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DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 13:19
Well here goes....
Met this girl awhile back, shes 22, quite fit and really nice and last night she told me she wanted to see me propperly.
There is a few issues i have been thinking about and i think im being really shallow but thats why i want to ask you guys!
When she was 20 she got pregnant on the pill and found out 22 weeks later (too late for abortion obviously) so had the bAby but last year gave it up for adaption to a nice family locally (the dad buggered off as soon as he knew and doesnt have contact with her anymore)..... anyway am i being really shallow as to say i shouldnt go out with some1 who is a mum at our age even if the baby isnt there anymore?
Also some of my mates are telling me dont go there should i listen to them, im really confused but dont want to keep her stringing along because im not that nasty! :oops:
jaybiss
2nd January 2007, 13:20
ur shallow as fuck
try it, see how it goes
it may not work out but youll more than likely learn something
Leo
2nd January 2007, 13:21
i wouldnt personally, but only you can decide.
Clouds_mate
2nd January 2007, 13:21
I would be more worried that she didnt realise for 22 weeks. thats like missing 4 periods, when my missus is a day late i shiz my pants. (well unless shes on the pill that doesnt have a period)
CampDavid
2nd January 2007, 13:22
No, she deserves better than someone who'd care about that
Dan
2nd January 2007, 13:25
It wouldnt bother me at all, we all make mistakes, surely it wont affect your relationship.
Give it a try mate.
Chris_Ward_vtr
2nd January 2007, 13:26
I would be more worried that she didnt realise for 22 weeks. thats like missing 4 periods, when my missus is a day late i shiz my pants. (well unless shes on the pill that doesnt have a period)
That is the same with me lol. Scary lol dnt wna b a daddy! yet...
Give it a try mate and see how it goes. Dont blame you for being worried though. Good luck woteva happenz
Japman
2nd January 2007, 13:27
i wouldnt ither mate,its strange that she didnt notice after that amount of time...but its up to you
Anyway good luck with wot eva u decide :)
Certi
2nd January 2007, 13:28
If you're not even in a relationship yet and you already have a problem with it then I'd say that you already know the answer.
smartgavin
2nd January 2007, 13:28
You're worried that she got pregnant 2 years ago? If stuff like that and what your mates are saying bothers you then you probably dont want to be in a relationship with her......Nothing wrong with being a mum at that sort of age, I know a couple of girls who have kids and I still would lol.
haggis44
2nd January 2007, 13:30
you would be very shallow ot to try it, she obviously wants to try and have a relationship with you, try it, and as someone stated earlier, if in time it does'nt work out, at least you will learn something for the future, go on, be brave, take a chance.
If it all goes tits up, you can always go on the jeremy kyle show! :y:
Barry123
2nd January 2007, 13:33
what puts you off about the baby bit?
is the fact she's already had a bit of action or just the baby?
Reason I ask is a few people I know are massively jealous knowing that their partners have had previous partners, sad i know.
We all make mistakes, fair enough its a pretty big f**kin mistake.
:y:
saxoash
2nd January 2007, 13:37
Daryl your a :homme: if you like her and she likes you then whast the problem?
Peer pressure pussy
Didz
2nd January 2007, 13:53
you definately shouldnt hold something like her having a baby against her!
but like a few people have said if something has silly as that is bothering you now, then maybe your not even in the right frame of mind to get into a relationship!
KamRacing
2nd January 2007, 13:58
don't listen to your mates. If you care about her go for it..
Just be carefull on the baby front when you are knobing her, if you don't trust her to take precautions then you should be
Danr
2nd January 2007, 14:01
Its up to you mate, i'd say the worst thing you could have done was ask for advice! Everyone will have different opinions and there isn't really a right answer that anyone can give except yourself!
Just think about why you think it wouldn't work, then consider what will be good about it working, if you can see a clear difference your away.
Deep inside mate you know the answer :y:
devilsadvocate
2nd January 2007, 14:08
I Agree with Danr. Only you can make this decision, and the fact that you have to ask the question in the first place may give you your answer.
