how soon is too soon? (relationship times!) - Saxperience

LeeM · 23rd November 2009, 22:47

split up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 6 weeks ago, i was bored and there wasnt really much left between us in my eyes but she was pretty gutted.
ive started seeing another girl who i really like but a couple of people have said its a bit soon, would you say it is to go public with it? im thinking more of the ex's feelings here really, dont wanna upset her

Pieface · 23rd November 2009, 22:51

I've known someone go half a day from a 2 year relationship to somebody else...

J222JRA · 23rd November 2009, 22:52

i dont think thats too soon. Go for it

nicole_ · 23rd November 2009, 22:54

thats defo not too soon lol

sparky771 · 23rd November 2009, 23:01

i dont think its too soon, i personally steer clear of relationships atm im only 18 though. i think its too much hassel and single is king hahaha

Chico999 · 23rd November 2009, 23:07

Nah its not too soon, get on with it

I went with a lass for 3 years and a day later she was going with my best mate!

I did something pretty bad to her though...

LeeM · 23rd November 2009, 23:26

a couple of days suggests rebound to me!
its not that we're in a relationship but im sort of hiding the fact im seeing her from my ex. a few of my mates know, theve seen the state of me when shes kept me up all night (shes a nympho lol)

harrytool · 23rd November 2009, 23:46

have you got any pics of your ex mate ?

Pixelkid · 23rd November 2009, 23:52

I went from a 2 year relationship into another relationship 2 months later.

Its almost 2 years down the line and i'm still with the second girl and ive never regretted a moment. We dated exclusively in the start but we may as well have been going out right from the off.

Perhaps you could try the same? I was completely unsure when I started seeing the girl i'm with now but I knew I would be a fool to let her slip through my fingers.

Also the fact that she's a glamour model was like the best bonus ever =]

Liamm · 23rd November 2009, 23:57

ive gone from one to another within 8 hours, she did dump me though so im so within my rights lol
you can do what you want, not a law and its up to you how long you wait before going public, who cares tbh? your happy, thats all that matters

harrytool · 23rd November 2009, 23:57

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Originally Posted by Pixelkid

I went from a 2 year relationship into another relationship 2 months later.

Its almost 2 years down the line and i'm still with the second girl and ive never regretted a moment. We dated exclusively in the start but we may as well have been going out right from the off.

Perhaps you could try the same? I was completely unsure when I started seeing the girl i'm with now but I knew I would be a fool to let her slip through my fingers.

Also the fact that she's a glamour model was like the best bonus ever =]

have you got any pics mate

Pixelkid · 23rd November 2009, 23:59

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Originally Posted by harrytool

have you got any pics mate

Yes I have loads. Thanks for asking!

Ben · 23rd November 2009, 23:59

Harry why are you asking to see pictures of everyones ex's?

DarrellHx · 24th November 2009, 00:05

i say go for it, i was in a 2 year relationship with my ex, we broke up, but was still seeing each other (sb tbh) then we were sort of going right again, during she then was seeing my mate at the same time! could imagine what youd be like, broke me pretty bad.

now im going out with my current gf, i was in the same position as you leeM, if your happy and are happy with making it official then go for it. dont let others interfer though

sorry for the essay mate lol hope goes well

harrytool · 24th November 2009, 00:06

I am interested to see if they are nice or not! If they are free and single it would be a good test to see if you are over her or not ? if you see her with me and your not bothered then your over her !
And if you don't have any photos of her ! would you like to see some !! pmsl

ShockZy · 24th November 2009, 00:07

Me and my girlfriend bin with each other 11 months now and weve come close to splitting up, i feel so sorry for her when its bad times. If we ever did split up id never see another girl straight after, its too harsh and shows the last 11 months meant fuck all

TU-Tuning · 24th November 2009, 00:07

6 weeks is ages man, Id say anything under a month theyve got cause to be bitchy, any more and they shouldnt hold anything against you

Pixelkid · 24th November 2009, 00:12

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Originally Posted by harrytool

I am interested to see if they are nice or not! If they are free and single it would be a good test to see if you are over her or not ? if you see her with me and your not bothered then your over her !
And if you don't have any photos of her ! would you like to see some !! pmsl

A picture wont show you if they are nice? Unless you mean nice looking?

Most fit birds are complete psychos or so up their own arse I wouldnt poke them with a shitty stick.

I think its quite rare to find a beautiful girl who isnt up her arse or takes hersef too seriously so in that respect I have been very lucky. Saying that though love is blind, and once you fall for someone it doesnt matter one bit what they look like.

harrytool · 24th November 2009, 00:22

ye you are right mate I tell you something the ugly ones always apreciate there man they don't take the piss and flirt with other guys they are happy to be with you, the pretty ones are the stuck up ones who try and find someone with a nice car or loads of money and then the guy has to spend all his hard earned money on them or they go off where the grass is greener! I never been able to pull the ugly ones I am unlucky and get stuck with the beautiful ones all the time ! it's a right pain I'm always skint!

ShockZy · 24th November 2009, 00:38

my girlfriend is pretty and adores me