The Women Low Down

[Steve]

WTF confused or what, as you know my lass left me.
Played games for about 3 weeks talking on the phone for hours on end and a sorry text off her, then eventually i seen her on sunday after a month of not talking face to face and told her i loved her gave her a letter etc etc, she looked me in the eye when i told her, then didnt say anything really. We sat had chit chat and a good laugh, can always make her smile. Then i left when i was leaving i so wanted to cuddle and kiss her not sure if she wanted me to :panic:

I am happy getting on with things, but always think of her :panic: :panic:

I really want her back, miss her so much, thats what i keep thinking, but all she said when i met her was that she doesnt love me.
Even though before we split things were going really well she was always ringing me telling me she loved me and we had such a laugh.
She wasnt well at the time and i keep blaming that :n:
And I mean literally before we split, as in 2 mins before :(
Theres so many things she said and done before we split that make me want her back, and new years eve i said to her she should see her mates but she was like noooo, want to spend it with you. SO i planned a nice meal and a nice night in and she left me :(
Keep looking at the lovely xmas card she got me aswel, tempted to burn it but then i might regret it :panic:


Someone tell me am stupid and move on ftw :afro: Its doing my head in :(
Or how the fuck do i get her back????

[Tupps]

Move on or you'll end up getting even more hurt than you already are

[AdamW]

Totally honest mate best way is to keep clear....give her space, otherwise it will drive her away more. Trying organising things with your mates like weekends away or a holiday, something to look forward to.....only way your gonna move on.

[Steve]

Totally honest mate best way is to keep clear....give her space, otherwise it will drive her away more. Trying organising things with your mates like weekends away or a holiday, something to look forward to.....only way your gonna move on.

regret texting her over the past few weeks think i would have had her back, think it did drive her away. but wasnt sure then if i did want her back. more time we spend apart the more i miss her :homme:

Luckly boz and williams been keeping me busy at weekends, saxo meet this sunday and out saturday and whitby. But then as soon as i get home its always the same :n:

[KayMarie]

The thing is, if she's saying she doesn't love you then you need to respect that. My advice is to take a step back and let her contact you when she wants to, this way, she doesn't feel mithered or anything and has some head space.

Make sure you are positive with her when she does contact you, showing her you're bothered and depressed all the time will put her off, obviously if she asks you you can tell her the truth "Yes you did break my heart but what can I do, force you to be with me? No, so I've moved on"

The thing I always think with couples that breakup is, if the person whos choice it was can text the other person and chat when they wish they get the best of both worlds innit. They get to chat to you when they want but not be in a relationship, It doesn't work like that.

[KayMarie]

What I mean to say is, if she contacts you to say, ask you a question, asnwer it, be polite but don't jump at her beck and call :)

(My post above was a little contradictive :P

[Steve]

The thing is, if she's saying she doesn't love you then you need to respect that. My advice is to take a step back and let her contact you when she wants to, this way, she doesn't feel mithered or anything and has some head space.

Make sure you are positive with her when she does contact you, showing her you're bothered and depressed all the time will put her off, obviously if she asks you you can tell her the truth "Yes you did break my heart but what can I do, force you to be with me? No, so I've moved on"

The thing I always think with couples that breakup is, if the person whos choice it was can text the other person and chat when they wish they get the best of both worlds innit. They get to chat to you when they want but not be in a relationship, It doesn't work like that.

very true, when i seen her i was all happy and honest with her, wasnt down and crying on my knees.

She admited she was nasty to me cos i sounded happy on the phone when i spoke to her. It was only last week she went really nasty..... Think it was cos i text her saying can we talk nearly every other day lmao < stupid looking back

Yeah if she rang i would take it easy, doubt she will ring. Think she just was a bit depressed and then has just fucked off. Wasnt my fault at all looking back.

Asked her sister if she mentioned me, she said honestly shes said nothing at all to any one, hasnt even mentioned you.

Lets just hope i have a good night saturday and some sax-p member doesnt try to bum me on sunday. Least my parents are back off a 3 week holiday and am not home alone anymore, give me someone to talk to.

[Steve]

Someone just tell me to get a grip ftw.

[laura_g]

just leave it now, youve tried but shes messin with your head so

[AdamW]

At the end of the day....its not the end of the world....

Everything happens for a reason....you will get over her....

