Right guys...

[Netsky1991]

Some of you were following the thread i made earlier about me and my girlfriend breaking up, well after a lot of convincing i am meeting her tomorrow night. Only what the f**k do i say to MAKE SURE i get her back, not necessarily straight away but over the coming weeks. She says her feeling have changed towards me and she cant change them back, but in my mind it's my job to change her feelings back i just need to be given the chance to change them, and me getting that chance depends on what i say tomorrow night. Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks.

[-GG-]

her feeling have changed towards me

Let her go imo.

Like they say, Plenty more fish in the sea.

[Netsky1991]

Let her go imo.

Like they say, Plenty more fish in the sea.

She's a keeper mate honestly. Can't let her go.

[Leonzee]

Unfortunately she wants other guys mate, nothing to do with you! Some women just need a phase of being a slut! Your other option is to beat her and train her to be the good sandwich maker she should be.

[Ryan]

if she doesnt have any feelings for you anymore.

YOU have to.

Unless you want to become a stalker.

[Netsky1991]

She still has feelings they've just changed, and about being a slut that's not funny mate :n: I'm going to prove you all wrong.

[Leonzee]

Are we posting in a troll thread?

[Netsky1991]

Are we posting in a troll thread?

Oh dear.

[-GG-]

By all mean's go for it bud, though you asked opinion's and you got them.

[nath89]

This same kinda thing happened to me a few months ago, I just had to accept it, and move on.
I cut off all ties with her and just let time do its job lol.

And now I'm single and never better :y:

[Mochachino]

Theres nothing you can say. Good luck mate, jus treat her like a good mate, take your time, dont rush nothing. Your lucky you got the chance to meet her again at least. :)

[ShaneyG7]

Simply ask her what she wants to do.. chasing a lost cause wont do your head or your heart any favours.

[Jay_]

I agree with ^^^

[Bound]

Fuck this thread is depressing. Horrible to read for ya mate.

Luckily/unluckily my girlfriend is clingy as fuck.

[Mochachino]

Dont tell her you got feelings for her either and dont ask her about anything to do with a relationship. Just act as though your jus friends with no aim of anything more.

[Ryan]

if someone doesnt want to be with you/doesnt see a future then its better to end it sooner than later, move on enjoy life meet someone who then has feelings you want.

Its life

[Dom]

I can sympathise with you, but honestly there is no future in it. The only hope you have is to be good friends, text her some nights to ask is she ok and how her day has been etc.

Honestly, you are chasing a lost cause. But its upto you to prove us wrong, and I hope you do prove us wrong :y: Good luck :y:

[katie_02furio]

dont pressure her, she may be just sayin she doesnt have feelings cos shes not sure wat u want from her and maybe doesnt want to get hurt. just tell her that u care about her and that ure missing her but u arent going to pressure her you just want to spend some time with her. and then show her what it would be like to be together again and treat her real good, but be honest with her! good luck for tomoo night! :)

[Dom]

Last thing you want is for her to realise that she has you wrapped round your little finger! If she realises that she will probably take advantage of that.

[Andy_D]

Don't let her lead you on, thats all i'll say.

[Banks_VTR]

Last thing you want is for her to realise that she has you wrapped round your little finger! If she realises that she will probably take advantage of that.

Very true, will end up using you making you end up worse than you are right now

[Saxo-SX]

Ask how/why her feelings have changed.

If its something youv'e done, make up an excuse then say it will change.

Tell her you dont realise what youv'e got until its gone. And now youv'e truely released just how much she means to you. < She should like this.

[Saxo-SX]

If all else fails...

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[Giraffe]

If all else fails...

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Ah I had something serious to say until this... always brings the giggles.


I was just gonna say be honest, if it's meant to be, it will. If not, then don't force it, just delaying the inevitable by forcing it, cos you can't live a lie forever, nor will she. Will more than likely be bad if it's not 100% genuine. You can't act these things, just feel them.

[river]

You gotta be careful, from her point of view you wont look very attractive if you come across as desperate and if she's not feeling the same way she was about you already, watching you become a pathetic-whiny 'cant live without you' type isn't going to change her mind.

Let her know how you feel about her, tell her you want to make it work... but for Gods sakes let her know that if she doesn't love you any more, you don't want to be with her.

You deserve someone who feels the right way about you, and you need her to know that your strong enough and emotionally mature enough to not settle for any less than the real deal.

Thats the best for you and it shows you in the best possible light for her to realise that actually maybe she's being hasty and should stick around and try and make it work.

Good luck :)

[-Alex-]

If all else fails...

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If this fails.....

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[alanrichie]

MAAAAAAAAAAAAATE.

i was my gf 2.5 years, we broke up properly for 3 months, i hit the gym everynight, no junkfood, going out friday and saturday livin it up with the boys.

We got back together PFFT. im now having serious doubts, i dont have time for gym & i aint had a lads night out since (more due to money issues) also im eating alot of crap food and i feel like a slob now.

I was nearly fully over her after 3-4month. I really wish we hadnt got back together.

lolfail

[matt_vtr_15a]

Move on mate, I had a girlfriend who was a keeper, her feelings faded for me as I became a bit of a wank boyfriend tbh...

I wanted her back and it didnt work, as soon as i moved on she wanted me back...by which point I HAD moved on...

you can move on from any girl mate..no matter what you think..

[Moke]

Move on mate, I had a girlfriend who was a keeper, her feelings faded for me as I became a bit of a wank boyfriend tbh...

I wanted her back and it didnt work, as soon as i moved on she wanted me back...by which point I HAD moved on...

you can move on from any girl mate..no matter what you think..

That's you, not him.

Why do people keep saying "move on"? It's clear he wants her back, so at least help him give it a go.

[matt_vtr_15a]

That's you, not him.

Why do people keep saying "move on"? It's clear he wants her back, so at least help him give it a go.

I did help him, she DOESNT want to get back!

If you are still mad for her and she knows that she knows ya aint going anywhere but the second she isn't sure if he wants her back she will come crawling back...

[ajdsaxo]

She still has feelings they've just changed, and about being a slut that's not funny mate :n: I'm going to prove you all wrong.

Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself that this change in feelings isn't necessarily bad.

[tuft]

If she's agreed to meet that can only be a good sign? if her feelings hadf changed that much then she would have told you where to go. Just go with an open mind, be nice, not needy and hopefully it will work out for you. If not then just get smashed with the boys :y:

[Peter_D]

I reckon just go out, have a good nite with her, crack a couple jokes etc and just have a good time with her, make her enjoy herself

Don't come across all depressed and upset cos thats the last thing she'll want, someone sitting there pouring his heart out. Maybe tell her you've missed her, but don't go saying you've been crying yourself to sleep everynight without her

And don't pressurise her into making a decision or telling you how she feels. Just take it easy to start with and make her see how fun it is bein with you, maybe that'll make her think properly!

When me and my last bird broke up, well she finished with me... Combined with a week long come-down after the weekend of Rockness, i was in bits about it. Gave it the usual upset banter which didn't work, so went to see her on the Thursday and just kept tellin her how good she was lookin and how much i wanted to fuck her again

Ended up bangin her but didn't win her back. Didn't think id get over it but i did and i couldn't give a fuck about her anymore although i'll always have a soft spot for her to be honest

Just keep it cool and don't come across as a depressed desperado, thats the best advice you could get

[Nixy]

put it this way....if you leave her to get on with things, she'll prob realise her feelings for you? i give it 2 weeks max, shes obviously still keen if she wants to meet you? she prob wants reasurrance or something so shes gone about it this way...sorry i havent read your other thread but your'll be ok skipper :y: things happen for a reason

[brogan5050]

wise words from nixy :y:

[AdskiVTR]

Get all your money and go to a strip club :D
If this fails.....

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Hey does this chloroform smell ok to you? :zainy: