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Old 13th December 2011, 22:55   #122
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Originally Posted by stevie_m View Post
Well good luck to you both,

When my first son was born I was majorly depressed, kept it inside (prob a bad thing in the long run) I think it was basically down to the overwhelming weight of REAL responsiblity that you are responsible for this living soul. That's why when I ever see a post about a young guy saying his gf is preggers I will always admit the problem I had so they know that not just the women go through problems after childbirth.

We all have bad days but when I turns into bad weeks then bad months it's maybe better to seek some help (I don't mean medical help, but sometimes it's good to talk about all the problems and worries that you have in your life) problem is that most of the times you don't want to let the people who are closest to you know about your problems. The first step is admitting things are quite right within you body.
Ah, not good to hear mate, but I bet it was a shock to the amount of responsibility you had when you had your kid!

I never really speak to mates about my problems, I think I'm better off seeking professional help, which I've done
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