Counselling - Saxperience

Moke · 10th November 2011, 22:58

Righty then Sax-P.....

This isn't a "my life is shit" thread, it's just asking for some information, help and maybe a little support

At the moment, I'm feeling really quite emotional about things. I feel like I've got a lot on my mind / a lot to handle and it's really starting to get to the point where I can't handle it.

I've grown up with a very troubled childhood, especially my mum passing away, things have really hit me hard.

I've grown up to deal with things with a "keep smiling and you'll be alright" attitude.

Like the dude in my avatar... One day, my fucked up smile (and weird nod) won't be there!

But I feel like I need to get some counselling to try and sort me out.

So then...

Has anyone on here ever had counselling or can someone point me in the right direction? I've had a look on Google, but I'd like to get your lots view on it.

So please... Discuss!

Thanks in advance!

wassy78 · 10th November 2011, 23:00

Moke hard to say on this one as don't know if your taking the piss or not lol ?

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:02

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Originally Posted by wassy78

Moke hard to say on this one as don't know if your taking the piss or not lol ?

For once, I'm not man.

I really do need some help and I know there's a lot of caring members on here!

JoeHindle · 10th November 2011, 23:02

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Originally Posted by wassy78

Moke hard to say on this one as don't know if your taking the piss or not lol ?

I can vouch he ain't taking the piss :/ I've never had counselling mate so I can't really help you :/

Mochachino · 10th November 2011, 23:01

Whats on your mind and what you got to handle if you can say on here?

Why cant you handle whats on your mind and on your shoulders etc?

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:04

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Originally Posted by Mochachino

Whats on your mind and what you got to handle if you can say on here?

Why cant you handle whats on your mind and on your shoulders etc?

It's really hard to explain Danny.

Money, mates, family, past events, my future... My mind is like mush... I feel like I can't take things in anymore, because my mind is full up.

Nothing ever changes in my life and I feel like, especially past events, are always bringing me down.

So hard to explain

Mochachino · 10th November 2011, 23:09

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Originally Posted by Moke

It's really hard to explain Danny.

Money, mates, family, past events, my future... My mind is like mush... I feel like I can't take things in anymore, because my mind is full up.

Nothing ever changes in my life and I feel like, especially past events, are always bringing me down.

So hard to explain

I wanna help mate but im not in the frame of mind right now. Im probably in the frame of mind you are right now tbh lol

However, each person is different and they deal with things in different ways as we all know. You've probably heard it all before and this isnt another one of them "jus ignore it" type responses that are thoughtless and you know I hate.

You need to work out your way of dealing with things. For me its ALWAYS the future and setting myself goals and targets and also having dreams that keep me motivated and encouraged to do stuff! Think to yourself everything is possible, to be quite honest everything IS possible, you just have to find the way to make them happen..

Basically start with catching yourself up. Catch up with whatever it is on your shoulders, lets start with money, whats the deal with this? Have you got debts, or what?

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:11

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Originally Posted by Mochachino

I wanna help mate but im not in the frame of mind right now. Im probably in the frame of mind you are right now tbh lol

However, each person is different and they deal with things in different ways as we all know. You've probably heard it all before and this isnt another one of them "jus ignore it" type responses that are thoughtless and you know I hate.

You need to work out your way of dealing with things. For me its ALWAYS the future and setting myself goals and targets and also having dreams that keep me motivated and encouraged to do stuff! Think to yourself everything is possible, to be quite honest everything IS possible, you just have to find the way to make them happen..

Basically start with catching yourself up. Catch up with whatever it is on your shoulders, lets start with money, whats the deal with this? Have you got debts, or what?

You've got me on Facebook and my number Danny, so hit me up if you want to and we'll chat!

Yeah, that's a good view to have! My future is to be a superstar DJ tbh... That IS my goal... Just gonna have to try hard for that!

Well money, it's a pain in the ass, but I think I'll be able to get that sorted soon, so we'll leave that for now.

It's all about money control and I'm slowly learning how to do that!

wolf_gsxr · 10th November 2011, 23:56

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Originally Posted by Moke

It's really hard to explain Danny.

