What To Do - Help? - Page 2 - Saxperience

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:41

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Originally Posted by Danr

if you don't ask, you'll always wonder what he would have said

that is very true

Mitchell · 19th March 2007, 19:41

why wouldnt you do it?

could you really live without knowing what his answer would of been? whatever the fudge it was.

sshaxx · 19th March 2007, 19:42

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Originally Posted by xsmile_be_happyx

i want to tell him, but im scared of the answer

"do you want to go out with me?"

"ERR NO YUCK GO OUT WITH YOU?! YOU OFF IT OR SOMETHING?!"

i doubt itll be that bad ^

Mitchell · 19th March 2007, 19:42

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Originally Posted by Danr

Im still awaiting a visit from his ho ho ho's

barum bum tshhhhh

jay_c · 19th March 2007, 19:42

i say if you think it needs to be said then say it. you only live once so make the most of it. if you dont say it you may live to regret it fompast experience. good luk

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:43

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Originally Posted by Krovean

why wouldnt you do it?

could you really live without knowing what his answer would of been? whatever the fudge it was.

my honest answer to that is no, i would always wonder what would of happened if id said something, just im so scared lol, sad i know

Dan · 19th March 2007, 19:43

If you dont mention it you'll always think 'what if' so I would say its best to say something than regret not ever doing it.

You only live once.

jay_c · 19th March 2007, 19:43

oh and if the outcome isnt what you wanted then when one door closes another will open...that i also no from first hand experience. and that new door could b a bettter door

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:43

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Originally Posted by jay_c

i say if you think it needs to be said then say it. you only live once so make the most of it. if you dont say it you may live to regret it fompast experience. good luk

again very true, thanks jay

jay_c · 19th March 2007, 19:44

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Originally Posted by Dan

If you dont mention it you'll always think 'what if' so I would say its best to say something than regret not ever doing it.

You only live once.

second that

you wrote it at the same tim...great minds eh! lol

Danr · 19th March 2007, 19:44

a guide i found on the internet for you

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How to Get a Guy to Like You

Do you want to get a guy to be crazy for you, just as you are for him? You have to be very patient, especially if you feel like you want to take it to a level beyond just curious interest. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
Steps

1. Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for disappointment (not to mention him!). Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.
2. Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
3. Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
4. Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
5. Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
6. Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
7. Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
8. Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
9. Don't act like you like him, he might get freaked out.
10. Don't be mad at your friend if she starts to like him.
11. It's not your friend's fault that he likes her and not you.
12.

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:45

lol, you are all telling me to go for it, and if i dont ill regret it, just gotta gain some confidence first

sshaxx · 19th March 2007, 19:46

i can shorten it down to 3 things,

bj
make him a sandwich
dont talk so much

im kidding... but seriously i know the feeling just try and pick a good moment get em alone and let him know how you feel.

Barry123 · 19th March 2007, 19:46

Just say it, what ever it is just say it. You dont want to spend god knows how long regretting it do you???

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:47

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Originally Posted by adsayer

Just say it, what ever it is just say it. You dont want to spend god knows how long regretting it do you???

nah i dont

thanks for the help guys

jay_c · 19th March 2007, 19:48

well at the end of the day if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. plenty more fish in the sea. your young and im sure you are a lovely person so you wont have any trouble. as said dont live to regret live life to the full and youl b fine

Mitchell · 19th March 2007, 19:48

i'll do it for u

give me his number.

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:49

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Originally Posted by jay_c

well at the end of the day if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. plenty more fish in the sea. your young and im sure you are a lovely person so you wont have any trouble. as said dont live to regret live life to the full and youl b fine

awww thanks, ive just had a lot of time to think recently, and ive realised a lot, and i think it needs to be said, if he doesnt say what id like to hear, then ill just need to accept it

Danr · 19th March 2007, 19:50

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Originally Posted by Krovean

i'll do it for u

give me his number.

Put his number on and everyone can text him. That will freak him out big stylie!

"you don't know me, but some smiley girl on sax-p wants your sweet sweet heinie!"

xsmile_be_happyx · 19th March 2007, 19:50

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Originally Posted by Danr

Put his number on and everyone can text him. That will freak him out big stylie!

"you don't know me, but some smiley girl on sax-p wants your sweet sweet heinie!"

lmao id get killed