Advice Needed.......

[Deano1983]

Here the situation some have already read my post in the morning thread but anyway!!

I met a girl at work we got on well but she was sort of on/off with a guy, we kept seeing each other starting really liking each other and she ended it with the other guy telling him she wants to just be friends!!

All was goin well for the last 2weeks then he rings up saying he catn deal with just being friends and after this weekend (the weekend just gone which they went to a gig together because they booked it ages ago) she then started being dodgy and not herself i asked her what happened and he told her he loved her, now she doesnt know who she wants and i dont know what to do??? can i do anything or is just a case of hoping she picks me???

Please help am sooooooo depressed at the minute because this has happened to me before with someone i really like and its always me that gets hurt and not the other guy! smileys/smiley13.gif

[dannyelks]

just tell her how u feel about her m8. How long was she with this other person?

[Deano1983]

4 months and she DID love him, ave bin seeing her for 6weeks, ave told her how i feel so do i just wait and see what happens now? smileys/smiley5.gif

[Chris]

Read my post in other thread!

[saxogal]

wheres chris he good with advice smileys/smiley2.gif

[saxogal]

oh there he is

[Chris]

Wooo ooooo i'm here!

[dannyelks]

if u really like her m8 don't giv up, there's nothin worse than having ur heart broken. She wasn't with that other kiddy 4 that long so u may have a chance, keep ur head up!!!!

[Deano1983]

ave reply in the other thread mate!!

[Deano1983]

if u really like her m8 don't giv up, there's nothin worse than having ur heart broken. She wasn't with that other kiddy 4 that long so u may have a chance, keep ur head up!!!!

CHeers your right but at the same time i dont wanna hassel her do i?!?!?!

[oz_borne]

just keep it real, make her see what she is missing, all those things she's said that she likes about you, make them that little bit harder to get or obvious, and then, maybe just maybe, she'll see you in a new and better light!!!!

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[jamesg88]

just tell her how you feel about her and tell her how much you like her and want to be a part of her life and just say if you do want to go off with the other guy well that is understandable but i think what you and i have and could have is too precious and great to throw away. just give her time to think, dont be pestering her every 5 minutes and hopes she chooses to be with you...

[djbex]

OK Agony Aunt Lee is here,

Or what i would do is not get involved mate, not at the miniute anyway.

Just leave her to think about things, remember she has been with this guy before you so theres always going to be something between them.
You aint gona stop her feelings of being attracted to this guy because she was prbably once in love with him and its a hard thing to fade out.
She has feelings for you and this will prove to be only until she tells the other guy that it definetly isnt working.
Tell her that its cool that she doesnt know what to do and you will understand what everway she chooses, that way you will earn her respect and because of that, she might choose you instead of him.
Her acting dodgy at the gig only tells you that there still must be sumfin between them (open your eyes) u of all people should see what happened there.

You may always be the "other guy" that gets hurt but this should be a lesson for you to not get involved UNTIL the previous relationship has ended.

Tell me how things go mate.

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[Deano1983]

Cheers for your peeps!!

I'l let you know Lee! smileys/smiley2.gif