Do you...

[Aimee_C]

...do you ever get in a mood where you just can't be arsed with everything. Everything just gets to you, annoys you or upsets you. Or is this just some stupid girl thing i am going threw??
Been feeling dodgey for awhile now - and now i just really cant be bothered with anything, or anyone. Which is unlike me and i'm usually proper loud and bubbley!

Sorry about this random post - feel like knowing if i'm the only weirdo like this.

[Robb]

That time of the month eh?



Sorry only joking, just need to take some time out and chillax a little...

[Barry123]

cheer up :)

[Aimee_C]

Lol - its not just before it comes up alot lol

tried chilling still down - just cant seem to shift it :sad:

[abu]

depression
maybe

[Aimee_C]

from what?

you get depression from stuff usually dont you??

[Amiee]

argh i get that when im bored and have too much time to think! just try going out and make your self want to do stuff xx

[saxooxas]

maybe its like time of the month....but work makes me feel like that i think its cause i get so tired do you work

[Barry123]

depression
maybe

takes a little more than feeling down to be depressed homie.

I sometimes get like that, not very often mind.

Porn usually sorts me out :)

[abu]

no you can get it just like that for nowt .one minute your fine next you wanna kill yourself

[Leo]

could be mild depression considering you dont know why you feel down etc, maybe have a really hard think what it might be

[Aimee_C]

lol your a guy ads - your always easy to sort out

hate feeling like this tho - i'm not bored i have loads of stuff to be doing so its not that - its just really crap

[Aimee_C]

could be mild depression considering you dont know why you feel down etc, maybe have a really hard think what it might be

might do that - listen to some music and drift off into a little world - could be bad tho - might think of stuff i dont want to

[abu]

try therapy sit down close your eyes think happy thoughts

[Leo]

might do that - listen to some music and drift off into a little world - could be bad tho - might think of stuff i dont want to


Thats the whole point, good luck

[Aimee_C]

thanks for the good luck - gives me confidence

[Andyt]

I get like that from work quite alot. Getting really stressed from a bad shift...doesn't help working 12 hour night shifts some weekends as well.

Aparently if your feeling down or depressed a good work out is meant to help you...so get to the gym if you can be bothered.

[Luke]

I sometimes get like that Aimee, like last night I was in one of those moods.

I'm slightly in one tonight worrying/thinking things, but I'm sure you will be fine. Be alone, listen to music/watch tv and chill out.

[Aimee_C]

i was going to go and walk my dog - i know this probally sounds daft - i usually talk to my dog when i need to talk to someone. but then it started pissing it down...

[Leo]

make a nice cup a tea or whatnot and put a film on

[Jonny_H]

i sort of know what you mean... i think it's when i'm too tired tho... usually its work that gets to me and when i'm tired i get pissed off easily and everything just pecks my head.

[Viper]

i know exactly what you mean aimee.. i get that sometimes.. i just feel like i need to smash something.....

i take another ritalin.. and that helps me a bit.. lol (but im guessing ritalin is not an option for you..)

watch a funny film or something.. just do something different to what you are doing.. and it should help to take ur mind off all of it :)

have fun, and hope you lighten up soon :).. i believe in you, soldier!

[Barry123]

f**k!

A lot of people think they are doctors here :P
I had depression for 2 years, i dont recall being down though for a lot of it.

[Easty]

if it's depression you wont be feeling "down" as such, you're probably just in one of those moods !

it might not be caused by anything in particular, maybe just fed up with the same old routine !

[SteVTR]

usually get like that when i'm at work but i get wound up easily when i'm on earlies getting up at 4 in the morning is shit

[Aimee_C]

i need something new - i need to change things

just dont know what - i dont want to hurt people around me

feeling trapped

[Aimee_C]

usually get like that when i'm at work but i get wound up easily when i'm on earlies getting up at 4 in the morning is shit

that would tick me right off aswell - dont know how you get up and stay awake lol

[Aimee_C]

i know exactly what you mean aimee.. i get that sometimes.. i just feel like i need to smash something.....

i take another ritalin.. and that helps me a bit.. lol (but im guessing ritalin is not an option for you..)

watch a funny film or something.. just do something different to what you are doing.. and it should help to take ur mind off all of it :)

have fun, and hope you lighten up soon :).. i believe in you, soldier!

you believe me - thats nice! :)

[lozi_murias]

Don't worry Aimee, everyone gets like this - I feel like it a lot of the time, it comes and goes every couple of months or so, you feel like you can't talk to anyone, and i personally get really snappy with people.

Exercise does help though, if you feel up to it, (endorphins and other scientific crap,) so try making it a regular thing. Otherwise there's only one option - Bridget Jones!! - The ultimate "cheer-you-up" film!!

I know it sounds 'middle-aged' but i find writing lists helps when i'm in this sort of mood. Write a good page of "life's simple pleasures" - things, doesn't matter how small / silly, that make you happy. Try and get a few into each day.

Chin up chuck!! :)

[Aimee_C]

Thanks love...

i would usually have gone to karate tonight as i do every wednesday which helps loads because i can let all my anger out - but missed last week due to a work night out and tonight missed because i've got a cold and generally feel crap.

