I don't know your situation but from what I've read you have lost your mum along with a lot of other bad things.. I'm in the same situation, you need to talk to those close to you and let out these feelings.. I'm one to bottle things up and then at a random time it'll come flooding out. Send me a private message if you want to as I know this is really personal

Sorry to hear you're in the same situation... It's shit isn't it? :n:

I've been speaking to a couple mates about it and will be arranging counselling very soon...

Let's see how it goes :y:

You do much late night/early morning driving for no reason mokey? I'd recommend it tbh

I work 9 - 5 every week man.

Work doesn't help either tbh... Lots of stress with it at the moment as we've been taken over by new ownership and no fucker knows what we're doing.

We get told different things everyday, so when you have clients ringing in, and you're telling them a different thing each time, shit hits the fan!

You need a blowjob tbf.

In all seriousness, Hope you feel better soon cutie.

You offering?

Fanxxxxx! :oops:


I guess it will get better over time, but it's just doing something about it that is the first step, so here I goooooooo! :)

get to the docs and see if they prescribe citalopran, i've been on anti-depressants on and off for 15 years and they are the best with least side effects

I've had AD's before and they did nothing.....

I'm steering well clear from them!

Doctor's appointment in the morning - 8:40am :y:

Lets see if they try and fob me off with some AD's.

Went to doctors this morning and they are getting me some in house sessions with their counsellor... She said that I won't have to wait long and the sessions are at the surgery itself, which is about 30 steps from my house.

WINNAR!

I explained a few of my problems to her and said that I'm not prepared to go on AD's, which she understood.

She said counselling does sound like the best for me at the moment, so let's see how it goes! :y:

Tell the counseller you can't relax because you are anxious she's bugged or hiding bombs.... so she has to get neked

Srsly good shout!

Let's hope she's fit :oops:

Had my first session today...

It's a guy who will be helping me... Booo! BUT, he is dead sound!

Today was just like an induction sort of thing, just to get the information out of me, etc...

He's made me realise a couple of things already and he said he thinks I'll need up to 10 sessions, but we'll see.

It's amazing how many things you don't / how many things you do that show off the kind of person you are...

Bring on next week! :)

hope things work for you mate, i went for initial assesment jobby for counselling last week and they're working out a plan to suit my circumstances, certainly changed in their ways a helluva lot since i last tried it about 10 years ago, they still got you on ADs?

That's what I went for. They spoke about a couple of issues too as we had an hour :)

Nah, told them that I don't want AD's and the guy today said that he doesn't want me on them as they are, in his words, "An excuse for your doctor to get you out of his room."

Hope your counselling goes good mate!

cheers pal, last one i went to was some old woman who just seemed curious about my sex life lol, well i'm not shy or worried about talking about my exploits but for once someone made me feel uncomfortable lol

Haha perverted bitch :P

I love talking about things, especially with a professional.

You're not gonna get anywhere if you don't chat about it :)

Glad to hear your getting it sorted bud! I'd recommend getting a big two stroke motocross bike to take your mind off things too :)

A good go on the bike allways helps me :) x

why dont you want antidepressants?

Haha, great recommendation :P

Not a fan of bikes though really.

Just for the fact I'm not depressed and when I was on them, they did fuck all :y: