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stevenet15
10th July 2011, 02:50
when you get to a pont when you dont care about life and want to be dead who do you turn to?

Oli_K
10th July 2011, 03:02
Listen mate none of this asw shit, you obviously been drinking like me, in the morning you will feel better, I'm in a crazy place right now, if you need someone to talk to (I'm a gr8 listener) pm me mate.

Oli_K
10th July 2011, 03:13
Worried about this kid :/

Easty
10th July 2011, 07:25
Double post ftl

Easty
10th July 2011, 07:29
when you dont care about life and want to be dead who do you turn to?

GHOSTBUSTERS!

Seriously though....

Phone them.

And it's 'point' not pont.

Jay_
10th July 2011, 07:31
Worried about this kid :/

he will be fine.

tomsaxo
10th July 2011, 07:37
Samaritans

auds
10th July 2011, 07:53
Anti-depressants and a counsellor.....things always seem worse when drunk...

jonathon5
10th July 2011, 08:42
+1 for ghost busters

But seriously, unless your a kiddie fiddler

Most problems can be worked out with the help of a clear mind & some good friends

Giraffe
10th July 2011, 08:43
GHOSTBUSTERS!

Seriously though....

Phone them.

And it's 'point' not pont.

Real life bad man here! Oh no, just a prick copper lolz biiiiiiiiite

TipTopTom
10th July 2011, 08:48
I turn to a car forum for advice. Always seems like a really good thing to do.


\sarcasm.

stevenet15
10th July 2011, 08:57
i havent been drinking, my gf of 2 years left me last weekend and i am so in love with her its unreal, its our first break up but shes not interested in seeing me again, ive had my mates taking me out but i just cant get her off my mind, ive eaten like a couple of spoonfulls of food in a week *used to 6 meals a day, i just cant take this anymore, last night i started being silly kept thinking of ways to ease my pain i think i really need to see someone about it

TipTopTom
10th July 2011, 09:01
Breakups are shit. Just wait. You'll be fine again soon. In my experience it lasts a while, then you just suddenly completely forget about them.

There is no "easing the pain". It's called being a fuck up. Sorry to be blunt, but it's true.

jonathon5
10th July 2011, 09:05
i havent been drinking, my gf of 2 years left me last weekend and i am so in love with her its unreal, its our first break up but shes not interested in seeing me again, ive had my mates taking me out but i just cant get her off my mind, ive eaten like a couple of spoonfulls of food in a week *used to 6 meals a day, i just cant take this anymore, last night i started being silly kept thinking of ways to ease my pain i think i really need to see someone about it

Been there got the t shirt

You will just end up making a fool of yourself,

Best thing to do is man up & move on


What's meant to be will be

Prickle
10th July 2011, 09:06
Worried about this kid :/

look at his avatar, hes fine. :P

stevenet15
10th July 2011, 09:15
i really need to speak to someone officiol about this coz im struggling to much, ive had break ups before but nothing like this

Peter_D
10th July 2011, 09:37
Girls fuck your head up bud, theres always light at the end of the tunnel even tho it might not seem it just now

Ive been in that situation twice, its horrible but just try keep your mind active, keep working hard, spend time with your mates and at the gym, and dont hassle her...the last thing they want is you telling her how upset you are etc

Time is a great healer just try keep active to take your mind off it and in a few month shell be at the back of your mind and you can move on

Gary-VTR
10th July 2011, 09:38
It's only been a week, you're bound to feel shit. Give it a fortnight and you'll be wondering what all the fuss was about.

Brettles1986
10th July 2011, 09:59
Time is the best healer, I've just split with mine aswell and I dropped alot to be with her, onwards and upwards is the best motto mate, do you really feel its worth the people around you losing you for the sake of someone who obviously doesn't appreciate you. Chin up yea

MiniGibbo
10th July 2011, 10:02
i log into facebook, see how shit everyones life's are and realise im in a pretty damn good place right now :A:

jonathon5
10th July 2011, 10:05
i log into facebook, see how shit everyones life's are and realise im in a pretty damn good place right now :A:

Your life would have to be pretty shit to be on face book.

MiniGibbo
10th July 2011, 10:08
Your life would have to be pretty shit to be on face book.

I dont post much, i just like reading how all the kids i went to school with are getting on or not as such ;)

0rang3peel
10th July 2011, 10:14
Man the fuck up seriously, jesus what is this.

Phils_VTR
10th July 2011, 10:17
When your spirit is floating down that tunnel, towards the light... You know what's behind the light? It's not God, It's me... And I'm going to kick your poncy soul all the way back down the tunnel 'til you choke on your own fucked up ribs. Now, Wake the fuck up.

Seriously for some big meathead, where are your balls? Someone's missing them...
If you're going to kill yourself, hurry the fuck up with it, but it won't make a thing better becasue everything is non-existant. Life is a game, you are your own God. You pick and choose what happens, if there's any chance of getting back with her then do it. Write her a note and drop it to her before she wakes, turn up later with flowers and take her for a meal or something or take her somewhere beautiful, then you tell her that as much as you love her you will learn to move on and you wish her the best and thank her for the time you've spent together as she's made you the happiest you've ever been. That now works as reverse psychology in a way, and you leave her with the thought of how nice you are and how she may have made a mistake wanting to break up.