2klthor
2nd January 2007, 14:14
im bonking a 20 year old with 2 kids and im 17 (not a relationship) so as above try it and see how it goes you never know matey
S9_DAN
2nd January 2007, 14:14
that wouldnt bother me, if you like her then why should it bother you ! just be carefull that she does not make the mistake again, she obivously didnt want the baby and has learnt her lesson the hard way, and i think she will be more carefull now as i am guessing she wont want to do it again !
Mikey
2nd January 2007, 14:24
nah pal, having a kid isnt that bad really. if you like her go for it
Corsa_john
2nd January 2007, 14:37
WTF - I went out with somone who had a baby at 16 and kept it. Slag i know but i loves slags!
Plus, are not going to marry her so just have fun mate.
Angel
2nd January 2007, 14:38
she musta been through hell and back with the baby putting up for adoption so dont think she will make the same mistake again .
i say if there is a chance of you being happy with this girl for a while if not longer .. take the chance u got nothing to lose apart from bein happy ...
if i listened to my m8ts bout my boyf then i think i would still be miserable 2 years and 6 months atm and we still goin strong :)
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 14:38
i would leave it but thats me, i have my girl for good, i wouldnt even go for a girl thats been pregasss before i duno i would just fell shes been a bit of a slag maybe or somthing, maybe beening to harsh or what i duno.
REMBER MATE THERE ARE MANY FISH IN THE SEA
craigy_87
2nd January 2007, 14:39
I would be more worried that she didnt realise for 22 weeks. thats like missing 4 periods, when my missus is a day late i shiz my pants. (well unless shes on the pill that doesnt have a period)
cudnt agree more with this statement a day late an its panic time for me!
but yeah you could give it a try an if things dont work out well there u go, at least you tried its not the end of the world
plus u'll get some loving on a tap for awhile :y:
craigy
Baz
2nd January 2007, 14:40
give it a try and see what happens, if it doesn't work, just get rid
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 14:41
give it a try and see what happens, if it doesn't work, just get rid
hahaha lol last words
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 14:42
Reason I ask is a few people I know are massively jealous knowing that their partners have had previous partners, sad i know.
i was like that lol tis very sad.
i'd say do it, if shes a nice lassie with a nice attitude then she'll know never to bring it up in convos or anythin.
have fun i say l0lz!
Tim_W
2nd January 2007, 14:43
Personally mate it wouldnt bother me if she had a child either. Am i right in presuming you might be a bit worried about her getting pregnant again but this time with a child of yours ? That might be my only concern aswell but, personally i would still use protection regardless wether she was on the pill, especially after what happened before.
If its just down to the fact that she has had a child then only you know how you feel mate. The other thing is if i 'liked' the girl i wouldnt let my mates influence me either and i would give it a go, child or not. We learn by making mistakes but who's to say this is a mistake ? It might just be what the both of you need.
Hope this helps mate, just my 2p's worth.
Tim
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 14:45
i was like that lol tis very sad.
i'd say do it, if shes a nice lassie with a nice attitude then she'll know never to bring it up in convos or anythin.
have fun i say l0lz!
i think alot of people are like that i would be to, yh like u said have a bash and if its kool then away u go be married next year and before u no it u will have mini yous running about the place
p.s love ur video in ur sign mate
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 14:48
if you have a wee kid about you'll get to play on the swings without lookin like a perverted pr*ck.
it aint all bad ;)
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 14:50
hahaha funny, very ramdom mate
plus you can make him have a saxo for his first car hahaha bingo would probs all be dead by then so oh well
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 14:52
i think alot of people are like that i would be to, yh like u said have a bash and if its kool then away u go be married next year and before u no it u will have mini yous running about the place
p.s love ur video in ur sign mate
ta very much ;)
I was only like that when i really wanted to be with the person which was only once. never see me in a serious relationship again. no way.
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 14:53
ta very much ;)
I was only like that when i really wanted to be with the person which was only once. never see me in a serious relationship again. no way.
good lad if thats the way for you then fire away and play it
alot of people are like that few of my mates are
Barry123
2nd January 2007, 15:27
i wouldnt even go for a girl thats been pregasss before i duno i would just fell shes been a bit of a slag maybe or somthing, maybe beening to harsh or what i duno.
bloody hell man.
