My friend - Saxperience

koolchick · 26th February 2009, 15:21

Don't really know how to start this but I have become friends with this girl a few years younger than me, well I say friends but we have never actually met. We got talking on another forum I think I pmed her about a post she started and she replied and we got talking and swapped msn addys and eventually mobile numbers. We have only been talking a few month and spoke on phone a few times. Well we talk most days now and see each other as a good friend and talk about most things. The problem is she seems a bit down at minute over a few things. First is her cousin who she is close to but keeps falling out with, he is I think the only person she feels she can or could talk to so a month or so back they started seeing each other a lot which caused problems with my friend and her mum as her mum doesn't like her cousin cos he drinks a lot. My mate doesn't like him drinking as he gets drunk a lot. Well on Tuesday this week her cousin wanted her to go to his house so she did but he was very drunk so she spent the time texting me and stood up (about an hour) By that time she was fuming with him regreted going ect. I don't think she has spoke to him since and I hope she doesn't as he only upsets her and breaks his promises. I think she just needs some one to be there for her and he is sometimes so that makes her forgive him again.

Anyway Also on Tuesday she told me she was 5 month pregnant with a boy but no one exept her cousin and now me knows and not likely to as the doctors have said the baby is very ill and wont survive long enough to be born. She has accepted this but still hoping he will live. She is worried now cos she has not felt the baby move for a day, she is scared about going to hospital incase the baby has died but I have told her to go as its best she knows how baby is cos if he dies and is left inside her it will make her ill. She has said that if she is still worried tomorrow she will go hospital and get it checked. She is in a no win situation as the baby is said to be certain to die but the longer it lives the more she gets her hopes up and she knows it will be for nothing. I have said when it does die I will try to go to see her but I live just over an hours drive away so not sure if I'll be able to.

betty02 · 26th February 2009, 15:27

Not being funny but my first thought about the baby was atention seeking, i maybe wrong but if shes fealing that down and shit then she will want some attention and stuff, and the idea of it dieing meaning you will never actually see her with a baby etc.

If i get it wrong i get it wrong but to me seams like a bit of ASW'ness most girls (not meaning to affend anyone) seam to do it.

Not sure what your actual question is mind you?

_sexy_saxo_ · 26th February 2009, 15:31

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Originally Posted by betty02

Not being funny but my first thought about the baby was atention seeking, i maybe wrong but if shes fealing that down and shit then she will want some attention and stuff, and the idea of it dieing meaning you will never actually see her with a baby etc.

If i get it wrong i get it wrong but to me seams like a bit of ASW'ness most girls (not meaning to affend anyone) seam to do it.

Not sure what your actual question is mind you?

lol, totally agree, very long winded and no real point to it! ....... made me very tired reading it like!
all im going to say is never believe everything some ding on the net says, you may have spoke to her on the phone, but she could be anyone!

Jamie · 26th February 2009, 15:33

Confused you met her on a forum? and internet and somehow your family dont like your cousin?

ok re read

Its her and her mum its causing problems with..

Sammy-Boy · 26th February 2009, 15:34

Sad story mate but what are you actually asking>

Danr · 26th February 2009, 15:37

She sounds like she needs some real friends.

_sexy_saxo_ · 26th February 2009, 15:38

yip well ive read it again, and still dont get it?!?!? is the cousin the babys dad? ...... meh, fuk naz! ........ sounds like a load of bollox to me

betty02 · 26th February 2009, 15:40

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Originally Posted by _sexy_saxo_

yip well ive read it again, and still dont get it?!?!? is the cousin the babys dad? ...... meh, fuk naz! ........ sounds like a load of bollox to me

The cousin, is the girl hes been talking to's cousin?

i Think

Lozza_vtr · 26th February 2009, 15:40

How old is she?, she sounds like she is full of it.

Clouds_mate · 26th February 2009, 15:41

Needs lowering.

Peejous · 26th February 2009, 15:41

..... Pics.

I can tell so much just from looking at girls. I swearz it.

laura_g · 26th February 2009, 15:47

I agree with sweaty betty tbh we may be wrong though but just seems like shes bringin you down by tellin you all her life problems

Horrox_342 · 26th February 2009, 15:58

dont get it

stompin-sarah · 26th February 2009, 16:04

it seems like attention seeking.... but....... if she is pregnant as she says she is... and shes 5 months and she hasnt told anyone..... shes a fuking daft cow....as she says she dont think the baby will live but after a pregnancy so long the baby WILL have to be delivered as normal and..... she will also have a funeral to sort out.....

stupid stupid stupid girl is what i say

bullit · 26th February 2009, 16:07

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Originally Posted by Leckie

Needs lowering.

that got me lol

_sexy_saxo_ · 26th February 2009, 16:11

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Originally Posted by betty02

The cousin, is the girl hes been talking to's cousin?

i Think

i dont know, pure inbreds i say! lol
the thread starter is a lass ..... so she has made a lass mate? who needs to go see Jezza, because she has took advantage of the drunk lad cousin, in bed, and now they arent speaking because shes up the duff?
sounds rather feesable imo! lol ..... eeeeeeeee god, society these days, fkd up!

i agree with stompin-sarah, this lass is an idiot, shes going to pop a sprogg at some point, whether it be still born or alive, then die .........
they lass is a few years younger then this koolchick, very much doubt shes hada period, never mind up the duff......but ya neva nah!
eeee maybe shes the mother of that baby the 13 year olds are disputing over, whos the daddy! pmsl

KamRacing · 26th February 2009, 16:26

Theres nothing you can do but be a sympathetic ear so be that!

vtr_cheshire · 26th February 2009, 16:29

Dont get too involved, youve never met the girl... its hard to stay out but it could be:-
1. An attention seeking lie
2. As messed up as it sounds, and she could be dragging you in to people she talks to
3. An impostor taking the piss

either way just keep it at arms length and hope for the best

littleracer · 26th February 2009, 16:32

why you give to tishes to some girl you speak to off net that i assume wont meet you otherwise you already would havbe,i predict she isnt a day over 17.
i remember them fruit cake type girls when i was 15,they lie,ASW,and everything.....go out find a real mate in real life delete her number and move on imho.

ricksimmonds · 26th February 2009, 16:40

rip baby. close thread