Advise.. My physco ex gf trying to get me sent down for abh. Update page 11

[motocrossjord]

Got a " cool story bro " thread for you to have a lil read of.


Massive story but ill cut it down as much as i can... My ex gf is trying to get me done for abh and criminal damage.

We had been together for 7 months, early december 2011 i split up with her for numerous reasons.. we both knew it was for the best. Anyway she had been messaging me through fb and texting me saying she really needs to see me etc, i just said it was for the best we didnt.

Was out with a few mates boxing day night and she kept texting me asking me if id give her a lift, i kept on saying no i cant sorry then she started to offer me money :/ and i couldnt resist taking £20 off her as i was skint, and the distance i had to take her was less than 5 miles. Regretably i picked her up and took her home, we had a lil chat in the car about things and agreed to stay in contact, over the next couple of days she keeps telling me how much she needs me in her life etc, like a mug i get back with her.

We went out with about 15 of our mates to a workin mens club in my village, i didnt feel great so wasnt drinking that much! :( anyway my ex got paraletic, 01:00 am comes along and everyone leaves the club, we all had planned to go to a friends house after and continue drinking! But my ex had allready had more than enough, so we went back to my car to get a few things and started to walk back to my house, its around a mile walk.

I sent around 30 odd people a text saying " happy new year " one person it included was my ex's mother, for some reason she has hated me ever since she left her husband, she got the impretion i was taking her daughter away from her when i wasnt, anyway she replied " f**k off " to my text, i replied " thank you " lol then she rang my house phone giving my mum shit down the phone.. my mum rang me and told me, my ex rang her mother and they started to row, this then lead to me and my ex arguing on the way walking back to mine..

Some bloke in his 30's drunk comes over to us, asks my gf if she is ok as she was crying my ex says yes she is fine, he asks again, she says for a 2nd time she is fine. No idea why but totally out of the blue, this bloke goes for me, grabs me and pushes me to the floor. Im so confused on why the hell he is on top of me... lol he starts saying he is " going to eat me " anyway i manage to get him off me n restrain him for around 1 minute until he calms down, while my gf and the blokes gf are standing there crying there eyes out.. i tell the bloke to sit on the floor n wait till me and my gf have left then look after his own gf.. me and my gf walk away fine.

We continue to argue then my " so called " mate rob comes along n asks whats up i walk on, my ex stops and speaks to him, i walk for around 1 min and look back and there hugging, i shout wtf? and walk on, my ex runs after me and we contine to argue even more, we took a short cut home through a alley and she fell over and badly hit her face off the floor, cut her bottem lip and pushed two of her top teeth out of place, her mouth is bleeding pretty bad, i pick her up n try and call a ambulance for her but she keeps snatching my phone.. i took a couple of pics of her face to show her how bad it was and that she really has gotta go hospital.

She insists she car'nt feel anything and that she is ok, so slowly we walk out the alley into the street and shes on the phone to her mum again, then she goes to put her phone in her bag and drops it.. i go to help her pick it up and she goes mad saying i smashed her phone up and pushed her over...

She continues to go on a mad one, starts knocking on peoples doors, this is at 4.00 am new years day. I tell her the time and that no one is going to answer, anyway on about the 15th door someone finally comes out and asks why on earth she has just woke her up..? My ex says sorry i wanted to use your phone but its ok now :S we walk off, and she continues to kick up a massive fuse and shouting, so i bluff her n pretend to ring the police on her then she calms down...

got about 2 mins from my house and a bloke walks past us, my ex asks to use his phone and rings the police saying " my boyfriend has just attacked me and smashed my phone up " I stay with her while shes on the phone to the police and i say " Your really going to get me arrested on new years day for something i havnt done ? " then she gives the phone back to the person and he walks off.

She then tells me she didnt really ring the police, so i belive her, during the time we had been arguing i had been trying to sort her a lift home, finally i find someone to take her home and she says she wants to wait on her own.. fine by me i walk off.. then get a few streets away then worry cause she was so drunk, so i go back, there's a police car on the road she was on.. i walk up to the police car they ask my name, i tell them, and that im looking for my gf and give her name, they say they are looking for her too. Then this bloke who let my gf use his phone comes over and tells the police she is round the corner, pollice officer asks me to get in the back of the police car, so i do.

We then go to emily one police officer gets out and speaks to her, and calls her a ambulance. Ambulance comes, takes her to hosp. One police officer gets in the back with me, another comes round to my door and they say they are arresting me for ABH and criminal damage.. I tell them i done nothing wrong etc, and they go to grab my wrists n i pull away.. Then get pepper sprayed ( with a huge amount imo ) First time getting pepper sprayed to just for the record. Van comes karts me to police station...

I spend 14 hours of my new years day in a cell, get interviewed and both police officers make me out to be a right nasty thug! They belive my ex 100%
I am now released on bail, bail conditions are not to contact my ex or any of her family directly, indirectly or via a 3rd party, and to stay clear of all there houses/flats. ( Fine by me )

Ive got to hand myself into custody on the 21st feb. Sorry for the huge essay! Just wondering if anyone else has had anything simular done to them?
I am 100% innocent! Ive got no history or anything for fighting or hurting anyone, only things i have are some driving convictions.

Really getting to me, as i cant belive she has done this and hasnt dropped the charges! Just read a few posts on the internet of people getting sent down for 2 years for ABH! The thought of prison really does scare the shit out of me Im only 18, 19 in april. Im currently doing my secruity training, this year was planned out to be so sweet and shes messed it up for me allready. I didnt have a solicitor at my interview, do you think i should have one at court? Most mates say yes but some say no as it makes me look guilty? Also some people are just telling me to plead guilty even though im innocent as the chances of me being found not guilty are very unlikly, so i will get less of a punishment.

She's saying i pushed her over which done the damage to her face, then punched her in the face and kicked her and spat on her, and smashed her phone up. I went back to the police station the next morning and asked them to take pictures of my clothing and hands as my hands had no blood or marks on them, neither did my clothing but they wouldnt take pics of any of them because im not the victim!? So ive took pic on my phone and will print them off before court.

Where she is saying it happend there is no CCTV or no witness's. Its my word against her's, like i say i havnt any previous for voilence, im hoping the court will see she is clearly lying but its just my luck for them to say im guilty. My ex has tried to kill herself a few times, last time she would have died if i didnt find her in time. Main reason im worried is because a couple of years ago she " accused " a lad of raping her, he got found guilty sent down for a year for it. Im mates with the lad now, he is also a member on here, my ex once when she was drunk, admited to me that he did not rape her.. and he says he is innocent to this day, so the courts do get it wrong sometimes.

Oh yeah ive got numerous death threats from her lad mates about it via fb and texts so will show them up in court too. She also put a picture up on fb of her face.. if your bf really did beat you up would you post a pic? I wouldnt.. maybe thats just me.

I know there are two sides to every story but this is the true side!
Anyway your opinions please? Anything like this happend to you? If im found guilty what do you think will happen?

EDIT: in october sometime she was round mine and i had to ring police on her cause she had kicked off, she fell over drunk that night and thats on record.
Jordan.

[holdawayt]

I will offer a serious opinion in one week when I've read all of that.

Brb. (Thank you btw, it's a really slow day at work today)



Righty ho just finished reading. At the moment you were being arrested you shouldn't have resisted arrest. This gives the police a huge amount of suspicion and they wouldn't have used the CS gas if it wasn't 100% needed.

However I've also been in a similar situation where my girlfriend was paraletic, I held her up by her arms outside a club and bouncer's thought I was attacking her. Luckily I was able to explain myself to them and they let it go.

Plead your case, gather as much evidence as possible and use her history against her. Best of luck.

[lee_saxo]

I reckon you beat her

[KamRacing]

get a solicitor not an internet forum

[Gandi699]

You dated a mad bitch with a crazy family. You are fucked.

[lee_saxo]

Seen it all now I have. Unbelievable-Jeff! From 'what car' thread to 'what shall I do' thread. Get a good solicitor ASAP !

[Saxotim]

As said, you REALLY need a solicitor mate.

[ha_x3]

Is it ABH with, or without intent??
Sam got arrested on the 28th dec for ABH, without intent, was accused of hitting someone over the head with a wrench and is currently on bail too, He has been told that it makes a huge difference if its without intent. Also I would deffo get a solicitor in court, as they may be able to save your skin from going to prison. (Your ex sounds like a nasty piece of work)

[Giraffe]

Lol, it must be noted down that she was steaming drunk, and if she had no shove marks or kick marks on her, then I don't think they can prove beyond all reasonable doubt that you did anything...

[motocrossjord]

I will offer a serious opinion in one week when I've read all of that.

Brb. (Thank you btw, it's a really slow day at work today)



Righty ho just finished reading. At the moment you were being arrested you shouldn't have resisted arrest. This gives the police a huge amount of suspicion and they wouldn't have used the CS gas if it wasn't 100% needed.

However I've also been in a similar situation where my girlfriend was paraletic, I held her up by her arms outside a club and bouncer's thought I was attacking her. Luckily I was able to explain myself to them and they let it go.

Plead your case, gather as much evidence as possible and use her history against her. Best of luck.


Haha, sorry just didnt want to miss anything out!
I know i shouldnt have kicked up a fuss, just didnt want to be in a tiny cell for new year, and i knew id be in there for hours.

Cheers, i will.

[holdawayt]

Is it ABH with, or without intent??
Sam got arrested on the 28th dec for ABH, without intent, was accused of hitting someone over the head with a wrench and is currently on bail too, He has been told that it makes a huge difference if its without intent. Also I would deffo get a solicitor in court, as they may be able to save your skin from going to prison. (Your ex sounds like a nasty piece of work)

Oh my god, you really don't do yourselves any favours do you??

[ha_x3]

Oh my god, you really don't do yourselves any favours do you??

what now? Im trying to help someone out

[motocrossjord]

You dated a mad bitch with a crazy family. You are fucked.

Indeed i did, her family is hugely messed up, her nan held up a post office, her dads a women beater and been sent down for it, her grandad been done for benifit fraud, cba to keep listing, dunno what i was thinking...

[leeham987]

Oh my god, you really don't do yourselves any favours do you??

why what she said :s

[Prickle]

Sounds like a nightmare mate.

Good luck.

[motocrossjord]

Is it ABH with, or without intent??
Sam got arrested on the 28th dec for ABH, without intent, was accused of hitting someone over the head with a wrench and is currently on bail too, He has been told that it makes a huge difference if its without intent. Also I would deffo get a solicitor in court, as they may be able to save your skin from going to prison. (Your ex sounds like a nasty piece of work)

They didnt say? and ive read the same too. They just said i was being arrested for abh? If i go to the police station can they tell me if its with or without intent?

She obv had the face injury, and had marks on her neck.. she accused me months ago of grabbing her neck, her mum rang polic on me.. then a week after she admited it was a lie and she made the marks herself, she has done the same again. I shall look inyo getting a solictor!