Not every lass that gets preggers is a tart, slapper, hoe or slag. accidents do and very often happen.
gotta feel sorry for women, they have a few partners they get called slags, bloke have a few partners they get called hero's (or something... i dont actually know :oops:)
Barry123
2nd January 2007, 15:31
Reason I ask is a few people I know are massively jealous knowing that their partners have had previous partners, sad i know.
i was like that lol tis very sad.
have fun i say l0lz!
Its all part of experiencing new things, personally it doesnt bother me in the slightest. Some people it makes them go mental, like my girlfriend...
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 15:33
so your missus goes mental at the girls you've been with in the past?
does she ever tell you why?
Barry123
2nd January 2007, 15:36
does she ever tell you why?
not really dude.
I dont care anyways :cool:
You've made me wonder though. Im off round her's for a family meal so i'll bring the matter up then :)
Danr
2nd January 2007, 15:49
not really dude.
I dont care anyways :cool:
You've made me wonder though. Im off round her's for a family meal so i'll bring the matter up then :)
Bring it up at the table, cause a seen. Its the way to get your point across :)
cooky
2nd January 2007, 16:02
Just give it a go what you got 2 lose if you single ? AT LEAST YOU CAN HAVE SOME FUN:y:
TERMINATOR
2nd January 2007, 16:06
Na give it a go mate for deff
stevenet15
2nd January 2007, 16:19
i have slept with 9 mums now (ranging from 19-36) and only one of them had a bucket lol so go for it mate might aswell try it and at least ur both not hiding anyhting from each other which is allways a good start
hesslevtr
2nd January 2007, 16:34
why does it matter what other people say
no 1 on here will know her so you cant listen to them
if you like her go 4 it so what if she has a kid hasnt bothered me b4
R4T
2nd January 2007, 16:44
Well here goes....
Met this girl awhile back, shes 22, quite fit and really nice and last night she told me she wanted to see me propperly.
There is a few issues i have been thinking about and i think im being really shallow but thats why i want to ask you guys!
When she was 20 she got pregnant on the pill and found out 22 weeks later (too late for abortion obviously) so had the bAby but last year gave it up for adaption to a nice family locally (the dad buggered off as soon as he knew and doesnt have contact with her anymore)..... anyway am i being really shallow as to say i shouldnt go out with some1 who is a mum at our age even if the baby isnt there anymore?
Also some of my mates are telling me dont go there should i listen to them, im really confused but dont want to keep her stringing along because im not that nasty! :oops:
yes your very shallow
stiffler69
2nd January 2007, 17:00
Anyone with a d*ck can make a baby but it takes a real man to raise his children. Please guess where i pulled that line from.
But yeah go for it cant see where you going with this at all maybe your worried about not been able to satisfy this young lady like you could a woman whos not had children theres no real difference at all mate and dont listen to your mates they are just worried about losing a drinking buddy.
And about been worried about her getting pregnant again didnt know it was just upto the lady to be the only one who protects herself it takes two to tango remember that!
;)
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 17:01
boyz n the hood.
Thanks. \o/
hesslevtr
2nd January 2007, 17:04
boyz n the hood.
Thanks. \o/
quality film
stiffler69
2nd January 2007, 17:04
boyz n the hood.
Thanks. \o/
Thats the one buddy
Hazza17
2nd January 2007, 17:05
dont do it mate!! too much baggage!! find a nice girl without a baby!
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 17:06
she hasnt got a baby.
stiffler69
2nd January 2007, 17:07
dont do it mate!! too much baggage!! find a nice girl without a baby!
There is no baby please try some reading glasses the baby was adopted therefore there is just a young lady no ties
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 17:17
The kid has gone. I dont know what it is i need to have a think about it! Ive just been bought up very traditional and the thought of your girl already having a family with some1 else puts thoughts in my mind.
She seems nice enough and shes not ugly or anything, its just in the past ive gone for sweet innocent girls its kinda a jump. Its hard to explain...
You cant change your past i know that and i wouldnt want to judge her purely on that im not that horrible ..... maybe im just being overly fussy
Barry123
2nd January 2007, 17:22
daryl get over it.
Look at the girl not the history. carry on like that and you'll never get laid :)
I'm been nice btw, not trying to be nasty. :):):)
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 17:27
daryl get over it.
