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6th March 2010, 15:10
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should i leave him(one for the girls )
one for the girls !!!!
so i dont get into a rant i'll keep this short ,
basically my fella of 4 years, would rather spend ALL his spare time with his mates,
i tell him hes being a selfish n*b and im going leave, he tells me that he's sorry and we'll do things together, but it never happens.
am i wasting my time.
any Advice?
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6th March 2010, 15:23
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Leave him and see what happens, if he does wnat to be with you, he'll come running
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6th March 2010, 16:00
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Crunkers
Leave him and see what happens, if he does wnat to be with you, he'll come running
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I Agree!
Things Like This Are Always Hard!
I Suppose It Depends On How Much You Love/Like Him!
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6th March 2010, 16:03
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if you are not getting what you want from a relationship then why hang around in hope. People dont change unless they are forced to...
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6th March 2010, 16:23
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does he know he is spending alot of time with them i know i do and treat the mrs and have nights in and out to make up and can have a month where i dont see anyone but her he migth not know how much time he realy spends with them over you
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6th March 2010, 16:31
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wey i just keepin u hangin around
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6th March 2010, 16:53
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My ex was like that. If he was out with his friends it seemed that he was having the best time of his life and when he was with me the worst.
It did get so bad for us we split up.
Myabe you should take a break and say you need some time to 'think' then if he is all sorry he will come running 
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6th March 2010, 17:11
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Tell him your pregnant he'll soon fuck off 
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6th March 2010, 17:20
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Play him at his own game when he wants to see you just sayin your seein your mates he will then get lonely and will realise
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Last edited by laura_g; 6th March 2010 at 17:40.
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6th March 2010, 17:22
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Ok i'm female for surely hes allowed to have mates as well? Spending all your time together could be a lot worse, maybe try actually organising doing some stuff together either just the two of you or along with his/your mates?
I wouldn't throw away 4 years over something like that if that is all that is going wrong.
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6th March 2010, 17:54
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Four years is a long time so try things to make your relationship work rather than just chucking it all away.
i had an ex that spent a lot of time with mates but i never really let him know until it was too late...
you two need to have a serious talk about how your feeling and maybe you two should go on a break, he might realise how much you mean to him then?
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6th March 2010, 18:07
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Agree if your not happy dump him. There is no point hanging about with some one who makes you unhappy.
Though on the flip side you may wish to take step back and take a clear view. Often what people want is unreasonable, selfish or simply not possible. This is not to say in any way what you are after is its just something that can happen.
But if you do split up with him at least tell him why. Also if you want him to stop contacting you or whatever tell him clearly why. Don't just ignore him and hope it goes away.
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6th March 2010, 18:15
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Leave him , sounds like a dick to me
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6th March 2010, 18:30
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If you arent getting what you want from a relationship (especially having discussed the issues) there's not alot of point carrying on as is probably delaying the inevital
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6th March 2010, 18:44
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if you were to discuss it and things change, i guarantee it will only be for a month or 2 then things will go back to how they used to be. so my advice i would leave him and see if he comes to you if he dont then well his loss
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6th March 2010, 18:48
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Bros before hoes.
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6th March 2010, 18:59
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Bros before hoes.
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i am guessing your single and cant get a bird
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6th March 2010, 19:13
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i am guessing your single and cant get a bird
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yeah 
actually I've been with my girlfriend 5 years last month she does her own thing i do my own and we do things together (like once every two weeks) but we live together so its different I'd rather be with my mates, she does my nut in with shit on the telly especially on E! and MTV
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6th March 2010, 19:15
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hang out with your mates everytime he wants to see you.
kind of a waste throwing away 4 years.
tbh i wouldn play games at all.
no point hurting each other really.
what do yous do when you do eventually hang out???
maybe hes bored?(dont mean to be brunt)
what does he do with the lads that he cant do with you?
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6th March 2010, 19:38
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print this thread out, that will teach him lol
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