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[liam_b]

anyone else feeling relly down at the moment passed my test just over a month ago and alot of old mates came out the wood work my phone doesnt stop ringing have lost other mates hardly talk to the gf n just every thing is on my mind and i dont know what to do lol

[beastgtir]

Yeh mate, same here.. Insurance has run out the car and its abit of a bastard trying to hump women!

[Dan]

Do you mean a lot of old mates have come out since passing your test?

[Graham]

passed my test just over a month ago and alot of old mates came out the wood work my phone doesnt stop ringing

i dont get that bit?

[Ste]

Lifts?

I had it for a bit, "oh yeah ill give you a quick lift" Or "yeah im coming out tonght, what you wanna do?. "Go for a drive yea sure" , then i got grumpy and told em to get some lessons....

Its hard to prioritise certain things, the Girlfriend for me is Number 1. Then work then my friends.

I have to have a couple of evenings in a week to myself to get my shit together, have a tidy up and keep ontop of my money! (if my rooms tidy i feel better haha)

My new "Feel Good" scheme is to save a nice wad of cash. - But i cant

[Robb]

think he basically means, old mates befriending him again cos he can drive?

yes?

[jaybiss]

Always the way

[Leo]

never had mates like that to be honest. if ive ever gave a mater a lift they always offer petrol etc but i say na as i know they return the favor.

[mattc]

anyone else feeling relly down at the moment

Yes, always!

If what you posted is all thats getting you down at the moment though you will be over that in a couple days it's really not that bad compared to what some people might be going through.

I know what being down is like though so you get my sympathy :hug:

[jaybiss]

when one of them passes their tests you wont see any of them again :)

[SAM33R]

so true :(

old mates appear out of nowhere, 'fancy going for a spin/cruise/etc'

[Danny]

i feel pissed of at the mo aswell stuck in college and i really wanna go ome


at 12 i may just do that :y:

[SAM33R]

jinx lol

im at uni fecking bored, menna be doing my work ere lol

luckily im leaving at 11ish and get home for 12 :)

plus the weather is crap, snowing over ere:(

[Danny]

i cant be arsed with work either might jus log off n go home


feck the teachers

[SAM33R]

ahahaha

college is piece a P*ss to bunk off

unlike the 6form i was in once, scottish economics teacher was evil man :( still have nightmares lol

[Danny]

tis init iv decided iv off at 11 what harm can it do

[Amiee]

when one of them passes their tests you wont see any of them again :)

oh that sounds very firmilia with naomi!

[sshaxx]

lol know what you mean about the sudden flood of people wanting to hang out with you when you pass.

i'm fed up, cant find a job and im pretty close to giving up. been for interviews but keep hitting dead ends. no mates to hang around with as theyre all doing their own things(college, uni, working etc), runnin out of savings quick.

life sucks :n:

[liam_b]

what i mean is that for the last 6 months i havnt been out much as most my mates where busy every time i seen my best m8 he ignord(sp) me since i passed my test he phones me every day same with alot of my mates alway have people phoning me wanting lifts and when i say no cant do it i get called a stuck up prick not that i relly care what people think and the mates i have lost are the 1s i used to go out with driving with as most of them passed theres tests last year but since i pass i see then about pull up chat n there off with me lol havnt relly spoken to the gf much in the last week saw her yestoday and we just sat in the car didnt relly so much we been togher(sp) for 11 months but its feeling like where justs mates now so doesnt look good there my family wind me up 24/7 cnt get a brake from them even when im out there phoning me i no i aint got biggest problems and theres people out there with nothing but errr just feels like everyone around me is just using me

[sshaxx]

what i mean is that for the last 6 months i havnt been out much as most my mates where busy every time i seen my best m8 he ignord(sp) me since i passed my test he phones me every day same with alot of my mates alway have people phoning me wanting lifts and when i say no cant do it i get called a stuck up prick not that i relly care what people think and the mates i have lost are the 1s i used to go out with driving with as most of them passed theres tests last year but since i pass i see then about pull up chat n there off with me lol havnt relly spoken to the gf much in the last week saw her yestoday and we just sat in the car didnt relly so much we been togher(sp) for 11 months but its feeling like where justs mates now so doesnt look good there my family wind me up 24/7 cnt get a brake from them even when im out there phoning me i no i aint got biggest problems and theres people out there with nothing but errr just feels like everyone around me is just using me

know the feeling mate but you'll pull through it :y:

as for people using you for lifts and then giving you shit when you refuse em, tell em to get fucked if it happens again, i had this alot, i know its hard to say no cos you feel like your being a tight bastard but at the end of the day your wasting YOUR time and petrol for some cunt who doesnt have the time to ask you how you're doing unless he/she needs a lift. stupid little things like this show you who your real mates are and who's fake and if you only seem to hear from them when they need something and when you cant give em it and they turn all sour giving it 'tight bastard' and 'stuck up prick' or whatever, tell em where to go.

[liam_b]

lol know what you mean about the sudden flood of people wanting to hang out with you when you pass.

i'm fed up, cant find a job and im pretty close to giving up. been for interviews but keep hitting dead ends. no mates to hang around with as theyre all doing their own things(college, uni, working etc), runnin out of savings quick.

life sucks :n:

no how you feel there i quit my job in the summer worked there for 2 years was alright pay but the people that worked there i relly didnt like lazy shits who look down there nose and had the cheak 2 say i was lazy even tho i was doing one of the hardest jobs there n i was the smallest lad there i have tryed geting apprenticeships but no luck as i have no gcse,s and im shit with spelling and my writing i could go back to my old job but it made me proper depressed and i never went out as i was so tird after

know the feeling mate but you'll pull through it :y:

as for people using you for lifts and then giving you shit when you refuse em, tell em to get fucked if it happens again, i had this alot, i know its hard to say no cos you feel like your being a tight bastard but at the end of the day your wasting YOUR time and petrol for some cunt who doesnt have the time to ask you how you're doing unless he/she needs a lift. stupid little things like this show you who your real mates are and who's fake and if you only seem to hear from them when they need something and when you cant give em it and they turn all sour giving it 'tight bastard' and 'stuck up prick' or whatever, tell em where to go.

yh i have told alot of people no but seems the next day thay forget then it all kicks off again as wanna my mates says im to nice for my own good witch is very true but how its going at the moment i aint going to have any mates left by the end of the month

[sshaxx]

lol i dunno if this is the case with everyone but this year (im 19 turning 20 this month) it seems everone is moving on and i only see a handful of the people iv called mates all my life, people come and go mate i guess you gotta move on make new friends and hold on the the few good mates you got. if peoplke decide they wanna fall out over petty shit i dont really argue with it anymore, let em do what they want, ill get on with my life.

[riggsy]

I know what ya mean mate, when me an my lot hit 17-18 and we starting passing our tests and getting cars on the road we all seemed to drift apart, when you would think it would bring us closer together?

Im 21 now dont realy speak to that lot anymore....

Everything happends for a reason right :)

[Robb]

I know what ya mean mate, when me an my lot hit 17-18 and we starting passing our tests and getting cars on the road we all seemed to drift apart, when you would think it would bring us closer together?



thats so true...

[Karl]

sell your car and get a bus, then you can take everyone about at once :P

[laura_g]

Im at col at the mo hate it n hav got bout 3 months left, i dnt really see much of my mates coz we just drifted apart too, n i really want a new car but need the dosh as im always borrowin from my folks so lookin for full time jobs the pay is low and i dont seem to get anywhere, n iv got a proper bad headache for the last four days now ekk i think its the winter blues, bring on the summer lol !!!