opinions on this: On a first date...

[LSOfreak]

If all went well, WHO should lean in for the kiss/peck/smooch at the end?

been having a chat and theres a few theories about this lol

i thought the girl always has to, as the guy (lets be honest) takes what there given in most cases. whereas the girl is usually the one to decide if they want to see them again

but someone else says

the rule is:
whoevers leaving the car should go for it :detective:

views on this?

[Giraffe]

If it feels right, then I guess it just happens, never thought about how. That's really all I can come up with on this one.

[Peter_D]

Just play it as it comes...i wouldnt go leaning over incase she backed away and you look like a twat

But like if you're in a car, i usually turn my body slightly so you are facing more in her direction, make plenty eye contact, and be a bit flirty

If she just undoes her seatbelt and gets out the car then something is up or she is frigid, even if they arent planning a kiss they'll usually give you a look when they're getting out that shows they're interested but are making you wait just to tease you

Dont go diving in, let her make the move but make sure she can tell you're keen

[Ryan]

there are no rules. If you think that there are and your friends do you must still think a relationship is like pre school.

Act on how the situation is... Unless you have less game than plymouth argyle :D

[Dolly]

Just play it as it comes...i wouldnt go leaning over incase she backed away and you look like a twat

But like if you're in a car, i usually turn my body slightly so you are facing more in her direction, make plenty eye contact, and be a bit flirty

If she just undoes her seatbelt and gets out the car then something is up or she is frigid, even if they arent planning a kiss they'll usually give you a look when they're getting out that shows they're interested but are making you wait just to tease you

Dont go diving in, let her make the move but make sure she can tell you're keen

Ooo check out this different side of Peter, MR Love Guru! ;)

there are no rules. If you think that there are and your friends do you must still think a relationship is like pre school.

Act on how the situation is... Unless you have less game than plymouth argyle :D

WOAH WOAH WOAH!!! Don't diss!
I use to work for them... 'till I got made redundant.
I do agree, they are totally shocking!


Oh and to answer your question.
Decides on how it went I suppose, I always waited for the boy and thats how my girl friends did too?
Well not wait just they were usually first, that I remember.
So no rules just go for it!!!

[manta]

Urm my first date with a girl was a kiss in the car was like last year.

She leaned in for a kiss, I leaned in for some titty feel yeah!
were massive though :-)

EDIT: So in other words I flirt a bit, then let them sorta like lean a bit, you get the idea.

[TomT]

I tend to make the first move, I just slowly lean in with an innocent look on my face, Grab them by the throat as hard as I can, headbutt them and do my thing.

This is just in general though, don't really go on dates.

[LSOfreak]

there are no rules. If you think that there are and your friends do you must still think a relationship is like pre school.

Act on how the situation is... Unless you have less game than plymouth argyle :D

lol ofcourse i know there arent rules,

btw, im not asking for advice or anything like, just thought it would be interesting to hear some views on this lol

[AdskiVTR]

I tend to make the first move, I just slowly lean in with an innocent look on my face, Grab them by the throat as hard as I can, headbutt them and do my thing.

This is just in general though, don't really go on dates.

Win!! :D

[Rogue_Shadow]

My recent experience

Got quite close to a female mate of mine. After going to the cinema I walked her back to her car, opened the door for her and let her get inside.
I leaned in a gave her a small kiss and As I moved back she whispered
" We shouldn't "
She smiled, I closed the door and I haven't heard from her since :n:

You don't know if you don't try I guess, however be ready for either reaction.
Just doesn't help being knocked back
a) from a great mate
b) When you already have low confidence

( Cool Story Bro :D )

[MiniGibbo]

Awkward as fuck the "who leans in first" moment :S

[iluminusbutterfly]

I tend to make the first move, I just slowly lean in with an innocent look on my face, Grab them by the throat as hard as I can, headbutt them and do my thing.

This is just in general though, don't really go on dates.