Look at the girl not the history. carry on like that and you'll never get laid :)
I'm been nice btw, not trying to be nasty. :):):)
LOL blunt thats how it should be matey!
saxodan
2nd January 2007, 17:31
Id go for it, bit of milf action ;)
All the best
Tim_W
2nd January 2007, 17:45
The kid has gone. I dont know what it is i need to have a think about it! Ive just been bought up very traditional and the thought of your girl already having a family with some1 else puts thoughts in my mind.
What sort of thoughts does it put in your mind ? If you want us to help your going to have to tell us what is going through your mind. As a lot of the guys have said allready only you can decide what to do and only you know how you are truly feeling about this. You say you only normally go for sweet and innocent girls, dude i have yet to meet one of those :d and your going to be hard pressed to find one. If you have found one in the past and thats the kind of girl you like why let her go in the first place ?
Anyway i am getting side tracked here. Point being if you like her and you feel something for her dont let the fact she has had a kid put you off. These things happen mate, its part of life, i gather she has realised the mistake she has made. Think what she must have been through in those 2 years that child has been with the other family. I think you would do better having a sit down with her and talk things through, get an idea of who she is, what makes her tick and take things from there. She might turn out to be a great girl, but like i said only you know your true feelings mate.
Tim
Luke
2nd January 2007, 18:11
Past is past mate, look for the future.
Ok, so she has had a baby with someone else and now gave it up for adoption. Like what's been said accidents do happen and we can't help that - my Girlfriend is pregnant, mistake yes but I'm not going to leave her for it.
If you really like her go for it, you have nothing to lose.
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 18:19
She has already told me she wants a fresh start this year... shes in simular situation to me, got a name for herself off local car forums for putting her opinion in etc think il have a chat with her about EVERYTHING and see where we stand afterwards! You only live once and she honestly seems serious about what she wants
sax51
2nd January 2007, 18:19
give it a go for a few months what do ya have to lose mate
Luke
2nd January 2007, 18:21
We also need pictures :)
Yates
2nd January 2007, 18:32
i hope she sees you have a saxo and thinks, fuck that what a prick...
seriously, you are shallow, and pretty pathetic asking about it on an internet forum, you say you like her yet worried what people will think because she accidently got pregnant when she didnt want it, put it up for adoption (which im sure will be on of the hradest things a mother would ever do) so its got a good life.
i find it amusing shes got a name for herself cos of the internet, mate the internet isnt the real world, not sure if you have realised that yet or not.
GrantW
2nd January 2007, 18:38
^^ give that man a coconut :clapping:
smartgavin
2nd January 2007, 18:41
seriously, you are shallow, and pretty pathetic asking about it on an internet forum,
Wee bit harsh.....Maybe his mates are all useless for advice? Whcih would explain why he's posting about it here....I would if I asked mates for advice but I tend to sort this stuff out on my own. Still he is a bit shallow for not just going for it cos she had a kid. And her Internet Rep lol
Tobs
2nd January 2007, 18:45
just go out with ur car mate its sexy enough lol!!!!!
na mate do what u thinks best ads u got good point there follow that its good
right im off going to go see new 007 laters
hope goes well mate
TheMadSaxo
2nd January 2007, 18:47
This is what I reckon.....
You obviously can't be that bothered otherwise why would you ask us?
(She's either a slag or a nice lass who made a mistake - you need to decide that)
Or,
You ARE bothered but her minge has gone all baggy because she's had a kid. Lol!
Yates
2nd January 2007, 18:48
maybe if his mates are useless then i think he should be writting to an agony aunt...
i dont think il ever find myself asking for advice on the internet, i honestly do think its pathetic. Well apart from car advice, but about relationships n things like that, ask your mates.
but still if shes serious about you, and you arent sure because she made one mistake (which she could do nothing about) then she doesnt deserve you, she put it up as she knew she couldnt cope and she wasnt ready yet you are unsure. Think bout what she did, it must of been hard and she must of thought about it, its a very unselfish thing to do. imo in the circumstances.
last week you had a thread saying you cant find a decent girl, n should you change your car n that, n then you find one who you cant fault apart from shes put a kid up for adoption.
i wonder if she has a thread up on her local forum, ive met a lad, hes really nice but he drives a saxo...am i shallow
jaybiss
2nd January 2007, 18:48
i love the fact shes on car forums, i hope she comes on this one and sees what a shallow loser you really are...
smartgavin
2nd January 2007, 18:52
i love the fact shes on car forums, i hope she comes on this one and sees what a shallow loser you really are...