[Raz]

GET A GRIP!

will see you on sunday buddy :y: make sure we have a chat :)

[Graham]

pics of her? she must be damn fine if you still want her so much :p

[The_STIG]

stay away form her bud otherwise youre feelings for her will never go away

[djshongo]

I kinda disagree...

This happened to me recently, girl left me etc.. has happened before, but this time was most serious. 2yrs together. :n:

I was like you, i thought im just being silly, i couldnt stop thinking about her, but i didnt wanna be thinking about her at the same time - if u know what i mean :panic:

I just wanted somebody to tell me the exact same thing you're waiting for, but i soon realised, people MAY tell you that, but they can tell you it until they're blue in the face, YOU are the one that has to make your mind up..

I made my mind up, and i told her i wasn't gonna let her go, or let this end, until she told me to F**K off basically.
I think she respected that, and we're back again now! :panic:

I think somebody should make a film of it really :homme: lol

[djshongo]

but hey.. what do i know lol

[The_STIG]

I kinda disagree...

This happened to me recently, girl left me etc.. has happened before, but this time was most serious. 2yrs together. :n:

I was like you, i thought im just being silly, i couldnt stop thinking about her, but i didnt wanna be thinking about her at the same time - if u know what i mean :panic:

I just wanted somebody to tell me the exact same thing you're waiting for, but i soon realised, people MAY tell you that, but they can tell you it until they're blue in the face, YOU are the one that has to make your mind up..

I made my mind up, and i told her i wasn't gonna let her go, or let this end, until she told me to F**K off basically.
I think she respected that, and we're back again now! :panic:

I think somebody should make a film of it really :homme: lol

thats fair enuf but i recently split with my lass so just stayed away after a while and she realised how much she was missin me etc... and asked me back out

[joemcevoy]

Here my story ha:

Went with the girl fell in love blah blah blah. Then we broke up and i was in bits. I absolutly loved this girl and tried so hard to get her back, she didnt want anything to do with it. I left it then sent her a message one random day about 6 months later telling her i missed her. She was sitting behind me at the time. It was like a romantic film as she replied back really i miss you too and then we just got together and went for it. Only problem was a couple of months later we broke up again :( still loved her. tried to get her back and she said i was pushing her away. People told me she was a bitch she was fucking with my head blah blah blah but out of the 100s of people who told me this i didnt care i had to have her. In the end i got duffed over and shes got another boyfriend and it kills me to watch them together. Even though i have a new girlfriend now. Cause this girl was my "first" love always have feelings for her. ( This happened over the last 3 years) its ruined 3 years of my life and has caused me problems with my friends and family also.)

So basicly leave it, cause she will soon realise she can use and abuse you. its not worth it.

[boz]

no more comments from me matey, i told you all i had to say on saturday night

only you can make the right choice mate.

its obvious that you still love her.
you need to see past that and think will happen if you get back together?
can you deal with being hurt again?
shes done it a few times now

welcome to the first big cross road of your life mate ;)

only you can take the right path.

there may be many, but one will be the rightious (sp) path.

choose wisley young jedi :)

[DamoVTS]

no more comments from me matey, i told you all i had to say on saturday night

only you can make the right choice mate.

its obvious that you still love her.
you need to see past that and think will happen if you get back together?
can you deal with being hurt again?
shes done it a few times now

welcome to the first big cross road of your life mate ;)

only you can take the right path.

there may be many, but one will be the rightious (sp) path.

choose wisley young jedi :)

hmmm the force is strong in that one... *voice in the style of Yoda*

[eoey]

to be honest with ya buddy. try do stuff to take your mind of it, its over

it mite seem like the end of the world at the minute but time is a healer it might take weeks, months even years

it took me nearly 2 years to get over my ex but now i say hello evrytime we pass and i have no feeling a year and a half ago she would be on my mind for the rest of the day.

give her her space dont be a leach, time will tell if shes worth it or not, her minds made up.

chicks love guys like you emotional and all that!!! go out and get laid and it will get your mind of it!!!!

[Gatesy]

get a grip tbh!!! will have a chat on sunday mate.

[kcsaxo]

stay away and move on, basically IMHO its her keeping onto you "just in case" like just in case no one else comes along in the near future so she will have you to fall back on. im sorry to sound harsh but its all mind games, be a man and move on or else you will go insane.