I actually lol'd, hats off to you my friend, hats off


My recent experience

Got quite close to a female mate of mine. After going to the cinema I walked her back to her car, opened the door for her and let her get inside.
I leaned in a gave her a small kiss and As I moved back she whispered
" We shouldn't "
She smiled, I closed the door and I haven't heard from her since :n:


so basically you tried to chat up a mate and when she realized she ended contact with you? rookie move dude

[Rogue_Shadow]

so basically you tried to chat up a mate and when she realized she ended contact with you? rookie move dude

Rookie Move ... Pretty much :drink:
It was abit more than a "chat up" in my defence lol we had gone out ALOT in the run up to the car door :homme:
/Fin

[iluminusbutterfly]

you poke her?

[Rogue_Shadow]

you poke her?

lol .. stopping before the Pic? Police turn up


/Fin

[iluminusbutterfly]

so thats a no then


rookie move

[MartiVtr]

I would agree with Dolly ... me and my girl mates always think the boy should make the first move ... I personally would make it pretty obvious either way if I wanted it or not lol :panic:

[dondan]

I would agree with Dolly ... me and my girl mates always think the boy should make the first move ... I personally would make it pretty obvious either way if I wanted it or not lol :panic:

And since when has a girl making something obvious EVER helped a male, it doesn't work like that.

You are all to complicated, everything females do makes men confused haha. You want us to think one thing, we will go opposite, so we change what we think in which time you've changed your mind at least a few times.

The circle of not knowing where the fuck we stand is a one we will always be in.

[iluminusbutterfly]

tbh its pritty easy to work out if a girl wants you to kiss them or not....

[DannoWilko]

It's all about Antibiotics in there drink guys... Get my Drift


NOT.... IT'S A JOKE,

But it's usually me that waits for the lass... Not like I get many opportunity like having a face like mine :(

[LSOfreak]

Awkward as fuck the "who leans in first" moment :S

lol definately! fuckin brutal if it goes tits up aswell

And since when has a girl making something obvious EVER helped a male, it doesn't work like that.

You are all to complicated, everything females do makes men confused haha. You want us to think one thing, we will go opposite, so we change what we think in which time you've changed your mind at least a few times.

The circle of not knowing where the fuck we stand is a one we will always be in.

i know, they read into things too much that guys do, and then all of a sudden go from being really interested to not interested at all. will never understand :homme:

[Lacey_106]

Fuck sitting back and waiting, if you want a cheeky kiss you go for it. If he/she doesn't want it then they are idiots and you never have to be plagued by their company again.

[Jay_]

Fuck sitting back and waiting, if you want a cheeky kiss you go for it. If he/she doesn't want it then they are idiots and you never have to be plagued by their company again.

well....there you go... :y:

[beckha]

Errrrrrrrrrmmmmm.

Depends on the situation.

I like it when the guy makes the first move though...

x

[leeham987]

cant remember mate, been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, soooo long ago lol

think it was me though that made the 1st move, some women like the man to be a little bit forward.

[Lacey_106]

I think it is up to the girl to make the move tbh. And men are bloody useless. The way I see it, if you like them you should go for it. None of this game playing bull. Just get on it and don't regret not trying. IMHO it usually works.

[Rudpud]

It seems like most of the lads on here have low self confidence...

If a girl waits for the boy, then they'll be waiting a long time. If the girl tries to make a hint for a guy to make a move, it will confuse us and our heads will explode. Basically, I think the girl should go for it.

[sam2kk8]

If all went well, WHO should lean in for the kiss/peck/smooch at the end?

been having a chat and theres a few theories about this lol

i thought the girl always has to, as the guy (lets be honest) takes what there given in most cases. whereas the girl is usually the one to decide if they want to see them again

but someone else says

the rule is:
whoevers leaving the car should go for it :detective:

views on this?