Money, mates, family, past events, my future... My mind is like mush... I feel like I can't take things in anymore, because my mind is full up.

Nothing ever changes in my life and I feel like, especially past events, are always bringing me down.

So hard to explain

sounds like me mate. dunno about the counciling but ive adopted the could be worse attitude. past caring about my problems now

wassy78 · 10th November 2011, 23:58

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Originally Posted by wolf_gsxr

sounds like me mate. dunno about the counciling but ive adopted the could be worse attitude. past caring about my problems now

I think that's the best way I've done that for years I've told him this

Simon0014 · 11th November 2011, 00:13

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Originally Posted by Moke

It's really hard to explain Danny.

Money, mates, family, past events, my future... My mind is like mush... I feel like I can't take things in anymore, because my mind is full up.

Nothing ever changes in my life and I feel like, especially past events, are always bringing me down.

So hard to explain

In all fairness that is exactly how i feel in my life currently! I've been considering councelling but i wouldn't know where to go etc...I now feel like my life is passing me without me really taking an awful lot in!! I just assumed i'd work it out in good time but doesn't seem to have happened as of yet!

Sorry for the slight hijack

wassy78 · 10th November 2011, 23:02

But I would say I've hand to stand on my own two feet .

I try not to let things bother me getting stressed out does sod all if need to chat we are here save your money m8

Rudpud · 10th November 2011, 23:05

He's not taking the piss but the last place I would be asking is Sax-P. Everyone's a heartless cunt at the best of times, let alone when it can affect you.

If you feel the need for it, give it a try.

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:08

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Originally Posted by Rudpud

He's not taking the piss but the last place I would be asking is Sax-P. Everyone's a heartless cunt at the best of times, let alone when it can affect you.

If you feel the need for it, give it a try.

I know there is caring members on here as I'm good mates with a bloody lot of you!

I really am looking into it, but I want views on it and what to do, etc...

Rudpud · 10th November 2011, 23:12

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Originally Posted by Moke

I know there is caring members on here as I'm good mates with a bloody lot of you!

I really am looking into it, but I want views on it and what to do, etc...

*are.

As I said, if you feel you need professional help now, then go get it.

All I know is, that right now, if I lost a parent or my sister that i'd go into complete meltdown and it would fuck me right up for years.

Ryan^p · 10th November 2011, 23:12

Go to doctors as you can get advice on e NHS. Just be careful they don't do the usual take anti depressants, I've seen a few people just given these on a whim.

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:13

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Originally Posted by Ryan

Go to doctors as you can get advice on e NHS. Just be careful they don't do the usual take anti depressants, I've seen a few people just given these on a whim.

I've had anti-depressants... They're shit!

How would I go about getting advise on the NHS? Online? Going to my doctor?

Ryan^p · 10th November 2011, 23:15

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Originally Posted by Moke

I've had anti-depressants... They're shit!

How would I go about getting advise on the NHS? Online? Going to my doctor?

Probably best to go to local doctor, explain you are not depressed but that due to life's situations you feel you need to talk to someone...

Don't let the, try the use drugs route.

If you want advise NHS direct may be able to help too

Moke · 10th November 2011, 23:19

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Originally Posted by Ryan

Probably best to go to local doctor, explain you are not depressed but that due to life's situations you feel you need to talk to someone...

Don't let the, try the use drugs route.

If you want advise NHS direct may be able to help too

I told my doctor that last time and he said, "well, I think you have depression, so try these first.. blah, blah,blah"

I'll try the NHS, cheers!

auds · 10th November 2011, 23:24

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Originally Posted by Moke

I told my doctor that last time and he said, "well, I think you have depression, so try these first.. blah, blah,blah"

I'll try the NHS, cheers!

Not read all the thread hun, your doc give you anti depressants? Fuck that....well it's up to you of course.....but that's masking the problem and not dealing with it.

You know this week I went to the doctors to get some different tablets to help me sleep, I'm not on anything hardcore, not proper sleeping pills, just sedatives, and he gave me fucking anti depressants!!! Didn't even tell me.....good job I read the leaflet first, so had to go back the next day, not a chance am I taking those damn things lol....