What To Do - Help?

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Right I really need your help, cause I really don’t know what to do and you guys on here are always good with advice :) There is someone that I feel I need to tell them something that I think is really important, but I dunno if its something they would want to hear, or what they would say, it aint anything bad or anything, just something that I think really needs to be said, but im scared I make the wrong choice, what u think I should do? Please help me

[bullit]

what is it

[xsmile_be_happyx]

i dont want to say what it is, but its something that is important and i think needs to be said, ahhh im so confussed

[sshaxx]

wow that easy to give advice to...

youre gonna have to say sort of what it involves if you want any help

[Danr]

If we don't know what it is then how can we comment?

Just say it and stop being a wuss! :) Whatever it is.

[xsmile_be_happyx]

right it involves feelings and a guy, but thats all im saying, cos i dont want to give to much away

[rob_s]

lol i know how you feel! iv been hesitation telling someones about someting for ages!

but then i suppose it has to be and if you dont like the anser etc then i suppose life goes on :afro:

good look :)

[sshaxx]

if its someone you fancy go for it and tell him, nothing to lose.

[Danr]

right it involves feelings and a guy, but thats all im saying, cos i dont want to give to much away

Send him naked pictures of you, if he gets mad you know he isn't interested, if he doesn't............SCORE :)

[xsmile_be_happyx]

its not that lol, it involves someone from my past, hence why im confussed

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Send him naked pictures of you, if he gets mad you know he isn't interested, if he doesn't............SCORE :)

lol nah :p

[Danr]

I think we are all confused!

[sshaxx]

you fancy santa claus???

[Amiee]

if u think they should know tell them! if not dont

[xsmile_be_happyx]

no lol, there was a guy i was going out with, then we split up, but a lot of stuff has come to my mind recently, and i want to tell him, but im scared

[Danr]

you fancy santa claus???

Im still awaiting a visit from his ho ho ho's :P

[piperX]

just say to the guy "I LOVE YOU, WILL YOU MARRY ME?" lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

if u think they should know tell them! if not dont

i want to tell him, but im scared of the answer

[Danr]

i want to tell him, but im scared of the answer

if you don't ask, you'll always wonder what he would have said, if not, naked pics have always managed to sway me :)

[rob_s]

u want a liter of his optimax? :afro:

[xsmile_be_happyx]

if you don't ask, you'll always wonder what he would have said

that is very true

[Mitchell]

why wouldnt you do it?

could you really live without knowing what his answer would of been? whatever the fudge it was.

[sshaxx]

i want to tell him, but im scared of the answer

"do you want to go out with me?"

"ERR NO YUCK GO OUT WITH YOU?! YOU OFF IT OR SOMETHING?!"


i doubt itll be that bad ^

[Mitchell]

Im still awaiting a visit from his ho ho ho's :P

barum bum tshhhhh

[jay_c]

i say if you think it needs to be said then say it. you only live once so make the most of it. if you dont say it you may live to regret it fompast experience. good luk :y:

[xsmile_be_happyx]

why wouldnt you do it?

could you really live without knowing what his answer would of been? whatever the fudge it was.

my honest answer to that is no, i would always wonder what would of happened if id said something, just im so scared lol, sad i know

[Dan]

If you dont mention it you'll always think 'what if' so I would say its best to say something than regret not ever doing it.

You only live once.

[jay_c]

oh and if the outcome isnt what you wanted then when one door closes another will open...that i also no from first hand experience. and that new door could b a bettter door :)

[xsmile_be_happyx]

i say if you think it needs to be said then say it. you only live once so make the most of it. if you dont say it you may live to regret it fompast experience. good luk :y:

again very true, thanks jay :)

[jay_c]

If you dont mention it you'll always think 'what if' so I would say its best to say something than regret not ever doing it.

You only live once.

second that :) you wrote it at the same tim...great minds eh! lol

[Danr]

a guide i found on the internet for you :)

How to Get a Guy to Like You

Do you want to get a guy to be crazy for you, just as you are for him? You have to be very patient, especially if you feel like you want to take it to a level beyond just curious interest. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
Steps

1. Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for disappointment (not to mention him!). Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.
2. Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
3. Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
4. Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
5. Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
6. Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
7. Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
8. Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
9. Don't act like you like him, he might get freaked out.
10. Don't be mad at your friend if she starts to like him.
11. It's not your friend's fault that he likes her and not you.
12.

[xsmile_be_happyx]

lol, you are all telling me to go for it, and if i dont ill regret it, just gotta gain some confidence first

[sshaxx]

i can shorten it down to 3 things,

bj
make him a sandwich
dont talk so much



im kidding... but seriously i know the feeling just try and pick a good moment get em alone and let him know how you feel.

[Barry123]

Just say it, what ever it is just say it. You dont want to spend god knows how long regretting it do you???

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Just say it, what ever it is just say it. You dont want to spend god knows how long regretting it do you???

nah i dont

thanks for the help guys

[jay_c]

well at the end of the day if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. plenty more fish in the sea. your young and im sure you are a lovely person so you wont have any trouble. as said dont live to regret live life to the full and youl b fine :)

[Mitchell]

i'll do it for u

give me his number.

[xsmile_be_happyx]

well at the end of the day if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. plenty more fish in the sea. your young and im sure you are a lovely person so you wont have any trouble. as said dont live to regret live life to the full and youl b fine :)

awww thanks, ive just had a lot of time to think recently, and ive realised a lot, and i think it needs to be said, if he doesnt say what id like to hear, then ill just need to accept it

[Danr]

i'll do it for u

give me his number.

Put his number on and everyone can text him. That will freak him out big stylie!

"you don't know me, but some smiley girl on sax-p wants your sweet sweet heinie!"

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Put his number on and everyone can text him. That will freak him out big stylie!

"you don't know me, but some smiley girl on sax-p wants your sweet sweet heinie!"

lmao id get killed

[bullit]

if you dont like the answer, just smile and be happy

[Danr]

lmao id get killed

Personally i try to stay away from murderer's. Prob best if you follow my lead here.

[Natalie]

At the end of the day if you don't say anything you might always have "what if's"

If you say something and it's not what you wanted to hear then because he is from your past you are no worse off than you are now. If you know what I mean

[bullit]

youve had his kid? :P

[sshaxx]

if you dont like the answer, just smile and be happy

:clapping: :clapping: :clapping:

short and sweet

[Mitchell]

kinda guy is he anyway? the kinda guy just to tell you to fudge off?

or a wee sissy like danr? http://img337.imageshack.us/img337/5873/smileygb8.gif

[xsmile_be_happyx]

At the end of the day if you don't say anything you might always have "what if's"

If you say something and it's not what you wanted to hear then because he is from your past you are no worse off than you are now. If you know what I mean

yeah i know what you mean, just trying to work up some courage lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

kinda guy is he anyway? the kinda guy just to tell you to fudge off?

or a wee sissy like danr? http://img337.imageshack.us/img337/5873/smileygb8.gif


hes a lovely guy lol

[Danr]

kinda guy is he anyway? the kinda guy just to tell you to fudge off?

or a wee sissy like danr? http://img337.imageshack.us/img337/5873/smileygb8.gif

YOur lucky your in fife mr, or i would have just hit you with a big stick from behind and ran off :)

[Adum]

youve had his kid? :P

i was thinkin that. or gave him an STD. lol. Just Kidding. :P


tell him i say, you'll only regret it if you dont and if its important then surely he should be told.

[xsmile_be_happyx]

i was thinkin that. or gave him an STD. lol. Just Kidding. :P

lol no i havent to either of them

[saxodan]

dont go out with an ex :wink:

But you only live once, and for the moment

so dont be left wonderding

[bullit]

i love threads like this when everyone jumps on them and the jokes come out, cheers smilebehappy

[Mitchell]

YOur lucky your in fife mr, or i would have just hit you with a big stick from behind and ran off :)

id be right after your hoop.

(non gay)

[Danr]

dont go out with an ex :wink:

But you only live once, and for the moment

so dont be left wonderding

So wise for a scummy student.

Have you spoke to him yet, is smile getting happy tooniiiight :P

id be right after your hoop.

(non gay)

Bastard.
http://www.tinkersforge.com/images/kid_with_hoop_and_stick.jpg

Ill just look like a twat running down the road with a stick :(

[xsmile_be_happyx]

So wise for a scummy student.

Have you spoke to him yet, is smile getting happy tooniiiight :P

nah i havent said anything yet, and im kinda changing my mind

[blacksax1]

i can shorten it down to 3 things,

bj
make him a sandwich
dont talk so much



im kidding... but seriously i know the feeling just try and pick a good moment get em alone and let him know how you feel.

i can shorten it to 1 thing
the one thing blokes cannot resist
PUNANI;) :y:

[Mitchell]

nah i havent said anything yet, and im kinda changing my mind

what a skirt.

