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13th November 2011, 22:05
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Originally Posted by TomHannah
You need a blowjob tbf.
In all seriousness, Hope you feel better soon cutie.
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You offering?
Fanxxxxx! 
I guess it will get better over time, but it's just doing something about it that is the first step, so here I goooooooo! 
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13th November 2011, 22:41
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get to the docs and see if they prescribe citalopran, i've been on anti-depressants on and off for 15 years and they are the best with least side effects
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13th November 2011, 22:44
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Originally Posted by mandyslover70
get to the docs and see if they prescribe citalopran, i've been on anti-depressants on and off for 15 years and they are the best with least side effects
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I've had AD's before and they did nothing.....
I'm steering well clear from them!
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14th November 2011, 19:30
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Doctor's appointment in the morning - 8:40am 
Lets see if they try and fob me off with some AD's.
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15th November 2011, 12:04
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Went to doctors this morning and they are getting me some in house sessions with their counsellor... She said that I won't have to wait long and the sessions are at the surgery itself, which is about 30 steps from my house.
WINNAR!
I explained a few of my problems to her and said that I'm not prepared to go on AD's, which she understood.
She said counselling does sound like the best for me at the moment, so let's see how it goes!
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15th November 2011, 12:55
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Originally Posted by Moke
Went to doctors this morning and they are getting me some in house sessions with their counsellor... She said that I won't have to wait long and the sessions are at the surgery itself, which is about 30 steps from my house.
WINNAR!
I explained a few of my problems to her and said that I'm not prepared to go on AD's, which she understood.
She said counselling does sound like the best for me at the moment, so let's see how it goes! |
Tell the counseller you can't relax because you are anxious she's bugged or hiding bombs.... so she has to get neked
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15th November 2011, 13:01
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Originally Posted by jw1325
Tell the counseller you can't relax because you are anxious she's bugged or hiding bombs.... so she has to get neked
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Srsly good shout!
Let's hope she's fit
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13th December 2011, 17:27
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Had my first session today...
It's a guy who will be helping me... Booo! BUT, he is dead sound!
Today was just like an induction sort of thing, just to get the information out of me, etc...
He's made me realise a couple of things already and he said he thinks I'll need up to 10 sessions, but we'll see.
It's amazing how many things you don't / how many things you do that show off the kind of person you are...
Bring on next week!
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13th December 2011, 17:44
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hope things work for you mate, i went for initial assesment jobby for counselling last week and they're working out a plan to suit my circumstances, certainly changed in their ways a helluva lot since i last tried it about 10 years ago, they still got you on ADs?
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13th December 2011, 17:46
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Originally Posted by mandyslover70
hope things work for you mate, i went for initial assesment jobby for counselling last week and they're working out a plan to suit my circumstances, certainly changed in their ways a helluva lot since i last tried it about 10 years ago, they still got you on ADs?
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That's what I went for. They spoke about a couple of issues too as we had an hour
Nah, told them that I don't want AD's and the guy today said that he doesn't want me on them as they are, in his words, "An excuse for your doctor to get you out of his room."
Hope your counselling goes good mate!
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13th December 2011, 17:50
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cheers pal, last one i went to was some old woman who just seemed curious about my sex life lol, well i'm not shy or worried about talking about my exploits but for once someone made me feel uncomfortable lol
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13th December 2011, 17:53
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Originally Posted by mandyslover70
cheers pal, last one i went to was some old woman who just seemed curious about my sex life lol, well i'm not shy or worried about talking about my exploits but for once someone made me feel uncomfortable lol
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Haha perverted bitch 
I love talking about things, especially with a professional.
You're not gonna get anywhere if you don't chat about it
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13th December 2011, 18:49
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Glad to hear your getting it sorted bud! I'd recommend getting a big two stroke motocross bike to take your mind off things too
A good go on the bike allways helps me x
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13th December 2011, 22:35
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why dont you want antidepressants?
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13th December 2011, 22:37
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Originally Posted by motocrossjord
Glad to hear your getting it sorted bud! I'd recommend getting a big two stroke motocross bike to take your mind off things too
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Haha, great recommendation
Not a fan of bikes though really.
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Originally Posted by LeeM
why dont you want antidepressants?
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Just for the fact I'm not depressed and when I was on them, they did fuck all
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14th December 2011, 00:12
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Originally Posted by Moke
Just for the fact I'm not depressed and when I was on them, they did fuck all |
anti depressants arent for depression the mood, but depression the condition. how long did you take them? takes a few weeks for them to start taking effect. rom someone with experience of them theyre great
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14th December 2011, 09:43
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Originally Posted by shaneio
as said buddy go to your doctors, they will try put you on anti depressants and will book you in for counselling.
i feel for ya buddy
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I have mate... Had my first session yesterday
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Originally Posted by LeeM
anti depressants arent for depression the mood, but depression the condition. how long did you take them? takes a few weeks for them to start taking effect. rom someone with experience of them theyre great
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Mate, I'm not depressed lol...
But I know what you're saying
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13th December 2011, 22:49
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Well good luck to you both,
When my first son was born I was majorly depressed, kept it inside (prob a bad thing in the long run) I think it was basically down to the overwhelming weight of REAL responsiblity that you are responsible for this living soul. That's why when I ever see a post about a young guy saying his gf is preggers I will always admit the problem I had so they know that not just the women go through problems after childbirth.
We all have bad days but when I turns into bad weeks then bad months it's maybe better to seek some help (I don't mean medical help, but sometimes it's good to talk about all the problems and worries that you have in your life) problem is that most of the times you don't want to let the people who are closest to you know about your problems. The first step is admitting things are quite right within you body.
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13th December 2011, 22:55
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Originally Posted by stevie_m
Well good luck to you both,
When my first son was born I was majorly depressed, kept it inside (prob a bad thing in the long run) I think it was basically down to the overwhelming weight of REAL responsiblity that you are responsible for this living soul. That's why when I ever see a post about a young guy saying his gf is preggers I will always admit the problem I had so they know that not just the women go through problems after childbirth.
We all have bad days but when I turns into bad weeks then bad months it's maybe better to seek some help (I don't mean medical help, but sometimes it's good to talk about all the problems and worries that you have in your life) problem is that most of the times you don't want to let the people who are closest to you know about your problems. The first step is admitting things are quite right within you body.
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Ah, not good to hear mate, but I bet it was a shock to the amount of responsibility you had when you had your kid!
I never really speak to mates about my problems, I think I'm better off seeking professional help, which I've done
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13th December 2011, 23:05
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My problems were over 8 years ago,
I just hate the stigmatism that is banded with depression (suicides and self harming and such) at the end of the day we have problems but we can only cope with so much. I know that it's not "manly" to admit problems like that but if we don't it's just gonna be a never ending cycle. I'd hate for my sons to go through any of the problems I went through as a young adult (worked away from home for 2 years when I was 16 and lost all my supposed "real friends" who didnt notice that i was having problems) and into early parenthood.
I read this thread earlier last month and was wondering how you were doing but just didn't want to ask just incase you thought I was a nosey cunt.
Last edited by stevie_m; 13th December 2011 at 23:07.
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