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Originally Posted by scottyvts
i know some people on hear were a bit harsh yeaterday, but you cant really have a go at people, becasue if she didnt want peoples opinions on the suject then mabey its not a very good idear to post her problam on a public forums. *mmature girls who think they have the right to give opinions while they haven't actually been through half of what she is going through.*
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She asked for opinions from mothers. This may be the only forum she is on and wanted some help from
mothers not people with an opinion on the matter at hand.
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Originally Posted by djawesome123
I can see this turning into exactly the same type of thread tbh I have to agree with Leckie on this one because he is absolutely correct when he says "posting about it on a car forum where 95% of the members are male the situation was never going to be handled correctly"
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It can, it might, but I'm in a state where I'm happy to give as much as I get however, it's not needed but people need to realise what they have said. Regarding being on a forum, like Julie stated, she wanted opinions from mothers that have been through the same thing. If a mother who went through the same thing had a bad opinion for her, things would have been different, I assure you.
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Originally Posted by Leckie
No body was 'ripping the shit' outa her. They were giving there opinions, but not knowing in firstperson what its like they may have seemed abit unreasonable. But this comes down to the OP making a thread about it on an open forum. You expect comments that might not help.
Like i said above. if they is something going on within the forum that you dont think is suitable report it.
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Leckie, they were. Like it or not, but they were.
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Originally Posted by adsayer
same... my mother had it, went to the doctors they told her that couldn't do anything... she went off and tried to put herself under a bus...
might explain why I'm a twat I dunno.
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So just maybe you understand. Like I said above to Betty, you're a good person too. I've read your posts, you've given me
lots of advice on many situations, whether I liked it or not, but none of those posts were when I was in a state of depression, at least not half as bad as she is at the moment.