Can See An Argument Coming.... - Saxperience

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:26

Lol as you all know today is valentines day.... not the best day to be arguing with the missus...

i work with her and all day shes been calling me miserable... but i know full well i'm not i'm just a bit tired which i have told her but she keeps calling it me...

Then we left work, both went home, then i spoke to her on the phone before and she said it again but i didnt do/say anything at all that would indicate i might be miserable.

she's coming round mine in about 30 mins....

but because she's been calling me miserable all day even tho i know i'm not, it's done my head in that much that now i actually feel miserable, because it's annoyed me that much because i know i wasnt, i know i'm fine...

but what makes it worse is that her mate asked her to go cinema and she obv said no, then after that phone call she txt me saying, i've made her want to go cinema instead by being miserable.... but i'm not... i'm ok.... (she's not tho she's still coming mine)

but i feel gutted now

i can see us falling out tonight... lol ...

97vtr · 14th February 2008, 20:32

didnt understand that at all tbh m8 lol miserable git

Dez · 14th February 2008, 20:32

you sound miserable - maybe working with your missus is a bad idea as you dont get much free time

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:33

cheers mate me feel better that....

basically i have been ok all day, but because the missus keeps calling me miserable it's made me feel it now...

an shes coming round soon so i can see us fallin out coz she's gonna keep calling it me, which is gona annoy me even more and make me feel worse

Steve · 14th February 2008, 20:34

ignore it and be happy, forget she mentioned it.

Dez · 14th February 2008, 20:36

women - cant live with em and cant live without em

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:36

sorry just to add, i'm annoyed because if it was me calling her miserable she would fall out with me and wouldnt speak to me until i apologised....

yet now it'll be me who apologises tonight even tho i shouldnt have to, coz i dont think i have been miserable, i'm just tired and she knows i am...

Noddy · 14th February 2008, 20:39

I'd apologise and make a joke from it - take her out to make up for it

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:48

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Originally Posted by Noddy

I'd apologise and make a joke from it - take her out to make up for it

i'll end up apologising but why should i ....

i wasnt miserable until she has gone on about it which has now made me miserable....

it's all because she told me something (that i didnt need to know, not important at all) and i said oh right, tbh i couldnt have said anything else. it was either say that or nothing lol... and its all started from that

Dez · 14th February 2008, 20:49

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Originally Posted by Jonny_H

i'll end up apologising but why should i ....

i wasnt miserable until she has gone on about it which has now made me miserable....

it's all because she told me something (that i didnt need to know, not important at all) and i said oh right, tbh i couldnt have said anything else. it was either say that or nothing lol... and its all started from that

your making me miserable now, if it bothers you that much just dont say sorry, and talk about it when she comes round.

Make up sex FTW!

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:50

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Originally Posted by Steve_VTS

ignore it and be happy, forget she mentioned it.

i will forget she said it , but she'll say it again when she gets to my house which should be any min lol... so i cant just forget it coz she'll bring it back up...

i cant win

Jonny_H · 14th February 2008, 20:57

anyway sorry to bore u all with that.... but it has been annoying me all night....

getting more annoyed now tho coz she should have been here ages ago.... think shes taking ages on purpose coz she know's it winds me up lol..

i'll let u all know if we argue anyway lol.... have a good night

Dez · 14th February 2008, 20:58

lol you need to relax abit my friend

Morgan_VTR · 14th February 2008, 21:08

allow her, get the goods to cheer you up!

bigeck · 14th February 2008, 21:14

Youve just picked a bad day to be tired mate lol

My lass is the exact same, if I aint all smiles and laughing she thinks something is wrong and keeps on asking which eventually pisses me of and leads to me snapping at her which in turn makes it look like that somethings been bothering me which it aint hahahahaha

You cant win

xxxvickxxx · 15th February 2008, 10:31

you should of just told her to shut up

richo · 15th February 2008, 10:53

I hated my ex when she went 'why are you miserable' when i CLEARLY was not! Then you say 'im fine' and they respons 'no your not, your being miserable' if i was fucking miserable i'd say so..

Noddy · 15th February 2008, 10:55

how was last night then mate?

Lee_P · 15th February 2008, 11:21

this is exactly why the vast majority of women tend to be only good for a few things

AdamW · 15th February 2008, 11:23

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Originally Posted by richo

I hated my ex when she went 'why are you miserable' when i CLEARLY was not! Then you say 'im fine' and they respons 'no your not, your being miserable' if i was fucking miserable i'd say so..

Hahahahahaha so true.....

"Why you in a mood"
"Haha, what you mean"
"You seem real grumpy"
"Im not"
"See there you go"
"I was answering your question"
"You were being mardy"
"Of course I was"

Push her out of moving car....