[saxodan]

i can shorten it to 1 thing
the one thing blokes cannot resist
PUNANI;) :y:

Sounds like a sandwitch

[Mitchell]

aye im sure ive seen that on the menu at my takeaway

[Danr]

Na, thats a clam sandwhich :)

Im having a shocker tonight :(

[saxodan]

aye im sure ive seen that on the menu at my takeaway

Panani!

Not punani

Makes sense now.. specialy the seafood one

[sshaxx]

Na, thats a clam sandwhich :)

Im having a shocker tonight :(

what? two in the pink one in the stink?

http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/pic/PS/7655~Shocker-Posters.jpg

[xsmile_be_happyx]

ahhhh well didnt really work :( oh well

thanks for the help anyway :)

[sshaxx]

oh sorry to hear that, dont let it get you down, plenty more fish in the sea!!! :y:

[xsmile_be_happyx]

meh its alright, ill get over it, hmmmm i cant seem to find any in this area lol

[MTR]

In life it's better not to look. The best things always come at the most unexpected times. Real things i mean, not material rubbish. You are young so don't try hard and think you have to want someone, you may just put off that person that was just about to change your life. Be cool. :y:

[xsmile_be_happyx]

In life it's better not to look. The best things always come at the most unexpected times. Real things i mean, not material rubbish. You are young so don't try hard and think you have to want someone, you may just put off that person that was just about to change your life. Be cool. :y:

thats well put, thanks, your right, im not looking to be honest, im too damn busy at work, working 6 days outta 7, suffering from exhaustion, still ill from before, dont have time lol, but ill get there in the end, it shall be all good soon enough im sure

[Tracey]

sorry to hear that..... get yerself to a few meets.... im sure you could bag yerself a sax-p whore..... or 2! lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

lol i dont think id be welcome, i dont have a saxo lol, and theyd all laugh at my wee punto

[MTR]

thats well put, thanks, your right, im not looking to be honest, im too damn busy at work, working 6 days outta 7, suffering from exhaustion, still ill from before, dont have time lol, but ill get there in the end, it shall be all good soon enough im sure


Just think, although it doesn't always feel like it, you're 19. You have to experience so many people in your life yet. Long way to go so start steady and you'll end up with something truly worthwhile. ;)

[Tracey]

lol i dont think id be welcome, i dont have a saxo lol, and theyd all laugh at my wee punto

dont think everybod has a sax, or do some of the sax-junkies on here scare you! lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

Just think, although it doesn't always feel like it, you're 19. You have to experience so many people in your life yet. Long way to go so start steady and you'll end up with something truly worthwhile. ;)

yeh i know your right, ill believe you, and if it doesnt work out that way, ill chase you with a stick lol :P only kidding on

[jaybiss]

less of the whore ;)

an ex is an ex for a reason remember...

[xsmile_be_happyx]

dont think everybod has a sax, or do some of the sax-junkies on here scare you! lol

nah they dont scare me lol, i just laugh at them :P hehe

[Tracey]

take it from some of us "older" bods in here.... Mr Right will find you.... dont look and as if by magic he will find you!

[jaybiss]

take it from some of us "older" bods in here.... Mr Right will find you.... dont look and as if by magic he will find you!

has this worked for you older bod?

[xsmile_be_happyx]

take it from some of us "older" bods in here.... Mr Right will find you.... dont look and as if by magic he will find you!

i shall take your word for it tracey, im not looking anyway, you never no maybe a hot dishy doctor will fall in love with me at the hospital, lmao yeah right, there aint any lol

[Tracey]

yup.... werent lookin and he found me! sometimes wish he would lose me again though! lol

only kidding ;)

[kenny]

what about me you lol just joking hun

[xsmile_be_happyx]

what about me you lol just joking hun


lol you werent kidding really, you well want me ;) kidding on :P

[kenny]

hehe u love the attention ;)

[xsmile_be_happyx]

lol. if u say so :P wheres my cookies? eh eh eh :P

[kenny]

its in the post, i thought u said u wanted flowers instead lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

lol i did but u didnt send them either, tut tut, im disappointed, if they dont arrive tomorrow your in trouble ;)

[kenny]

ohhh well im in trouble then lol

[xsmile_be_happyx]

ohhh well im in trouble then lol


tut tut, silent treatment :P

[kenny]

lol ohh well

[R4T]

kenny's pulled