Bridget Jones is a top class film - i just dont have it *embarrased to say* any other films that are on a par with that?? I have 10 things i hate about you - i love that film!

[Leo]

f**k!

A lot of people think they are doctors here :P
I had depression for 2 years, i dont recall being down though for a lot of it.

Shit mate you sound almost proud to have been depressed, people are just trying to help the girl

[Aimee_C]

All helps been appreciated aswell might i add

[lozi_murias]

Moulin Rouge, Chicago, both are top "cheer-up" films, so are chick-flicks like 10 things etc... Find a cuddly duvet and some hobnobs, and go watch one!

That's definitely on my list of simple pleasures! :Y: xx

[Leo]

Moulin Rouge, Chicago, both are top "cheer-up" films, so are chick-flicks like 10 things etc... Find a cuddly duvet and some hobnobs, and go watch one!

That's definitely on my list of simple pleasures! :Y: xx

I do that even when im feeling happy!!!

[Aimee_C]

Think i might - just got so much playing on my mind tho - dont know if i will switch off and focus on the film

[Barry123]

Shit mate you sound almost proud to have been depressed, people are just trying to help the girl

telling her she's depressed must be such a massive lift i suspect :err:

not proud at all. i didnt even know i had it... seems to be a history of it within our family. my parents noticed the symtoms in me doctor said i should take some medication. I looked at the sideeffects (which included my bollocks swelling up) and decided not to bother.

the sister was on suicide watch.

enough of my life story.

[Aimee_C]

Ads - sorry to hear that!

Just me being stupid once again i guess!

[craig180]

Just think about how many of us care about you enough to try and cheer you up on a chat forum!!! Grab a bottle of wine and snuggle up in front of telly! You'll be fine in the morning.

Other option is to go for a razz in the motor - that does me the world of good when I can't be arsed with anything

[Leo]

telling her she's depressed must be such a massive lift i suspect :err:

not proud at all. i didnt even know i had it... seems to be a history of it within our family. my parents noticed the symtoms in me doctor said i should take some medication. I looked at the sideeffects (which included my bollocks swelling up) and decided not to bother.

the sister was on suicide watch.

enough of my life story.

To be fair, I said Might be mild depression! didnt exactly say "you are depressed" !! :P

Anyways I am in no way an expert but I do belive depression is or can be different with everybody, and im pretty sure feeling down for a time for no apparent reason is a common symton of mild depression a.k.a "feeling down"
Depression does sound a scary word but like 1/3 people suffer from it mildly, the biggest reason for people taking time off work in the uk is... yer... depression

[Leo]

sorry about the thread jack there lol, i guess its a lucky dip of advice.. cruise in the car sounds good though.. just dont speed hehehe

[Barry123]

woh woh.
I'm fine. so is sister, so nerr :P it was years ago anyway
everyone has uppers and downers so dont worry :) the thing is to stop the downers be it chilling with mates, computer, games, chatting with parents, scoffing food, going out etc etc

[Aimee_C]

Think i might go for a razz in the car - seems a good idea - blast some music out - might let out whatever is in me

[bullit]

aimee youve answered the question yourself. you want something different to do. looking forward to stuff in life is what its all about, it keeps you going. because youve not got that your thnking to much and it gets you down.
youve just got to find something new again.

viper- get the valium in

[Hannah]

oh god! i get like that when im at work...im fine and then all of a sudden i just can be arsed to do anything n get really moody with everyone! it happened last nite actually, was out for my mates birthday and everything just really pissed me off! ended up going home at 10! lol...your not alone girl!!;)

[Viper]

lol bullit. no valium for me.. i have ritalin for the ADHD.. and 50mg of Atenalol a day for my heart palputations.. i dont want anymoe drugs. lol

[Aimee_C]

oh god! i get like that when im at work...im fine and then all of a sudden i just can be arsed to do anything n get really moody with everyone! it happened last nite actually, was out for my mates birthday and everything just really pissed me off! ended up going home at 10! lol...your not alone girl!!;)

Tah love!! Just its hard to knock myself back to my normal bubbly self :sad:

[Aimee_C]

aimee youve answered the question yourself. you want something different to do. looking forward to stuff in life is what its all about, it keeps you going. because youve not got that your thnking to much and it gets you down.
youve just got to find something new again.

viper- get the valium in

i might know i want something new - but i have everything - not trying to sound spolit or anything - but what am i supposed to change in my life to make it all exciting again

[Barry123]

do something that scares you


... thats the saying i believe.

[Aimee_C]

that scares me?? *puzzles*

how does that make you feel better?

[Mitchell]

gives u a rush doesnt it. and when people laugh at you, the only thing u can do is laugh with them cos you'll look like a total fud if u dont.

therefore... cheering u up!

or u can just go play sum pro evo... play sum pro evo...