That would be rather funny :clapping:
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 18:56
maybe if his mates are useless then i think he should be writting to an agony aunt...
i dont think il ever find myself asking for advice on the internet, i honestly do think its pathetic. Well apart from car advice, but about relationships n things like that, ask your mates.
but still if shes serious about you, and you arent sure because she made one mistake (which she could do nothing about) then she doesnt deserve you, she put it up as she knew she couldnt cope and she wasnt ready yet you are unsure. Think bout what she did, it must of been hard and she must of thought about it, its a very unselfish thing to do. imo in the circumstances.
last week you had a thread saying you cant find a decent girl, n should you change your car n that, n then you find one who you cant fault apart from shes put a kid up for adoption.
i wonder if she has a thread up on her local forum, ive met a lad, hes really nice but he drives a saxo...am i shallow
i love the fact shes on car forums, i hope she comes on this one and sees what a shallow loser you really are...
See now u lads are judging me.... easy to get an internet rep isnt it :) You dont know me in real life either..... a baby is quite a big thing... something im not used to accepting so i need to start. Im not a shallow person ... any1 who knows me will tell you the same its just a new scenario to me....
Im a goody 2 shoes i know that thats how my family is
saxodan
2nd January 2007, 19:04
Woah people being a bit harsh to Daryl.
I think the internet is good for advice, open, honest, blunt and truthful.. As you mates will be like "fuck that mate it'll be like throwing a sausage down an alley" .. well mine would anyway
But then again I stronlgley agree with Matts post about the tinternet not being real life.. getting a name for yourself on the internet is a bit ghey
Unless your dean plunkton, damn I was I was him
Bailey1124
2nd January 2007, 19:04
its about the present and the future. everyone has mistakes, if u dont try u might lose something good. you'll never know if u dont try
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 19:09
id like this to be locked before people start getting the total wrong idea on this thread.
For the sensible suggestions thank you people ... i wont bother asking things like this again on sax-p
boz
2nd January 2007, 19:11
go for it mate, you may regret it if you dont.
it is a bit shallow what you have been thinking! everyone has a past and learns from their mistakes.
give it a go
TheMadSaxo
2nd January 2007, 19:11
Don't get the huff on Daryl, you take anything you read on this forum with a pinch of salt anyway.......unless I write it of course ;)
Bailey1124
2nd January 2007, 19:12
people are heavily opinionated on here. At the end of the day u wont meet any of these people on here. So dont worry. But just do what ur heart tells u fella. good luck :afro:
xxxvickxxx
2nd January 2007, 19:13
just wanna say i dont think your shallow being with someone who had a kid isnt allways an easy thing to do but you gotta think it through and do whats best for you
jaybiss
2nd January 2007, 19:17
See now u lads are judging me.... easy to get an internet rep isnt it :) You dont know me in real life either..... a baby is quite a big thing... something im not used to accepting so i need to start. Im not a shallow person ... any1 who knows me will tell you the same its just a new scenario to me....
Im a goody 2 shoes i know that thats how my family is
well your judging her on the hardest decision she has ever had to make in her life, you just dont seem to realise accidents happen
maybe it will happen to you one day and youll see how easily its done
she doesnt have the baby no more and i garuntee she wont talk about it much if at all
TheMadSaxo
2nd January 2007, 19:19
.......and lock.
Hannah
2nd January 2007, 19:20
I think this thread has gone a bit over the top! lol
Daryl, in all fairness say you'd just met her and she never told you about her baby or you didn't know she had one. I bet you'd then start seeing her without a doubt! I don't mean to be harsh because i know your a nice lad but it does make you seem a bit shallow! The fact that she's had a baby in the past shouldn't affect you in the slightest! sorry dude...
boz
2nd January 2007, 19:22
follow your heart mate, it will guide you in the right direction. if it feels good then stick with it. you never know until you give it a go.
hope it works out well for you :)
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 19:23
I think this thread has gone a bit over the top! lol
Daryl, in all fairness say you'd just met her and she never told you about her baby or you didn't know she had one. I bet you'd then start seeing her without a doubt! I don't mean to be harsh because i know your a nice lad but it does make you seem a bit shallow! The fact that she's had a baby in the past shouldn't affect you in the slightest! sorry dude...