Honestly if you've taken the girl out for a meal or on a date which you've paid for then its down to her to make the move with a kiss..etc.. even if she drives

[TomT]

Errrrrrrrrrmmmmm.

Depends on the situation.

I like it when the guy makes the first move though...

x

You'd like me then.

[MartinDines]

*open 'first date' thread*

*see peter_d's name - start giggling to self, wonder what comic reply he has posted this time...*

...dont go diving in, let her make the move but make sure she can tell you're keen

:ponder:
3/10

[Ryyy]

Just play it cool and forget about who should lean in?

Think about just being yourself and making her smile first, then if you tick her boxes, she'll do half the work...


Simple, cheesy, cliché-ish advice...but it works.

[UKtom]

pretty sure you'll both be thinking the same thing, waiting for the other person to make a move and nothing will happen.... just jump in at the deep end if you know she likes you... go for it :y:

[Ryyy]

Anyways, your putting the pussaayy on a pedestal.

Pedestool..

Pedestal..

Ah fuck it.

[LSOfreak]

Just play it cool and forget about who should lean in?

Think about just being yourself and making her smile first, then if you tick her boxes, she'll do half the work...


Simple, cheesy, cliché-ish advice...but it works.

im not going on a first date with anyone! lol thought it would be a funny for some opinions :homme:

[chris_ph2]

Rarely have the first kiss on the first date - just tend to meet/pull girls in town then there's no "waiting for the right moment", you're already past that and just the fact you've been texting all week and you're meeting up again shows they're up for more of the same!

Any first dates though, just go for a drink. If they're interested it'll turn into a few then you're both a bit pissed and it's all a lot easier. Create the moment, get in close, put your sexiest face on, quick glance at their lips, yeah baby here it comes, close your eyes and lean in with your tongue out. Hopefully the next thing you'll taste is tonsils but if not don't worry there's plenty more fish in the sea

Fuck leaving the kiss till they're at their door or getting out the car, it's too predictable then and you're just asking for awkwardness

As a rule though I'd generally say it's the lad who goes in for it but she'll make it obvious she wants it

[JoshB]

Just play it as it comes...i wouldnt go leaning over incase she backed away and you look like a twat

But like if you're in a car, i usually turn my body slightly so you are facing more in her direction, make plenty eye contact, and be a bit flirty

If she just undoes her seatbelt and gets out the car then something is up or she is frigid, even if they arent planning a kiss they'll usually give you a look when they're getting out that shows they're interested but are making you wait just to tease you

Dont go diving in, let her make the move but make sure she can tell you're keen

Does that work on over 16's as well?

[Gazer]

I tend to make the first move, I just slowly lean in with an innocent look on my face, Grab them by the throat as hard as I can, headbutt them and do my thing.

This is just in general though, don't really go on dates.

fair play mate :P

i aint getting in a car with you then if is a general thing :D

[Peter_D]

Does that work on over 16's as well?

Why would you even want to kiss anyone over 16 you sick sick man, you have issues

And LOL at MartinDines...sorry :oops:

[MartiVtr]

And since when has a girl making something obvious EVER helped a male, it doesn't work like that.

You are all to complicated, everything females do makes men confused haha. You want us to think one thing, we will go opposite, so we change what we think in which time you've changed your mind at least a few times.

The circle of not knowing where the fuck we stand is a one we will always be in.

We ain't all complicated.. I'd let em know pretty straight HA. If I wanted it, I'd be pretty forward no messing lol

[JoshB]

We ain't all complicated.. I'd let em know pretty straight HA. If I wanted it, I'd be pretty forward no messing lol

Agree, I'd even go as far as sit through repeats of Family Fortunes from the 90's ;)

[MartiVtr]

Agree, I'd even go as far as sit through repeats of Family Fortunes from the 90's ;)

HA, you're a kiddah you!! :A:

[JoshB]

HA, you're a kiddah you!! :A:

Or was it CatchPhrase?

[MartiVtr]

Catchphrase it was indeed ;)