fuck dude! i know exactly how you feel as i crashed my mk4 astra sxi earlier on this year, wasn't the best car in the world but was pretty nice as i'd done quite a fair few mods to it and it was looking sweet, the alloy wheel gave way at 70 when i changed lane on the dual carriage way and i was wondering what the fuck was going on! Showed my college tutor a picture of the wheel and he said that it must have been a crack on it that was waiting to give, well needless to say it did exactly that, three 360 spins and four bollards ripped out the floor on the central reservation, 3 wheels left on and no front bumper later i ended up going backwards straight over the otherside of the dually, and down a ditch into a tree. The car tipped up twice, first time tipped sideways when the forces and speed caused the wheel that had already given way to be ripped clean off the back, with the stub axel and whole brake drum! fucking destroyed my car and shattered my confidence. Were the original wheels so no suprise it was cracked as the car was a '99.. The police saw the scene and just told me that as it was a single vehicle RTC that i would just have to scrap the car, sell bits off it and move on! I was so lucky tbh, for many reasons and by the sounds of it so were you. Just keep your chin up man, it'll be fine in the end, just be happy that your still here.
Lots of respect for you for admitting liability, and fingers crossed you'll get away with no points
Was a lovely car mate, but it's only metal at the end of the day, you'll have another one soon!!