[djshongo]

strong and wise words from Yoda above.. i do agree.

Welcome to the Crossroads!

Get used to it..

Ive been here so many times all the roads seem to lead in the wrong direction lol

[Raz]

get a grip tbh!!! will have a chat on sunday mate.
i have first dibs on his ass :P

or were you thinking of something different ;)

[Japman]

too me it sounds like you want her back mate

if you love her that much and want to be with her keep trying

[rushy_23]

Totally honest mate best way is to keep clear....give her space, otherwise it will drive her away more. Trying organising things with your mates like weekends away or a holiday, something to look forward to.....only way your gonna move on.

Spot on really that mate.

Obviously its going to be hard man, but you seem to be doing so much and not getting any
respect for it. Cut your losses (as hard as it is). And take it from there. Time apart is always
good trust me...

[boz]

perfect
time
valentines day
get her some nice flowers, choclates, bear, write a nice letter. they love that shit.

im getting my lass a torque wrench and some new ratchet spanners ;) she will be as wet as an otters pocket when she gets them ;)

if you get nothing back after that mate, walk away.

nail some dirty slut when your out on saturday night ;)

go curb crawling for scallies on friday night after closing time in the toon ;) used to work wonders in my escort lmbo

just decide what your doing, or i will force a big fat bird on you next time we are out! (they need loving too) you have been warned ;)

[Steve]

perfect
time
valentines day
get her some nice flowers, choclates, bear, write a nice letter. they love that shit.

im getting my lass a torque wrench and some new ratchet spanners ;) she will be as wet as an otters pocket when she gets them ;)

if you get nothing back after that mate, walk away.

nail some dirty slut when your out on saturday night ;)

go curb crawling for scallies on friday night after closing time in the toon ;) used to work wonders in my escort lmbo

just decide what your doing, or i will force a big fat bird on you next time we are out! (they need loving too) you have been warned ;)

i could do that, but she might have a new bf? as she did mention someone who she loves but then turned into just friends who she has known for ages lol

Could give that a go i will see how i feel.
Just been out and got soem videos of my exhaust to cheer me up :homme:

Some many different opinions, some say move on some say dont. :panic: :panic:

[boz]

i know what i would do mate.

walk away, but i carnt tell you what to do.

follow your head, not your heart ;)

[Pat_Vts]

i would walk away and cut off all contact tbh...

hurts but for the best tbh

[boz]

if she ends up with one of your mates.

i can arrange for him or her or both to disapear ;)

PM me

[Pat_Vts]

if she ends up with one of your mates.

i can arrange for him or her or both to disapear ;)

PM me

BOZ IS A RUSSIAN MAFIA HITMAN/KIDNAPPER/EXTORIONIST

keep clear of BOZ:P:n: :y: :drink:

[boz]

im just a middle man or a floater ;)

i can point him in the right direction lol

[VTScruiser]

i know what i would do mate.

walk away, but i carnt tell you what to do.

follow your head, not your heart ;)

Spot on, everyone's different, some easily move on, others cling on for dear life.. I've been there myself, and you think of all the memories etc. I know this is the old cliché, but it'll get easier pal. You cant make someone love you, and signs of desperation isn't attractive for a girl. This may sound insensitive, but aren't there any other girls you could hook up with, I find that always helps.. ;)

[Steve]

no non because i have never spoke to many other girls in a flirtatious way since i have been with her, had no need lmao

I know what i should do and walk away. But kills me to think of all the things we did together and how we were just before she left me.

New job i think is needed to take my mind off this :homme:

[VTScruiser]

no non because i have never spoke to many other girls in a flirtatious way since i have been with her, had no need lmao

I know what i should do and walk away. But kills me to think of all the things we did together and how we were just before she left me.

New job i think is needed to take my mind off this :homme:

Yeah, that helps too, when me n my ex split, I got stuck into my job, and since, I've had 2 payrises... Must be doin something right.. ha ha Do you not hav any girl mates u can chat with?

[Steve]

Yeah, that helps too, when me n my ex split, I got stuck into my job, and since, I've had 2 payrises... Must be doin something right.. ha ha Do you not hav any girl mates u can chat with?

all have boyfriends :homme: some say keep at it, dont come across desperate, some say she was down and will come round. One said go shag about i am young <harsh but true.