Then, enjoy your life. See friends, go out in town and live life. I have been in the situation, It is hard, but you're acting like a total pussy suicidal kid over a Citroen Saxo forum. If you're going to kill yourself then do it, don't try brag about it. But you only get once chance to live, kill yourself and thats it. Everyone and everything is a figment of your imagination anyway.

Mr_X
10th July 2011, 10:35
It's tough no doubt over that, doing something has always been key for me.

Seeing friends/family
Night out with friends
Going to the gym
Etc

Phils_VTR
10th July 2011, 10:46
Your life would have to be pretty shit to be on face book.

How many people use facebook? That's a stupid comment. It's a free website to keep in touch with friends, as opposed to calling/texting. In which you can share photos and such. The majority of people have it and it's the people who think they're really cool and individual not having it that are the sad ones and probably quite old too.

wassy78
10th July 2011, 12:08
First of all no life is worth ending . How many people have we lost and still feel sadened by there loss . One of my customers have ended there life 2 weeks ago and She's left 4 kids with no mum or dad . As he couldn't give a shit . Hope my tattoo wasnt that bad Also to add people on here know my son has been in and out of hospital problems with breathing and I wouldn't know what I would do if o lost him . As for it over a gf . This is going to be harsh but man up . People have other things to worry about like there health knowing are they going to be living today or tomorrow . M8 it will get better . Live your live as best as you can you only get one chance at it :)

Manu
10th July 2011, 12:16
when you get to a pont when you dont care about life and want to be dead who do you turn to?

saxperience obviously. Duh

stevo1600
10th July 2011, 12:21
Been there got the t shirt

You will just end up making a fool of yourself,

Best thing to do is man up & move on


What's meant to be will be

best post on here tbh.

jonathon5
10th July 2011, 13:13
How many people use facebook? That's a stupid comment. It's a free website to keep in touch with friends, as opposed to calling/texting. In which you can share photos and such. The majority of people have it and it's the people who think they're really cool and individual not having it that are the sad ones and probably quite old too.

It causes more trouble than its fucking worth, just like twitter

If I want to keep in touch with someone I will ring them, I really could not give a shit what there favourite colour is or what there current relationship status is.

People manage to get themselves sacked regular over Facebook

moxy89
10th July 2011, 13:16
chicks are for fucking losers mate.. been with mine 3 years... and i havent seen her in over a month doing what you please with your mates is brilliant. Chicks were her to semen on thats all...

Manu
10th July 2011, 13:50
£5 says he looks back on this thread in 6 months and goes "wtf was I thinking"

its our first break up but shes not interested in seeing me again

probably seeing someone else...

Easty
10th July 2011, 20:01
Real life bad man here! Oh no, just a prick copper lolz biiiiiiiiite

No bite from me buddy. You were correct, I am a massive prick.

But, sax-p ain't gonna help this lad is it really ?!

Samaritans are always best bet but surely everyone knows that?

dunno
10th July 2011, 20:15
Girls arent worth the hassle bud, trust me!

I was with my ex for 2 years and have been single for over a year now, have I ever looked back...like fuck have I!

Its hard to begin with, it killed to me break up with her even though she was bringing me down and playing with my head to the point where I didnt know if I was coming or going. Just work through the had bits now and it will make you stronger in the long run.

All of my teenage years have been hard (2 divorces & a phyco ex girlfriend) but its made me the person I am today, I dont look back and only think "what hasnt killed me can only make me stronger"!

Prickle
10th July 2011, 20:18
get some cans down your neck mate.

-shuggles-
10th July 2011, 20:24
If you are planning on atempting to kill yourself I wouldn't bother over a girl tbh

man up and think of friends and family if anything happened to you...

TomT
10th July 2011, 20:26
when you get to a pont when you dont care about life and want to be dead who do you turn to?

Definitely not saxp.

I'd give some advice if I could but I can't. You've gotta decide to be happy.

£5 says he looks back on this thread in 6 months and goes "wtf was I thinking"


This is true, you'll slap yourself for letting yourself get so down etc

Everyone gets depressed every now and then some worse then others, but everyones got to just get on with it

W103_A5H
10th July 2011, 20:29
just do things that you enjoy doing to take your mind of her, and from your avatar i guess gym is one of them. Go out with your mates, work on your car(s) go on a spur holiday to somewhere with the lads.

You dont need a gf for sex, just remember that ;) its what your hands were made for lolol

nickhead
10th July 2011, 21:07
Latch on to a mate, spend a few days at their side, drinking, laughing, hanging out, wtaching films, staying out late.

All the things i miss about being single.

Dont think about what you've lost, think about what you've gained!!*

*this is harder than it sounds