Nah thats 100% acceptable hun .... some people just jump at me for asking. Im taking her out for a meal in an hour and we are going to have a chat etc ... im paying for it so im not a bastard lol
Hannah
2nd January 2007, 19:24
Nah thats 100% acceptable hun .... some people just jump at me for asking. Im taking her out for a meal in an hour and we are going to have a chat etc ... im paying for it so im not a bastard lol
lol fair do's! have a good one! good luck! :fcuk:
TheMadSaxo
2nd January 2007, 19:26
Just out of interest.....was it a black baby ??
(I'm just joking before someone goes effing mental!)
Lol!
boz
2nd January 2007, 19:28
good luck Daryl, hope it all goes ok for you mate :)
Hannah
2nd January 2007, 19:30
Another thing!
If your not sure then don't string her along because the baby's father already fucked off and i'm sure she doesnt need you doing that too because of her 'past' a couple of my friends have had babies or been pregnant and there all around 17/18 and i know how hard it is for them. someone close to me had an abortion and found it so hard so imagine actually seeing the baby and having to give it up!....and a couple of years down the line people still judging you because of it?...
sorry to moan at you! lol
DarylVTR
2nd January 2007, 19:34
nope valid points comming up !! :)
saxodan
2nd January 2007, 19:41
what car does she drive
bullit
2nd January 2007, 19:43
youll be paying more than just a meal if it goes well tonight ;p
girlofthenight
2nd January 2007, 20:08
im 23 and have a 2 yr old son....im used to guys being shallow about it, just as u get to like sum1 they dont want to know cos u have a kid...give her a chance, we are still normal you know lol...i broke up with my ex cos he couldnt accept callum....and now thats the first thing im going to ask wen i meet a guy...me and callum come as a package...
and hey she hasnt even got her baby now so whats the problem?
saxx
2nd January 2007, 21:14
No, she deserves better than someone who'd care about that
i think thats the best comment in this thread tbh :clapping:
my mates got a little one, had him at 19, didnt stop her meetin a fab guy whos not shallow and was happy to accept that everyone has somethin in their past
i mean would u think twice if it was a divorce? probably not tbh
bullit
2nd January 2007, 21:31
its nothing to do with shallow, if you dont want a bird that has already had a kid then dont get with her, if it doesnt matter go with her. its not hard
Mitchell
2nd January 2007, 21:36
indeed ^^
youll be paying more than just a meal if it goes well tonight ;p
didnt get that though, its a thinker.. :err:
GrantW
2nd January 2007, 21:37
Thing is the kid isnt even there anymore, its not as if you have to bring it up or anything. She's moved on, made her mistake and managed to correct it by letting it go for adoption to a family that will be able to raise it properly.
Just pretend the whole kid thing never happened, because you wouldnt have known about the kid if she hadnt told you.
bullit
2nd January 2007, 21:40
kroveon as in get her pregnant again - maintenance
girlofthenight
3rd January 2007, 02:09
lol....well theres hope for me yet then finding a guy who doesnt mind my son lol so far they have all said its fine when its not...and the one who was fine with it was soooo posessive he checked my fone and everything! i think us mums need to be given a chance lol
Mitchell
3rd January 2007, 02:18
wouldnt bother me.
i'd teach it how to play football or whatever at a young age, so they become pro's and make me rich.
im gonna do that when i get a kid *touch wood*
Barry123
3rd January 2007, 02:22
wouldnt bother me.
i'd teach it how to play football or whatever at a young age, so they become pro's and make me rich.
im gonna do that when i get a kid *touch wood*
I was thinking the same thing. teach him to be generous to his parents too.
