Advise.. My physco ex gf trying to get me sent down for abh. Update page 11

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Massive story but ill cut it down as much as i can... My ex gf is trying to get me done for abh and criminal damage.

We had been together for 7 months, early december 2011 i split up with her for numerous reasons.. we both knew it was for the best. Anyway she had been messaging me through fb and texting me saying she really needs to see me etc, i just said it was for the best we didnt.

Was out with a few mates boxing day night and she kept texting me asking me if id give her a lift, i kept on saying no i cant sorry then she started to offer me money :/ and i couldnt resist taking £20 off her as i was skint, and the distance i had to take her was less than 5 miles. Regretably i picked her up and took her home, we had a lil chat in the car about things and agreed to stay in contact, over the next couple of days she keeps telling me how much she needs me in her life etc, like a mug i get back with her.

We went out with about 15 of our mates to a workin mens club in my village, i didnt feel great so wasnt drinking that much! anyway my ex got paraletic, 01:00 am comes along and everyone leaves the club, we all had planned to go to a friends house after and continue drinking! But my ex had allready had more than enough, so we went back to my car to get a few things and started to walk back to my house, its around a mile walk.

I sent around 30 odd people a text saying " happy new year " one person it included was my ex's mother, for some reason she has hated me ever since she left her husband, she got the impretion i was taking her daughter away from her when i wasnt, anyway she replied " f**k off " to my text, i replied " thank you " lol then she rang my house phone giving my mum shit down the phone.. my mum rang me and told me, my ex rang her mother and they started to row, this then lead to me and my ex arguing on the way walking back to mine..

Some bloke in his 30's drunk comes over to us, asks my gf if she is ok as she was crying my ex says yes she is fine, he asks again, she says for a 2nd time she is fine. No idea why but totally out of the blue, this bloke goes for me, grabs me and pushes me to the floor. Im so confused on why the hell he is on top of me... lol he starts saying he is " going to eat me " anyway i manage to get him off me n restrain him for around 1 minute until he calms down, while my gf and the blokes gf are standing there crying there eyes out.. i tell the bloke to sit on the floor n wait till me and my gf have left then look after his own gf.. me and my gf walk away fine.

We continue to argue then my " so called " mate rob comes along n asks whats up i walk on, my ex stops and speaks to him, i walk for around 1 min and look back and there hugging, i shout wtf? and walk on, my ex runs after me and we contine to argue even more, we took a short cut home through a alley and she fell over and badly hit her face off the floor, cut her bottem lip and pushed two of her top teeth out of place, her mouth is bleeding pretty bad, i pick her up n try and call a ambulance for her but she keeps snatching my phone.. i took a couple of pics of her face to show her how bad it was and that she really has gotta go hospital.

She insists she car'nt feel anything and that she is ok, so slowly we walk out the alley into the street and shes on the phone to her mum again, then she goes to put her phone in her bag and drops it.. i go to help her pick it up and she goes mad saying i smashed her phone up and pushed her over...

She continues to go on a mad one, starts knocking on peoples doors, this is at 4.00 am new years day. I tell her the time and that no one is going to answer, anyway on about the 15th door someone finally comes out and asks why on earth she has just woke her up..? My ex says sorry i wanted to use your phone but its ok now we walk off, and she continues to kick up a massive fuse and shouting, so i bluff her n pretend to ring the police on her then she calms down...

got about 2 mins from my house and a bloke walks past us, my ex asks to use his phone and rings the police saying " my boyfriend has just attacked me and smashed my phone up " I stay with her while shes on the phone to the police and i say " Your really going to get me arrested on new years day for something i havnt done ? " then she gives the phone back to the person and he walks off.

She then tells me she didnt really ring the police, so i belive her, during the time we had been arguing i had been trying to sort her a lift home, finally i find someone to take her home and she says she wants to wait on her own.. fine by me i walk off.. then get a few streets away then worry cause she was so drunk, so i go back, there's a police car on the road she was on.. i walk up to the police car they ask my name, i tell them, and that im looking for my gf and give her name, they say they are looking for her too. Then this bloke who let my gf use his phone comes over and tells the police she is round the corner, pollice officer asks me to get in the back of the police car, so i do.

We then go to emily one police officer gets out and speaks to her, and calls her a ambulance. Ambulance comes, takes her to hosp. One police officer gets in the back with me, another comes round to my door and they say they are arresting me for ABH and criminal damage.. I tell them i done nothing wrong etc, and they go to grab my wrists n i pull away.. Then get pepper sprayed ( with a huge amount imo ) First time getting pepper sprayed to just for the record. Van comes karts me to police station...

I spend 14 hours of my new years day in a cell, get interviewed and both police officers make me out to be a right nasty thug! They belive my ex 100%
I am now released on bail, bail conditions are not to contact my ex or any of her family directly, indirectly or via a 3rd party, and to stay clear of all there houses/flats. ( Fine by me )

Ive got to hand myself into custody on the 21st feb. Sorry for the huge essay! Just wondering if anyone else has had anything simular done to them?
I am 100% innocent! Ive got no history or anything for fighting or hurting anyone, only things i have are some driving convictions.

Really getting to me, as i cant belive she has done this and hasnt dropped the charges! Just read a few posts on the internet of people getting sent down for 2 years for ABH! The thought of prison really does scare the shit out of me Im only 18, 19 in april. Im currently doing my secruity training, this year was planned out to be so sweet and shes messed it up for me allready. I didnt have a solicitor at my interview, do you think i should have one at court? Most mates say yes but some say no as it makes me look guilty? Also some people are just telling me to plead guilty even though im innocent as the chances of me being found not guilty are very unlikly, so i will get less of a punishment.

She's saying i pushed her over which done the damage to her face, then punched her in the face and kicked her and spat on her, and smashed her phone up. I went back to the police station the next morning and asked them to take pictures of my clothing and hands as my hands had no blood or marks on them, neither did my clothing but they wouldnt take pics of any of them because im not the victim!? So ive took pic on my phone and will print them off before court.

Where she is saying it happend there is no CCTV or no witness's. Its my word against her's, like i say i havnt any previous for voilence, im hoping the court will see she is clearly lying but its just my luck for them to say im guilty. My ex has tried to kill herself a few times, last time she would have died if i didnt find her in time. Main reason im worried is because a couple of years ago she " accused " a lad of raping her, he got found guilty sent down for a year for it. Im mates with the lad now, he is also a member on here, my ex once when she was drunk, admited to me that he did not rape her.. and he says he is innocent to this day, so the courts do get it wrong sometimes.

Oh yeah ive got numerous death threats from her lad mates about it via fb and texts so will show them up in court too. She also put a picture up on fb of her face.. if your bf really did beat you up would you post a pic? I wouldnt.. maybe thats just me.

I know there are two sides to every story but this is the true side!
Anyway your opinions please? Anything like this happend to you? If im found guilty what do you think will happen?

EDIT: in october sometime she was round mine and i had to ring police on her cause she had kicked off, she fell over drunk that night and thats on record.
Jordan.