reformed cheaters? is there such thing

[sexy_saxo21]

bin with my bloke for years now and he has cheated on me loads throughout our relationship. he is destroying me but now has said hes changed and he is convincing. just wondered if anyone ever cheated alot and now would never do it. i just want to be able to forget the past but cant do it until i know my futures safe. is it possible that men can not cheat?

[Bickerton]

no it's not possible

[Psycho18]

1 time can be a stupid mistake but if he has done it loads then no tell him to sling his hook. Treating you like that isn't right and you shouldn't live like that!

[matt_vtr_15]

If he cheated on you loaaaadddds.... then I can't personally imagine he could ever fully reform to a non-cheater....

I have a mate who cheats on his gf all the time, gets caught every so often and she forgives him, he then tells her he is reformed to keep her happy until he gets caught again...

Do your self a favour and ride his best mate....

[Mochachino]

Cheaters deseve no one. Tell him to go get fucked.

and tell him db_sax said so on saxp.

[sexy_saxo21]

yeah weve got a kid together 2 thou so aint that easy :(

[Porky]

i wouldnt really believe what hes saying, imo once a cheat always a cheat.

[Bickerton]

A car club ofrandom people isnt the best place for this kind of advise btw, did you join purely for this?

[Psycho18]

seems like it bickerton, what a strange place to choose for relationship problems

[Graeme]

i would say yeah it is poss

i have cheated in the past but would never dream of cheating now as its out of order and if your happy with the person your with why cheat?

[Bound]

i would say yeah it is poss

i have cheated in the past but would never dream of cheating now as its out of order and if your happy with the person your with why cheat?

Yeah, +1. I do love my girlfriend, But I don't trust myself, I just don't care I think.

[PSPDan]

I cheated last year when me and my gf were going through a bad patch.

We're both over it now, it was a stupid mistake and I know I'll never do it again. Relationship has never been better.

If he has cheated on you a lot of times though I'm not sure.

[Newtz07]

once a cheat always a cheat is bullshit. i am not sayin anything else coz you never know who is reading, but its a lie, its down to the person... but i will say one thing...

if you have doubts... then there is no doubt that it is the wrong decision

[Cov_Rob]

Get rid!! If he's cheated more than once after promising he would never do it again, he obv has no respect for you. If having a child with you hasn't stopped him cheating he'll never stop

[pr0xibus]

not a chance once a cheater always a cheater just ask jeremy kyle he knows his shit lol.

[PSPDan]

not a chance once a cheater always a cheater just ask jeremy kyle he knows his shit lol.

You chat shit my friend.

One time can be a mistake.

[Graeme]

You chat shit my friend.

One time can be a mistake.

agreed

[Giraffe]

I'd say it depends on how the person who has done the cheating reacts. If they are sorry that they cheated and they have hurt you, they may change. If they are only sorry they got caught, then I'm afraid they will just try harder not to get caught. People can change, sometimes it takes something like getting caught or coming clean about it to make someone realise the damage they have done, and they really won't want to see someone else hurt through their actions, so they don't do it again.

Your bf seems like he is only sorry he gets caught, not that he hurts you. Get shot.

[markdavid]

Never cheated on any of my women in my life,sacked a fair few my fault,that can cause some harm,Sorry to them .I have had some women cheat on me norm. the ones i liked best,that hurts.Lost my partner because of work years ago,still people change sometimes i no longer would gamble on that.One rule i tried if you do cheat tell me first,i did not like my mates telling me,that failed for me and im not a young man....

[hellonpluto]

try beating him senseless with a stick?

does that help?

[Jojobunbun]

Cheating is bad.

But I do believe people change and deserve second chances.

Give him a second chance love, take a step back and if he crosses the line tell him hes gone.

[Matt67]

He definitely won't cheat on you again.

[Fly]

i cant beleive no has asked this yet?!?!?!?!?!

IS HE ON HERE?

[flynnsvtr]

Can read this issue like a book...

You will let him back, he will cheat...and this will be the infinite loop until you grow a backbone and tell him to fuck off!

/end

[BenSilverSaxo]

I wish I had a gf like you.

[sexy_saxo21]

no coz now my baby is 6months old and he hasnt done it as far as i know since i bin pregnant so if i found out now would be a different story, i have my baby to think about now. just wanted to know weather anyone thought this was to good to be true or he actually has realised you cant treat people like that and he will loose us both if he does.

thanks for your thoughts guys x

[Mr_X]

as you now have a child/ren, it may be worth one last blast?

IMO once a cheat always a cheat, morals, none.

[Tom_Crx]

I've cheated before, but not on my current g/f and i wouldnt dream of it.

But i think if you've cheated on a girl before you will cheat on her again.

[PSPDan]

I've cheated before, but not on my current g/f and i wouldnt dream of it.

But i think if you've cheated on a girl before you will cheat on her again.

I feel exactly the same mate.

[josh1989]

it is possible, but not if you can get away or let off with it, only way a cheater will learn is by seeing they don't win and how much they hurt other people, jog him on, its best for the both of you :)

[Sheeps24]

Get rid of him love your better than that :)

[saxovtsmad]

once a cheat always a cheat weather its a guy or girl get rid and start afresh hun

[garyrsts2]

If he cheated on you loaaaadddds.... then I can't personally imagine he could ever fully reform to a non-cheater....

I have a mate who cheats on his gf all the time, gets caught every so often and she forgives him, he then tells her he is reformed to keep her happy until he gets caught again...

Do your self a favour and ride his best mate....

ride his best mate a couple of times :) see how he likes being cheated on

[BenjaM]

bin with my bloke for years now and he has cheated on me loads throughout our relationship. he is destroying me but now has said hes changed and he is convincing. just wondered if anyone ever cheated alot and now would never do it. i just want to be able to forget the past but cant do it until i know my futures safe. is it possible that men can not cheat?


Men 1 - 0 Women

[yorkie]

If he cheated on you lots and u lets it go everytime he will keep doing it too i have mates like this lol

[Ste]

Second chance, after cheating..... i dont understand this tbh. It translates into, living life with someone who you can't trust 100%.... a time will come when you have your suspicions and you'll worry yourself silly.

[markdavid]

Just got back from zoo,the staff told me cheaters are like lepards,they never change there spots...Buy a chimp,they were good...