Mitchell
3rd January 2007, 02:26
aye makes sense really, and you always wish it happened to you.
boxin would be better i think, high school would be a blast, nobody would mess with him and girls would love him, he'd get any ass he wants.
unless i get a lassie, be horse ridin' or somethin pff :/
girlofthenight
3rd January 2007, 02:29
lol iv started playin footy with my son lol as hes dad aint around much and iv even started lettin him play with my decks under my supervision lol of course, il make a dj outa him lol
Barry123
3rd January 2007, 02:30
good one :y:
introduce him to as much stuff as possible. Likely he'll find something he's good at :)
girlofthenight
3rd January 2007, 02:33
yer im workin on it.....just its hard without his daddy in his life much....but thats a long story and cud change soon i hope
Mitchell
3rd January 2007, 02:35
i never had a dad
i turned out fine :oops:
bit perverted but we cant all be perfect.
and123rew
3rd January 2007, 03:01
bit perverted but we cant all be perfect.
Quality !!
Yates
3rd January 2007, 10:52
introduce him to as much stuff as possible. Likely he'll find something he's good at :)
dont introduce him to drugs just yet tho
prez06
3rd January 2007, 11:11
WTF - I went out with somone who had a baby at 16 and kept it. Slag i know but i loves slags!
Plus, are not going to marry her so just have fun mate.
woah, woah there mate . my lass had our daughter at 16 and she is not a slag Courtney is 7 now and where still together,not planned, but wouldnt change her for the world !
wouldn't bother me mate if the lass had a kid, kids are cool !
something only you can answer, it obvious your gonna get positive and negative points off people so just do what ever you feel right :y:
Yates
3rd January 2007, 11:20
woah, woah there mate . my lass had our daughter at 16 and she is not a slag Courtney is 7 now and where still together,not planned, but wouldnt change her for the world !
wouldn't bother me mate if the lass had a kid, kids are cool !
something only you can answer, it obvious your gonna get positive and negative points off people so just do what ever you feel right :y:
dont take offense to him mate, its easily explained, he drives a corsa...
prez06
3rd January 2007, 11:22
nob , obviously a kid himself who couldnt care for a bairn, shouldnt call young mothers slags, me and my lass found it hard were living together at 17 and had fuck all, but were ok now and courtney is a spoilt brat lol
Yates
3rd January 2007, 11:25
where are you from? just wondering, only heard people in north east call a kid a bairn
i know people who have made mistakes at all ages and had a kid, doesnt make them a slag, we all have sex, well theres a few members sure dont ever actually go outside so i dont think its possible
prez06
3rd January 2007, 11:31
i lol mate newcastle, me da's a scouser and he always laugh aswell when i say the bairn, but he loves it when i bring peaspudding down for him lol
Yates
3rd January 2007, 11:32
i lol mate newcastle, me da's a scouser and he always laugh aswell when i say the bairn, but he loves it when i bring peaspudding down for him lol
i hate peaspudding, cant stand the stuff, im from darlo myself like
prez06
3rd January 2007, 11:35
aint been there much got a job down there near the town centre there building flats there, its not very nice were it is though
R4T
3rd January 2007, 22:29
this thread is a pile of shit
DarylVTR
6th January 2007, 17:25
lol well just to update you all
We saw each other a few times over the week and shes a nice girl but i dont feel attracted to her and suggested mates is better but shes doing her nut in and txting me every 5mins like we have been together or ive cheated on her or something with remarks trying to make me feel guilty.
Lush ....... Ive always said sinse my last relationship unless im 100% sure on it im not going to let it happen because it causes more hassle than its worth
She doesnt even want to be mates now so im thinking on ur bike then lol I let her true colours shine through
saxodan
6th January 2007, 17:29
lol well just to update you all
We saw each other a few times over the week and shes a nice girl but i dont feel attracted to her and suggested mates is better but shes doing her nut in and txting me every 5mins like we have been together or ive cheated on her or something with remarks trying to make me feel guilty.
Lush ....... Ive always said sinse my last relationship unless im 100% sure on it im not going to let it happen because it causes more hassle than its worth
She doesnt even want to be mates now so im thinking on ur bike then lol I let her true colours shine through
you should live on eastenders mate
youd be wicked
DarylVTR
6th January 2007, 17:31
lol i know i might audition
saxodan
6th January 2007, 17:31
lol i know i might audition
well you got enough drama to write the script for a year or too!
only kidding
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