[lee_saxo]

Indeed i did, her family is hugely messed up, her nan held up a post office, her dads a women beater and been sent down for it, her grandad been done for benifit fraud, cba to keep listing, dunno what i was thinking...

You was thinking with your dick that's what.

I reckon worse you'll get is a conditional discharge for 6months and pay a small fine and court costs if found guilty

[holdawayt]

why what she said :s

Not exactly helping with how Sam is percieved on here. Yeah he kicks up a fuss occasionally, no biggy. But now she's openly admitting that he's whacked a bloke over the head and is being looked at for ABH? Painting a wonderful picture of the guy.


Sorry for going off topic.

[ha_x3]

They didnt say? and ive read the same too. They just said i was being arrested for abh? If i go to the police station can they tell me if its with or without intent?

She obv had the face injury, and had marks on her neck.. she accused me months ago of grabbing her neck, her mum rang polic on me.. then a week after she admited it was a lie and she made the marks herself, she has done the same again. I shall look inyo getting a solictor!

It should say it on your bail sheet, where it says alleged charges.
You made the same mistake as sam imo by not getting a solicitor at the interview. Bring all that up about her lieing before, it will help your case..any dirt you can dig up on her dig it up to help you, thats what sam is doing :y:

[Giraffe]

Not exactly helping with how Sam is percieved on here. Yeah he kicks up a fuss occasionally, no biggy. But now she's openly admitting that he's whacked a bloke over the head and is being looked at for ABH? Painting a wonderful picture of the guy.


Sorry for going off topic.

She said accused mate

[ha_x3]

Not exactly helping with how Sam is percieved on here. Yeah he kicks up a fuss occasionally, no biggy. But now she's openly admitting that he's whacked a bloke over the head and is being looked at for ABH? Painting a wonderful picture of the guy.


Sorry for going off topic.

accused is the key word here!! He was jumped by three lads!
Sam asked me to mention it in the thread to help the OP.

[motocrossjord]

You was thinking with your dick that's what.

I reckon worse you'll get is a conditional discharge for 6months and pay a small fine and court costs if found guilty

Is conditonal discharge same as a suspended sentance?

Yep, i was thinking with my dick, and i wonder what my dick saw in her now.

[holdawayt]

That's a massive part to miss out!! Lol fine if someone came at me and tried to jump me I'd do the same without a doubt.

[Prickle]

Dear meh. Trolol.

[motocrossjord]

Sounds like a nightmare mate.

Good luck.

Really is bud, cant get it out my head worrying, Thanks bud.

[ha_x3]

That's a massive part to miss out!! Lol fine if someone came at me and tried to jump me I'd do the same without a doubt.

Look im not guna go into too much detail, but OP is looking at the same charges so trying to help him out a bit, as it sounds like quite a serious situation

[holdawayt]

Look im not guna go into too much detail, but OP is looking at the same charges so trying to help him out a bit, as it sounds like quite a serious situation

No I understand, if Sam acted in self defense then fair play to the lad.

[motocrossjord]

Look im not guna go into too much detail, but OP is looking at the same charges so trying to help him out a bit, as it sounds like quite a serious situation

Thank you! I dont know anything about sam's incident but surly if he got jumped by 3 people he is more then in the right to defend himself?

Sure is a serious situation :/

[e8_pqck]

One thing i cant understand is why some guy attacked you and why you got pepper sprayed? Did you attack the police? why on earth would you do that? if they are going to arrest you they will, so go with them.

see it from their point of view, she is saying you were violent and the police had to pepper spray you - that is all on record.

Also, this witness, i.e. the guy whose phone she used, is he a witness? did he not see the exchange between you and your girlfriend? i.e. did she call the police in a mind frame of malice or was she scared, these are all important facts.

[Giraffe]

One thing i cant understand is why some guy attacked you and why you got pepper sprayed? Did you attack the police? why on earth would you do that? if they are going to arrest you they will, so go with them.

see it from their point of view, she is saying you were violent and the police had to pepper spray you - that is all on record.

Also, this witness, i.e. the guy whose phone she used, is he a witness? did he not see the exchange between you and your girlfriend? i.e. did she call the police in a mind frame of malice or was she scared, these are all important facts.

Read... his gf fell over, there was nobody about. The fella who attacked him probably suspected OP had upset ex GF in question, and was trying to be a hero, as dickheads do...

[ha_x3]

Thank you! I dont know anything about sam's incident but surly if he got jumped by 3 people he is more then in the right to defend himself?

Sure is a serious situation :/

Sam said he will pm you later!!
& did you get a bail sheet? have a read through it and see if it says with or without intent. (it makes a difference if you get charged)

[Ryyy]

Maaaaaan, J.K.Rowling ain't got shitttttt on you br0!

You have 3 options;

1) Jezza Kyle.. he's a reasonable guy..he will sort this mess out for you.

2) Judge Judy.. she's a reasonable woman..she will sort this mess out for you.

3) Visit a solicitor.


Seriously though..have you not given her reason to make up all this bullshit about you? Like have you not cheated on her? She does sound like a complete and utter tard..I thought my ex was bad, but yours takes the cake.

[jw1325]

Oh my word.....

21 people viewing lol.

This is gonna be one fo those threads.....

[motocrossjord]

One thing i cant understand is why some guy attacked you and why you got pepper sprayed? Did you attack the police? why on earth would you do that? if they are going to arrest you they will, so go with them.

see it from their point of view, she is saying you were violent and the police had to pepper spray you - that is all on record.

Also, this witness, i.e. the guy whose phone she used, is he a witness? did he not see the exchange between you and your girlfriend? i.e. did she call the police in a mind frame of malice or was she scared, these are all important facts.

Im pretty sure i said this, but ill say it again. There was no witness's or cctv where she fell over and dropped her phone. The persons phone she used, all he can say is that emily came up to him, asked to use his phone, rang the police then gave him the phone back, he walked on..

As for the drunk starting on me, i did nothing wrong! And where he pushed me over there is CCTV, and it will clearly show me going for me first, then me restrainging him... and even handing his GF the blokes phone..

I know resisting the police was a big mistake, i just didnt want to go in a cell, there f**king horrible.

[motocrossjord]

Read... his gf fell over, there was nobody about. The fella who attacked him probably suspected OP had upset ex GF in question, and was trying to be a hero, as dickheads do...

+1! He was out looking for a fight imo.

[e8_pqck]

+1! He was out looking for a fight imo.

witnesses:
Drunk guy who attacked you and his girlfriend
So called mate Rob
Bloke who you woke up
Phone guy who grassed on you
police who you attacked

Not many of them appears to be on your side.

any way of finding out what they saw, getting statements. particularly the guy you woke up and the phone guy who appeared to grass on you.

Fighting the police is the biggy though, that little action tells me you weren't thinking very straight or being as clear headed as you seem to make out.

[TomT]

Shouldn't of beat her up tbf..

Didn't read the thread.

[motocrossjord]

Sam said he will pm you later!!
& did you get a bail sheet? have a read through it and see if it says with or without intent. (it makes a difference if you get charged)

Ok thank you! And just got my " condition bail to police station grant " peice of paper, it says and i quote: " Grounds for imposing conditions, The above named person ( ME ) has been granted bail on subject to the following conditions. These conditoons are imposed because they appear neccessary to prevent that person from " then ticked is... " Interfering with witnesses or otherwise obstructing the course of justice "

Im going to go police station in next hour and see what they say as i want to know if its with or without intent!

[motocrossjord]

Maaaaaan, J.K.Rowling ain't got shitttttt on you br0!

You have 3 options;

1) Jezza Kyle.. he's a reasonable guy..he will sort this mess out for you.

2) Judge Judy.. she's a reasonable woman..she will sort this mess out for you.

3) Visit a solicitor.


Seriously though..have you not given her reason to make up all this bullshit about you? Like have you not cheated on her? She does sound like a complete and utter tard..I thought my ex was bad, but yours takes the cake.

Hahaha lad, Joke is she once said we should go on the kyle show... i lol'ed at her.

Nope i treated her like a girl should be treated, she cheated on me twice. Should have never took her back after the first time. The only reason she is doing it is because i split up with her again. Yep shes one crazy girl...

[e8_pqck]

hope you work it out, i do actually believe you as i have been in a very similar situation, however i didnt fight the police or need to be pepper sprayed!!

just stick to your story, but you need some favourable witnesses! or a witness that casts doubt on her story.

[ha_x3]

Ok thank you! And just got my " condition bail to police station grant " peice of paper, it says and i quote: " Grounds for imposing conditions, The above named person ( ME ) has been granted bail on subject to the following conditions. These conditoons are imposed because they appear neccessary to prevent that person from " then ticked is... " Interfering with witnesses or otherwise obstructing the course of justice "

Im going to go police station in next hour and see what they say as i want to know if its with or without intent!

Thats completely different to sams iirc, im pretty sure his didnt say anything about bail conditions :S just that he had to appear for bail in march and what the alleged complaint was :wacko:

[motocrossjord]

witnesses:
Drunk guy who attacked you and his girlfriend
So called mate Rob
Bloke who you woke up
Phone guy who grassed on you
police who you attacked

Not many of them appears to be on your side.

any way of finding out what they saw, getting statements. particularly the guy you woke up and the phone guy who appeared to grass on you.

Fighting the police is the biggy though, that little action tells me you weren't thinking very straight or being as clear headed as you seem to make out.

The cctv will back up what happend with the drunk guy.
It was a women who she woke up, and what can she really say? Two people woke me up on ne years day?
All the phone guy can say really is that a girl asked to use my phone and rang the police? i wasnt voilent towards him or shouting at him.

I hardly " attacked " or had a fight with the police, i simply didnt want to be arrested.

I cant really find out anything from the above people, as i dont know who the drunk guy is, dont who the phone guy is, could go back to the women who we woke up though but that might be interfeering with the case?

[motocrossjord]

hope you work it out, i do actually believe you as i have been in a very similar situation, however i didnt fight the police or need to be pepper sprayed!!

just stick to your story, but you need some favourable witnesses! or a witness that casts doubt on her story.

Well thank you. There is no one, and im not going to ask any of my mates to lie for me + its to late. Ill just bring up all her past n hope she breaks under pressure, everyone keeps saying its a massive lie to take to court which it is.

[holdawayt]

dated a girl with eczema


cracking pair of tits


Sorry - thought this thread needed cheering up a bit.

[Jonny52002]

100% you need a solicitor whether your quilty or not no matter what the situation is.

[motocrossjord]

Thats completely different to sams iirc, im pretty sure his didnt say anything about bail conditions :S just that he had to appear for bail in march and what the alleged complaint was :wacko:

:/ As i said ive gotta hand my self in on the 21st feb, so they can gather what evidence they can, and gives emily chance to drop the case and for them to check cctv etc, so annoing that i cannot conact her though, tbh i reckon if i offerd her some cash she'd drop it.. or if i say ill get back with her, i thought she would have deffo dropped it the next day, but im 99% sure her mums putting her up to it imo. As she was ringing my mum while i was in the cell bragging about how im getting sent to prison and sh*t.