Everyone has mixed opionions because of the things she has said and done. She was coming across as though she has moved on when i spoke to her but shes had a lot on.
Left her weekend job, left 6th (dropped out) and learning to drive and started a full time job with her dad.

So its not asthough she really has had time to think about it 2 wednesdays ago she told me her head was all over. Then the sunday she went nasty :afro:

[Steve]

UPDATE

well went out in whitby on saturday had a class night, took my mind off you know who :homme: soon as i got home though :n: she hasnt even been in touch to see how i am :homme:

[Hanuman]

been there mate, split with my lass after 2years.. i was happy, few months later wanted her back and it killed me tbh, ended up getting back with her and got a lil kid on the way.... end of the day you need to stop chasing her if shes told you no.... move on and just see what happens but dont be chasing her thats just not gonna make her want you itl just drive her even further away as she wants space

[Steve]

not spoke to her or out, might text her valentines day not too sure.....
But i did have plenty of fun in whitby ;)

[jaybiss]

stop trying steve

your doing yourself no favours at all

your best off forgetting her unfortunately

it will get harder but eventually youll be fine and will have moved on :)

[boz]

forget about her mate.

go to amsterdam with williams and that ;)

[Clouds_mate]

Ahhh Someone Make Me See Sense

Man up seriously. you sound like a girl.

[katiescar]

tbh move on read ur thread, its just 1 of those things, if there's no kids involved dont worry, im sure there will be plenty more !!!!!!!

[vtcarl]

i know how hard it can be mate. my ex left me nearly 3 months ago. its taking its time but im getting there. i was with her for 7 years and loved her to bits. thats the way things go mate, some you win some you loose. move on now and start doing new things to take your mind off her.

[Gazzza]

dont write a nasty name of a card she put alot of effort into and take a pic and send it... to her fone when its riped up into 4 pieces...
bad idea :(
i dont it out of anger and haterid...
kinda over her now...
but there will always be memories of every ex gf you have in the back of your mind... you will never get rid of them...

[Steve]

dont write a nasty name of a card she put alot of effort into and take a pic and send it... to her fone when its riped up into 4 pieces...
bad idea :(
i dont it out of anger and haterid...
kinda over her now...
but there will always be memories of every ex gf you have in the back of your mind... you will never get rid of them...

still got her card like ;)
Just confused to why she did it when she did and never spoke to me, she just fucked off and i thought things were going good.

Never mind :homme:

Not going to blame my self, dont want someone who cant communicate, acts immature and probs being flirting on behind my back :homme:

even if she is good looking :afro:

[Robb]

let this thread die.

along with the love for your ex-girlfriend.

[Japman]

pity rob,the guy has feelins

[Steve]

i agree lock ftw
she fucked my brains out and fucked off, waht a way to go tbh
still got the saucy photos she sent me the week before she left me, she sent them even though she was so unhappy and didnt love me :homme:

[Gazzza]

i agree lock ftw
she fucked my brains out and fucked off, waht a way to go tbh
still got the saucy photos she sent me the week before she left me, she sent them even though she was so unhappy and didnt love me :homme:

keep them ;) haha they are defo to keep :P
unless you go gay then u might wana delete em...

[Steve]

keep them ;) haha they are defo to keep :P
unless you go gay then u might wana delete em...

lmao shes strange man, thought she was such a nice girl, she just went mental depressed and fekd off :homme:

Best of out see that now :p

[Pat_Vts]

lock... and die...

[jaybiss]

slap up the pics, they may change our minds and we might say go for it ;)

[JimoVTR]

Happened to me - went back for a one nighter and that was it.
got a phone call last week in tears "come round com round" - her new boyfriend (of 2months) had only gone and walked out on her back to his ex...
i just told her to jog on and sort herself out.

[Steve]

Happened to me - went back for a one nighter and that was it.
got a phone call last week in tears "come round com round" - her new boyfriend (of 2months) had only gone and walked out on her back to his ex...
i just told her to jog on and sort herself out.

wise choice mate, i would do the same, think she has a new lad now, if she does, shows what she is really like........

