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Netsky1991 · 31st March 2010, 01:47

Some of you were following the thread i made earlier about me and my girlfriend breaking up, well after a lot of convincing i am meeting her tomorrow night. Only what the f**k do i say to MAKE SURE i get her back, not necessarily straight away but over the coming weeks. She says her feeling have changed towards me and she cant change them back, but in my mind it's my job to change her feelings back i just need to be given the chance to change them, and me getting that chance depends on what i say tomorrow night. Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks.

-GG- · 31st March 2010, 01:50

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her feeling have changed towards me

Let her go imo.

Like they say, Plenty more fish in the sea.

Netsky1991 · 31st March 2010, 01:51

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Originally Posted by -GG-

Let her go imo.

Like they say, Plenty more fish in the sea.

She's a keeper mate honestly. Can't let her go.

Leonzee · 31st March 2010, 01:53

Unfortunately she wants other guys mate, nothing to do with you! Some women just need a phase of being a slut! Your other option is to beat her and train her to be the good sandwich maker she should be.

Ryan^p · 31st March 2010, 01:53

if she doesnt have any feelings for you anymore.

YOU have to.

Unless you want to become a stalker.

Netsky1991 · 31st March 2010, 01:56

She still has feelings they've just changed, and about being a slut that's not funny mate

I'm going to prove you all wrong.

Leonzee · 31st March 2010, 01:57

Are we posting in a troll thread?

Netsky1991 · 31st March 2010, 01:58

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Originally Posted by Leonzee

Are we posting in a troll thread?

Oh dear.

-GG- · 31st March 2010, 01:58

By all mean's go for it bud, though you asked opinion's and you got them.

nath89 · 31st March 2010, 01:58

This same kinda thing happened to me a few months ago, I just had to accept it, and move on.
I cut off all ties with her and just let time do its job lol.

And now I'm single and never better

Mochachino · 31st March 2010, 01:58

Theres nothing you can say. Good luck mate, jus treat her like a good mate, take your time, dont rush nothing. Your lucky you got the chance to meet her again at least.

ShaneyG7 · 31st March 2010, 01:59

Simply ask her what she wants to do.. chasing a lost cause wont do your head or your heart any favours.

Jay_ · 31st March 2010, 02:04

I agree with ^^^

Bound · 31st March 2010, 02:06

Fuck this thread is depressing. Horrible to read for ya mate.

Luckily/unluckily my girlfriend is clingy as fuck.

Mochachino · 31st March 2010, 02:06

Dont tell her you got feelings for her either and dont ask her about anything to do with a relationship. Just act as though your jus friends with no aim of anything more.

Ryan^p · 31st March 2010, 02:06

if someone doesnt want to be with you/doesnt see a future then its better to end it sooner than later, move on enjoy life meet someone who then has feelings you want.

Its life

Dom · 31st March 2010, 02:25

I can sympathise with you, but honestly there is no future in it. The only hope you have is to be good friends, text her some nights to ask is she ok and how her day has been etc.

Honestly, you are chasing a lost cause. But its upto you to prove us wrong, and I hope you do prove us wrong

Good luck

katie_02furio · 31st March 2010, 02:27

dont pressure her, she may be just sayin she doesnt have feelings cos shes not sure wat u want from her and maybe doesnt want to get hurt. just tell her that u care about her and that ure missing her but u arent going to pressure her you just want to spend some time with her. and then show her what it would be like to be together again and treat her real good, but be honest with her! good luck for tomoo night!

Dom · 31st March 2010, 02:29

Last thing you want is for her to realise that she has you wrapped round your little finger! If she realises that she will probably take advantage of that.

Andy_D · 31st March 2010, 02:42

Don't let her lead you on, thats all i'll say.