.

shh you, i had my reasons
just tell him, she'll hate you for a bit, then thankyou later for getting her out of something shes not happy in

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 10:06
End of the day, you might lose her as a friend but will gain far more respect from you guy mate than before

RossRog
23rd November 2010, 10:30
simples who do you like more.. him or her haha

Caino
23rd November 2010, 10:31
one of them situations where you just wish you didnt know i suppose. what i'd do make her tell him by a certain day and if she doesnt then you tell him

Dolly
23rd November 2010, 10:36
one of them situations where you just wish you didnt know i suppose. what i'd do make her tell him by a certain day and if she doesnt then you tell him

Yeah... By 11am today!

She should have to do it herself but why did she tell you? She most likely feels guilty yeah but the longer she leaves it the worse it'll get.

Tontsy
23rd November 2010, 10:45
Yeah... By 11am today!

She should have to do it herself but why did she tell you? She most likely feels guilty yeah but the longer she leaves it the worse it'll get.

you can stfu tbh...when isaac is old enough to understand the joy of clunge, ill cheat on you all the time when we go out :homme:

oh and with your mum.

GJF47
23rd November 2010, 10:47
You could tell him but there is a chance he might not believe you and you will end up falling out with him. Similar thing happened with one of my mates before. His missus had cheated and a few of us told him but he decided we were just trying to split them up and ended up not talking to us :n:

But he does deserve to know what a skank she is tbh, just be careful how you tell him (if you do)

deans2k8
23rd November 2010, 10:48
shh you, i had my reasons
just tell him, she'll hate you for a bit, then thankyou later for getting her out of something shes not happy in

There are no reasons or excuses for cheating..even if they cheat on you 2 wrongs dont make a right..


But...what were your reasons?

Dolly
23rd November 2010, 10:52
you can stfu tbh...when isaac is old enough to understand the joy of clunge, ill cheat on you all the time when we go out :homme:

oh and with your mum.

My mums fine, anyone else it wouldn't be funny.
Also you'll be like 35+ by the time he'll be interested in girls haha!

Juggyluggs
23rd November 2010, 10:54
i'd force her to tell him in front you just so that you can then say she has just told me and instead of it being on my mind i marched her down her to tell you but that may bring questions on his mind that you may want her bit of a sensitive matter

rey
23rd November 2010, 11:10
There are no reasons or excuses for cheating..even if they cheat on you 2 wrongs dont make a right..


But...what were your reasons?

She's a slag and wanted more cock?

nicole_
23rd November 2010, 11:15
There are no reasons or excuses for cheating..even if they cheat on you 2 wrongs dont make a right..


But...what were your reasons?

im pretty open normally, but no-one knows the answer to this other than my ex's and ben
they just wernt very nice people and its not always as easy 'i dont want you' to get out of relationships

Tringaling
23rd November 2010, 11:17
Stretch her shitbox

beckha
23rd November 2010, 11:17
its not always as easy 'i dont want you' to get out of relationships

:y:

x

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 11:30
:y:

x

Bricktop, "Pull your tongue out my arse Gary"

deans2k8
23rd November 2010, 11:33
yea its not easy to get out of some relationships, ive been cheated on a fair few times it makes ya feel like shit, i find it very hard to trust people now as a result of it..in movies its the good guys that get the girl...in life its the prick that does... Fact

beckha
23rd November 2010, 11:33
Bricktop, "Pull your tongue out my arse Gary"

I was merely agreeing to what she said Andrew. :P

x

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 11:35
I was merely agreeing to what she said Andrew. :P

x

You fucking DARE!!!!


My names Drew, not Andrew....



Don't warrant a stabbing dear ;)

beckha
23rd November 2010, 11:44
You fucking DARE!!!!


My names Drew, not Andrew....



Don't warrant a stabbing dear ;)

Okay Andrew. No problem. :y:

With a knife?

x

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 11:46
Okay Andrew. No problem. :y:

With a knife?

x

Did you see my reply in my progress thread lol


I'll let you decide...

beckha
23rd November 2010, 11:54
Did you see my reply in my progress thread lol


I'll let you decide...

Yep made me LOL a lil bit. ;)

x

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 12:07
Yep made me LOL a lil bit. ;)

x

Dont I just always.....

L20VTS
23rd November 2010, 12:28
I wouldn't say fcuk all but ask her to keep you out of it and what you don't know you don't need to bother about, if she denys it she could make you to look like a right shit stiring twat if you aren't careful.

KamRacing
23rd November 2010, 13:00
I wouldn't say fcuk all but ask her to keep you out of it and what you don't know you don't need to bother about, if she denys it she could make you to look like a right shit stiring twat if you aren't careful.

indeed. Let them sort it out. The question you have to ask is why she told you..she may be asking for help or advice.
Support her so she is able to admit the truth to the B/F. Never voluntarily get stuck in, you could easily lose both of them as friends in the aftermath. Support both as they request it and sit well and truly on the sidelines..

K.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 15:21
simples who do you like more.. him or her haha

In all situations, I'm not inclined towards guys so I can Fcuk worst comes to worst but as most have said, maybe I should just stay out of it, she didn't tell him, and she told me she hadn't, where the heck to I stand now? Tell him? Not tell him?

Argh Fcuk, I just have no idea what to do now :wall:

Sparky26
23rd November 2010, 15:32
tell him if she is stupid enough to cheat on him then tell someone about it she deserves all she gets... schlaggggggg!!

SteveH
23rd November 2010, 15:34
Tell her you don't give a shit and say write into the sun n let deidre sort it out. ;)

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 15:34
i'd turn a blind eye then slip in some sneaky sexual blackmail.

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 15:41
i'd turn a blind eye then slip in some sneaky sexual blackmail.

HaHa, theres always 1 and it's always YOU

As Iv'e said, Iv'e already been there, haah, I'm gonna get on at her later to tell him I think, then later tonight, If she has, Take her to a movie :P I know that's harsh, but its me

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 15:44
send her my way id fuck her then tell him i did

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 15:45
send her my way id fuck her then tell him i did


Erm...

DannoWilko
23rd November 2010, 15:55
Tell her to suck your cock while you film it for redtube, and then if she refuses, shoot her for being inconsistent.

Ahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 15:55
HaHa, theres always 1 and it's always YOU

As Iv'e said, Iv'e already been there, haah, I'm gonna get on at her later to tell him I think, then later tonight, If she has, Take her to a movie :P I know that's harsh, but its me

:oops: hahaha.

only skim read the thread so i have an excuse :y:.

take her to the movies so you can spit in her pepsi when she goes for a piss (like a mate), or do the old yawn trick, tactically leaving your palm on her tit, (like a sexual predator)

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 15:58
just fuck her if she wants it or not
its not rape if your finished before she can say no

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 16:04
depends on how long you leave her for afteryou shoot her you dont wanna be fucking a cold corpse thats nasty

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 16:10
fucking pmsl

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 16:14
can you not talk about rape please? its not a pleasant subject... this is a family forum.

Cammy
23rd November 2010, 16:14
Never heard of an oven mate? I always keep mine, and then warm them up whenever I want to 'use' them.

sounds like what the girl i was with on thursday did, she musta turned it to 50 degree's in her oven, i think the heating element also expands flesh, as it felt like fucking a bucket.

beckha
23rd November 2010, 16:16
sounds like what the girl i was with on thursday did, she musta turned it to 50 degree's in her oven, i think the heating element also expands flesh, as it felt like fucking a bucket.

Thats horrible!

x

nicole_
23rd November 2010, 16:21
what a strange newbie
gotta be an existing member

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 16:23
ok no more rape business

just surprise sex

Cammy
23rd November 2010, 16:23
Hi babe :oops:

Hey sweetheart, im cammy.

ASL? Xxx

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 16:25
Hi babe :oops:

careful shes a cheater to ;):A::y:

deans2k8
23rd November 2010, 16:25
Sorry, but you appear to have a 1.1. I have a 1.5. Therefore, using a Cubic capacity = penis size equation, I can confirm that your opinion is invalid and I am better than you.

Fanks.

and i have a post count that is much greater than yours, which means shut the fuck up about touchy subjects that could offend people and possibly trigger off things that happend to them when they was younger, growing up etc..as max said this is a family forum have some respect.

also when your mum said grow up, stupid...she didnt mean it that way.

Cammy
23rd November 2010, 16:25
http://pedobearpics.com/pedobear/pedo-dog.gifok no more rape business

just surprise sex

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 16:29
Sorry, but you appear to have a 1.1. I have a 1.5. Therefore, using a Cubic capacity = penis size equation, I can confirm that your opinion is invalid and I am better than you.

Fanks.

good come back :geek:.... yet i have a higher post count, which makes you obsolete as a person, please logout..... or commit suicide.....

SAM-S44MDS-
23rd November 2010, 16:31
http://pedobearpics.com/pedobear/pedo-dog.gif

:panic: WTF is that lol

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 16:34
chill out

deans2k8
23rd November 2010, 16:35
You guys are bullies. Im only playing :n:

yeah thats what micheal and gary said

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 16:39
you 2 need to pull up your belts or you'll turn out like sexxo/vtr- (a fat, bullshitting cu*t) :y: peace out niglets

Cammy
23rd November 2010, 16:44
you 2 need to pull up your belts or you'll turn out like sexxo/vtr- (a fat, bullshitting cu*t) :y: piece out niglets

He is my idol, almost like Fritzl, i cant build my own basement, can you?

MAXSTARR
23rd November 2010, 16:50
He is my idol, almost like Fritzl, i cant build my own basement, can you?

i can do it too, with Kandoo

D--R--E--W
23rd November 2010, 17:24
WOW!!! The 2 noobs are filthy cunts eh!!

C4_Lew
23rd November 2010, 18:00
Plenty of LOL's in this thread, just pick which friend you like the most and act accordingly, easy.

Petee
23rd November 2010, 18:06
B
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B
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F
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H
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2nd time...

L720
23rd November 2010, 19:50
The results of these should be interesting, if not messy.

Personally I'd hate it if a mate of mine knew about something like that and didn't tell me.

stiffler69
23rd November 2010, 19:58
Your mates probably nobbed loads of birds behind her back.

What difference is it that the bird is doing it too, so his massive ego might get bruised a bit im sure hell grow another.

bengtt5
23rd November 2010, 19:58
WOW!!! The 2 noobs are filthy cunts eh!!
I prefer the term deviant

Sexooo
23rd November 2010, 20:50
And now your best friend finds this thread..

K17NEY
23rd November 2010, 20:59
Stay out of it, Its for them to sort out, Just pretend she never told you.

And "bro's before hoes" is bullshit!!!

Sexooo
23rd November 2010, 21:06
And "bro's before hoes" is bullshit!!!


+1.

My two close friends said that.. so did i. We all 3 got girlfriends with in a month later and we all hardly see eachother nowdays lol:homme:

JonCarter
23rd November 2010, 21:17
what a slut :/

TomT
23rd November 2010, 21:36
Punch the bitch,

Or sleep with her.

You choose.

VTHall
23rd November 2010, 21:39
any update??
What have you done?

DannoWilko
24th November 2010, 01:38
Yeah she's now told him, Whilst I was there, he walked off in a huff, I followed my him, She fucked off down the road. Me and him have now been out all night with a couple of lasses he knows, good times. So for me, it was a good thing, she cheats, I get laid FTW.