[Aimee_C]

Lol - boys and there toys - you'll never stop lol

Only game bro has in his xbox at the moment is the Need For Speed Games

[Hanuman]

to true. when i have time to contemplate shit i get proper pissed off, just realised i shouldnt of stoppedp layin sunday league last season missed so much spent loadsa time with my gf, just joined up and its like im buildin mates again tryin to juggle going out money for that and for the lass and just life in general like someone said just dont think about shit life is what u make it jus keep busy love

[Aimee_C]

Trying to - proving hard - and just eatten a huge fresh chocolate muffin and even that hasnt made me feel good!

[dannyjay]

Rent out "The Wild", and relax...

[bullit]

doesnt matter if you have everthing you still need to be mentally stimulated. youve just contradicted yourself aswell as you say you have everything but you need something new so youve not got everything. lol. only you are gonna know what it is. as soon as you have youll get your ignorance back again.
i love thinking me

[Aimee_C]

i'll get my ignorance back - whats that mean???

[Hanuman]

ere lend me foot spa its a god send

[Luke]

doesnt matter if you have everthing you still need to be mentally stimulated. youve just contradicted yourself aswell as you say you have everything but you need something new so youve not got everything. lol. only you are gonna know what it is. as soon as you have youll get your ignorance back again.
i love thinking me

She isn't asking to be slagged off, she is asking for advice.

There is a difference..!

[Aimee_C]

Thanks Luke!

I'm not ignorant anyway Bullit - dont say things about people unless you know the truth!

[bullit]

ignorance- as in if your happy again youll wont get be thinking this. when your not happy youll think more and get down
ie the saying ignorance is bliss.

[Barry123]

even im confused...

[Aimee_C]

me too Ads - really dont get it - but my head isnt screwed on at the moment - maybe it will click in awhile

[Jonny_H]

Other option is to go for a razz in the motor - that does me the world of good when I can't be arsed with anything

great shout.... loud music and a smooth drive. shout random funny comments at random people as well, and beep at them... bit mean and chavy but still can be fun and will prob cheer you up

[bullit]

aimee im calling you ignorant. luke i dont know where you got the slagging bit from.
il leave it now was just trying help though. maybe someone will know what i mean

[Barry123]

ignorant about what gezza?

[Aimee_C]

aimee im calling you ignorant. luke i dont know where you got the slagging bit from.
il leave it now was just trying help though. maybe someone will know what i mean

why am i ignorant tho??? i dont understand you at all

[bullit]

the happier you are the less you think so becoming more ignorant(happy) you dont think as much. so your thinking down thoughts because you not happy with something. so when you correct it you wont think down thoughts ( youll get ignorant to them again)

[Certi]

the happier you are the less you think so becoming more ignorant(happy) you dont think as much. so your thinking down thoughts because you not happy with something. so when you correct it you wont think down thoughts ( youll get ignorant to them again)


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v144/Certifiable/Understand-Darth_Vader.jpg

:P ;)

[Aimee_C]

ok i understand you now - think you just needed to explain yourself lol - thought you were meaning i am ignorant - as was gunna say i really aint!

[bullit]

certifiable that was doing my head in trying to word it. i nearly gave up lol :)
glad i got ther in the end

and aimee everyone is ignorant to lots of things:)

[Aimee_C]

didnt mean to stress you out with my thickness lol

yeah i know we are but i just didnt click on to what you were saying lol

[Aimee_C]

Stupidly - my name on msn at the moment - kinda makes a little sense to what yu were trying to get across - or i think it does - if i understood you properly lol....

"To The Heart And Mind...Ignorance Is Kind...There Is No Comfort In Truth...Pain Is All You'll Find!!"

[Connor_scotland]

im telling to cheer you up go geta Caramac kitkat and everything will make sense from there

:-)

[Andyt]

im telling to cheer you up go geta Caramac kitkat and everything will make sense from there

:-)

I read that as Ceramic kitkat there, was puzzled for a good 5 mins. hehe

[Didz]

R i hope you start feeling better soon, i get like that sometimes like others have said when your bored and have to much time to think, best thing to do is have a good girly chat with one of your mates and mayb you might pin point what the cause is!
cheer up chuck!

[Aimee_C]

im telling to cheer you up go geta Caramac kitkat and everything will make sense from there

:-)

i would have one of those - but still cant find the bloody things :sad:

[Aimee_C]

R i hope you start feeling better soon, i get like that sometimes like others have said when your bored and have to much time to think, best thing to do is have a good girly chat with one of your mates and mayb you might pin point what the cause is!
cheer up chuck!

tah love - still crap and my boss even gave me a bottle of wine for no reason today lol - oh well - guess i'm just weird!

[doubledavies]

yes, i do

went through a phase of "fuck it" in school + glandular fever

they were even considering me resitting GCSE level but i puled through


also had a bit of it before starting college

[Aimee_C]

its a horrible feeling tho - like someone else is inside me and not letting the real me free! i proberly sound like a right freak - but thats what its like! :sad:

[Yates]

i proberly sound like a right freak - but thats what its like! :sad:

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y249/yate5y/Bullseye_bullies.jpg
Bulls eye

[Aimee_C]

Yeah that helps - thanks alot!!!

[Yates]

Personally i think its pathetic, puttin it all on the internet, if your worried go see a doctor, you feel a bit down, big deal, your young, get yourself out with your mates and have a good time.

I wish my problems were as simple as yours