Right just been havin an argument with the girlfriend, about the correct way to bring up children, don't know why cause we only 19 and have only been goin out 2 months sort of, but anyway
she was saying that they should be spoiled and have loads of things bought for them and get what ever they wanted.
But then i was sayin nah no way, if you did that then when the kids get to a real age where entering the real world becomes more of a reality that just words, then they will have no respect, for anythin, they should only get treats every now and then like birthdays and xmas and after exams if they do well.
One thing she said is i would buy them a car, and i said yeah id put some money to it as a reward, cause if i just bought them a car then they would just take it for granted and not look after it thinkin i would buy another if anythin happened
Anyway what do you guys reckon is the best way to bring up the next generation?