[motocrossjord]

dated a girl with eczema


cracking pair of tits


Sorry - thought this thread needed cheering up a bit.

How did you know she had a decent pair of tities?!

[e8_pqck]

The cctv will back up what happend with the drunk guy.
It was a women who she woke up, and what can she really say? Two people woke me up on ne years day?
All the phone guy can say really is that a girl asked to use my phone and rang the police? i wasnt voilent towards him or shouting at him.

I hardly " attacked " or had a fight with the police, i simply didnt want to be arrested.

I cant really find out anything from the above people, as i dont know who the drunk guy is, dont who the phone guy is, could go back to the women who we woke up though but that might be interfeering with the case?

not sure about the interfering part, but people who have just been beaten up will act a certain way and the woman at the door might provide clues as to her frame of mind.

for instance, i'd know a terrified girl who had just been beaten up from a girl who had just fallen over drunk.

she may even have listened to the exchange at the window when you left.

as everyone says, see a solicitor ASAP.

[NismoSteve]

Holy crap, I thought my Mrs family were nuts, Jesus. You need a solicitor but it doesn't look good. You can never win an argument with a drunk, stupidity is their logic.

[Tommo87]

If the police took any statement from her while she was under the influence of alcohol then that statement is void and cannot be brought before court.

I'd get a good soliciter and just show her up in court and then sue her for any damages menal, work related or physical. Use the death threats and say it has made you very anxious and reclusive for fear of being attacked and has caused a drop in confidence.

[holdawayt]

How did you know she had a decent pair of tities?!

Ok, it's a joke.

She has eczema, therefore her breasts have cracks in them. Hence cracking set of tits.

Dear lord I need'nt bother.

[motocrossjord]

not sure about the interfering part, but people who have just been beaten up will act a certain way and the woman at the door might provide clues as to her frame of mind.

for instance, i'd know a terrified girl who had just been beaten up from a girl who had just fallen over drunk.

she may even have listened to the exchange at the window when you left.

as everyone says, see a solicitor ASAP.

That is very true actually! And i shall do it this week!

[motocrossjord]

Ok, it's a joke.

She has eczema, therefore her breasts have cracks in them. Hence cracking set of tits.

Dear lord I need'nt bother.

Damn, im not very clued up on skin conditons :/

[Stissy]

i dont want to be the bearer of bad news mate... but you've pretty much fucked it

with this dogshit legal system its whoever reports the 'crime' for is the one thats in the right,
the police wont even consider your side of the story, even without any proof on her part you're going to get a criminal record from this, even if its just from getting a caution

[TomT]

LOL I understood Tom, I giggled.

Can't believe you had to explain it.

[holdawayt]

LOL I understood Tom, I giggled.

Can't believe you had to explain it.

It really wasn't difficult lol. Ahwell back to apetube.

[motocrossjord]

If the police took any statement from her while she was under the influence of alcohol then that statement is void and cannot be brought before court.

I'd get a good soliciter and just show her up in court and then sue her for any damages menal, work related or physical. Use the death threats and say it has made you very anxious and reclusive for fear of being attacked and has caused a drop in confidence.

She had to have a operation in hospital, and was in hosp for around 7 hours so by the time she gave a statement i guess her alchol levels would have been low enough?

And i shall be! Had a someone try opening my front door twice now, not to sure if its to do with her but prob is!

[motocrossjord]

i dont want to be the bearer of bad news mate... but you've pretty much fucked it

with this dogshit legal system its whoever reports the 'crime' for is the one thats in the right,
the police wont even consider your side of the story, even without any proof on her part you're going to get a criminal record from this, even if its just from getting a caution

I know! I forgot to add aswell that she had smacked me and cut/bruised my nose, but they kinda washed that aside. The coppers said they have to arrest me as she made the call, so i replied " so if i had rang you first saying she hit me you would have arrested her? " and they said yes :S, it is pretty fucked up imo.

[ha_x3]

:/ As i said ive gotta hand my self in on the 21st feb, so they can gather what evidence they can, and gives emily chance to drop the case and for them to check cctv etc, so annoing that i cannot conact her though, tbh i reckon if i offerd her some cash she'd drop it.. or if i say ill get back with her, i thought she would have deffo dropped it the next day, but im 99% sure her mums putting her up to it imo. As she was ringing my mum while i was in the cell bragging about how im getting sent to prison and sh*t.

If you try to pay her off & the police find out that would look really bad :n: so i wouldnt bother, could cause more trouble for yourself :n:
But deffo drag up/find out as much dirt about her/her past as you can, to help ith your case.. Didnt you say she called the police on you before then dropped the charges or something like that??

[motocrossjord]

If you try to pay her off & the police find out that would look really bad :n: so i wouldnt bother, could cause more trouble for yourself :n:
But deffo drag up/find out as much dirt about her/her past as you can, to help ith your case.. Didnt you say she called the police on you before then dropped the charges or something like that??

Yeah i know, i was going to get a mate to offer her some money lol but if it comes back to me then i might aswell say im guilty.

Yeah she said i strangled her, then admited i didnt a week later, she made the marks herself.

[ha_x3]

Yeah i know, i was going to get a mate to offer her some money lol but if it comes back to me then i might aswell say im guilty.

Yeah she said i strangled her, then admited i didnt a week later, she made the marks herself.

Thats perfect (dirt wise) Have you informed the police of this?

[logic_guy]

get a solicitor not an internet forum

What Kam says.

My mum has done this to my dad.. he had a broken wrist and apparently punched her in the teeth with his cast :geek:.

He was arrested and given a official police caution even though i believe he never did it and so does everyone else. The police in the police station said to my dad they had to caution him because domestic violence is going up and they ALWAYS go in the female's favor.

tbh mate, you're going to get a police caution. iirc, the next 'offence' and you're carted off to the nick and court sharp the next morning.

[motocrossjord]

Thats perfect (dirt wise) Have you informed the police of this?

Yep brought it up in the interview on tape, and also about her kicking off round mine and falling over para and grazing her face. I cant remember what the police said exactly, but think they said something like " yes we know and it is allready on record "

[ha_x3]

Yep brought it up in the interview on tape, and also about her kicking off round mine and falling over para and grazing her face. I cant remember what the police said exactly, but think they said something like " yes we know and it is allready on record "

Ideal, at the moment all you can really do is give examples of her lieing (her past etc) Good luck with it all & keep us updated :y: Sam will pm you later

[Giraffe]

Thinking about it, all you really can do is tell the truth, get a solicitor for advice and hope for the best.

[motocrossjord]

What Kam says.

My mum has done this to my dad.. he had a broken wrist and apparently punched her in the teeth with his cast :geek:.

He was arrested and given a official police caution even though i believe he never did it and so does everyone else. The police in the police station said to my dad they had to caution him because domestic violence is going up and they ALWAYS go in the female's favor.

tbh mate, you're going to get a police caution. iirc, the next 'offence' and you're carted off to the nick and court sharp the next morning.

Thats what the coppers who arrested me said :/ The two who arrested me said please beaware that when you are interviewed they will take emilys side :/ it is unfair, Ive grown up with my mum being knocked about by dickhead blokes, To see a woman getting hurt is just a horrible thing, let alone doing the hurting. I shall seek legal advice tomo!

[motocrossjord]

Ideal, at the moment all you can really do is give examples of her lieing (her past etc) Good luck with it all & keep us updated :y: Sam will pm you later

Yep, just a waiting game until the 21st really, in the interview they did say if the case is dropped they will let me know straight away, or if they need me to come in sooner then they will come and get me. Will do bud, thanks.

[logic_guy]

Thats what the coppers who arrested me said :/ The two who arrested me said please beaware that when you are interviewed they will take emilys side :/ it is unfair, Ive grown up with my mum being knocked about by dickhead blokes, To see a woman getting hurt is just a horrible thing, let alone doing the hurting. I shall seek legal advice tomo!

Well the law sways to the females side in this situation due to the increase of domestic violence. Either way, you're best bet is to stay well clear of her and to get legal advice and explain to them the full story. You may need them again if she makes a allegation.

[motocrossjord]

Thinking about it, all you really can do is tell the truth, get a solicitor for advice and hope for the best.

Will do, never needed a solicitor before, dreading how much its going to cost.

[Lionsden]

I had many similar situations with my ex....

I had her convince all my mates and many of my work colleagues that I was addicted to coke, after I confronted her about her drinking. (I didn't take coke at all, I hate the stuff, although I smoked a lot of green, that was all.)
I had her telling her friends (including doormen at the pub she worked at) I was beating her up, which as you can imagine caused a few problems.
I had her convince an ambulance driver (who I had called to come and take her to hospital) that I had slit her wrists and pushed her down the stairs). I walked in the room to find him ready to try and knock me out!!! Luckily the female ambulance driver stopped him and told him to leave it.
I had the police round my flat about 10 times over 3 months, all due to her getting pissed and kicking off.
She would lock me out of my flat and pass out for hours after getting shit faced, so I'd get home from work and have to get into my flat via a set of ladders stood on top of my wheelie bin, or break the locks if the kitchen window was locked.
My bank wanted to do her for fraud after I reported my card lost/stolen and they told me it had been used all night in various bars round Burton, she had spent £200 in one night (well in 5 hours) all on drink.

You'll be starting to see a pattern by now. Every time it was caused by alcohol. She was actually a really nice lass when sober. Which was my downfall I thought she would eventually change and stop drinking like she was.

We met as holiday reps and had been together for 5 years, 2 of which we worked together out in France. It was only after returning home and setting down a bit that I realised how much of a problem she had with drink. I drank a lot as well while we were holiday reps, it's part of the lifestyle. I calmed down my drinking and she seemed to get worse until things went mental and she started doing the things I mentioned above.

Luckily every time things did kick off it never got as far as me being charged by the police. I managed a local restaurant 50 meters from the local police station and knew most of the local police quite well and they knew my ex quite well aswell, which was a help.

A couple of her friends kicked off at me and I got in a big scrap with one of them in the middle of the town center after he tried to jump me from behind. But after a while they started to realise she would say anything when she was pissed and realised I might have actually been telling the truth.

Like I said I was never charged with anything and never had to attend court, but if I had I would have had a solicitor represent me without a doubt.

My advice would be to see a solicitor asap, and to keep away from her and her friends and family, and not contact her at all even after everything has calmed down and things are sorted. Also be as co-operative as possible with the police even if/when you feel they are siding with her, most are a good judge of character and if you keep calm they will see you are not the person she portrays.

I look back now, to what my ex did to me, and I can't believe I put up with any of it and stayed with her, but we all do mad things for those we love. It's only when you can look at things from a distance you realise how f**ked up they were.

I'm sure I'll hear from my ex or her family one day soon, saying she is waiting for a liver transplant or worse, she still drinks the same if not more 5 years on.

[ha_x3]

Will do, never needed a solicitor before, dreading how much its going to cost.

Does the cost really matter if having a solicitor could prevent you from going to prison??

[logic_guy]

Will do, never needed a solicitor before, dreading how much its going to cost.

iirc, you get get free legal aid if you earn under £x amount

Solicitor is around £70 P/h. Only would need one appointment tbh

[qrty]

Get a Solicitor to try and acquire a Polygraph Test from her, if she watches Jeeza she may shit herself and drop the charges!

Although if you can obtain one and she does go through with it it wouldn't stand up in court!

[motocrossjord]

I had many similar situations with my ex....

I had her convince all my mates and many of my work colleagues that I was addicted to coke, after I confronted her about her drinking. (I didn't take coke at all, I hate the stuff, although I smoked a lot of green, that was all.)
I had her telling her friends (including doormen at the pub she worked at) I was beating her up, which as you can imagine caused a few problems.
I had her convince an ambulance driver (who I had called to come and take her to hospital) that I had slit her wrists and pushed her down the stairs). I walked in the room to find him ready to try and knock me out!!! Luckily the female ambulance driver stopped him and told him to leave it.
I had the police round my flat about 10 times over 3 months, all due to her getting pissed and kicking off.
She would lock me out of my flat and pass out for hours after getting shit faced, so I'd get home from work and have to get into my flat via a set of ladders stood on top of my wheelie bin, or break the locks if the kitchen window was locked.
My bank wanted to do her for fraud after I reported my card lost/stolen and they told me it had been used all night in various bars round Burton, she had spent £200 in one night (well in 5 hours) all on drink.

You'll be starting to see a pattern by now. Every time it was caused by alcohol. She was actually a really nice lass when sober. Which was my downfall I thought she would eventually change and stop drinking like she was.

We met as holiday reps and had been together for 5 years, 2 of which we worked together out in France. It was only after returning home and setting down a bit that I realised how much of a problem she had with drink. I drank a lot as well while we were holiday reps, it's part of the lifestyle. I calmed down my drinking and she seemed to get worse until things went mental and she started doing the things I mentioned above.

Luckily every time things did kick off it never got as far as me being charged by the police. I managed a local restaurant 50 meters from the local police station and knew most of the local police quite well and they knew my ex quite well aswell, which was a help.

A couple of her friends kicked off at me and I got in a big scrap with one of them in the middle of the town center after he tried to jump me from behind. But after a while they started to realise she would say anything when she was pissed and realised I might have actually been telling the truth.

Like I said I was never charged with anything and never had to attend court, but if I had I would have had a solicitor represent me without a doubt.

My advice would be to see a solicitor asap, and to keep away from her and her friends and family, and not contact her at all even after everything has calmed down and things are sorted. Also be as co-operative as possible with the police even if/when you feel they are siding with her, most are a good judge of character and if you keep calm they will see you are not the person she portrays.

I look back now, to what my ex did to me, and I can't believe I put up with any of it and stayed with her, but we all do mad things for those we love. It's only when you can look at things from a distance you realise how f**ked up they were.

I'm sure I'll hear from my ex or her family one day soon, saying she is waiting for a liver transplant or worse, she still drinks the same if not more 5 years on.


Thats mad mate. Your ex and my ex sound so simular, not the same bird is it? lol

I used to love a drink, would have a drink every night, so did emily but she'd drink then start a row and just get out of control. She drilled all my tyres one night because she thought i was going to see another girl. My ex is just out of control, sleeping with everyone she can, quit her job, so im told started doing drone. She was such a nice girl when i met her :/ even though she is trying to get me sent down for something i didnt do i still love her to bits, i dont want to see her waste her life away or end up dead! She carrys on the way she is she wont see 21.

[motocrossjord]

Does the cost really matter if having a solicitor could prevent you from going to prison??

No but i literally have no spare cash, only thing i can sell is my car, And im deffo not doing that - carrying the risk i could still go to prison.

Ill do my best to borrow some money off a few mates.

[ha_x3]

No but i literally have no spare cash, only thing i can sell is my car, And im deffo not doing that - carrying the risk i could still go to prison.

Ill do my best to borrow some money off a few mates.

Yeah dont sell your car, shes winning then :n:

[motocrossjord]

iirc, you get get free legal aid if you earn under £x amount

Solicitor is around £70 P/h. Only would need one appointment tbh

I got told legal aid takes ages to go through? Ill give a few solictors a ring tmo and see what they say.

[motocrossjord]

Yeah dont sell your car, shes winning then :n:

Yep! I know this is going to make me sound guilty as, but id rather do 6 months inside then sell my car because of her lies!

Im surprised she hasnt been round to smash it up yet tbh. Got the cctv on it waiting for it to happen!

[ha_x3]

Yep! I know this is going to make me sound guilty as, but id rather do 6 months inside then sell my car because of her lies!

Im surprised she hasnt been round to smash it up yet tbh. Got the cctv on it waiting for it to happen!

Know that feeling.. Sams still waiting for his car to get done in aswell :n:

[Stissy]

I know! I forgot to add aswell that she had smacked me and cut/bruised my nose, but they kinda washed that aside. The coppers said they have to arrest me as she made the call, so i replied " so if i had rang you first saying she hit me you would have arrested her? " and they said yes :S, it is pretty fucked up imo.

yeah man, serious. i've seen this stuff all the time.

i studied criminal law for two miserable years and my ex was a paralegal

[nicole_]

I got told legal aid takes ages to go through? Ill give a few solictors a ring tmo and see what they say.

I got legal aid sorted within 3 weeks of my court date :)
Sounds like a shit situation, feel for you :n:

[Carlvtr88]

I reckon you beat her

lol... I would never hit a woman but I'd beat a bitch up any day. ... On a serious note mate. Do not lose your rag with authority they'll just make it more difficult. Every single pic she upload document it. Document What she does on face book or What ever cause no doubt she'll try the old 'its ruined my life gig' when, if you check her facebook you'll see she's been partying with the girls like Theres no tomorrow. Also get those pics printed off. I Can see how the court would listen to a pissed up broad who has already accused one gentleman of rape. Anything info you Can get on her, not as ammunition, but as you key to defence, do it. If she seriously is gonna try and dispatch you in a court of law then get a solicitor. You Will get dry bummed if your standing their on your tod..... Also get your story straight, one Cock up or loose end Will be bait for her solicitor to snatch up and use..... I wouldnt plead guilty to something i hadnt done, even if it meant i get less time. I think this whole 'plead guilty you get less' is a sham. I really do.

[Cam]

Pics of girl after she fell over tbh?

[darrenh84]

you dont get pepper sprayed for saying "ok officer and going politely" so obviosuly youve shot yourself in the foot already by showing agressive behaviour to police officers right after an "alleged assault", aint ready half of what you wrote tbf just scanned but that stands out straight away.

[chester-lad]

going jail i think 5 years !!!!

[MiniGibbo]

I cant be bothered to read past your first line or the replys but im sure the needed responce is..

Grow a pair you faggot.

[Prickle]

While your gf fell over you should of humped her IMO.

[mlawlan69]

looking at the priors she already has i would say you will be okay, least i hope so!!!

she sounds like a complete fucking physco, i kind of know how it is but thankfully my ex isn't as malicious !!!

[ajdsaxo]

Tbh Mate you've convinced a lot of people on here that you haven't done anything by telling us of the past - and none of us know you and know there's still a possibility you did it (not saying you did!)

Just tell everything you've stated on here to a solicitor and record everything you've found - even old texts apologising about threats and stuff possibly? Did she talk about the rape and stuff on Facebook? Go as far back as possible to find out!

I feel for you man - too many girls use the fact they're girls to get things. Situations like your in or custody over kids for example.

I think as long as you stay calm and try to explain what happened and be as helpful as possible with the solicitor/police you'll be fine!

Good luck either way mate

[lee_saxo]

Always 2 sides to every story :)

[RyanSaxo]

Always 2 sides to every story :)

always 3 sides to every story...

one side

the other side

and the truth

[SaxoVTR2008]

My ex is similar.. It's always the pretty ones!
Once when I was at work my ex called the police saying I was going to kill myself, rang my family etc. so she worried them, when I was at work all along? Later on the police came over and told me it's a serious thing threatening to kill myself.. I know works bad but not that bad!
plenty of times shes tried to overdose on paracetamol lol stupid bitch, 10 isn't gonna kill her..
She makes out like shes so nice and innocent to people, that she would never do anything wrong.. 2 years I haven't been with her now and she's made loads of fake facebook accounts etc. trying to split me and my girlfriend up, she even made up an account in my name to split up her and her boyfriend up? Strange...

[baker556]

Welcome to sax-p..

[iluminusbutterfly]

your not telling us something


simples

[K17NEY]

You really need a solicitor, Crazy women like this are the reason i can't be arsed with them. On the other hand, Im not sure if i believe you...

[motocrossjord]

I got legal aid sorted within 3 weeks of my court date :)
Sounds like a shit situation, feel for you :n:

Oh really cheers hopefully i can get it! Thanks, sure is.

[motocrossjord]

lol... I would never hit a woman but I'd beat a bitch up any day. ... On a serious note mate. Do not lose your rag with authority they'll just make it more difficult. Every single pic she upload document it. Document What she does on face book or What ever cause no doubt she'll try the old 'its ruined my life gig' when, if you check her facebook you'll see she's been partying with the girls like Theres no tomorrow. Also get those pics printed off. I Can see how the court would listen to a pissed up broad who has already accused one gentleman of rape. Anything info you Can get on her, not as ammunition, but as you key to defence, do it. If she seriously is gonna try and dispatch you in a court of law then get a solicitor. You Will get dry bummed if your standing their on your tod..... Also get your story straight, one Cock up or loose end Will be bait for her solicitor to snatch up and use..... I wouldnt plead guilty to something i hadnt done, even if it meant i get less time. I think this whole 'plead guilty you get less' is a sham. I really do.

I cant see her fb but a mate showed me it when she put a pic up, thanks mate will do keeping every bit that will help me, fb status that her mates put up, the letters i get through my door and all the texts. Yeah its wrong to think some people will plead guilty to something they havnt done just to get less time, cant belive im even thinking about it..

[motocrossjord]

Pics of girl after she fell over tbh?

Police made them delete the pics i had on my phone. And cant see her fb, have to go on my mates.. Might try and get a pic up later.

[motocrossjord]

you dont get pepper sprayed for saying "ok officer and going politely" so obviosuly youve shot yourself in the foot already by showing agressive behaviour to police officers right after an "alleged assault", aint ready half of what you wrote tbf just scanned but that stands out straight away.

Well not being funny but the police that came were rather on the small side, they obv drew the short straw working on new years day, they had asked what i do for work and i told them, training to be a secruity guard, pepper spray was way ott tbh, seen many of people getting much more rowdy with police and they dont get pepper sprayed, but fair enough i admit i should have just let them nick me.

[motocrossjord]

I cant be bothered to read past your first line or the replys but im sure the needed responce is..

Grow a pair you faggot.

Lol sorry i aint a chav enit n dnt care bout goin prison blud.

[motocrossjord]

While your gf fell over you should of humped her IMO.

Nahh her face was a mess, and didnt have any paper bags with me!

[JamesR]

I would of got a taxi home the second she started getting stupid. SERIOUSLY cannot stand psycho girls

Pretty sure you can forget about getting an SIA license with ABH on your record as well.

[motocrossjord]

Tbh Mate you've convinced a lot of people on here that you haven't done anything by telling us of the past - and none of us know you and know there's still a possibility you did it (not saying you did!)

Just tell everything you've stated on here to a solicitor and record everything you've found - even old texts apologising about threats and stuff possibly? Did she talk about the rape and stuff on Facebook? Go as far back as possible to find out!

I feel for you man - too many girls use the fact they're girls to get things. Situations like your in or custody over kids for example.

I think as long as you stay calm and try to explain what happened and be as helpful as possible with the solicitor/police you'll be fine!

Good luck either way mate


I know mate, ive lost a few friends over this, but found out who my real mates are. As for going back on fb about the whole rape thing, she made a new fb so i dont know.. i doubt it though as police would have deffo checked her fb around the time of the supposed rape.

Yep alot of girls do use it as a get out clause!

Thanks Bud

[motocrossjord]

My ex is similar.. It's always the pretty ones!
Once when I was at work my ex called the police saying I was going to kill myself, rang my family etc. so she worried them, when I was at work all along? Later on the police came over and told me it's a serious thing threatening to kill myself.. I know works bad but not that bad!
plenty of times shes tried to overdose on paracetamol lol stupid bitch, 10 isn't gonna kill her..
She makes out like shes so nice and innocent to people, that she would never do anything wrong.. 2 years I haven't been with her now and she's made loads of fake facebook accounts etc. trying to split me and my girlfriend up, she even made up an account in my name to split up her and her boyfriend up? Strange...

She sounds almost as strange as my ex! lol And yeah pretty and innocent so everyone thinks! How wrong they are. Thats abit extreme her saying your guna kill yourself lol, My ex used to sent me pics of her standing over a bridge etc when we had a row... shes dieabetic and on insulin, she stormed out in a row once n i relised she took two pens of insulin with her,, she took something silly like 180 units, when she is ment to take 16, found her in semilong park passed out.. she'd deffo have died if i didnt find her, hopefully that will go in my favour!

[motocrossjord]

your not telling us something


simples


Well you seem to know more than me so please tell me what that thing is?

[motocrossjord]

I would of got a taxi home the second she started getting stupid. SERIOUSLY cannot stand psycho girls

Yep! How much i just wish i told her to stick her £20 on boxing day now :/

[DanViner]

Get the pictures up of her injuries mate

Surely they would have took you're clothes as its quite a severe thing to be done for
If not I doubt anything will come of it maybe a suspended sentence

[iluminusbutterfly]

Well you seem to know more than me so please tell me what that thing is?

probably that you beat up your ex misses because you wanted to go to a party but couldnt because you had to look after her

[Connor_scotland]

I reckon you beat her

Best comment ever.

[Cam]

Nahh her face was a mess i was pulling her teeth out my knuckles and didnt have any paper bags with me!

Fair enough mate.

[lee_saxo]

Best comment ever.

:boxing::y:

[motocrossjord]

Get the pictures up of her injuries mate

Surely they would have took you're clothes as its quite a severe thing to be done for
If not I doubt anything will come of it maybe a suspended sentence

I hope at the worst its only suspended sentance mate! and will try and get the pic off mates fb later tonight, it is bad ill warn you all now, and yeah exactly! basically she is saying i pushed her over, then smashed her in the teeth, if id have hit her in teh teeth there would be blood or bruiss or a mark on my hands.. there was none

[motocrossjord]

I would of got a taxi home the second she started getting stupid. SERIOUSLY cannot stand psycho girls

Pretty sure you can forget about getting an SIA license with ABH on your record as well.

Rah :/ well my course is this weekend and allready paid for... if she messes this up for me then i wont be happy!!

[JamesR]

Rah :/ well my course is this weekend and allready paid for... if she messes this up for me then i wont be happy!!

Yeah, the course is, but when you send off for the actual license then the SIA would find out about the ABH and reject you?

Pretty shit situation, the solicitor is worth it.


Just read this: "You will be rejected for the following; Assault (GBH / ABH), Terrorism and anything related to racism." - There is obviously more but there is your answer.

[motocrossjord]

Yeah, the course is, but when you send off for the actual license then the SIA would find out about the ABH and reject you?

Pretty shit situation, the solicitor is worth it.


Just read this: "You will be rejected for the following; Assault (GBH / ABH), Terrorism and anything related to racism." - There is obviously more but there is your answer.

Thats really knacked me off now. I assumed abh wouldnt affect it, as i assumed a few bouncers have a abh charge at some point in there life? :/ shouldnt assume, yes i know :(

[Ryyy]

Everyone has a strange ex, mine lied about many things in order to be seen as the 'damsel in distress'...'this has happened to me, that has happened to me, so you must be nice to me in order for me to trust you..but while youre being 'nice', im gonna fuck you over'..unbelievably manipulative...yet the strange bitch still texts me to this day saying she misses me WHILE she has someone else.

If you treat her like you 'should', then she obviously she has problems of her own and may be unstable in some way. But like others have said, none of us truly know the story inside out like you two do.

[Tontsy]

i think OP is a rapist.

[Dolly]

Flippin' heck!!! I genuinely feel really sorry for you! :(

How can someone do sucha thing, what a messed up mind she has!!!

I hope the court doesn't believe the lies!

[Granty312]

Unfortunately mate, you are fucked! However, get as much as you can on her! But maybe next time, if someone rings police on you once, get the heck outta there whilst you can!

[devilsadvocate]

People have some right fucking dramas on their lives, date some non psychos every now and then.

[Tontsy]

People have some right fucking dramas on their lives, date some non psychos every now and then.

where is the fun in that ?

[Ryyy]

People have some right fucking dramas on their lives, date some non psychos every now and then.

Trouble is, you dont realise they might be a bit 'odd' until its too late, so to speak.

[DanViner]

I hope at the worst its only suspended sentance mate! and will try and get the pic off mates fb later tonight, it is bad ill warn you all now, and yeah exactly! basically she is saying i pushed her over, then smashed her in the teeth, if id have hit her in teh teeth there would be blood or bruiss or a mark on my hands.. there was none

I'm sure she would have had more severe facial injuries if you had kicked her
But I will await the pictures

Flippin' heck!!! I genuinely feel really sorry for you! :(

How can someone do sucha thing, what a messed up mind she has!!!

I hope the court doesn't believe the lies!

when did they let you back on here ??
Did tontos thread save you're bacon ?

[manta]

Trouble is, you dont realise they might be a bit 'odd' until its too late, so to speak.

I know this through experience.

Fucking stalker.

[Tontsy]

I know this through experience.

Fucking stalker.

you wernt complaining when i was sending you cybersekz of ma balls.

[D1zzyman]

you come across a couple of psycho bitches from time to time, my ex bitch tried to choke me to death when i was asleep. scariest moment of my life, i even considered exorcising the bitch. :wacko:

[manta]

you wernt complaining when i was sending you cybersekz of ma balls.

Not you bbz ;)

Though honestly I'd prefer it if it was.

Women make the worst stalkers, she's a mental case!

you come across a couple of psycho bitches from time to time, my ex bitch tried to choke me to death when i was asleep. scariest moment of my life, i even considered exorcising the bitch. :wacko:

You srs bro?

[D1zzyman]

Not you bbz ;)

Though honestly I'd prefer it if it was.

Women make the worst stalkers, she's a mental case!



You srs bro?

im dead serious, i never want to experience that shit again.

[Barry123]

I thought my ex was a psycho... :err:

you're fucked.

[Dolly]

when did they let you back on here ??
Did tontos thread save you're bacon ?

I'm loved too much, so I was released from SAXP jail.

HAHA must of been, I mean who can say no to bacon? ;)

[DanViner]

you come across a couple of psycho bitches from time to time, my ex bitch tried to choke me to death when i was asleep. scariest moment of my life, i even considered exorcising the bitch. :wacko:

Surely a headbutt would have been justifiable for that

[DanViner]

I'm loved too much, so I was released from SAXP jail.

HAHA must of been, I mean who can say no to bacon? ;)

A vegetarian ???

[swampy]

cant be bothered to read all of the pages!!

but DO NOT break them bail conditions, if you go anywhere near her, the family etc they can do you for witness intimidation and attempting to pervert the cause of justice, this carries a minimum of six monthes in prison.

thats fact as ive being there!!!

(i didnt do the time as i was the witness they tried to persuade, they made a big mistake that day)

[VTR-Chris]

shouldnt get fuck all really, wouldnt worry

i had it 10 x worse when i got done for abh and common assualt years ago all on cctv... an i never got sent down just C/S and a fine / curfew

i really wouldnt worry its one word against yours...did they seize any of your clothes?? seized mine and had to wear a paper suit and pumps on the bus home haha

[manta]

im dead serious, i never want to experience that shit again.

I think we are all interested.

Give us a SITREP.

[Doeza]

get a solicitor not an internet forum

You will definitely not do 2 years but get a lawyer to be on the safe side ;)

[motocrossjord]

Flippin' heck!!! I genuinely feel really sorry for you! :(

How can someone do sucha thing, what a messed up mind she has!!!

I hope the court doesn't believe the lies!

Thank you, I'm hoping they not, tbh I reckon she will crack under the pressure tbh.

[motocrossjord]

Unfortunately mate, you are fucked! However, get as much as you can on her! But maybe next time, if someone rings police on you once, get the heck outta there whilst you can!

If I'd have ran, how guilty would that have made me look mate

[motocrossjord]

I thought my ex was a psycho... :err:

you're fucked.

Cheers Barry!

[Tontsy]

Thank you, I'm hoping they not, tbh I reckon she will crack under the pressure tbh.

crack, like her teeth from the pressure of the impact from the floor which you slammed her face against? :detective:

[motocrossjord]

You will definitely not do 2 years but get a lawyer to be on the safe side ;)

I shouldn't have to do anything! I couldn't hack 3 months in prison I don't think :(

[Tontsy]

you will get buggered by bigger boys . . .

[motocrossjord]

crack, like her teeth from the pressure of the impact from the floor which you slammed her face against? :detective:

No lol a mixture or drink and gravitiy did the damage to her face!

[motocrossjord]

you will get buggered by bigger boys . . .

I know, espically when they find out what I got charged with, might aswell hand over my asshole straight away!

[Tontsy]

I know, espically when they find out what I got charged with, might aswell hand over my asshole straight away!

i can help you out there :A:
i can wear a black mask too if you want...

tbh mate, i wouldnt worry. she has nothing that will stand up. i would imagine it will get thrown out as hear say. if dolly said that about me and i got knicked id demand them to take samples off my fingers, hands, under my nails ect ect.

[motocrossjord]

i can help you out there :A:
i can wear a black mask too if you want...

tbh mate, i wouldnt worry. she has nothing that will stand up. i would imagine it will get thrown out as hear say. if dolly said that about me and i got knicked id demand them to take samples off my fingers, hands, under my nails ect ect.

Thanks mate, and I know! Was so annoyed they wouldn't take pictures of my cloths and hands, if I had a tiny bit of blood on my hands they would have been quick enough to take a picture then!

[Tontsy]

you know only something like 10% of these type of cases actually go all the way as they have nothing to back it up other than hear say.

woman said man done this . . . they have evidence, which is her word.
oh yeah btw judge judy, paul said he will give me 500 dollah and his thai wife... yada yada.

she sounds like a spitful cunt tbh, and i would imagine it to be over looked. dont break the bail conditions, turn up, say your bit, and leave.
dont argue about it, judges can be right animals, they speak to you like shit at times too and you want to stuff their fucking wig down their neck. but just stand there, yes sir no sir, three bags full sir.

too many people worry about getting in trouble these days. i like to see it as the truth always comes out in the end, its worth the hassle for the moment to be able to look back and laugh at her petty self in the future.

[darrenh84]

messy situation for all involved.

[couttsyboy]

Sounds like a nightmare mate.

Good luck.

made me lol

good luck too

[Rogue_Shadow]

Having read everything
I just can't understand why you or anyone would stay with a girl given her past.
Ok maybe 1 Minor metal fuck up ... Momentary weaknes, I can be understanding.
But a long history of rape accusations, arguments, police involment ...
WHY ! ? !
End of they day, even if she drops the charges, you've got a tainted and permanent criminal record. The damage is done, your record, reputation, your future ... screwed over for girl who has given every indication of being mentally unstable.
To top it all you said " you still love her " ! What planet are you on?
If ANYONE put me through half of what she's done to you, ruined my career prospects and my personal relationships, I would care for them as much as I care for what flush down the Toliet !
If you go anywhere near her from this date you deserve what you get.
But as it stands right now, I wish you the best of luck battling through this shit storm.
Be honest and respectful and ANYTHING from her past you can supply for your hearing will help enormously.
Live and Learn
Good Luck

Edit: sorry for wacky text formatting

[motocrossjord]

i can help you out there :A:
i can wear a black mask too if you want...

tbh mate, i wouldnt worry. she has nothing that will stand up. i would imagine it will get thrown out as hear say. if dolly said that about me and i got knicked id demand them to take samples off my fingers, hands, under my nails ect ect.

you know only something like 10% of these type of cases actually go all the way as they have nothing to back it up other than hear say.

woman said man done this . . . they have evidence, which is her word.
oh yeah btw judge judy, paul said he will give me 500 dollah and his thai wife... yada yada.

she sounds like a spitful cunt tbh, and i would imagine it to be over looked. dont break the bail conditions, turn up, say your bit, and leave.
dont argue about it, judges can be right animals, they speak to you like shit at times too and you want to stuff their fucking wig down their neck. but just stand there, yes sir no sir, three bags full sir.

too many people worry about getting in trouble these days. i like to see it as the truth always comes out in the end, its worth the hassle for the moment to be able to look back and laugh at her petty self in the future.


That's so true mate, just really worrying I'm going to get sent down for something I havnt done. But I shall do what you say bud!

[motocrossjord]

Having read everything
I just can't understand why you or anyone would stay with a girl given her past.
Ok maybe 1 Minor metal fuck up ... Momentary weaknes, I can be understanding.
But a long history of rape accusations, arguments, police involment ...
WHY ! ? !
End of they day, even if she drops the charges, you've got a tainted and permanent criminal record. The damage is done, your record, reputation, your future ... screwed over for girl who has given every indication of being mentally unstable.
To top it all you said " you still love her " ! What planet are you on?
If ANYONE put me through half of what she's done to you, ruined my career prospects and my personal relationships, I would care for them as much as I care for what flush down the Toliet !
If you go anywhere near her from this date you deserve what you get.
But as it stands right now, I wish you the best of luck battling through this shit storm.
Be honest and respectful and ANYTHING from her past you can supply for your hearing will help enormously.
Live and Learn
Good Luck

Edit: sorry for wacky text formatting

I guess i just didn't want to judge someone on their past, it was in the past and I thought she had changed. I guess only a very few people change. Yeah I do still feel strongly for her but after what she has put me through, I still don't think Its actually sunk In what she's done.

[Saxotim]

shouldve just stuck it up her arse one last time and fucked off.

[VTR_Bass87]

Sounds like you picked a bad egg their pal! I know I did last year! I doubt you'll get sent down cause theirs no evidence in her favor really to actually prove you touched her (I believe you didn't).. She sounds like another "cry wolf" bitch.

My ex came home para in october last year literally 2 weeks after moving in together all upset asking why I was with her, yada yada etc, then got completely violent with a click of a finger trying to batter the crap out of me and I had to restrain her til she calmed down! then the next day she told me she had bipolar (genetic emotion disorder) and expected me to forget the incident which I couldn't!

Eventually I just left because she would not stop arguing and making snide comments and I couldn't cope with it, the day of moving out she actually brought her brothers round and claimed I tried to rape her so their was some tension there while i was trying to get my stuff out! then a few days later I was arrested for ABH and I was thinking hang on you try to kick the crap out of me.. claim to your brothers I raped you and now told the fuzz I hit you?? she was a simpleton haha.

Anyway after a long time in the cell and a couple interviews later I was let off because their was no evidence as it was just me and her in the flat and thankfully it didn't get taken any further, was all in my favor because I have a clean record and she has a filthy one with violence (along with her family) because of her bipolar.

You may just get away with it like I did, best of luck though pal :y:

[motocrossjord]

shouldve just stuck it up her arse one last time and fucked off.

Hahaha, she aint worth it! after i picked her up late on boxing day, about half way through the journey i pulled her sleve back on her cardigan to see if she still had her tattoo, ( we got each others intials, another big mistake ) anyway she had hers coverd over with a rose, i stopped n told her to get out, drove off n 5 mins later it was " i need to speak to you, i think im pregnant " in the end she obv wasnt... im waiting for her to say something simular again!

[motocrossjord]

Sounds like you picked a bad egg their pal! I know I did last year! I doubt you'll get sent down cause theirs no evidence in her favor really to actually prove you touched her (I believe you didn't).. She sounds like another "cry wolf" bitch.

My ex came home para in october last year literally 2 weeks after moving in together all upset asking why I was with her, yada yada etc, then got completely violent with a click of a finger trying to batter the crap out of me and I had to restrain her til she calmed down! then the next day she told me she had bipolar (genetic emotion disorder) and expected me to forget the incident which I couldn't!

Eventually I just left because she would not stop arguing and making snide comments and I couldn't cope with it, the day of moving out she actually brought her brothers round and claimed I tried to rape her so their was some tension there while i was trying to get my stuff out! then a few days later I was arrested for ABH and I was thinking hang on you try to kick the crap out of me.. claim to your brothers I raped you and now told the fuzz I hit you?? she was a simpleton haha.

Anyway after a long time in the cell and a couple interviews later I was let off because their was no evidence as it was just me and her in the flat and thankfully it didn't get taken any further, was all in my favor because I have a clean record and she has a filthy one with violence (along with her family) because of her bipolar.

You may just get away with it like I did, best of luck though pal :y:

Thanks mate, in a way im glad to hear im not the only one out there with a mental Ex.

Yeah im hoping as i have no previous they will see that, and im actually trying to get somewhere in life with a job, unlike her. Only thing is her damage to her face, i cant get the pic as its been removed from fb, it did look like she had been on the wrong end of a baseball bat though. Thats whats worrying me, in court they will just say im guilty by saying something like " its clearly visible from the pictures the police took, that the damage done was not by her falling over " or something. Guess ill just have to wait till 21st feb and see what happens then!

Annoying its so long away from the incident though, im obvouisly going to describe what happend different from my first interview and they will prob use that against me.

[VTR_Bass87]

Thanks mate, in a way im glad to hear im not the only one out there with a mental Ex.

Yeah im hoping as i have no previous they will see that, and im actually trying to get somewhere in life with a job, unlike her. Only thing is her damage to her face, i cant get the pic as its been removed from fb, it did look like she had been on the wrong end of a baseball bat though. Thats whats worrying me, in court they will just say im guilty by saying something like " its clearly visible from the pictures the police took, that the damage done was not by her falling over " or something. Guess ill just have to wait till 21st feb and see what happens then!

Annoying its so long away from the incident though, im obvouisly going to describe what happend different from my first interview and they will prob use that against me.

Mate mental ain't the word for my ex she was born with 666 written on her forehead lols leaving her was the best thing I did in my life! although the sex was quality that's all I miss haha. Just don't ever get with a girl with a genetic disorder like bipolar.. fooking nightmare to deal with :boxing:

Was gonna say you took pictures of your hands and that anyway didn't you but did you hold a newspaper with that days date on? If you did 'hit' her supposedly you'd have a mark on your knuckle and you'd of more than like knocked her out if she was that drunk.
Police can't judge the difference between paddington bear and yogi bear let alone a smack or a fall over, get the court to have a second opinion from a doctor.

[Granty312]

If I'd have ran, how guilty would that have made me look mate

no, you said she had called the police on you before? So after that incident you should of just ended it with her then:)

[motocrossjord]

no, you said she had called the police on you before? So after that incident you should of just ended it with her then:)

True, or the first time she cheated!

[Giraffe]

Hahaha, she aint worth it! after i picked her up late on boxing day, about half way through the journey i pulled her sleve back on her cardigan to see if she still had her tattoo, ( we got each others intials, another big mistake ) anyway she had hers coverd over with a rose, i stopped n told her to get out, drove off n 5 mins later it was " i need to speak to you, i think im pregnant " in the end she obv wasnt... im waiting for her to say something simular again!

Hahaha, you told her to get out because she had a tattoo of your initials covered up? Up until this point I thought you sounded normal, but you're a fucking crackpot as well!

[Granty312]

Cheating as well? Dam mate i would of left straight up! Learn from your mistakes though dude! If you make it ofc:P

[motocrossjord]

Hahaha, you told her to get out because she had a tattoo of your initials covered up? Up until this point I thought you sounded normal, but you're a fucking crackpot as well!

It upset me lol so i told her to get out :/ 5 mins later i came back n got her!

[motocrossjord]

Cheating as well? Dam mate i would of left straight up! Learn from your mistakes though dude! If you make it ofc:P

I knoww! and she still has the cheek to do this.
I allways said if my gf ever cheated on me id get rid straight away! Obv im getting to soft.

[Manu]

Tl;dr


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[123saxovtr]

I've heard about this, been going round northampton! I wouldnt worry! From what ive heard, it wont even get to court. My gf has " the girl in question " on fb, and the girl in question has been blagging it on fb that shes getting you sent down for it, and even her mother has on fb too.. Even though the picture of her is bad, it dont look to me like a punch tbh, and if the police had thought you done it, i would have thought that taking pictures of your hands and bagging your clothing would have been the first thing they would do.

Why havnt you said anything about her lad mates putting a pole to your head?? in grendon lakes??

[Granty312]

Yeah everyone makes mistakes though mate! Learn from it now:)

[hellonpluto]

i'd break up with her she's not worth the hassle

[motocrossjord]

Yeah everyone makes mistakes though mate! Learn from it now:)

Sure do mate, i seem to be making alot of them with picking girls though, haha i shall do thanks mate.

[motocrossjord]

I've heard about this, been going round northampton! I wouldnt worry! From what ive heard, it wont even get to court. My gf has " the girl in question " on fb, and the girl in question has been blagging it on fb that shes getting you sent down for it, and even her mother has on fb too.. Even though the picture of her is bad, it dont look to me like a punch tbh, and if the police had thought you done it, i would have thought that taking pictures of your hands and bagging your clothing would have been the first thing they would do.

Why havnt you said anything about her lad mates putting a pole to your head?? in grendon lakes??

How did you know about what happend at grendon lakes? And idk exactly what you have heard about the whole pole thing but me and a mate was messing around on a mates baby motocross track, and a van turned up with 4 lads all balaclaverd up, two had some poles lol They kept on saying how they were guna kick my head in.. i doubt it when i was in full MX gear, eventually they left.. while riding home we road past there van stuck in the dirt on the way out lmao.

Whats your name bud? PM me. And yeah i thought police would have took my cloths... still goes in my favour that they didnt! My ex sent me a text today saying " Im sorry for everything " i wanted to repliy badly... but havnt and wont.

[Barry123]

How's the solicitor hunting going?

[motocrossjord]

i'd break up with her she's not worth the hassle

I have mate.. shes far to crazy for me!

[TomT]

I have mate.. shes far to crazy for me!

Is that why you hit her?

[Tommo87]

My ex sent me a text today saying " Im sorry for everything " i wanted to repliy badly... but havnt and wont.

Be sure NOT to delete that text and inform the police she has contacted you, that will go against her.

[Giraffe]

How did you know about what happend at grendon lakes? And idk exactly what you have heard about the whole pole thing but me and a mate was messing around on a mates baby motocross track, and a van turned up with 4 lads all balaclaverd up, two had some poles lol They kept on saying how they were guna kick my head in.. i doubt it when i was in full MX gear, eventually they left.. while riding home we road past there van stuck in the dirt on the way out lmao.

Whats your name bud? PM me. And yeah i thought police would have took my cloths... still goes in my favour that they didnt! My ex sent me a text today saying " Im sorry for everything " i wanted to repliy badly... but havnt and wont.

The ex who this is all related to? Surely if you can't contact her etc, she shouldn't be able to contact you? I'd be showing the police anything she sent me, you should do the same!

[Barry123]

My ex sent me a text today saying " Im sorry for everything " i wanted to repliy badly... but havnt and wont.

Good man, sounds like she could be sorry one minute, then you reply to that and the moment you're in court she'll bringing your reply up as evidence of contravening your bail conditions. Obviously two sides to a story and all that but, if you're innocent, good luck.

And 'sorry for everything' sounds to me like 'sorry for accusing you of punching my lights out when in fact I fell over'.

[Ryan]

I'd godown the police station and show them the text/solicitor.

Obviously no reply from you as advised.

[Granty312]

Adviseable lol! However if they find out she is just a looney then hopefully she could get sent down & she will get her ass kicked in prison!

[lee_saxo]

Even if you deleted the text the police can still get copies from the phone companys of all texts sent and recieved. Do not reply back and get down the cop shop

[DarylCooper]

I havnt ready any of the posts as it's to long just read your post,

Yes you need a solicitor and then you will need a barrister If it goes to crown court wich is most likely will!

Depends on how strict your court is,
I had kind of same charge. I got done for ABH and possession of an offensive weapon
It was the guys word against mine..no witnesses and he had 10 pints and was twice the size of me, they did forensics on the bat and found nothing at all, so it was up to the jury to decide who they believed as I went not guilty, my luck = they find me guilty. (my barrister even told me to go not guilty as they had virtually no evidence apart from a description of the ''attacker''

If u do get sent down, don't worry it's not as bad as everyone says when your in a young offenders institution, and no guys there's no bumming! As in the young ones they're atleast 18-21 so have only been they for w maximum of few years not 20yrs

One advice i would give u if u get sent down. Put in a app forum to go to an open jail! Home visits etc!!
I pleaded not guilty and got sentences to 12 Months for each offence but they ran con current ( same time ) ( was also 1st violet offence )

[Rogue_Shadow]

Save that text and DO NOT REPLY, don't try to get smart and get a confession.
Once this is all over delete her number.

[DarylCooper]

Wich I did half my sentence - 6 months, so I wasn't able to get tag after 3 months cause there was a weapon.

So say you get one year, you will have to do 6 months.. But when u have done half of the half (3months) you can get tag for the remaining 3 months then you have to go to probation for the remaining 6 months, once a week then changes to once a fortnight etc,

But whilst your in there do something useful .. Do as Manu courses as u can..

As I did loads

Motor mechanics IMI level 1
Plumbing city and guilds level 1
Industrial cleaning level 1 and 2
Errecting scaffolding
Car valleting.

But if you don't go to an open prison then it's hard to get on courses and you'll just be doing a stupid job like laundry or something!

But hopefully you won't get sent down but open prison if u can mate, town visits.'weekend at home etc make time fly..

And she won't drop thencharges as she'd get in trouble her self and seems like a selfish whore, u shoulda hit her! You'd be in the same situation your in now..



Btw about the going guilty thing..

I wish i did.

I know your innocent but..

If I'd of gone guilty I would of got a suspended sentence or community service / a fine.


Better price to pay then prison my friend!

[DarylCooper]

Oh and if I was you..

I'd get smart. Speak to a friend face to face so there's no evidence you spoke about it,

Get him to get a confession out of her, over fb or something so it's written down. Make a fake fb Acc acting as one of her friends. W.e it takes. Just don't kill her, murder is longer!!
Then again. Man slaughter is only 2-4 years!! Jokes. Don't do something stupid. Just be smart.

Don't worry about prison.. It's not as bad as anyone says, it's more like a holiday camp!

[VTR-Chris]

where did u go daryl thorn cross?

[DarylCooper]

Altcoursr for a week, Stoke Heath for 3 months then the rest at thorn cross in warrington mate why

[Moz_Quiksilver]

Get as much legal advice as possible. Hope you get this sorted mate, you can say goodbye to Sia licence if u get criminal offence on record or you get charged for it


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[DarylCooper]

Get as much legal advice as possible. Hope you get this sorted mate, you can say goodbye to Sia licence if u get criminal offence on record or you get charged for it


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Forget your SIA license, worry more about getting a decent job again!

Just hope you know someone who can offer you a decent job or just lie and hope they don't crb check u.

[lee_saxo]

Forget your SIA license, worry more about getting a decent job again!

Just hope you know someone who can offer you a decent job or just lie and hope they don't crb check u.

McD's and KFC don't do crb checks

[VTR-Chris]

only have to declare it for 5 yrs anyway

[DarylCooper]

10 years if u do over 3 months in jail i think

[DarylCooper]

McD's and KFC don't do crb checks

That's ok, be a manager there within a week and get a nice cap!!

[lee_saxo]

and a free meal each day

[DarylCooper]

Wel he will have 3 free meals a day in the click lol

[DanViner]

I really think you have nothing to worry about
And prison is a joke for 18-21 year olds my badass brother has been sent down a few times for petty things and got lots of qualifications inside and bulked up a bit in the gym
Now he has a good job from his qualifications and makes more money than me :-(

[Rogue_Shadow]

my badass brother has been sent down a few times for petty things and got lots of qualifications inside and bulked up a bit in the gym
Now he has a good job from his qualifications and makes more money than me :-(

Without sounding like a twat or sarcastic.
But i'm glad to hear the system works for some.
But is he the same? Or is he still Jeremy Kyle material :n:

[DanViner]

Without sounding like a twat or sarcastic.
But i'm glad to hear the system works for some.
But is he the same? Or is he still Jeremy Kyle material :n:

It hasn't sorted him out properly but he doesn't go out looking for fights and be a prick to everyone anymore

He focuses alot on work and has been prison free for a year now (which is good as he has been in and out since 15 years old)
he is 21 now
They were fine with his crb and treat him like any other person in there he has just been promoted as well

He doesn't want to go back inside and stays away from trouble But as he says trouble finds him
He does think he is a badman

[DanViner]

Also op still waiting on the photos of you're ex's face with the print from you're Nikey's on

[motocrossjord]

How's the solicitor hunting going?

Contacted a solictor company called megans in northampton, they are sending me some forms to fill out to see if im intilted to legal aid! :)

[ian_saxo]

Contacted a solictor company called megans in northampton, they are sending me some forms to fill out to see if im intilted to legal aid! :)

there are a good solictor just make sure you get caroline or angela there the best 2 out there firm

[motocrossjord]

Also op still waiting on the photos of you're ex's face with the print from you're Nikey's on

I was wearing nikes aswell.. lol
Cant get the pic off fb as she has deleted it!

In repliy to everyone about the text dont worry ive saved it, and saved it to my comp. Will be taking that to court and wont repliy back to her, also i forgot to mention... after i had my interview and was being read my bail conditions the copper said she is also not allowed to contact me, neither are her family, and they must not come near my property...

The copper also said i had to get all of emilys stuff from mine and get a friend to drop it off.. anyway the next day, emilys mum rang my house phone saying she was coming to get emilys things later that night, with two coppers aswell.. i had a friend round the house at the time so i didnt have to see her mums ugly mug, but she shouldnt have contact me or came near my house, so will use that in court too.

To dave_E30, yes mate the ex this is all related too!

[motocrossjord]

Forget your SIA license, worry more about getting a decent job again!

Just hope you know someone who can offer you a decent job or just lie and hope they don't crb check u.

Oh right, i didnt know 18-21 year olds go to a different prison from 21+? thats not to bad, and the open prison thing doesnt sound to bad if what you say is true.. lol would do me a favour getting a few more qualifcations!

And i have my sia training today! sat and sun :D cant wait.

So as soon as i get my certifcate im going to appliy for my license straight away... it takes up to 5 weeks to come through, but after i have to go back to custoday my court date might well be a good couple of weeks after the 21st feb.. so i can hopefully get my sia license before it even goes to court fingers crossed!

[Moz_Quiksilver]

Oh right, i didnt know 18-21 year olds go to a different prison from 21+? thats not to bad, and the open prison thing doesnt sound to bad if what you say is true.. lol would do me a favour getting a few more qualifcations!

And i have my sia training today! sat and sun :D cant wait.

So as soon as i get my certifcate im going to appliy for my license straight away... it takes up to 5 weeks to come through, but after i have to go back to custoday my court date might well be a good couple of weeks after the 21st feb.. so i can hopefully get my sia license before it even goes to court fingers crossed!

Hopefully it will be 5 weeks for your license , mine was about that but a few mates took 3 months before anything came through post. They like to take their time the Sia lol


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[DarylCooper]

Yes mate 18-21 and (6months or something)

But if u go altcourse in Liverpool it's a private jail and in there there's 18+
If you've heard of purple hacky that's where the stories come from,
But also there's less fucking around in there as the older ones won't stand for it, as in thorncross you get in fights over the pool table (who's turns next etc) really pathetic stuff but in there it gets magnified by a thousand!!

Then you get all the scumbag scroungers constancy asking for some backy, chocolate bar. Noodles, phone credit etc, just say no to them all or they'd constantly ask. Fucking tramps can't afford there own shit!

[Giraffe]

I was wearing nikes aswell.. lol
Cant get the pic off fb as she has deleted it!

In repliy to everyone about the text dont worry ive saved it, and saved it to my comp. Will be taking that to court and wont repliy back to her, also i forgot to mention... after i had my interview and was being read my bail conditions the copper said she is also not allowed to contact me, neither are her family, and they must not come near my property...

The copper also said i had to get all of emilys stuff from mine and get a friend to drop it off.. anyway the next day, emilys mum rang my house phone saying she was coming to get emilys things later that night, with two coppers aswell.. i had a friend round the house at the time so i didnt have to see her mums ugly mug, but she shouldnt have contact me or came near my house, so will use that in court too.

To dave_E30, yes mate the ex this is all related too!

Forget using it all in court, get down the cop shop and say that she has broke conditions... Seriously, if you've done nowt wrong, get going! Could be the catalyst that ends this shit if she ends up in shit for breaking the conditions as well

[DarylCooper]

No just keep the texts and speak to your solicitor! The police can't advise you what to do and they might just tell her not to contact you, afterall she could say she sent it the wrong person or it wasn't her who text it.

Your solicitor will proboly tell you to hang fire and wait and see if you receive
More..


Personally id go buy a £10 phone that comes with credit and text her saying 'your sorry means nothing or you'd stop what your doing'

She will know it's you but can't proove
It but she can't go to the police as she's text you..

[headless]

Did you have your court date yet mate? If so how'd she go.

[Rogue_Shadow]

Good bump :y:
Either this or hot bird thread :D

[motocrossjord]

Update....


I was meant to hand my self into custody on the 21st of Feb.

Around the 10th of Feb i had a job interview, and got the job! Doing CCTV for Travis Perkins head office, and my job induction was on the 21st Feb.

So i went into wellingbrough police station spoke to the lady on the desk about it, after alot of fucking around and making 3 trips back there for no reason at all, i finally got to speak to the officer dealing with the case. He said that they had not heard back from the crown prosecution service yet, he told me to go to my new job and he will ring me after 4PM on the 21st.

He never rang.. and still hasn't contact me as of yet. So haven't really got a clue whats going on atm.. I should really go to the police station and ask but fed up of wasting my time and petrol, so shall just wait to here from them. Cant believe its been over 3 months and it isn't sorted!

[Heftydanielson]

Seems you're nearly free.

[motocrossjord]

Seems you're nearly free.

Hmm, just want to know if its going to court or not.

[Heftydanielson]

Hmm, just want to know if its going to court or not.

Just kick off saying you're being fked about.

In the mean time, go get some drinks. :drink:

[Saxologist]

They might still be getting evidence, and comparing statements

[motocrossjord]

Just kick off saying you're being fked about.

In the mean time, go get some drinks. :drink:

Kicking off wont really help me case lol and a drink sounds like a plan! =]

[motocrossjord]

They might still be getting evidence, and comparing statements

Yeah that's what they are trying to do, get evidence against me, but there is none that will go against me as i done jack all.. I believe there waiting on the report from the hospital to see what they say.

[Saxologist]

Yeah that's what they are trying to do, get evidence against me, but there is none that will go against me as i done jack all.. I believe there waiting on the report from the hospital to see what they say.

Yeah that sounds likely, you could argue why she didnt file for a restraining order if it was so bad as well

[Cam]

Just kick off saying you're being fked about.

In the mean time, go get some drinks. :drink:

Kick off when his might be getting done for going mental, what legand advice.

[motocrossjord]

Yeah that sounds likely, you could argue why she didnt file for a restraining order if it was so bad as well

Im on bail, bail conditions are not to go near her or her family or contact her.

[logic_guy]

Im on bail, bail conditions are not to go near her or her family or contact her.

How much is your bail?

You're never to see her/ her family again?

[motocrossjord]

How much is your bail?

You're never to see her/ her family again?

Not while im on bail no... if the case is dropped then so will the bail conditions, but after its all done with think ill get a restraining order on her if i can anyway.

[CEdwards]

Fuckin' sleeeeeg

Happened to a mate not long ago, police laughed at her cause they know she was full of shit

[Jaygovtr]

hate it when people chat shit to stir stuff up :/

[Lacey_106]

sounds like a nice girl :geek:

The sex must have been amazing for you to keep going back? I certainly hope so.

I hope that she gets what she deserves. Anyone who cries rape or DV has some serious karma coming for them.

[iluminusbutterfly]

Lacey raped me :(

[motocrossjord]

sounds like a nice girl :geek:

The sex must have been amazing for you to keep going back? I certainly hope so.

I hope that she gets what she deserves. Anyone who cries rape or DV has some serious karma coming for them.

Lol! lad, Hmm i don't think it was the sex.. just me being a mug! tbh.

Forgot to add, found out a couple of weeks ago she had been using my Apple account on her ipod too... ran up a nice bill of £284! nearly went round there to demand it back, then remembered by bail conditions :/

Really can't see it going to court now tbh... cctv evidence will clearly show her falling over, knowing my luck though the cctv recording will have been deleted or lost though lol.



Lacey raped me :(

He seems like a nice bloke, im sure he wouldn't do that ;)

[iluminusbutterfly]

She did! I was casually sitting in her house, in the dark, sniffing her dirty underware, errect, naked while she was at work, when all of a sudden she stormed in, drank a few Stella's, burped, slapped me around and then raped me :(

[motocrossjord]

She did! I was casually sitting in her house, in the dark, sniffing her dirty underware, errect, naked while she was at work, when all of a sudden she stormed in, drank a few Stella's, burped, slapped me around and then raped me :(

Its that fucking stella mate. Vile violent shite! Next time she storms in make sure your ready and prepared :)

[iluminusbutterfly]

I'd cooked her a nice meal and cleaned and tidied, even made her a sandwich :(

[Giraffe]

Lol! lad, Hmm i don't think it was the sex.. just me being a mug! tbh.

Forgot to add, found out a couple of weeks ago she had been using my Apple account on her ipod too... ran up a nice bill of £284! nearly went round there to demand it back, then remembered by bail conditions :/

Really can't see it going to court now tbh... cctv evidence will clearly show her falling over, knowing my luck though the cctv recording will have been deleted or lost though lol.





He seems like a nice bloke, im sure he wouldn't do that ;)

You're definitely a mug. If she's been using your account, that's not legal. You also said she wasn't allowed to contact you and she did, bet you've done nowt about that either. You either did slap her around, or you've got no balls. Get yourself down to the police station and start talking instead of waiting. Or go get yourself a backbone...

[Lacey_106]

Hahahahahaha you'd know if I'd raped you, what with my massive cock... ;)

[iluminusbutterfly]

i do know :'(

[citroen_saxo_vtr]

Not much will come of it i doubt, best of luck though.

[headless]

Really can't see it going to court now tbh... cctv evidence will clearly show her falling over, knowing my luck though the cctv recording will have been deleted or lost though lol.


Correct me if i'm wrong but I don't think you've mentioned the cctv before..surely if theirs cctv of her fall you definitely have nothing to worry about and this thread was rather pointless?

[Sexy_106]

Really can't see it going to court now tbh... cctv evidence will clearly show her falling over, knowing my luck though the cctv recording will have been deleted or lost though lol.

I thought you said there wasn't any cctv and she fell down an alley?

[iluminusbutterfly]

i thought he said he hit her because he wasn't going to get any and she wasn't providing a sandwich

[Sexy_106]

i thought he said he hit her because he wasn't going to get any and she wasn't providing a sandwich

:fcuk: Ah you read between the lines too!

[iluminusbutterfly]

nah i was the guy who raped her for the same reason


seriously this shit still going on? he blatently hit her or else he would of reported all the shit shes been doing, wheres peterd when we need him?

[e8_pqck]

You're definitely a mug. If she's been using your account, that's not legal. You also said she wasn't allowed to contact you and she did, bet you've done nowt about that either. You either did slap her around, or you've got no balls. Get yourself down to the police station and start talking instead of waiting. Or go get yourself a backbone...

This is good advice. However, decide what you should say first, maybe go and have a few drinks to think about it first. Then go down, be sure to make yourself heard so they get the point.

If they dont listen, might i suggest using hand signals, idle threats and loud noises.

Hope it works out.:drink:

[motocrossjord]

You're definitely a mug. If she's been using your account, that's not legal. You also said she wasn't allowed to contact you and she did, bet you've done nowt about that either. You either did slap her around, or you've got no balls. Get yourself down to the police station and start talking instead of waiting. Or go get yourself a backbone...

I definitely WAS a mug, i know its not legal. She isn't allowed to contact me, ive kept every text and phone call, also got them all written down in a diary too, to use IF it goes to court. If i slapped her around i don't think id make a thread about it.. I went down cop shop today but person dealing with my case wasn't on duty, lady on the desk sent him a email asking him to contact me.



I thought you said there wasn't any cctv and she fell down an alley?

I didnt think there was any cctv at all, but ive been told Where she fell over there is a camera which can see the begging of the alley which i wasn't aware of, there is nothing covering the middle/end of the alley though but the police will see her falling over, then as to her lying saying i pushed her they should hopefully realize shes bullshiting about me hitting her too.


This is good advice. However, decide what you should say first, maybe go and have a few drinks to think about it first. Then go down, be sure to make yourself heard so they get the point.

If they dont listen, might i suggest using hand signals, idle threats and loud noises.

Hope it works out.:drink:


Thank you! Seems like ages ago now though, Drink is all good, but when i drink makes me miss her all the more, i wish there was a delete button sometimesss.

[xxo0pko0xx]

she sounds like my.ex

just kill her and.bury her under the patio. ;)

no seriously though keep all texts, evidence and anything that may prove your inncocence. get your storys straight. barristers tear you apart at hearings and play dirty ti get what they want. do the same. abything you could use as evidence on your half do it. evwn if its not related. the less they have to.use the less they can make you look one sided infront of a jury.