Just me and the VTS now :hug:

[Maxwell]

not spoke to her or out, might text her valentines day not too sure.....
But i did have plenty of fun in whitby ;)

wtf mate!!! lol

dont give into her ffs!! u had a good night out and had ur mind off her!! if you send a txt, or a card etc, she will play on it and make it even harder for u!!

i know its harsh and crude, but "he who bucks ugly, bucks often" which means, go and play a lil, and that will help take ur mind off things!! it took me 4 months before i listened to my cousin, who give me that advice, and when i did, my playing got sooo bad, i hada go get checked out once a month lol

its not as bad now, but u will learn to be independant, and not having to depend on someone

i know what ur going through mate...your young...so live a little!!

[Steve]

wtf mate!!! lol

dont give into her ffs!! u had a good night out and had ur mind off her!! if you send a txt, or a card etc, she will play on it and make it even harder for u!!

i know its harsh and crude, but "he who bucks ugly, bucks often" which means, go and play a lil, and that will help take ur mind off things!! it took me 4 months before i listened to my cousin, who give me that advice, and when i did, my playing got sooo bad, i hada go get checked out once a month lol

its not as bad now, but u will learn to be independant, and not having to depend on someone

i know what ur going through mate...your young...so live a little!!

:y: :y: :y:
Only thing that bugs me is she hasnt got in touch to see how i was, and we were really close :homme:

[katiescar]

trust me just move on, you will look back with a smile in time!!!!!! plenty more girls out there!!!!!!

[Steve]

trust me just move on, you will look back with a smile in time!!!!!! plenty more girls out there!!!!!!

yep there is ;)
was good when i was out chatting to loads of females, easy aswel as when i was out saturday they just went ooooo geordie what you doing here,
easy way to start a conversation or what:A:

[katiescar]

lol, you'll sort urself out, best advice is to look in the mirror, punch urself in the face for being stupid, cry abit, then go on the pull on a mission, some one will shake ur world soon enough!

[jaybiss]

lol, you'll sort urself out, best advice is to look in the mirror, punch urself in the face for being stupid, cry abit, then go on the pull on a mission, some one will shake ur world soon enough!

king kong?

[katiescar]

lol, you know wot i mean!!!!!

[jaybiss]

your telling the poor bugger to go shag fat birds

stuff nightmares are made of

[Steve]

your telling the poor bugger to go shag fat birds

stuff nightmares are made of

lmao :homme: :homme:

[boz]

dont be a silly dude

you know the score mate.

u just going to walk away then, or you getting a load of things tomorrow for her
;) lol

[Steve]

dont be a silly dude

you know the score mate.

u just going to walk away then, or you getting a load of things tomorrow for her
;) lol

Shes Getting






Fuck all......

She cant even be decent enough to text me to see if am doing ok or anything, shes just walked out my life.

Asked her sister if i have been mentioned she said not at all, shes just out with her mates all the time :homme:
Shes probs texting some new lad, like she did with me when she left her last BF, her choice at the end of the day.


Plenty more women out there :) i do have high standards though.......

Al admit i text her saying can we talk? but she never replied or called (YET), not chasing her no more, miss her but getting on with it, Koni suspension should do it lol

p.s cheers for those texts boz ;)

[Steve]

not sure if she read this cos she just rang,

Was nice to hear her voice :(
Went to ask her about tomorrow, then bottled it, then she said were you going to ask me, i said yes, she said shes made plans, but with her friend jenny.

Least shes ok, she said been wanting to ring to see how i am.

Wasnt going to start pouring my heart out, she knows how i feel, no point telling her again is there?

Had a nice quick chat about her new job etc, Supose least shes happy.......


To start with i thought it was boz ringing me with a withheld number as i know he was going to play that trick on williams haha but she then rang back.

Anyone wana take me for a date tomorrow ftw??????

[evans1089]

WTF confused or what, as you know my lass left me.
Played games for about 3 weeks talking on the phone for hours on end and a sorry text off her, then eventually i seen her on sunday after a month of not talking face to face and told her i loved her gave her a letter etc etc, she looked me in the eye when i told her, then didnt say anything really. We sat had chit chat and a good laugh, can always make her smile. Then i left when i was leaving i so wanted to cuddle and kiss her not sure if she wanted me to :panic:

I am happy getting on with things, but always think of her :panic: :panic:

I really want her back, miss her so much, thats what i keep thinking, but all she said when i met her was that she doesnt love me.
Even though before we split things were going really well she was always ringing me telling me she loved me and we had such a laugh.
She wasnt well at the time and i keep blaming that :n:
And I mean literally before we split, as in 2 mins before :(
Theres so many things she said and done before we split that make me want her back, and new years eve i said to her she should see her mates but she was like noooo, want to spend it with you. SO i planned a nice meal and a nice night in and she left me :(
Keep looking at the lovely xmas card she got me aswel, tempted to burn it but then i might regret it :panic:


Someone tell me am stupid and move on ftw :afro: Its doing my head in :(
Or how the fuck do i get her back????

I'm in same boat mate, i split up with my bird last wednesday after nearlly 5 fhkin years!!! i lost control of myself, didnt know what to do! grrr sad days :(

[katiescar]

thats the spirit!!!!!!

[bullit]

not that i know what it feels like but you cant hang on a string for ever. lifes in front of you.just remember drinking isnt the answer but it makes you forget the question, the end

[bullit]

if you type i wish she would ask me out in a few days and make lots of love, maybe some backdoor action. she may read it and it will happen :Y:

[boz]

it was me all along mate ;)

i do a class bird impression lol

carnt believe you feel for that shit haha.













im a cunt for tricks mate, but thats not one of them ;)

[Steve]

lmao mr boz!!!

[boz]

glad those texts made you laugh ;) haha

[Steve]

glad those texts made you laugh ;) haha

the blonde lass painting was funny :A:

[boz]

yep, that was off a guy that used to be on here

[Steve]

lol

you rekon she read this and rang me? or just rang me lmao
she used the words not spoke to see how you are, which is what i said above lmao

I really did think it was your ringing at first boz

[boz]

i wouldnt do that to you mate

honest ;) lol

[Luke]

I'd leave her mate for now.

Let her do the chasing now.

[boz]

tell her to GTF, RAMMIT

lol

tell her its too late now, you have jogged on ;)

[boz]

tell her she is a snake with titties ;)

pure evil

[Steve]

i wouldnt do that to you mate

honest ;) lol
yeah right, are you away atm?

I'd leave her mate for now.

Let her do the chasing now.

thats if she does chase :homme: :homme: :homme:

[Raz]

yeah right, are you away atm?



thats if she does chase :homme: :homme: :homme:
she will chase if she wants you that bad mate....

[Clouds_mate]

Why should she text you to see how you are? You are no longer together.
Why would she talk about you? your not together.

You really need to move on. You honestly sound like a whipped little bitch.

Your young, and they are plenty of birds about. Why wangle over the same bird who doesnt want to be with you.

If you even did get back together chances are it wouldnt last anyway.

Seriously move on. its for the best

[theshrew69]

WTF mate.

Sounds like your pretty cut up about this i no its hard but you just got to forget about her or you will just be like this for longer.

Trust me delete her number and try and get on with things honest its better that way. If it was ment to be you wouldnt of split up. I no it may not seem like it now but you will find yourself someone who will make you even more happy in the future.

The Shrew - Been there done that got the t shirts many times over :clapping: :clapping:

[Steve]

lmao i am getting on with it :y: already deleted her number :p

Just bought some shiz for my car to keep me busy, skint as fuck now.

[bullit]

i think boz should pop round with a wig on and you 2 can share a bottle of wine

[Steve]

i think boz should pop round with a wig on and you 2 can share a bottle of wine

champers ;)

[bullit]

champers ;)

oo, can i come :homme:

[Steve]

oo, can i come :homme:

do you have a skirt?
pic of you ftw hahaaha

[smiith]

champers ;)

that doesnt taste like piss this time?

[bullit]

do you have a skirt?
pic of you ftw hahaaha

pmed

semi

[Steve]

that doesnt taste like piss this time?

i dont know what piss tastes like but i am sure it tastes like that bottle of champers

pmed

semi

pm no recieved :n:

[Graham]

Why should she text you to see how you are? You are no longer together.
Why would she talk about you? your not together.

You really need to move on. You honestly sound like a whipped little bitch.

Your young, and they are plenty of birds about. Why wangle over the same bird who doesnt want to be with you.

If you even did get back together chances are it wouldnt last anyway.

Seriously move on. its for the best

lmao, he is right tho!

[Steve]

lmao, he is right tho!

he certainly is :p